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Tool Academy: Coming Soon To VH1

The d’bag gets his day in a new reality series coming from VH1. Check out the details of the forthcoming Tool Academy:

We have all encountered them before: those strutting, preening, over confident alpha-males who lie, cheat, and treat their girlfriends like door mats. They are “tools,” and they desperately need a wake up call. VH1 and 495 Productions are taking 9 of these unsuspecting bad boys and sending them to relationship boot camp in a new series titled Tool Academy. The eight episode series, hosted by Jordan Murphy, is slated to premiere Sunday, January 11 at 10/9c.

The guys, all secretly nominated by their girlfriends, initially believe they are taking part in a competition in search of “Mr. Awesome.” But the tables are turned almost immediately and they quickly learn that they are actually recruits in the Tool Academy, where they will be schooled in proper boyfriend behavior—covering topics like honesty, fidelity, maturity, and communication with resident relationship counselor Trina Dolenz. Each week the guy who shows the least progress in the group is deemed a hopeless tool and dismissed from the academy. But there’s a twist: he must then plead his case before his girlfriend, who decides on the spot if she wants to keep him or kick him to the curb. In the end, only one man will be rewarded for his transformation with a $100,000 cash prize and the title of “Mr. Awesome.”

“This show carries the hope that buried deep inside even the world’s most incorrigible tool, there may actually be a good boyfriend waiting to be revealed,” said Jeff Olde, Executive Vice President of Programming & Production for VH1. “Sometimes all it takes is a little self reflection…and eight weeks of intensive TV therapy.”

Jordan Murphy’s previous hosting duties include all four seasons of NBC’s For Love or Money, USA’s Before & After’noon Movies, and Reality Remix. He has also appeared on such shows as Las Vegas, Scrubs, Charmed, and JAG among others.  Murphy is represented by IMG Broadcasting’s Babette Perry and continues to be managed by Kathy Carter.

Trina Dolenz trained as a couples counselor in Cambridge, England, obtaining a Graduate Certificate in Marital and Couples Counseling, as well as a Post Graduate Diploma in Couples Therapy from the University of East London.  She has run private practices in couples therapy in London as well as her adopted home of Los Angeles.

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  • Brittney Says:

    VH1 I severly need your help and so does my “boyfriend” if that is what you want to call him. I have watched Tool Academy faithfully for the past two seasons and for both i ask myself “why dont i have David enrolled in this academy.” He is exactly like all your contestants. Lie, Cheat, degrade. He is so into himself that he really dont know what his arrogance does to his family. We have two children and 6 years of a lot of bs that should not even be thought of taking place. As i am writing you i am continuosly thinking of all the wrong doing that has taken place. I could go on for years of all the tragedies that have occurred. Just know that it is a MUST that he needs to get enrolled immediately. If my ultimadems are not helping maybe some outside source can open his eyes and allow him to see that he is far from perfect and that his arrognance and dishonesty is not only affecting me but his two small children. They see how he treats and talks to me. There is so so so much more from other females sendin me text sayin they pregnant by him to him and i gettin physical with each other. So please VH1 How do i get him on this show. I dont even care about the prize money. I just want to be treated right and like a human being. Not like someone of no worth. Especially after all that i have done for him and my family. Im not saying i should be rewarded for doin what i am supposed to but at least appreciated and not treated like trash. Please email me asap before it gets even more destructive. Please VH1 help me help him and in return helping my children. I would not be writing you if this were not a necessity to my children and him as well as myself. Thanks for takin the time to read my plea and pray you consider us for your reality show because this is so painfully real. Unfortunately. Thanks again!!

  • Diane Rodriguez Says:

    I believe my daughter should be entered into your Tool Academy 3 show with her boyfriend because he is a tool whom needs to be outed for all his extra curriculume activities outside of the home. He might have another girlfriend AND boyfriend!!! I would like to see my daughter happy. This would be a huge step for them. She has agreed to take this step so please consider them. My daughter’s name is Tiffany Rodriguez and her boyfriend is Conrad salinas. Ages 20 and 22. Please give them a chance. thank you VH1.

