The Celebreality Interview – Bay Bay Bay

“While looking at myself [on the show], sometimes I’m like, ‘Damn. Why don’t you shut up?’” Bay Bay Bay tells us, proving she has a sense of humor about herself in the interview below. Real’s first runner-up also talks about why she wasn’t heartbroken when Real eliminated her, what she thinks of Real now, the strategy she employed to stay on this show for as long as she did and why she considers herself a bitch…sometimes!

What did you think of your portrayal on the show?

I think it was kinda bad. It portrayed me as a bitch. I was bad, but I wasn’t that bad. But I guess someone had to be the bad guy. I was the only one at the time that would speak my mind 100 percent.

Although you weren’t bad at all when Real eliminated you. You handled that was surprising grace.

That’s just the person that I am, and that should show the viewers a different side of me. That’s the person I was the whole time. But what they showed was me ranting and raving and being an aggressive individual, when that’s totally out of my character.

But you did rant and rave. Was it the situation of being on a reality show that made you act out of character?

Yes. When you have a woman that will stand beside you at all costs and you pass her up for a woman who’s crying and ready to leave, it kind of shows what you’re looking for. You’re not really looking for a woman that’s going to be there for the rest of your life. You’re looking for right now.

Was the show stressful?

Yeah. That’s one of the reasons I stayed with my Bible. It was my only source of strength.

Were you upset at all to be eliminated?

No, at that point, I already knew what Real’s decision was. Going into elimination I knew it wasn’t going to be me. I knew where his heart was. I was already over it.

At what point did you realize this?

Maybe before Milf left. The signs were clear. I think I would have rather him taken Milf on the finale. There was truly no connection between him and I. The connection he had with Milf was much stronger. Why he kept me around, I’m not too sure.

But you said you loved him.

Yeah, I love him as a person, but as far as being in love, no. I guess it took me leaving the show to realize that.

If you had gone before Milf, that really would have pissed you off, though, right?

Oh yeah, it would have pissed me off, but in the end, I would have felt a little better about the situation. Milf would have had a fair chance with Corn Fed. With me, I feel like I didn’t have a fair chance because he’d already chosen. Once Milf left, he’d made his selection. There was nothing left for me to do but ride it out and enjoy Puerto Rico.

Much was made of your lack of a physical connection with Real. What was up with that?

There was no opportunity on his end to make a physical connection with me. He was chasing behind women who were of weaker stature. Women who weren’t sure what they wanted. Women who were ready to pack their bags and leave. Real didn’t want a strong woman. He wasn’t ready for a real relationship.

You said on the show you were willing to be hurt by him, but in the end you were not.

Yeah, any woman will tell you what you want to hear. You’re in a situation where you’re in a competition and you want to win and you know he’s already made the choice. I wanted to let him know that if he thought I was a little too hard that I could be hurt. If it wasn’t written on my face, I wanted to make sure he knew that.

How has it been dealing with viewers after being pegged as the villain?

For the most part, I’ve gotten more love than anything else. You can get a hater if you walk to the store and you don’t have on the right outfit. A person is going to hate on you because they’re not happy with themselves. For me, I just take it as, OK: keep hating because all you’re doing is making me famous. I think people try to get under my skin. If they only knew that it makes me more of a bitch or more strong-minded and outspoken, I think they’d stop hating.

Do you consider yourself a bitch?

Oh yeah, definitely. In certain aspects of life. When it comes down to it, if I need to be, hey, why not? No offense to Corn Fed, Cali and Risky because we get along very well, but what would the show have been, honestly, if I wasn’t there? I don’t mean to sound conceited or stuck-up, but if I wasn’t there, it wouldn’t have been a show to watch. People have to look at it in that aspect and say, “She didn’t win, but hey, she was a bitch who gave us a very, very good show.”

Were you aware of your contribution to good TV while the cameras were rolling, or is this something made clear in hindsight?

I was aware of a lot, but then again, while looking at myself sometimes I’m like, “Damn. Why don’t you shut up?”

What was it about Milf that you disliked so much? It seemed personal.

Actually, none of it was personal. It was all just the truth. Everything that I said about her was the truth. She assassinated herself in this situation. I just helped her. The thing about it is everyone else on the show didn’t like her either. People had so much to say at the reunion. But in that situation, I was the one made out to be the enforcer or the aggressor. Whenever they had a problem with her, they came to me.

