The Celebreality Interview – Pam

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“I have to admit: I have no talent. I can’t sing, act or dance. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought I’d be on TV. It wasn’t even a desire,” says Pam. Below, Mary Jo’s mom talks about her feud with Gigi, her cross-dressing ex, the perils of tween-dom, and her confusion over why anyone would want to be a star in the first place.

How was your experience on the show?

The good outweighed the bad. Obviously, there were some not-so-good moments for me, but as far as what Mary Jo learned from the experience, it was definitely worth it.

What was Mary Jo’s biggest lesson?

She learned to be more open and listen, and not to be so, for lack of a better word, tween-ish. She’s taking criticism better, and even her agent has noticed.

Conversely, what was the most negative aspect of the show for you?

Honestly, Gigi. The constant drama thrown at me wore me down. Every time I turned around, she was in my face. The worst thing was when I had fear for Mary Jo, that Gigi might do something to her.

You started out as friends with Gigi. In your view, what was the turning point?

Definitely the voting thing after the soap-opera challenge. I think afterward when she said that she’d tried to talk to me, I was laying on the couch because I was exhausted from all of the drama. I just wanted to be left alone.

Her anger seemed to stem from your breaking of this alliance agreement. Was that just a strategic move on your part?

What actually happened is after deciding that we were going to vote for each other’s daughters, we got together with Sandy and Shannon in the bathroom. We all decided to vote strategically. Sandy was always supposed to vote for McKenzie, and I was always supposed to vote for Gian. When we went to the challenge, I found out that Gigi had gone behind my back and talked to Shannon. I confronted Shannon and she said, “Hey, don’t look at me. It’s your friend that changed the rules.” It was not me. Did I vote strategically? Yes. Did I back-stab Gigi? No. So, was this portrayed fairly on TV? I have to be honest with you: I didn’t care. In reality, today, tomorrow, any day, I would do it the way it was portrayed. That’s my daughter and I promise you that I’m going to put my daughter over my friend.

Did this mental warfare take a toll on you?

Yes. I have to admit: I have no talent. I can’t sing, act or dance. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought I’d be on TV. It wasn’t even a desire. But I figured that if doing so would help Mary Jo, I was all for it. The other thing that took a toll on me was just interacting with Mary Jo. Raising a tween is hard without cameras. Add cameras and mom drama and there’s your toll. You can’t really explain to someone who hasn’t gone through raising a tween girl that their behavior is normal. You try your best to be a good mom and do what you have to do, but at the same time, I knew that if I let Mary Jo get away with bad behavior, she would only get worse. That’s the way they do. When Mary Jo had her tantrum, I didn’t want her to do that in front of cameras, and I certainly didn’t want to punish her on national TV. I would have liked to have taken her hand and walked out the door.

It seemed like what ultimately led to your dismissal was your flubbing of the branding challenge. What were your thoughts on that?

My thought on branding Mary Jo was if I did so, was that to say that she couldn’t play the exact opposite of whatever I picked out? I did not want to give her just one brand. I really wanted to give her a broader spectrum. So I was kind of iffy about the whole challenge. Granted, this was a great show for someone like me because it gives you insight on the thought process of the people you’re supposed to be working with. It gave me more knowledge to ask more questions when Mary Jo is sent to do something.

So, no hard feelings about Marki telling Mary Jo to fire you as her acting coach?

I couldn’t blame her for that. I don’t know how to act. But at the same time, it kind of offended me because throughout the competition, Marki and Danny were constantly saying, “This isn’t about the child. This is a team effort.” So how then can you tell a child to fire her mother, who’s also one half of her team? It sent mixed signals to Mary Jo. I don’t think that was fair to her.

Mary Jo seemed pretty upset after being eliminated. How did she cope?

She really wanted to win this and I think that she felt that at the time, “If I don’t win this, it’s over for me. I’m never going to be able to act again.” After we got home, she went back to life and went back to auditioning and realized that this is actually a stepping stone. The most valuable thing was that it allowed her to realize that when you don’t put forth effort, you don’t see the results. In the end, she wins either way because she learned from the experience.

Maybe the most savage point of the show was the radio interview. During that, Gigi revealed that you were once married to a man who dressed in women’s clothes. How did she even know that?

I don’t remember what I told her in confidence. I just want to make it clear that it wasn’t my husband, but my ex-husband. We’ve had some fun with that with Mary Jo’s dad, but it wasn’t him, either! In between my marriage to Mary Jo’s dad and the marriage I’m in now, I was married to someone for nine months. Without elaborating on some of his habits, I’m sure I’m not the first woman to marry someone who didn’t really know who they were. People are really good at hiding things.

You’ve been married three times?

