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The Celebreality Interview - Lusty
After withstanding the bashing of her dead mother over the course of two episodes (courtesy of Ki Ki), Lusty was accused of being crazy and sent packing by Real. Yep, things weren’t so easy on Real Chance of Love’s busty babe, although she reflects on her time in “hell” with a surprising amount of humor. Below, Lusty talks about not letting the show break her down, the resentment she holds for Ki Ki, why she’d never cut a penis off anyone and how Real doesn’t really know the meaning of the worst “exorcist.”
How was your experience on the show?
It was very different. I don’t want to talk negative about it, but um…it was like hell.
What was so hellish?
In a house of several different personality traits and different age groups, the challenging part was people understanding what the f*** I was saying. I had a hard time expressing myself, and I thought I was talking loud enough for people to understand. People didn’t know some of the words I was saying, and it’s not like I have a big vocabulary.
Are you saying that you were on a different intellectual level than most of the other girls?
Yes.
The primary focus of your grief was Ki Ki, right?
Yes. At the beginning, I felt like my tone was relaxed and laid-back to start with. I just asked her a question. After she popped off at the mouth, I was still laid-back. It was like, it’s not this serious. Don’t be so aggressive. If I have beef, I let it go. I refuse to allow society or anything in this world to make me unhappy or get a rise out of me over nothing. I express myself and I walk away. Ki Ki was still making little comments throughout the day. It was like high school. But I was glad she said everything in front of everyone, so everyone could get to know how ignorant she was.
What did you think of her apology?
Very fake. There wasn’t any sincerity at all. I knew that when she hugged me. I smirked to myself like, “That was fake.”
Was it upsetting that you went home instead of her?
Yeah. I believe I was misunderstood in the house. It’s very puzzling to me how girls going to Real and saying things about me, like I was the devil, got him to take their side. It was like, where is Real getting his information, that I’m possessed and the exorcist. If I were the exorcist, I would have tamed all the devils in the house. Don’t you think?
I don’t think Real understands who the exorcist is.
Right? If that were the case, we’d live a peaceful existence.
Beyond the exorcist accusations, there was a general idea that you were crazy. Care to comment on that?
I keep asking myself what people are seeing when they’re looking at me? Is it the eyes? I thought for the longest time that the way I looked was sexy. I didn’t know it was scary! (Laughs) I feel that when people say things like that, they have a fear because maybe I can see their bulls*** and read them.
It’s nice that you can laugh about it. Some people let these shows break them.
If you allow reality TV to take over your true identity, it can break you. But if you really know yourself and you can separate yourself from what people are seeing, you’ll be fine. I know who I am, so I refuse to let people bring me down.
Very early on, we saw you talking to yourself, so maybe that planted the crazy seed?
If I was answering myself, holding deep conversations, like, “Lusty, I can’t believe these girls are acting this way, can you?” “I don’t know, Lusty!” In that case, I’d say I was crazy. But if I’m talking out loud, which everyone has done even if they weren’t conscious. So I just swept that under the carpet. If people want to think I’m crazy, so be it.
You voiced your concern to Real over Cornfed’s lack of experience with black men and black people in general. Did that really reflect your beliefs, or was it just strategy?
For me, strategy. This is a competition. Of course, I’m going to bring everything to light. When something like this would happen, women in the house would be like, “I thought you were my friend. I can’t believe you’d go back and say things.” But at least I don’t lie about having said anything. I just wanted Real to look at all the factors in each woman. I was competing with Cornfed for his attention. I just wanted him to think about it. So he did, and he made his choice.
Real compared you to Lorena Bobbitt. What’d you think of that?
When I was massaging him, I just knew that the conversation was going left. I was trying to be sincere. I wasn’t expecting questions like, “Are you mentally stable?” What the hell? What kind of man asks a female who is massaging his ass, in a romantic setting, “Have you ever killed someone?” But to be compared to a woman who chopped somebody’s penis off? I love penises. I would never chop a penis, especially if it’s good to me.
Did that affect your attraction to Real?
It did. Even before that, when I was talking to him in the kitchen about what Ki Ki said about my mother, I don’t feel that there was any sincerity there. It was more of a brush-off. “Next! You got some alcohol?”
Did watching this show bring up old feelings?
I started tearing up when I watched the beginning of my fight with Ki Ki. She hit wounds that are still healing. Also, to see two black women arguing over some bulls***, it was uncalled for. It could have gone down totally differently. And then to see this week’s episode. To see that she has a mother that she can go to. And talk to. Call up and ask for advice. She has a mother she calls, “Mommy.” It’s not fair. For her to stoop so low and to be so callous and manipulative…if we were out and she said those things about my mother, of course I would beat her ass down. A part of me wants to kick her ass at the reunion, but do I really want to do it on national TV? I’m not intimidated by her. Don’t let the nice face fool you. I’m a firecracker and I’ll step to anyone who’s disrespectful. The problem was that this was between her and I. My mom had nothing to do with it. Who’s the devil?