  • sammy Says:

    please vh1 i need to know how to enroll my fiance in a new tool academy.i have been with him for 2 and a half years and i am honestly scared that my fiance’s a tool. he talks to girls all the time and i have caught him in some lies but he still denies it and acts like hes the perfect fiance and i wont find anyone better then him and like he does nothing wrong and he thinks he doesn’t flirt and its not wrong.Ive heard rumors that hes with different girls from the beginning of our relationship but i try to believe that he loves me and its not true.but i just dont know what to do except ask for help. i love him with all of my heart but i feel he needs help and your our only help. please god and vh1. can you please help me in my relationship so i know weather or not to marry my fiance or if this isn’t true love and not meant to be. please contact me back!! thank you….Sammy

  • Bethany Says:

    Hello, my name is Bethany.
    I’m writing you this, i guess “letter” because really feel that my boyfriend is what your show would consider a “tool”. He is always going out to parties with his friends. He is always picking them over me and i feel like the reason he always does that is so the parties he goes to will be with out me that way. He says it is because i don’t like to party and although that is true i would be more then happy to watch him have a good time and enjoy what makes him happy with him. I think he uses the fact that i don’t like to party as an excuse. When he’s out i’m either with my family or his family. He can go out but i can’t. Not with out him at least. He even gets jealous of my beast friend. I have a great bond with his family but i would love for him to be there while i make that bond. Sometime i don’t hear from him for weeks at a time. I’m wondering if this is because we were each others first that he feels the need to explore? He always tells me there has been no one els. I love him so much and i’ll wait for longer then a week. That’s not the problem. I just want to know that this will all be worth it in the long run. Please. I really need to know what i should do. I’ve tried giving him his space. I’ve done so much and it hasn’t seemed to word. I would so very much appreciate this.
    Thank you, Bethany.

  • Taylee Says:

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years.I love him with all my heart, but he cheats all the time,he has had 2 kids while we have been together and they arent by me! So i would really like to sign him for tool academy to save our relationship. He makes me feel like im just a peice of meat, we dont spend anytime together,and if we do its always really late at night so it makes me feel that he doesnt want to be around me.He means the world to me i do anything and everything for him.Its just really hard for me to walk away from him because we have been together for so long. I just dont know how much longer we are gonna last if he doesnt stop doing what hes doing.

  • Brandi Says:

    Vh1 PLease im desperately begging for you to make another tool achademy! I love my boyfriend so much but i have never been hurt so badly!!!! I have tried so hard to be the perfect women for him we have been together two years and we have a baby together! He is a good daddy and I thought he was a good man! Until he started putting his hands on me then I left him and couldnt take being away from him. So I took him back and I just found out he also was cheating on me.. He is very controlling, Dont trust me when he all along was the one cheating on me! It hurts so bad for me to go to that house and have to move my babies stuff and my stuff after all we been through! Its just been a big mess! PLEASE HELP ME! I WANT TO GIVE HIM ONE LAST CHANCE BUT I DONT THINK HE DESERVES IT!!!

  • Sydney Says:

    I watch the show every season and my boyfriend doesn’t really like reality T.V, but I actually got him to watch the show this season and I thought that it would help our relationship just by watchin the show. I was WRONG he sits there and says oh yeah right when the guys are actually changing he is a great guy in ways to make me feel special, but that can’t be all we need in our relstionship I want more. I see it in him that he could change and wanted to go to counsiling he won’t go so if I could trick him that would be so perfect. He is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. But with all the dishonesty and Ex-girlfriend bull crap I don’t know how much more I can take. I cry almost everyother day and just keep praying that he will change. He will NEVER sit down and talk to me unless he is drinking if we are both drinking it all comes out and we fight it’s so bad to the point that nobody will go out with us anymore. I have asked him to please sit down we need communication and he says it’s better to just not say anything and not fight. I tell him that that’s what a relationship is communication. We DON’T have that.When we go out we get kickied out where ever we are we fight so bad. He’s 27 and I am 25 I have changed my job for him I have moved for him that’s another thing I don’t know anyone where I live now besides his friends.That’s another question, is that why I hold on and keep praying. I am scared to be alone no family or friends it’s so hard. It’s getting to the point I feel like I am trying for nothing. I know he’s a great guy I just need help. Like counceling. The money isn’t anything to me it’s alot of money, but money doesn’t buy LOVE I can’t get him to go with me I know if I tricked him it would work..I am putting out and get nothing in return besides getting broke down. I want to turn to my mom to talk to her about it, but I don’t want her to not like him I have my friends but they are sick of telling me to leave. It’s easy for them to say I love him and I KNOW that the only way he won’t be a old lonely man is help like this. So please please I am BEGGING you I need your help please….because my boyfriend is just A TOOL BAG!!!!!!!!