No, actually it’s been four. For the first one, I was a kid. I was 17 and I was married nine months. I was having a baby, but that baby died. I went through a terrible emotional time. At that age, I didn’t have a clue. I didn’t stay with my husband. I went off to do my own thing and then I married Mary Jo’s father and was with him for 10 years. And then there was the third one, and now the fourth one, my current husband. I’ve been married to him for almost seven years now.

Did you take away any friends from the show?

I didn’t think I had when we left. Since the show, at one point Shari contacted us through MySpace to just say that she hoped we were doing well. And this is going to surprise you: the other person who turned out to be really nice to us is Rocky. She may not have displayed the best behavior on the show, but she really is nice. When the show came out and there was such hateful stuff about her, I wrote to her and basically just said that I couldn’t believe how horrible people were. She wrote me back, and since then, I’ll see her post stuff that says, “Rock on, Pam and Mary Jo.” She’s real supportive of us, and you wouldn’t get that based on our relationship on the show.

So you’ve forgiven her for the “Mary Kay” comments?

Oh no. We laughed about that. We thought it was funny. That was so random. I don’t think Rocky at any time said anything to me that was to the extent of Gigi. I thought Rocky was more like: throw this out, throw that out. Never did she threaten to hurt us. Although, come to think of it, I guess she did in the booth…

Do stage moms get a bum rap?

Some do, others don’t. Some really are living through their kids. As far as me, I could have walked away from the show the day it started. I didn’t care. The only reason I’ve gone as far as I have is that this is something Mary Jo loves to do. I have a very deep fear of flying, and so to get on a plane to fly out to the show was a huge thing. I could have turned around before it started and never faced the fear.

What’s up next for you and Mary Jo?

Mary Jo auditions a lot. She just got back from Canada, she had a catalog photo shoot there. She’s doing a photo shoot Friday for Universal.

Anything else to add that we didn’t go over?

If anybody needs a weight-loss plan, all they need to do is go on reality show like this. I got home and I was 16 lbs. lighter, from the stress alone. They need to trick people into doing one of these shows and turn around to say, “This was always about weight loss for you.” Also, I’m pretty computer illiterate, so I don’t post a lot on the boards and the blogs. I’ve never been into the Hollywood thing, and I’ve never been even the type to pick up a tabloid and read about someone. But the lessons that you learn from the Internet have been ridiculous. Some of the posts I’ve heard about through my husband have just been hateful toward children. In my entire life I have not and will not post anything negative about a kid.

The experience led me to ask Mary Jo, “Why would you want to put yourself out there? Why do you want to be under the microscope everyday?” I wouldn’t want it, even after being on a reality show. It makes you see stars like Miley Cyrus and Britney Spears in a new light. You have to really get used to tolerating criticism, and if you can’t handle it, I can see how easy it is to end up in rehab. I guess your love of performing can override the hassle, but to me, I have to wonder why anybody would want to subject themselves to that.

Read more I Know My Kid’s a Star wrap-up coverage below:

The Celebreality Interview – Shannon
The Celebreality Interview – Helene

This entry was posted on Thursday, May 8th, 2008 at 10:54 pm

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328 responses to to The Celebreality Interview – Pam

bring_it May 18, 2008 at 12:46 am

I have contacted a member at VHI, ANY ONE WHO HAS A PROBLEM WITH BAMBI, SPEWING HER VULGARITY AND RACISM PLEASE CONTACT hmh1468@yahoo.com and action will be taken.

bring_it May 18, 2008 at 12:47 am

notice I haven’t been on in a while, I have been busy

bring_it May 18, 2008 at 12:56 am

I have contacted a member a VH1, IF THERE IS ANYBODY WHO FEELS BAMBI OR ANYONE ELSE NEEDS TO BE REPORTED DUE TO VULGARITY AND RACISM THAT IS SPEWS ON THESE BLOGS PLEASE FORWARD YOUR COMMENTS TO HMH1468@yahoo.com. AND I PROMISE ACTION WILL BE TAKEN. that’s hmh1468@yahoo.com

ME May 18, 2008 at 9:06 am

BRING-IT, BAMBI, JOYCE, If you would like to commit fraud, at least try not to be so obvious. Your
gig, is up. your not ready for Hollywood. Anybody who reads your post, can tell your the same person. Give us all the definition of (spew). You use it in every post.
You sound so crazy and bored. also, when you laugh, in person, do you go (tee hee).
Psycology 1 on 1, wasnt your major in college was it?

LAST POST FROM ME, YOU NEED TO GROW UP. I KNOW YOU THINK YOUR KIDS A STAR, BUT YOUR WRONG. I KNOW YOU THINK YOUR SMART BUT YOUR WRONG AGAIN.
YOUR A COWARD, WHO HAS TO GO TO GREAT LENGTHS, JUST TO BE HEARD. SO SAD, TO BAD.

bambi May 18, 2008 at 9:49 am

Hey bring-it…OMG..help…the internet police detectives are breaking down my door right now….aaahhhhhhh…help….ok..ok just one minute IP officer of the law, I have one last thing to write:

Hey bring-it…I thought you were gone…I thought you were leaving to join your lesbian lover over at some new blog. Please go…continue spewing your ignorance and hatred on another forum….otherwise, I will just continue to ridicule and expose you for the idiot you are…don’t you know that? Stop being foolish and just move on like fatmomma, and aprilhanglip! tee hee…you guys were funny though..