Did you get anything positive out of this experience?
I found out a lot about myself, especially because there’s no TV or radio in the house. Being around a lot of different personalities, I had to detox when I came back to Atlanta. But at least I learned more about me.
Keep up with Lusty via her FamousVH1Friends.com profile.
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November 15th, 2008 at 6:13 pm
LUSTY LOOKS REALLY SICK!
November 15th, 2008 at 7:16 pm
I think that kiki was wrong and fake and u should slap the ^!#_`+*%))^^(++$ e out of her for talking ^!#_`+*%))^^(++$ e about ur mom r.a.p
November 15th, 2008 at 10:31 pm
Anybody probably cud wup kiki #_#+$!+()~_&!!^ so lusty should have jus jabbed her #_#+$!+()~_&!!^ she wuz sent home anyway
November 16th, 2008 at 3:16 am
Lusty, you were too good of a person for this show anyway. Good luck to you. The show looks like it is staged anyway. Kiki looks like she has some serious underlying mental issues going on. She is definitely not stable emotionally, and she uses manipulation to get what she wants. How will she ever be happy in life if she is so used to deceiving people and herself? Lusty, you are so much better off now, but I’m sure you have already realized that. I’m sure that it was real hell living in those conditions. Kiki is like a cartoon character, all mouth and no substance. She is also quite tragic unfortunately.
November 16th, 2008 at 3:19 am
Lusty, you were too good of a person for this show anyway. Good luck to you. The show looks like it is staged anyway. Kiki looks like she has some serious underlying mental issues going on. She is definitely not stable emotionally, and she uses manipulation to get what she wants. How will she ever be happy in life if she is so used to deceiving people and herself? Lusty, you are so much better off now, but I’m sure you have already realized that. I’m sure that it was real hell living in those conditions. Kiki is like a cartoon character, all mouth and no substance. She is also quite tragic.
November 16th, 2008 at 5:25 am
Lusty handled herself like a women. By not putting her hands on KiKi showed she respected herself. As a black women I was embarased watching this grown black women acting so very ignorant on national tv. It’s bad enough Real and Chance are choosing every non-black women first and leaving us last then have to see KiKi act a hot mess, it’s pretty sad. I know Lusty would love to knock Kiki on her behind but I hope she continues to be classy and take the higher road and not stoop to a child’s level.
November 16th, 2008 at 9:42 am
my comment is real is very unsmart about his choice of women bring ki ki tp my hood i wipe her $_@%(_)~`_)_^+_ for makeing that comment myself she got a lot of mouth but thats one thing you dont do is disrespect the dead no matter how hard she cryed to stay on the show an rea must never had a real women mr little man
November 16th, 2008 at 11:58 am
REAL AND CHANCE ARE SOME TRUE LAMES, THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GROW UP ON A RANCH AND YOUR PARENTS ARE FIRST COUSINS
November 16th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
LOL @ MIMI GRL.
Learn to speak properly before being such an ignorant racist )(#*+`_+*%*+!*^!
November 16th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
if i was lusty, i would of whooped her &!%#~%%_(“`*@% on the damm show, dont no one talk about my mom, especially if she was dead. she put a nigga before her mom’s memory & she shouln’t had done that cause look now, she aint get to beat her &!%#~%%_(“`*@% or stay. `)&$*)#+~)`_^_$! that `*(`$#&)()+(`+#_ niggas come & go! & `)&$*)#+~)`_^_$! kiki!! I WOULD DRAG THAT HOE UP & DOWN THE STAIRS OVER & OVER & OVER AGAIN!
November 16th, 2008 at 6:08 pm
I dont know about you, but I’m glaaadddddd that she’s gone! She’s $(#(~(&(%)&~!_+~ ing crazy! Talking to herself and having a man voice like she does, she looks sick!
November 16th, 2008 at 7:37 pm
Keep your head up lusty. I never thought that you were crazy. You did not belong in that house with those women. You are above their level that’s why you were mis-understood. But girl, I would have knocked the Hell out of KiKI!! Busted her right in her big mouth. She just wanted some air time. But it wasn’t positive air time. Take Care and GOD Bless you
November 16th, 2008 at 7:44 pm
I WONDER WHY VH1 HAD MY COMMENT ERASED. I MUST HAVE BEEN TRUE. REAL AND CHANCE ARE ON T.V. DIDDING ALL THE BLACK GIRLS FOR THE WHITE GIRLS.