  • Sydney Says:

    I watch the show every season and my boyfriend doesn’t really like reality T.V, but I actually got him to watch the show this season and I thought that it would help our relationship just by watchin the show. I was WRONG he sits there and says oh yeah right when the guys are actually changing he is a great guy in ways to make me feel special, but that can’t be all we need in our relstionship I want more. I see it in him that he could change and wanted to go to counsiling he won’t go so if I could trick him that would be so perfect. He is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. But with all the dishonesty and Ex-Boyfriend & Ex-girlfriend bull crap I don’t know how much more I can take. I cry almost everyother day and just keep praying that he will change. He will NEVER sit down and talk to me unless he is drinking if we are both drinking it all comes out and we fight it’s so bad to the point that nobody will go out with us anymore. I have asked him to please sit down we need communication and he says it’s better to just not say anything and not fight. I tell him that that’s what a relationship is communication. We DON’T have that.When we go out we get kickied out where ever we are we fight so bad. He’s 27 and I am 25 I have changed my job for him I have moved for him that’s another thing I don’t know anyone where I live now besides his friends.That’s another question, is that why I hold on and keep praying. I am scared to be alone no family or friends it’s so hard. It’s getting to the point I feel like I am trying for nothing. I know he’s a great guy I just need help. Like counceling. The money isn’t anything to me it’s alot of money, but money doesn’t buy LOVE I can’t get him to go with me I know if I tricked him it would work..I am putting out and get nothing in return besides getting broke down. I want to turn to my mom to talk to her about it, but I don’t want her to not like him I have my friends but they are sick of telling me to leave. It’s easy for them to say I love him and I KNOW that the only way he won’t be a old lonely man is help like this. I am not saying I am perfect I have issues too, but I came out of a abussive relationship and I know that mental is just as bad. I just want to be happy again. I know he can change but he just won’t talk about anything and he thinks it’s better that way. So please please I am BEGGING you I need your help please….because my boyfriend is just A TOOL BAG!!!!!!!!

  • philomena Says:

    how do i apply for tool academy?

  • Michelle Says:

    Hi, I am the mother of an 18 year old daughter and she is dating a 19 year old tool! He is a very polite boy when he is around me but he does get pretty mean to my daughter to where he makes her cry and he tells her to suck it up. He has girls call his cell phone and tells my daughter that he does not want her to look at his phone because it would make her mad, that tells her right there that there is something in there that will make her mad. He is a very good looking boy and i really dont doubt that girls are attracted to him, but he needs to stop it. Hes is hurting my daughter tremendously! He is only into himself and his car and his money. He is very selfish and arrogant. I really do think he needs to be a part of the next tool academy because he needs to learn to be a little bit more considerate of other peoples feelings, like my daughters. He also needs to stop having all these boy night outs so much. If my daughter has a girls night out he always ends up showing up to where she is, but if she showed up where he was he gets mad at her and tells her to leave. Please, please, please consider my letter to you, it would be well worth it.

  • Cigi Says:

    Dear vh1… I have been watching tool academy and its really upseting because I relate to every one of those women on the show my boyfriend is so disrespectful to me and lies constantly! I love him so much but the things that he has done in our relationship puts a huge gap between us. He has cheated on me with 4 girls that I know of and got one pregnant he says he loves me and I really think he does he just really has issues that he needs help with. I mean this man I would give my life for and am asking for ur help for myself my daughter and his Daughter because our kids deserve better in life! I am the type that I could never ask him to not see the child he has made since we have been together so when its born it gonna take a bigger toll on us!! He just needs to see wut he does to other people!! He is so ~$!`)+`$~~(!~(`$ y thinks the world of himself and is such a jerk to “people” in general!! I’m begging u please help me help him!
    Sincerly yours,
    Cigi

  • Cigi Says:

    Dear vh1… I have been watching tool academy and its really upseting because I relate to every one of those women on the show my boyfriend is so disrespectful to me and lies constantly! I love him so much but the things that he has done in our relationship puts a huge gap between us. He has cheated on me with 4 girls that I know of and got one pregnant he says he loves me and I really think he does he just really has issues that he needs help with. I mean this man I would give my life for and am asking for ur help for myself my daughter and his Daughter because our kids deserve better in life! I am the type that I could never ask him to not see the child he has made since we have been together so when its born it gonna take a bigger toll on us!! He just needs to see wut he does to other people!! He is so +^`!)_^`(^^~^)$` y thinks the world of himself and is such a jerk to “people” in general!! I’m begging u please help me help him!
    Sincerly yours,
    Cigi