And hey…if it’ll make you feel any better, you won’t be seeing me anymore either. Once something stops being productive, I move on…I just stayed behind a bit to have fun with you idiots…it was so easy for me to play with your little pea mind…like childsplay, only better, cuz stupid people are funny!

JenniferS. May 18, 2008 at 1:36 pm

you all rumbling on h ere? Or lets call it gang up on Bambi. Real friendly.

popknowsbest May 18, 2008 at 2:58 pm

Bambi, do you ever get laid? you are still on that computer of yours. Maybe if you took some time off, from the internet, you could have a real life. Stop patting yourself on your back.
You didnt make no body on here look like a idiot, but yourself.
Noboby, agreed with anyhting you said. All the other women, made valid points, and told you off.
you tried to ignore them, when they really got on your butt. Then you used words that werent really words like (spew), to try to sound intelligent.
You are a screwed up chick. You dont know rather you like your race or another race.
dont give yourself so much credit. The other women left, because they didnt want to be *** ociated, with, a sorry bitc-, who had a `#)_)!& daughter, by a white man. and when he left you, for a white woman, you started your “black power” campaign.
Bambi, you are so confused, and messed up in the head. You will never have a real man in your life.
You think that the names, you called the other women on here were cute, and funny. Well, it was real childish. They showed you how big they were , and didnt keep arguing with you, and your still on here seeking attention. Go back on the street and find yourself another white man. Your the slave.
pathetic winch, no brother would want your white woman wanna-be a**. SIMPLE MINDED WHOR-

popknowsbest May 18, 2008 at 3:07 pm

They “edited”, my description of your daughter , so i have to write in a different way, here it is.
BASTAR* this was on the 9th line of my blog your your dumb azz.

JenniferS. May 18, 2008 at 4:37 pm

you all still at it?

JENNIFERS May 18, 2008 at 5:11 pm

BAMBI IS GONE THANK GOODNESS, I WASNT HER FRIEND. SHE IS A BLK DUMMY

bambi May 18, 2008 at 7:47 pm

Class is back in session Lilmomma (aka popknowsbest): Here ya go:
For all you idiots out there who think “spew” is not a word, go and cash in that welfare check and buy a dictionary…it’ll take you further!
spew
v. spewed, spew·ing, spews
v.tr.
1. To send or force out in or as if in a stream; eject forcefully or in large amounts

Peace!

JenniferS. May 18, 2008 at 11:07 pm

Noc e try but I aint that rude. Sorry ab out that Bambi one the preschool bunch posted under my name. There not birght enought o know that Jen niofer is ther most popular girls name in america.

bambi May 18, 2008 at 11:24 pm

No prob Jen…I could tell it was those dumb b*tches as they have no concept of grammar. They didn’t even know “spew” was a word!!! Had to give them a little dictionary lesson! I’d rather be crazy than stupid any day!

popknowsbest May 18, 2008 at 11:33 pm

Well, I guess it took me to get rid of Bambi, for you all. I hope she crawled back under the rock, from which she came. It should be quiet, on here for you all now. Glad I could help out, with the little troll.
If she comes back, let me know, I would like to spray some pesticide, on the roach.
maybe that will stop her from producing, any more illegitimate bastar_s.

popknowsbest May 18, 2008 at 11:45 pm

Bitc_. I thought you had enough. You need to take your self down to the child support office, bright and early in the morning. Tell them you have a illegitimate bastar_. by a white man, and your so angry because he isnt paying any child support, so you go on line, and you talk to yourself, you have imaginary friends on line, also tell them you make up your own vocabulary, and say its in the dictionary. Just fall on their mercy, because you need help. You little roach. You are a insect, who happened to crawl your way into the internet world.

Jennifers. its a shame that the only friend you have, is a roach, who cant find her massa, to put her on her knees again. You should learn how to type before you say another word.
you bored azz little girl.

bambi May 18, 2008 at 11:51 pm

Look who’s talkin??? Aren’t you the stupid b*tch that didn’t even know that “spew” was a word??? Check yourself girl…before you reck yourself! Peace!

bambi May 19, 2008 at 12:46 am

Hey…this is the funniest sh*t ever…I found “lilmomma” on youtube…check this out:

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.Channel&ChannelID=149587821

I knew it…she’s the ugliest ghetto b*tch I’ve ever seen…just like I thought! Geeezzz, no wonder why she’s so bitter! Damn!