You were against her even before she got on Risky, though. It was confusing because she didn’t seem to be an aggressive personality.

She always had something negative to say. She was very sneaky and conniving. I’m not sure why they didn’t show her that way, why they didn’t assassinate her character the way they tried to assassinate mine. But she was always a negative force, always a negative person in the house. It’s hard for me to explain because you don’t see any of that. All you see is me going at her, when it was so opposite. I wasn’t even on Milf till maybe the sixth episode. And then when you look at her and you think of all the things she’s done, talking about she’s a single mother and she had to do these things for her son, when there were tons of single mothers in the house and in America that do things in a more legit way. Her excuses were a bunch of crap.

Beyond martyrdom, was she nasty? Did she make comments?

Oh yeah. Milf always had something to say. She didn’t really say anything to me, because I think she was a little frightened. But she was very, very cruel to Corn Fed, always getting on her for never having been with a black man. She was just horrible. It’s hard to explain.

What did you make of the race question about Corn Fed?

Hey, to each their own. If she had never been with a black man, hopefully she got her chance.

You said Real was the “epitome of what a man should be.” Is he?

That was competition talk. After watching Real now and the entire show, I sit back and ask myself, “What the hell was I thinking?”

What was made clear to you watching it back that wasn’t while you were taping?

Commentary and things like that.

What do you think of him today?

Not much. He’s a cool individual, but not much.

On the finale, there was the suggestion that you two were intimate. And then it seemed that you were rubbing it in Corn Fed’s face. Care to clarify?

I was talking about Cali when I said that you can tell when a person talks all night because their face is completely fresh, or when a person…doesn’t talk all night. I think that was misconstrued.

You did say that you had a hard night.

That was just to make Corn Fed sweat.

Was the show a positive experience for you?

Oh yeah. It was very positive. The doors it’s opened after is far better than anything I could have ask for. That’s what I’m happy about.

What opportunities have come as a result?

Other TV shows. Sitcoms. Hopefully, I’ll write a book soon. I’m just doing a lot of things I didn’t think I would be able to do or that would have taken me longer had I not appeared on the show.

You have a role on a sitcom?

I can’t talk about it, but if it comes through, I’ll definitely let you guys know.

So what do you think: are Corn Fed and Real going to last?

No. I would hope so, but I think they’re just too different.

Has this experience soured you on reality TV?

I wouldn’t refrain from doing a reality show, but I would advise people to steer clear of doing an …of Love show, unless you’re 100 percent ready for what you’re getting yourself into. I’d do I Love Money, though. And I’d win it all.

Keep up with Bay Bay Bay via her FamousVH1Friends.com profile and her MySpace.

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102 responses to to The Celebreality Interview – Bay Bay Bay

Desiree January 14, 2009 at 11:45 pm

HAPPY U LOST, U ARE STUPID AND HE DID NOT LIKE U. HE WAS WAY IN2 MILF. HE WAS NOT FEELING U. HE WAS NOT ATTRACTED 2 U. U WERE A FINALIST BY DEFAULT, U WAS ALMOST ELIMINATED & TALKED YOUR WAY 2 STAY.
I WISH I WAS MILF, I WOULD HAVE BEAT THE $$^@)“%(#+`_&~) OUT OF U. UGLY HARD JEALOUS +$#$@#$`~)@~)+!)#

tja January 15, 2009 at 12:54 am

Bay Bay Bay, I can definitely appreciate your intelligence and ability to speak like you have some sense. But PLEASE learn when to stop talking if you want to be in any long term relationship! That will be the death of your relationship every time.

Real was not into you but that was probably more to do with how much and how loud you talked than looks or anything else. Real could not handle being with someone like Bay Bay Bay. I could imagine him running to his brother or mama for help to deal with you.