  • Cigi Says:

    Dear vh1… I have been watching tool academy and its really upseting because I relate to every one of those women on the show my boyfriend is so disrespectful to me and lies constantly! I love him so much but the things that he has done in our relationship puts a huge gap between us. He has cheated on me with 4 girls that I know of and got one pregnant he says he loves me and I really think he does he just really has issues that he needs help with. I mean this man I would give my life for and am asking for ur help for myself my daughter and his Daughter because our kids deserve better in life! I am the type that I could never ask him to not see the child he has made since we have been together so when its born it gonna take a bigger toll on us!! He just needs to see wut he does to other people!! He is so +%_$)@*#)%%~%_@+ y thinks the world of himself and is such a jerk to “people” in general!! I’m begging u please help me help him!
    Sincerly yours,
    Cigi

  • eboni Says:

    VH1 i need help with my boyfriend an i beleave you guys can help us with our realationship…we have been together for four years an we have a baby boy we dont have a car we dont have a place of our own we go back an fourth from livin with someone in his family to living back with our parents…an its gettin old already…i beleave tool academy will help him learn how to grow up already…because if he doesnt im leaving..thank you eboni

  • Jay Says:

    I really really need to be on your show…. I think my Bf needs to become a man, and stop relying on his “alter-ego” to take the blame for his mistakes and insecurities…. Please I’m begging you. If he doesn’t shape up soon…Im going to have to walk, and I don’t want to, but he needs to learn to appreciate, and love me as much as I love him…. Please Help Me,and our Future!!!! Thanks VH1…Please consider us!!!! I know he can change, he just needs your help!!!

  • Jay C. Says:

    VH1,I am in desperate need of your help… My Bf, is a definitely a tool right now, and its time that he let go of his ” alter-ego” and start taking responsibility for his own actions. He refers to himself as his last name when he does something that is wrong…He didn’t do it, his “alter-ego” did. Im tired of it,and I can’t take it any longer. And if he can’t change…I don’t know what will happen. Its about time for him to appreciate and love me, the way that I love him. His family and my family agree… VH1, you may be the only one that can help me. I know that he can do it, he just can’t do it alone…. Thank you and please consider us!!! VH1 we need you, our future needs you….

  • Candice fitzgerald Says:

    Hi i wanted to get on the tool acamdey 3 i have watched 1 and 2 and the one show said u were taking casting so really quick me ad my boyfriend Casey Shown have been together for 8 1/2 years and we are 23 yrs old say hight school sweethearts…Casey has got to be the bam to the party he has to be the guy everyone wants to talk to i wish he remeber why we fell in love or be truthful and say you dont any more am tired of wasting my time and feelings i want him to prove himself to me and himself in his world he is right and i watch the stuff u guys do on the show and i want that i just want to be loved again or let him know he is a tool if you could plz help it would mean my world and my heart i just dont know what to do at this point nothing is working but i love him and i want to know that he still loves me

  • Josephine Says:

    vh1 please help me!!! i think my boyfriend needs tool academy. his bigest problem is you cant make him happy, he is very very and i mean very angrey all the time i dont understand it. i think he needs someone to explain the real world to him. he needs your help…are you up for the challange?

  • mattie Says:

    when is the new show starts

  • katherine feliciano Says:

    hi , umm im having a problem . my boyfriend is 19 he did not graduate from high school due 2 fighting and the streets , he has been locked up 4 times since we been together and we been together 4 2 years now i dont know wat to do i love him very much . he is a very good person in side. one more thing he loves girls other than me , that makes me sick the way he talks about them . please tool academy help me !!!!!
    sincerly,
    kathereine feliciano

  • Erin Says:

    Tool Academy 3

    It’s so infuriating to see how many other women put up with tools in their lives. Sometimes you can’t help who you love right? But I’m at the end of my rope and I need some desperate help with my boyfriend. We have a 16 month old son together and we’ve been together for almost 3 years.