POPKNOWSBEST May 19, 2008 at 8:25 am

WOW, you peanut brain, roach. We all know that, lilmomma, wouldnt have a mytube, or a mysapce, like your simple-minded azz. You never cease to amaze, any of us. We all read, lilmommas’ claim to fame. She told your dumd azz, how she felt, and she moved on. Your still here. Its so funny how, you are the only one, out of all the ladies that were on here 2 weeks ago, that is still here. You are really addicted to women. I bet you have tons of lesbian porn. You must dream about these women.
You sick puppy. I bet you the little bit of change, you have. That not 1, of the mothers from the show,are on these boards, supporting you. Helene dont need your help, you white azz licker.
Iam only on here because, I want to let you know that you, will not get the last word, as far as iam concerned. You dont represent all of us, you are in a class all by yourself.
Anyone, who reads all of the garbage you have posted, knows your a wack-job. They all called you crazy, when you first came on board.
Well now we know, Bambi is also addicted to women. Even the women, who dont talk back to her, or remember that she exist. Iam sure this was a time-passer, for the other women, but with you, its going to be a life-long journey. Such a shame, you will have to fight your cause, all by yourself.
You are a distastful, tack-head roach.
REMEMBER, GO GET THAT WELFARE, I DONT THINK HELENE IS GOING TO PAY YOU, FOR A JOB,
YOU FAILED SO MISERABLY.

celebration florida residents May 19, 2008 at 12:23 pm

Hi, bambi. we are here LOAO, at you. you have on at least 100 occasions, been made to look like a fool, by your own people, on here. The blogs you write, are halarious, We have to admit, that we have never heard anyone curse, anyone out, like the people have cursed you out.
Just give up, throw in the towel. We never asked for your support, so we dont need this on our board. I think you need to stop while your ahead.
Just go, and be a good single mom, get a good job, and dont worry about our children, fight for your own. We are so sorry to hear, that you have to resort to welfare, to feed your child. Hope all goes well for you. The people of, cele.fl. bid you a humble good-bye.
If you would like to continue, your quest, for Cheyenne, by all means do so. But we dont need the likes of you , petitioning, anyhting for Maryjo. We dont want her to be !*+ ociated, with any of your causes. GOOD BYE

MaryJoRox May 19, 2008 at 1:16 pm

Hey Pam& Mary Jo!!you were my first choice for winner

clearly mary jo has lots of talent i lov her singing and acting

you guys rock and i wish best of luck to you both!!

bambi May 19, 2008 at 4:13 pm

LMAO at yet another stupid post (this time under the name celebration florida residents) POPKNOWSJACK!! Like I told you before, go back to elementary and finish the 5th grade before posting again! Anyone in their right mind can see that you have absolutely no idea of where to place comma’s in your sentences! Your clearly borderline iliterate! Get a life and stop being the punk b*tch that you are perpetrating yourself as other individuals! LOSER! tee hee!

laura May 19, 2008 at 7:49 pm

bambi, just few question. why are you so ashamed of your own race?
Do you think that makes you look good, in the eyes of other races?
Do you live in NewYork or Virginia? You said, two different places, since youve been talking on here.
Why do you get so mad when someone disagrees with you?
Why do you think everyone is an ”idiot’, but your the smartest?
Are you really a black woman?

I hope you understand why I asked the questions. You have said certain thing at one point, and then you have said the total opposite, at other times.
I dont intend to go back and forth with you, its just that, your constitution, for a lack of a better word, is really unclear. I believe, and I could be wrong, that, this is why your comments anger so many people here. Well just thought I’d ask.

bambi May 19, 2008 at 8:59 pm

Laura – tip for the future. If you wish to not be met with hostility, then you should not ask a question and then answer it. Nor should you “accuse” without “asking the question”. You say, “why am I ashamed of my race”, then you ask me “am I black”. Does that make sense to you? I’m baffled. Anyways…where I live really is neither here or there unless you plan on joining me and my family for dinner. Most people are “idiots”. I did not make it this way, and it will be this way long after I’m dead and gone. That’s just the way it is! sorry dear, but why do you think silly little commercials work? There’s a psychology to that, but I’ll just let you google it rather than explain…too long…ya know? As far as me getting “angry”, well no, you do misunderstand me. In order for something to “anger” me, I must first “have emotion or concern” for that thing…which neither apply here. No, what your reading is frustration and disappointment. I get discusted/frustrated with the mindset of most folk. How people cannot see anything other than what is right in front of their eyes or is fed to them. They have no ability to look beyond the obvious or to use “common sense”, if you will (ergo voting Pres. Bush in office).