MIYUKO…….YOU MUST BE A WHITE GIRL SINCE MY COMMENT HIT HOME TO YOU. SPEAK WHEN SPOKEN TO. B.I.T.C.H.
November 16th, 2008 at 8:38 pm
oh my god real i cant believe u just did that how in the hell did kiki get to stay after everything that she said to lusty i mean then on top or that her apolagie was about fake as it can get with the hug and everything and she only said sorry because u and her mom said to do it because she said in the green room that she will say what ever to stay but that she really didnt want to the things that she said to her should have never come out her mouth because u cant take #!!#*%)^)@~`(&@` like that back like how she said your mother is gonna burn in hell uncalledfor of how she song your mother is dead your mothe is dead not right and lots of other things just run he tape back and you picked kiki i think u should pick cornfeed and ur brothr should pick rabbit but i mean thats just what i think i see alot in the both of them anh u and ur brother need more one on one time with them
November 16th, 2008 at 8:42 pm
but like i said thats just me they seem like the two most true one in the house
November 17th, 2008 at 2:23 pm
I would have punched that Kiki girl in her f*** face. I would have not cared about going home. She only did that s*** to get that lusty chick kicked off. I hope she’s the next one to get kicked off.
November 17th, 2008 at 8:21 pm
This show is horrible. Chance is so fake and Real looks like the horses in the stable short and stubby. These girls need to be drug to the bull fights and left.
November 18th, 2008 at 1:59 pm
i’m happy she was sent home. crazy chick!
she was racist. maybe kiki didn’t have to go that far, but did lusty have to call her names like “black b***h”
i would have went off on her too. she looks like a divorced soccer mom with a bad weave
November 18th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
yo she is a phsco _$_#++$$*(!(*@^$^ yall needed me on there show yah how a real women is
November 26th, 2008 at 8:00 pm
U did act crazy cause there is no way Kiki came at u saying the things she said without some instigating from u. Maybe not all the time but ur 1st blowup is when u went after her and then u said something about her mom. If u didnt want the mom card played then u shouldnt of played it first. And maybe next time u get with a guy u wont keep playing around that u have killed some1 especially if the guy has his doubts about ur mental state. Hard lesson 2 learn.
November 27th, 2008 at 9:25 pm
REGARDLESS, OF WHAT KI KI SAY IT STILL DOESN’T TAKE AWAY THE FACT SHE SAID AWEFUL THINGS ABOUT LUSTY’S MOM..KI KI SAID IT OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN.LUSTY BEING CRAZY HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT KIKI SAID.
KIKI CLAIMED TO BE SUCH A STRONG WOMEN WILL IT PROVES TO ME SHE’S NOT.
LUSTY IS THE STRONGER ONE. LUSTY NEVER SAID ANYTHING ABOUT KIKI FAMILY.
KIKI KNOW’S SHE’S WRONG
November 30th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
lusty….u r 1 crazy b**** i dont know if ur a witch or a wizard but u act so scary and u always scare the crap out of me when u talk. i am glad u got eliminated because real doesnt need a wizard he needs a woman that cares 4 him and keeps it REAL with him. all i gotta say is THANK GOD YOU ARE GONE!!!!
December 4th, 2008 at 5:54 pm
I DONT FEEL LIKE YOU WERE WRONG BUT IF THAT WAS ME I WOULD OF BEAT THE ^&!$*~`#@$#@(!&$ OUT OF KIKI REGARDLESS OF THE FACT THAT IM ON A SHOW .IT’S JUST SOME ^&!$*~`#@$#@(!&$ YOU JUST DON’T DO AND THAT ^)_!^*#`*()@_&+#@ DID THE MAIN ONE. SO LUSTY KEEP YA HEAD UP THAT ^)_!^*#`*()@_&+#@ WAS THE ONE WHO SHOULD HAVE LEFT THAT NIGHT!!!!! BUT IF REAL DIDN’T DISS HER RIGHT AWAY THEN YOU KNOW HE ONLY THINKS WITH HIS LITTLE ^%&`_@`$#+&@+$^ )&(_+#$^@`+`#“_ LOL
KEEP IT MOVIN LADY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
December 7th, 2008 at 4:51 pm
YO Chance i got to tell you something homi i sawRabbit on JIME JONS VEDIO. POP CHAMPANE ONE AT THE LAST SEEN. SO BRO I THINK SHE MIGHT BE CUTE BUT SHE MIGHT NOT BE LOOKING FOR LOVE. I THINK SHE FAKE’N WITH IT. HALL
January 1st, 2009 at 12:57 pm
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