    It wasn’t always so horrible, it was amazing at first (isn’t that one of the main reasons we don’t want to let them go?) We’ve been through so much that I can’t even look at him sometimes when it plays in my head. He tells me horrible things about myself like “I wish you WOULD die” when I’m sick… his favorite pet name for me is “bitch/skank”… He’s physically been abusive before (for over a year) and we’ve been making progress… He makes fun of me for crying and tells my son bad things about me… He has so much potential though… I don’t know why he does this…

    I can’t trust him, he has explosive anger, he believes women get everything handed to them and expect to be served and wants to do everything against what he feels plays along with that. No chivalry (he’s selfish and stingy), he’s unkind (he told me that he would smile because he was happy he got to hurt me physically)… no romance (EVER- never a single christmas or birthday present… but that’s not so big a deal… it’s just expression of emotion I’m looking for). The physical abuse has gotten better but still needs work… he needs a real kick is the @$$

    Then he’ll turn around and say ‘I love you’. I don’t think I’m mentally able to continue this but he is so amazing to our son it’s crazy to think he can be so evil to me.

    We both need our work, but he is so two-faced it drives me insane… he acts quiet and reserved at work… then takes out everything on me behind closed doors. I have every inch of faith that William has potential… he’s shown it countless times… but he is so derogatory and cruel to me… if I can’t get some help with our relationship I don’t know what will happen to my family. And this is only a small glimpse into my every day life with him. We work together and come home… I have nothing else but this evil degrading bull to listen to and most of his word could tear down even the strongest will.

    Please help us, there’s really no other option. This is hell.

  • Rebecca Hill Says:

    My name is rebecca hill and i wanted to ask if i can b on tool academy because i live with my ex girlfriend and i wanna male things better but dont know were to turn

  • natasha Says:

    dear tool academy, my “tool” and i have been dating for a year and a half, he spends more time infront of the mirror then i do, hes so selfish and can’t help but tell every girl he meets how well endowed he is. its obnoxious and embarrasing. He can’t wait to take me out in public to a quiet restaurant so he can express his flatulance, its the only time he will pretend to want to spend time with me. he makes it a point to experiment with his flatulance, he makes a fanning motion behind him !*+#%$*)+_!+&&( when hes done and goes around asking everyone if they can smell that? He was a marine and any time he comes up against any other government force he will argue until he is blue in the face about how much better the marines are. He goes to a bar and drags his frinds into fights, he thinks he can drink alot of alcohol but every weekend its me taking care of him in the bathtub. I know he loves me, and i love him sooo much that i don’t see any other option. He wont take any other steps to fix my unhappiness

  • JESSICA Says:

    PUT ME ON TOOL ACADMY. THE LOVE OF MY LIFE IS A BIGGER TOOL THEN ALL THESE PREVIOUS TOOLS PUT TOGETHER

  • tori Says:

    how do i audition?

  • Tiffany Says:

    I wanted to know how I can enter my boyfriend of 3 years into the tool academy? Our once perfect relationship has slowly been falling apart. We started out with a lot of obsticles; age difference (I am 35 he is 28) he was a total player and partier and I am a reformed party goer and recovering addict, I am his boss at work and trying to climb up the corp. ladder and he has become complacent in standing and staying right where he is. Our once determination to overcome our obsticles has now turned into a fight I seem to be fighting alone most of the time. I now totally question his love and commitment to me. At one time he was the one fighting for me and us,now it seems he is giving up and now I am totally desperate to fight the battle and want to save us. Please help, how do I get Antonio into the tool academy?

  • Tiffany Says:

    Ok so here is the ugly truth, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we are falling apart. He chased me until he won over my heart. Yes we started off with obsticles in our way but were determined to to to overcome them all. (I am 8 years older, he was a partier player and I am a reformed party goer, I am his boss) He says he loves me and wants it to work, but I question now if it is all true. I now question his love and loyality. He has stopped communicating and seems to become the selfish man I never knew. I feel that once we were working together to make it all work but now I feel as if I am fighting the battle alone. Please Please help. How do I get my tool of a boyfriend on tool academy and get us the help we need?

  • luCy Says:

    vh1 i need your help please tell me how i can sighn my babys dad up for tool academy i really cant take thisz anymore and i think i f i leave him that my baby wont have a dad in his life please help me vh1

  • Brittany Says:

    Dear Trina,
    My name is Brittany and I am 21 years old. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year and he recently moved away to a different college eight hours away after he has basically lived with me since we starting going out because he could not stand being at home. Him leaving was the worst thing in the world to us because we were inseperable while we were together.
    Since he has left he has become very short with me and very irritable. I am a full time college student and also hold down a full time waitressing job to pay for my rent, bills, school, and any extra I can save so that I am able to go visit him. He has been away for about three months and I have only traveled to see him once, but since that time things have gotten so bad between us that all we do is argue, fight, bicker, and rip each other apart basically. I have been called every name in the book and nothing I do is ever right unless it is exactly what he wants or how he wants it done.
    He makes me feel so insecure and stupid about myself that I don’t know where to turn. I know I should never have to put up with someone treating me like that but I cannot help but be still madly head over heels for him.
    Recently I have cancelled holiday plans with my family and took off work for an entire week so that way I was able to travel up and be with him for a couple days. But since I have made all those plans and it is a week till I am suppose to leave, the fighting has just gotten worse than it ever has. He gets so upset with me that I went out with a couple girls from work to a party one night and he ended up flipping the whole situation around and decided since I was not at home talking to him constantly that he was going to go out and have fun. All I know about that night is that he went to another girls apartment alone with her and passed out there. I am so scared to even think or imagine what happened that I keep denying it.
    Since that night all he keeps telling me is how he can’t trust me anymore and how he’s having these dreams that I’m cheating when I have done nothing. He has told me that he doesn’t even know if he wants me comming up and seeing him over the holidays, and I’m just scared that something is going on behind my back and I don’t know what to do or what to believe anyomre. I need to be treated better and I just want him to be like he used to towards me, he was my prince charming and would do anything for me before. Is there any chance that I’m wishing and dreaming too much or will the old him come back. Has him moving away really changed him for the worse? I need help desperately.

  • amanda smith Says:

    my boyfriend is always naked, eats bananas in his bed and makes a mess. he smells so i dont know how he cheats on me, but he does. he claims that he is a womenizer and he drinks to much beer. im a good girl that works hard and deserves better, pick him up.

  • matt smith Says:

    what do i have to do to sign my boy friend up for the tool academy?

  • Emilie Says:

    Dear VH1-
    I am currently in a long term relationship with my boyfreind and we recently watched VH1, The Tool Academy and I have come to the conclusion that my boyfreind needs to be on this show. He LOVES, I mean loves to work out and never wants to spend any time with me unless it is working out, looking at himself in the mirror or buying stuff for him with MY money. He hasn’t had a job in years but some how always finds a way to get what he wants out of me. He has a very loud mouth and bosses me and everyone else around. Here are some of his beliefs: He thinks men are better than women, men can never be wrong and that women are put on this earth strictly for his pleasure. Recently, we made a trip to his mother’s house because he was sick (as you can tell he can’t take care of himself). The whole entire time we were there he was bossing his mother around like a slave, even to the extent to scream across the house for her to come and fix his pillow. He feels that since he is Asian, that he can get away with anything, and do anything, and refers to himself as the Asian Invasion. For example, This past halloween he dressed up to go to a party together as “The Perfect Man!”. Please, PLEASE Vh1, help me and consider having my boyfreind come on this show. If our relationship continues down this path I don’t think I will be able to continue on in this manner. I am at my wits end and don’t know what next step to take other than have him be on this program. Help me!

  • Donna Says:

    Hello vh1,
    I don’t know if a female could be a tool but I think my girlfriend is. I’ve watched both seasons and I know she is worse than any of the guys you’ve had on the show thus far. I desperately need your help. We’ve been together almost three years but its only been this past year that she even introduces me as her girlfriend, so messed up huh!!! I don’t know how to apply for season three but please let me know asap!!! She’s a great person and I love her to death but she’s breaking my heart. Please let me know!!!

  • Donna Renee Says:

    Hello vh1,
    I don’t know if a female could be a tool but I think my girlfriend is. I’ve watched both seasons and I know she is worse than any of the guys you’ve had on the show thus far. I desperately need your help. We’ve been together almost three years but its only been this past year that she even introduces me as her girlfriend, so messed up huh!!! I don’t know how to apply for season three but please let me know asap!!! She’s a great person and I love her to death but she’s breaking my heart.

  • Donna Renee Says:

    Hello vh1,
    I don’t know if a female could be a tool but I think my girlfriend is. I’ve watched both seasons and I know she is worse than any of the guys you’ve had on the show thus far. We’ve been together almost three years but its only been this past year that she even introduces me as her girlfriend, so messed up huh!!! I don’t know how to apply for season three but please let me know asap!!! She’s a great person and I love her to death but she’s breaking my heart.