Yes dear, I’m black. I believe it is ignorant of anyone to say “I’m proud to be black, or I’m proud to be White, or I’m proud to be an American” as if they had a choice in the matter. Being what you are is NO accomplishment and therefore “what are you proud of”? It’s ignorance at its finest. However, it doesn’t bother me what people believe about me. When I have a goal in mind, it’s just that my goals and I always achieve them (w/very low failure rate). I don’t get sidetracked by the opinions of others. Hope that clears things up for ya Laura!

popknowsbest May 19, 2008 at 10:15 pm

HEY,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,BAMBI, IS GONE,,,,,,I DID IT,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,HELL MUST HAVE CALLED HER BACK. SHHHHHH. THE SLITHERING, SERPENT IS GONE.
I SHALL, GO IN PEACE.

JenniferS. May 19, 2008 at 10:46 pm

Hey Bambi-
Boy some of these people been rearly misunderstanding Roots. I call it an insult to tell you to get a master. Honestly! Oviously these nit wits will stop at nothign to make themselves look ridiculous. -JenniferS.

popknowsbest May 20, 2008 at 12:34 am

BE VERY QUIET, THE HBIC IS BACK UNDER HER ROCK, WE DONT WANT TO WAKE HER. IF WE DO SHE MIGHT SPEW SOME MORE VENOM ON US. YOU ALL KNOW WE HAVE TO LISTEN TO EVERYTHING SHE SAYS, BECAUSE, WHEN YOU TELL HER AZZ OFF, SHE RUNS BACK UNDER HER ROCK. THEN SHE READS HER DICTIONARY, AND COMES BACK TO TEACH US A NEW WORD.

YA SEE, MASSA DIDNT LET HER READ, WHEN HE HAD HER ON HIS PLANTATION. SO SHE HAS TO TUCK HER DICTIONARY UNDER HER CHIN, AND PULL IT OUT EVERY TIME SHE FEELS THE NEED TO CURSE US OUT. WHEN MASSA FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS BOOK, HE WHIPPED HER GOOD, AND RAPED HER. NOW THAT SHE IS ALL USED UP, SHE HAS NOHTING LEFT BUT THE BASTA-D,
CHILD, MASSA LEFT HER WITH, AND HE THREW, THE DICTIONARY AT HER, AND SAID, ”NOW READ, BITC-.”. NOW BAMBI THINKS SHES A REAL HOUSE (`(%* CAUSE MASSA, DONE LET HER READ. teehee teehee teehee teehee teehee teehee teehee teehee teehee teehee . LMAO.
THIS WILL BE MY FINAL LESSON, TO YOU ALL, ABOUT BAMBI. IF BY CHANCE YOU CATCH HER SLITHERING DOWN YOUR STREET, CALL ME OR MASSA. THIS SLAVE IS NOT FULLY PAID FOR. I REALLY ENJOYED OUT-WITTNG, THE SLAVE.

bambi May 20, 2008 at 9:37 am

Hey POP – First the little problem with punctuation (i.e., comma placement), and now using ALL CAPS are ya? tee hee! What? Do you think using all caps will somehow get you heard more? I mean, common man…your yet again, a disgrace to the HUMAN RACE! What makes you so angry? Is it that “little secret” your hiding? tee hee! Peace out hoodrat!

popknowsbest May 20, 2008 at 1:28 pm

I will humor, you for just a little while longer, bambi the slave massas’ hoe. OK, B.I.T.C.H
I have a big, black one for you, that way you wont have to suck massas’ white tiny prick, anymore.
You would probally loose your mind, if I gave you all nine inches of this good blk meat.
But I would rather stick it in your mouth, so that you can get that pure black flavor, that you long for.
I know massas’ tiny little thing, didnt do it for you. All he needed you for was to suck out his seed, so that he could taint our race. And what did you do? You got right down on your slave knees and sucked him dry.
A disgrace to which race? Our beautiful black race. Or the one you are on here begging, to get accepted in. There is nothing that comes out of your c.u.m filled mouth, that would get me mad.
You are a white womans’ dream, she’ll become your friend, and then she will be getting all this big blk stick, while your trying to be white, and beg for massas’ itty bitty, stick. Bambi, your a real C.U.N.T. What are you really good for, other then run your nasty mouth, and be a white mans bed warmer.

popknowsbest May 20, 2008 at 3:22 pm

i am an idiot (comma) and illiterate (comma) and bambi is a slave (comma) i shouldn’t have sold crack to feed my prostitute mother’s habit (comma) i hate myself (comma) so much (comma) that I hate everybody (comma) that is (comma) smarter (comma) than (comma) me (comma)! LMAO! Dummy!

popknowsbest May 20, 2008 at 6:51 pm

Is the comma thing the only thing you can come back and say? You slave. Iam not on here typing to show you how smart iam. iam here to tell you how much of a C.U.N.T. YOU ARE.
BAMBI AKA C.U.N.T, AKA MASSAS’ PRICK SUCKER, AKA WHITE WOMAN C.U.N.T LICKER. YOU SLAVE BLK, B.I.T.C.H. I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR YOU AT ALL.

