The Celebreality Interview – Sinceer

It took an in-person meeting to get Sinceer to talk to us (she initially refused our request for an interview, not wanting to cater to her online haters), but we’re so glad that she finally did. Below, she gets some things off her newly enhanced chest regarding her role as the “bad guy” of Flavor of Love 3, her true feelings for Flav, her betrayal of Thing 2 and her parenting skills. She even cries! It’s about as emotionally varied as you might expect from such a lightning-rod personality. Unpredictable to the end, that’s Sinceer!

How do you feel about being at the reunion?

I’m glad I’m here, because I get to get some things off my chest that I didn’t get to on the show. I’m glad I get to see Flav again and let him know how I felt when he let me go.

It was kind of sad that Flav left you at the table with Thing 2 while he jetted off to Monaco with Black.

And I knew I was going to leave. The bad guy never wins. That’s why I didn’t want to be the bad guy, but I guess I got stuck with it because my personality is stronger than everybody’s. I stood out more as a bitch because I was pissed off all the time. You can’t live in a house with a bunch of girls and be happy. I can’t even live with my sister, let alone a bunch of bitches that I don’t know.

Did you feel as the show was taping that you were the bad guy?

I knew pretty much that I was going to end up being characterized that way. Especially toward the end. I tried to change it, but they didn’t want that to happen. It was like, since I’m stuck with that, I can’t be nice now. I had to roll with it till the end. It kinda sucked.

So then do you regret your plan of attack?

No.

You would have done the same thing, even knowing the result?

Hell yeah. F*** them hoes. A lot of them weren’t there for the right reasons. When I was there, I wasn’t walking around like this [gestures to the ample cleavage her outfit displays]. I looked normal. I didn’t want the audience to think I was there for exposure. When I talk about it I get sad [voice breaks, crying commences], but I was really there for him. And that’s why it’s going to be hard for me to do this reunion. I didn’t get to walk off with him, and then to see him there with Thing 2…you don’t understand. “Sinceer’s the fake one, Sinceer’s the fake one,” but I feel like I was the realest one. Like Seezinz, she knew what a lot of these bitches knew, and she didn’t tell him. Rayna called the house telling him to guard his grill, and Seezinz didn’t tell him that s***. If I would have answered that phone, I would have told Flav right away because I’m there for him. But Seezinz didn’t do that, so she obviously wasn’t. She didn’t give a f*** about him. That’s why I couldn’t stand that she was there. I knew she was fake, and we could all see right through it. I noticed what he couldn’t see. It was like, why is this bitch getting a clock over me? What is she doing?

Is that why you were the hardest on her, because you thought she was the fakest?

Oh hell yeah. She was the No. 1 fake one. It was hella obvious.

You said that you weren’t so flashy with your wardrobe in the house. Why show it off today?

I gotta show people I do have a sexy side, damn it! I wasn’t the sexy one in the house. You never heard him say, “Sinceer is hot.” I never heard him say not one thing about me looking good, so I wanted to come back with a sexy vengeance.

Someone said your breasts were new. Are they?

Mmm hmmm.

But you got on other girls’ backs for having fake boobs.

Yeah, but it’s different: they have saline, I got silicone. (Cackles) That’s why I call theirs water balloons. Mine’s a stress ball. There’s a difference.

Was watching the show hard for you? Was hearing what people say as a result of your villainy difficult?

Most of the people that talk s*** are online. When people see me face-to-face, they’re like, “I f***in’ loved you on that show. You kept those hoes in check. I would have done the same thing you did to Thing 2. You didn’t come there to make friends.” People don’t understand that that was a hard thing for me to do because I did develop a friendship with her. But at the end of the day, did I come here to sing “Kumbaya,” or did I come here to be with Flav? I really cared about the twins because I knew that they were there for him as much as I was. But then it came time for me to say, “I’m stronger than her.” And I still feel like I am. She still lives at home with her mom, dad, brothers and sisters. I live by myself. And I told Flav that. I don’t understand why all that wasn’t brought to the table. I said, “I’m a single mom, I pay my own damn rent, I pay for my own car. I’ve lived on my own since I was 18. She’s 26-years-old and still living with mom and dad.” That’s what I meant when I said I was stronger. She still depends on people to survive, but I don’t.

People have said some nasty things about your parenting. Do you want to clear anything about that up?

I’m not going to say I’m the best mom, but I do what I can to take care of my kids. There’s no way I would have been here if I was behind on my electricity. There was no way I would have been here if I was behind on my rent like some girls. I think that’s stupid that I’m characterized as a bad mom when you had bitches in the house who didn’t pay bills just to come to the show. What kind of a mother does that show them to be? I feel like I had my s*** together, and I would never leave my kids in a predicament where they’re not going to have a place to live, they’re not going to have electricity. People don’t know me. They’re judging what they see on TV. In my personal life, I don’t curse around my kids. My kids don’t watch the show. They don’t see the side of me that people saw on TV. I love my kids dearly. I’m letting my oldest son go to school in Arizona not because I don’t want him, but because the education system is better out there than San Diego. So I’m sacrificing to make sure my baby has a good education. My kids come before everything. If there was going to be a problem with my kids, I never would have came to the show. Anybody talking s*** about me being a mother needs to kiss my ass because they don’t know me, and they need to stay the f*** out my business.

Would you do another reality show if you had the chance?

I would. At first when I left the house, I was like, “There’s no way in hell.” But because of the reaction from a lot of the fans who are like, “You should do another show.” Even ones that didn’t like me have been like, “Because of you, I watched. I wanted to see what you were going to do next. You played that s*** good.” (Laughs) I think I have a good personality. It didn’t get to show because I was always pissed off. But if I was ever get the chance to find love, I would hope that someone would fight for me as hard as I fought for Flav.

Keep up with Sinceer via her FlavorOfLoveWorld.com profile and her MySpace.