  • marie blessing Says:

    My name is Marie and I am 23 years old I am a mother of twin baby girls that are 10 months old. My boyfriend of seven years is there father and i would like to know how to enroll him in the upcoming season of tool academy. His name is addam and I truely do love him and want to make things work for the benefit of my children and myself but he can never hold down a job cause he doesnt want to work he is constantly cheating on me with girls over the internet or girls he meets from other people. Then he makes me feel like crap and puts all the blame on me addam is 22 yrs old all he wants to do is party and leave me all alone to take care of our twins 24/7 I already feel like a single mom I dont want to feel that way we are sopposed to be together. He has a lieing problem he constantly makes up these outstanding lies then when he is found in them he lies to cover them up. Im the first girl that has gotten the truth out of him at times. He even lies to his mother and makes up lies about her. I cry every day for a better father for my daughters and a better man for meI know he can change and be the man he can be. when he is nice he is so incredible nice wanting to do everything for me. My mother hates him for all that he has and still is doing to me and his daughters. My mother has to support me and my girls because he can never hold down a job and I did have really good job but had to let it go cause baby b was sick with phenomonia and acute bronchiolitis and he wasnt giving her, her medicine so I left to make sure she would be ok and give her what she needed. These are our first babies and one baby is hard but we had two. When he is home all he wants to do is play video games or have people over and ignore me. I worked for seven years sometimes two jobs 70 hours a week sopporting him even when I was pregnant i worked two jobs till i was 5 months pregnant and worked up till a week the girls were due. even when I was pregnant he would treat me this way. He tells me all the time that he truely does love me and only wants to be with me and is willing to change but doesnt. I truely dont know what to do anymore and we need help for the benefit of us and our kids cause I cant stand to live like this anymore. Its either he gets help and change or me and our daughters are not going to be there for him. So please can you help me and tell me how to apply for this show. thankyou for your time

  • sharlene Says:

    hello vh1,
    im sharlene and im 19 years old and i need a lot of help. My boyfriend is 20 and he always got something to do he dont really spend time with me. He talks to mad girls on his myspace and aim…he takes forever to come see me and he never wanna sit down and talk he always wanna drop it but when we do talk he be the one doing all the talking and then he just wanna get up and leave n he wont talk to me to the next day, We been together for about 2 years, well we just got back together cause he cheated on my with some girl n got her preganant not once but twice he was’nt going to tell me, i had to find out by her. He left her cause he found out he wasnt in love with her so he came back to me. and he told he he changed n he will never cheat on me again but i think he still is. Im really in love with this man i dont kno why he just make we so happy when we together and he makes me feel like im the only one for him n when he gets money he spends it all on me but i dont not kno where he gets money from cause he dont work n he still live with his mother, he tells me he looking for a job but i still dont see him do nothing. im still going to school im about to finish this year n im looking for a job but i cant do this by myself…and when i go to school all i think about is “is he cheating on me” n i dont wanna be thinking that i wanna trust him n i wanna see how much i really do love him please vh1 help him reslize that being on this show can help us out a lot so we both can see how much we love each other. so please help me i know you can i just dont kno what to do. thank you vh1

  • summer Says:

    my name is summer i am writing this letter because i can see the relationship my boyfriend and i have is falling apart and the worst thing about it is we have a 7 month old daughter.she adores her father and i don’t believe she should have to grow up without him he is a good father at times but if he does not learn to be a good boyfriend also i dont think were going to last much longer i really want him to be the person he used to be. when we first got together he was a really loving and caring person but now i feel like our daughter and i are not important to him anymore he hardly includes us into his life and he acts like his friends are more important to him than his family i want him to be the loving and caring person i know he can be but he cant do it alone and i don’t think it matters to him what i say but i know he doesn’t want to loose us he just does not know how to treat us anymore please help our relationship before it is too late my boyfriend is a “tool” i want him to be a man . we truly and sincerely need your help!

  • sam Says:

    okay im the girlfriend and im the tool, my boyfriends great and i want to work on that

  • Sarah Says:

    Steve, I have been with my current boyfriend for two years but he doesn’t seem to love me the way that I do him. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. From the beginning there’s been other girls coming and going that I question if he has stayed faithful or not. But it makes no sense because I have been there for him whether it was driving 2 hours at 4:00 in the morning because he was taken to the hospital, having to wait 2 hours to see him and I never left his side. Two years and he doesn’t want to marry me just wants me to live with him and I don’t get it. I’m ready to settle down and get married but he doesn’t want to and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. This has caused major issues in our relationship. Can you save us? Please we need help!!