POPKNOWSBEST May 20, 2008 at 6:59 pm

My last message before you impersonated me again, must have really hit home. You are a little white woman wannbe C.U.N.T i can think of a lot of thins that you are, but i know you got the point. stop crying, B.I.T.C.H, Iam your massa mow.

fyi—blog, posted may, 20.2008 @3:22pm, is not from the real pop ,its from miss. c.u.n.t aka bambi

Elaine May 20, 2008 at 7:28 pm

This is for bambi. Lady dont you have any more respect for yourself then to be on these boards getting cursed out? Dont you feel bad that everyone talks to you like your nothing but scum?
Where is your pride? Why arent you on Helenes board anymore? I see she doent talk to you.
So why dont you just go away? Notice, all the other people are gone. I check here and there to see if Pop is still here humiliating you publicly. Its a sin and a shame for you to be on a board for some white woman who wont even talk to you. Bambi do some soul searching. Get off these boards and stop allowing yourself to be degraded like this.
Futhermore, this isnt Helenes’ board; so why are you here? You were supposedly petitioning for her daughter and like. This is Pams board. Maybe Helene got through to you , when she told you not to involve her or her child in your madness. Well girlfriend, I dont think Pam wants you to do anything for her child either. Be a real lady and stay off the vh1, boards. Your cause is lost. Give up and move on. I will be checking in here, just to see if you and pop are still at it.
At first you came off like you were this well known, well respected editor or something. Now you are on here sounding like a bar fly, or a street walker and pop is your pimp. Have some respect for yourself. NO ONE ELSE DOES E.M

bambi May 20, 2008 at 8:48 pm

First off POP…what can I say? You are friggin hilarious!!! I laughed soooo hard after reading how “angry” you were that I almost fell off my chair!!! (comma)…ha ha ha ha! I know…I know…I shouldn’t make fun of the “afflicted”, but hell…it’s just funny! Your a riot! BTW, I knew I had you out of control when all you could do is repeat the same two words over and over again. Not that your vocabulary is that extensive…actually it is already limited, but I believe your anger made the problem even worse! Thanks for letting me see how easy it is to control you. Now bark…bark doggie…here boy…here boy…that’s a goooood boy! Woof!

Elaine – oh poor hypocritical Elaine! You say “everyone” is this and “everyone” is that. Elaine, is your world that “small” that these few pesky little meskitos here on this board are “everyone”. Do you really think I care what these last few remaining “bar flies” think of me. My purpose here has already been accomplished dear…I’m just having a little fun with you idiots! Don’t get it twisted sister! I won’t even address the rest of the b*llsh*t you just said because you are soooo wrong, it’s pathetic. You obviously haven’t read these threads thoroughly or else you would realize just how stupid you sound. But hey…perhaps you don’t want to take the time to read them…that’s fine, but…don’t make yourself sound like an a$$ by commenting on things you don’t know….It’s clear to me that you probably finished the 3rd grade as you really don’t seem to be an illiterate, but just a “follower” with no ability to think on your own. Your the type of person that needs to be “told what to do”. Don’t feel alone, you only represent about 80% of population. That why you have a massa (a.k.a boss), I don’t. Ya see…I AM THE BOSS. See how different we are?

Elaine May 21, 2008 at 9:29 am

Bambi
I thought that you were @ least a lady. Dear I have been on this beautiful planet for 48 yrs.
Never in those yours have I been so diappointed in anything that I have accomplished.
Iam not going to attempt to enlighten you on my very sucessful life. Because a street woman such as yourself wouldnt appreciate it.
You may think that because you can argue (ON LINE) mind you, that your words have some sort of effect on myself and perhaps others. Well little girl, they dont. Your inmaturity and ghetto attitude is the only weapon you possess. Your mockery of others, showcase your unstable, miserable life.
So with that being said, I leave you to your trashy world of the internet.
Its clear that you spend 99% of your time on here, arguing back and forth will people. I on the other hand, have a life that keeps me occupied and happy. Think about it.
You even spent the entire mothers day on line. That showed myself and others just how lonely you are. ”Bar fly?” you didnt just read my last message to you, and use one of the words from it, did you?
Strange, because I thought that your vocabulary was so vast, that you had it all sewed up.
Bambi, your truely a sad and defeated person. Not worthy of any more attention from me.
I will now move away from these boards, as they are a reflection of people who dont have a life, such as yourself. Dont amuse yourself by writing me back. The message will go unread.

popknowsbest May 21, 2008 at 11:31 am

KUDOS FOR ME !!!!!!!!! I RAN BAMBI OFF THE BOARD. ITS BEEN A PLEASURE. SO LONG EVERYONE.

bambi May 21, 2008 at 5:57 pm

DING DONG…that stupid b*tch ELAINE is gone…or is she? Hmmmm….we’ll see! You are the biggest hypocrate b*tch I have ever had the displeasure to read about! Shame on you…shame! You say I’m always on this board…well HYPOCRATE…you’d have to be here to know that…wouldn’t you? So, why don’t you go…stop being a hypocrate and get the f*ck outa here! k? Do us all a favor and make like an egg and SCRAM!!! tee hee!! I just made a funny! LOL! tee hee ha ha ha ha!