  • Sarah C. Says:

    My name is Sarah am 20 almost 21 and I have been with Ryan (22) for 2 years. From the beginning there has always been another girl- 4 total and I don’t know if he is truly being faithful to me. He flirts constantly even when Im around. He doesn’t care when he hurts my feelings he just gets mad at me like its my fault. I have been by his side for everything. Drove 2 hours in the middle of the night to have to wait in the waiting room for 2 hours to get to see him in the hospital and not once did i leave his side. I have been nothing but faithful to Ryan and been there for him, but he hasn’t done the same- atleast i dont believe so. There have been so many girls that haven’t “known” about me and I’ve been his “girlfriend” for 2 years. WE NEED YOUR HELP!!

  • Chris Says:

    I think this show sucks!!!!!! And does not really work and is a waste of time!!!!!

  • amber Says:

    my man is the biggest tool ever!!i need tool academy to fix our relationship other wise i dont feel this will last.and i love him with all my heart and want to spend my life with him…we need help..

  • stephanie Says:

    omg. i would really like to know how to apply for this show. my boyfriend is actually one of the biggest tools ever. after actually watching this show, ive realized there may actually be some hope for us. i love him so much but i hate the way he acts and treats me. so please tell me how i can apply

  • lucia vargas Says:

    yes um.. i reallyy need tool academy . i have been wit my boyfriend for 4 years . yes he is a real big loser we have crazy problems i dont knoe wat to do i dont want to loose my realtionship becuz i have a baby wit him i want him to realize how important a famliy is please e-mail me the sign up papers so i can sign my stupid boyfriend up please !

  • kara Says:

    Please vh1 I need to enroll my boyfriend of two years into the tool academy. I garantee he will top anyone who has ever been enrolled into tool academy!!! He has cheated,lied put me and my kids down,put my friends and family down, he is so into himself it makes me sick.His mother and her twin sister baby him and I mean full extent. Hes constantly doing wrong and they get him out of everything,fix everything. He has smashed 5 of my phones intentionally never paid for any like he said. Also took my car without permission wrecked it him and his mother swore theyd pay if I didnt press charges, so me being a kind person and an idiot I believed them. My two kids and I went 6 weeks without a car while he was out partying and stripclubs. My car was never paid for and my grandfather who is paying my grandmothers medical bills ended up having to pay 600dollars for my car to get out of shop and my boyfriend has no guilt at all. He mentally and physically abuses me and damages my property. Threatens me with other girls and how much better he can do. He does not have a job and I have bills to pay unlike him and he still throws a fit to take my little bit of money I have. Its so bad its to the point he will eat all my food in my home and smoke all my cigarettes and expect me to buy pack after pack. He has punched my windshield out of my car, my radio.It is christmas time and he has been promising that he was going to help me get my two children presents and has yet to do so but tells me today that he has 100doll in his account from his mother and is spending it on supplements to work out hes beyond into him self and SELFISH that was the last straw and made me decide to write you. I mean it goes on and on and it hasnt even been a full two years yet. I dont know what else to do with him. I try to leave him but he goes crazy and just shows up and blows my phone up. He needs help. He has put me down so bad I dont even want to wake up in the mornings nor go anywhere. All my friends and family hate him and I dont talk to them barely because when Im with him im not allowed to have friends. I have done everything for his entire family and his mother has even harassed me and wrote terrible things to me because my boyfriend and I was fighting. She gets into everything. He would be probably one of the best guys to enroll into the Tool Academy. His name is Eryk Graham hes 22 years old lives at home with his mother in Tipp City no job drives a new envoy that his aunt gave him and just gets everything handed to him. Im Kara English 22 mother of two great children and live on my own in West Milton except when hes there mooching everyday!Please get him the help he needs!

  • loretta Says:

    vh1 my boyfriend needs to be on tool academy because he is such a selfish man he likes to show off in front of people and especially women he always thinks Im tryin to put him down and dont think I should be helping with anthing that he thinks a man can do. we been together 6 years and he just dont seem to want to chance that attitude he has a nice heart at time but, he dont want anyone to see it he keeps it between us. thank you for the opportunity

  • jalissa Says:

    Hi im jalisa i really need some relationship guideness. I believe i have the biggest (a**hole)of them all.I’m so inlove his name is mychael,we been 2gether for 11months.I’ts just 2 the point now i just wan’t to give up.But i’m not one 2 give up easy so tool academy help me pleassssssssssss.

  • Will Reed Says:

    HE NEEDS TO BE ON THIS SHOW ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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