Goodbye forever…dried-up b*tch!

ME May 22, 2008 at 12:06 am

AWWWWW poor bam bam bambi– Did Mrs. Elaine just hurt your little feelings? Now thats what we call a true woman. You couldnt get with that s.h.i.t. could ya.
Big bad azz bambi. Her message to you was so, elegant. She didnt have to curse one time, to put you in your place. She is 48, so shes’ ”dried-up” as you call it. Well it sounds to me like Mrs.Elaine
got it going on. Your how old? Yet your on here 24/7 making a dang fool of yourself, for a white woman and her daughter, that you dont even know.
Once again bam bam ( NOTICE THE OTHER FEMALES ON HERE GET RESPECT) get a life, stop lying,
go find yourself a man and vanish into the darkness. Thats where you live anyway.

We all love you Mrs.Elaine. We know you might not be back, but from all of us ”proud black people”

********************************************* YOU GO GIRL*******************************************************

JenniferS. May 22, 2008 at 3:24 am

Guess you sure scared off Glenn and Cliff.

sherry May 22, 2008 at 7:38 am

OMG!!! Have you seem McKenzie’s new youtube videos. I think there are three of them. It’s obvious that kid was born to be an entertainer!

KIDSTARFAN May 22, 2008 at 12:47 pm

Mary Jo,

Just checkin’ in to say we are thinking of you, and hope you’re doing your best. Hopefully more doors are opening up for you, and you’re getting a chance to have some fun doing what you love.

Pam,

If there is ever a re-union show, I hope you and Mary Jo have to graciously decline because of Mary Jo’s busy schedule! You won’t be missing anything constructive to Mary Jo’s career anyway! Hang in there Pam… use the show as a stepping stone to further Mary Jo’s career, and get the last laugh!

Kidstarfan

Drive a stake threw it! May 22, 2008 at 4:31 pm

Bambi the fraud. Owns her own companies eh??
go to http://www.joycewilliamsrealty.com and see for your self. She slaves to the grind for some white guy named Carlos and company.

All a pack of lies…..

bambi May 22, 2008 at 5:22 pm

LMAO at your stupidty “Drive”!!! tee hee ha ha hah ahhha! What makes you think that some chick named Joyce Williams is me? Cuz my first name is Joyce? R u really that stupid…and yet another moment in mild %“@~# ation! LMAO again…I can’t stop!!! tee heeee heeeee ha ha hah ahaha! You wish that were me, sorry to disappoint you, but I’m hot as hell and not ashmed to say it! Tall, caramel, tiny waist with a lushious big ol booty and YEP! I’ve gotta money, brains, and talent! I know…I know…you’ll just keep HATING! But remember one thing a$$wipes…while your hating trying to turn me into something I’m not…I’m LMAO at all of you…cuz you see…I have the last laugh, cuz it’s the best one…the sweet laughter of SUCCESS baby! Now lick that one up! Cheers!

popknowsbest May 22, 2008 at 5:40 pm

I wouldnt click on the link that bam bam the slave sent. It might be a virus or massa might hunt you down and make you go work on his plantation, with bambi.
Bambi is the only slave left there and massas’ cotton fields are in need of care. Bambi is in the feilds from sun up to sun down. When she gets her 5 min. breaks she sneeks on massas’ computer and fantisizes about owning real estate companies.
Massa doesnt know that Bambi uses his computer. When he finds out, Bambi wil be back on her knees again.

ME May 22, 2008 at 8:38 pm

HEY EVERYBODY———-I put a call into the real estate comp. that bam bam posted.
Everybody call in and let bam bams’ boss man know, that she is a uncle-tom miss b.i.t.c.h. and that she has his company posted on this board, sayng that she owns it.
The s.l.u.t is so dark on the picture, that all you see is her teeth shining, saying ”yes um, massa”.
This b.i.t.c.h. is so stupid. She just proved to us that she dont own nothing. She works for Carlos and Company Inc. Bambi is truly certifiable. Lying W.H.O.R.E.

bambi May 22, 2008 at 8:53 pm

For the records…dumb dumb…I don’t believe there is an “everybody”..just your dumb a$$ talking to yourself! What an idiot! Go on…dumb, dumb…call that poor woman’s job and make a fool of yourself…personally, I really don’t care. Not in the least bit hun! Knock yourself out!

The person who calls themselves “Carlos and Company” posts a link saying “this is the real bambi/joyce” and you fools just believe it without question! You call yourself “proud black” men and woman, and yet you sit back (in lynchmob fashion) and allow this “Carlos” fella to insult black people without rebuttal. Nevermind what you think of me…but take a good look in the mirror and see what f*cking your uncle has created! Lick that one up to baby! How’s that for a comeback…CALL b*tch…I dare ya! I hope that woman finds you and k*cks your a$$! tee hee…now that’d make for a good read.

ME May 23, 2008 at 7:05 am

Dont even try it, Bambi. You posted the company. Dont try to clean it up now, because you didnt think anyone would get the phone number and really call. Your a pathetic skank. Your not as smart as you think you are. You still used that womans name and the company she works for, as a tool in your harrassment and false advertising. The womans husband didnt have a clue, about any reality show. So its on and poping today. We are also going to contact the D.A ‘s office, there today.
You should have kept your big azz mouth shut.
Stop trying to lie your way out of it, you punk b.i.t.c.h. Heres’ an old saying that you should have learned when you were little. Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we pratice to decieve. Since you claim you have so much, why didnt you post some of your OWN companies. I hope at least the woman can get you for using her name and employment, to advertise your racial discrimination. That will be a good read the all of us as well.
You fake jerk. Lets see whos butt the woman will want to kick after she finds out, through the internet invesigators, who you really are. I guess we are all given ip addresses and registered screen names for nothing too ha. LMAOAYB

bambi May 23, 2008 at 9:15 am

ME…you are so stupid and vile! Anyone can check these posts and see who it REALLY was that posted that man’s company! R u really that much of an idiot? “Internet police”?? Ha ha haha! That’s some funny sh*t girl…your on a roll! Contact the D.A.’s office? The DA would laugh you out of town b*tch! I can’t imagine that they would entertain a call from such a stupid b*tch! Like I said, “detective”…don’t quit your day job! You wanna know who I really am? Write or call the producers of VH1…they’ll tell ya! I hope you post your findings with this Carlos dude….ya know…like when you get served with a subpoena for slander! tee hee…ha ha h aha!

ME May 23, 2008 at 1:16 pm

VH1 wouldnt have such an snail working for them. So you work for them now also. B.I.T.C.H. with all the companies and jobs and things you own, you should be busy 24/7. Every time you post you have another profession. Iam telling you, seek therapy. You are pathetic.
I guess next your gonna tell us that you produced the show too. I will say this for ya though.
You have a vivid imagination. KEEP UP THE HARD WORK. Maybe your running for president too.
Make sure your mom and dad know they did a super job at raising a lying, filthy mouthed, slop bucket of a daughter. Wonder if your halfbreed talks like her mommy. You probablly have her sucking white men pricks just like you. Ghetto W.H.O.R.E.
You make white women look like queens.

bambi May 23, 2008 at 2:43 pm

ME…when did I say I worked for VH1..No dear…I said, contact VH1 if you wanna know who I really am. Hun…are you reading impaired? tee hee! I’ll be laughing my absolute a$$ off everytime I think of how you were “calling that poor woman” like a stark raving loonatic and yelling about VH1! Haaaaaa ha ha ha ha! She probably was like, WTF is this crazy a$$ chick talking about? teee heee….I’ll laugh about that one for a while…so when you see me in your mind, envision that…a picture of me LMAO…and the jokes ON YOU! Bye…bye… my little “dumb dumb”! It was fun laughing at you…thanks!

Bambis' mom and dad May 23, 2008 at 4:05 pm

We would like to give our heartfelt apology to all of you, who have been harrassed by our estranged
daughter Bambi. We regret to inform you that she was in a drug rehabilitation center. Last we heard she had walked out , because her addiction is beyond the facilities capability.
We are raising our granddaughter because Bambi has been declared an unfit mother by the family court.
There has been reports that Bambi has been seen on the main strip here, which is infested with prostitutes and their pimps. We have been trying to get our daughter out of this life for sometime now.
She had her child by her pimp, who calls himself ”massa.”
Bambi also has been diagnosed with full blown A.I.D.S. So if you come in contact with her, remain at least 5 ft. away from her. She has uncontrollable foam oozing from her mouth.
We have tried to help our daughter. She even made an attempt to sleep with her own father.
She is also wanted by the police, for fraud and online Identity thieft.
Bambi also has pychological issues. She hears voices in her head. They tell her that she is the owner of many businesses and that she owns a big home and drives a fancy car.
Please contact the Police as soon as you spot her. Do not attempt to approach her, because she is extremely contagious.
Again we would like to aplogize to you all for her mental state. Bambi is incapable of knowing whats right or wrong. The doctors informed us that the A.I.D.S virus has destoyed most of her brain cells
Thank You all for allowing us to expain.
Please keep our grandaughter in your prayers.

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