I think it was sooo wrong for him to bring you to the finale (not because you were not a good woman), but because he just was not that into you and EVERYONE knew that. So I hear you, enjoy the free trip and dinners and whatever perks you can milk out of this experience!!!! Good luck…

sunflower_27828 January 15, 2009 at 12:57 am

Ay Bay Bay……I’ve been a supporter of yours the whole season. I hope you know Real did you a favor by picking Corn Fed. You are too strong of a woman to be with a man who needs a woman who cries at the drop of a hat and runs at the first sign of conflict. Please don’t feel let down because he chose the weak woman, that’s a reflection on him. He knows he is NOT man enough to handle you or control you. NEVER apologize for having a BACKBONE or a MIND!!!!! And please take it as a compliment when people blog negatively about you. When you get that strong of a reaction, its because you’ve struck a nerve. You looked absolutely stunning in that blue gown at Elimination, you were hands down the best dressed lady. I started the season being a fan of Real’s, but after watching some of the extra videos, he has shown himself to be a pompous liar. You might have stood a better chance with Chance, because he doesn’t pretend to be a gentleman like Real. With Chance, what you see is what you get……which unfortunately is NOTHING. lol Don’t feel bad about Real badmouthing you, I know you’ve seen how he dogs Rabbitt. It’s because you 2 intimidate him. Again, keep your head up and work those connections you got from the show. I’ll be looking to hear BIG things from ya!!!!!!!!!!!!

sunflower_27828 January 15, 2009 at 1:15 am

Ay Bay Bay…..1 more thing…..It wasn’t your excessive talking or your loud talking that was a problem. Your problem was you weren’t BLONDE!!!!!! I know you noticed that Milf and Corn Fed received the first chains regularly. I absolutely believe that Milf was his “fireworks” but she messed up when she “snitched.” Before he would admit that he had indeed told Milf that lie about Risky, he let her go. Right then, Real showed me he was a liar. Also, when he eliminated Milf, he said he was feeling a spark with you and he wanted to explore it, and even later he said you 2 were connecting, but at elimination he said you 2 never had a connection. The man is a BOLD, baldfaced liar. If he was Real, he would’ve stood up for Milf and said, Yea Risky, I told her that. But, being the liar that he is, he put the woman out there. And how about him talking about Rabbitt and her alledged beard in Puerto Rico. Girl, you were the winner, Real is NO prize, looking like the Cowardly Lion with those curls. He works my LAST nerve. How would you say it……Real is SCANDOLOUS!!!!! But, for all the lying and drama, I am ready for the REUNION SHOW, I hope you set that little man straight!!!! And don’t let him sweet talk you either, but if he invites you to Real Chance of Love 2, take it girl, Get those Freebies!!!!!!!!!lol

Dwayne January 15, 2009 at 6:07 am

After she lost Bay Bay Bay said she’s raising the bar of expectations for men that want to get with her. I guess she’s going to become more crazy than she already is.

jeaniefrmthblck January 15, 2009 at 7:14 am

Bay Bay Bay You are smart, outspoken and beautiful. I loved your confidence you showed throughout the season. To me he chose the wrong person, it appeared that he wanted someone to control. Keep it moving! Chi Town

aisia January 15, 2009 at 9:56 am

maybe next time you won’t spend so much time bashing other people…

bookie January 15, 2009 at 10:07 am

$)%_+&*)^`__&+#& it was __&!^%%(*$#+&(^$ up how real di her but $)%_+&*)^`__&+#& i would find me some one else

KAY KAY January 15, 2009 at 11:44 am

BAY BAY BAY YOUR PLANS OF TRYING TO GET MILF ELIMINATED BACKFIRED ON YOUR BIG LIPPED TWEETY BIRD LOOKING #)%$(##^)`~(@@( YOU WERE SO BUSY BASHING MILF AND TRYING TO BREAK HER DOWN, INSTEAD OF CONNECTING WITH REAL. TRUE REAL DOESNT WANT A STRONG WILLED WOMAN, BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOUR A INSTIGATING #`+(+)$_%_+%~+@^ STARTING )&_*`%`^)(_&_+*#( MILF SHOULD HAVE WHOOPED YOUR #)%$(##^)`~(@@( FOR GETING IN YOUR FACE. YOU TALKING ABOUT MILF WAS A LITTLE SCARED OF YOU BECAUSE SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING TO YOU, THATS A DAMN LIE. AS YOU SEE WHEN YOU GOT IN MILF’S FACE, SHE DEFENDED HERSELF. I’VE NEVER DID PORN EVER IN MY LIFE, BUT MILF HAD TO DO WHAT SHE HAD TO DO IN ORDER TO KEEP FOOD IN HER SON’S MOUTH, AND CLOTHES ON HIS BACK, AND A ROOF OVER THEIR HEAD. BAY BAY BAY YOU HAVE NO ~&_@*^*`!`^^!%~~ ING RIGHT TO JUDGE MILF, BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE BEING A SINGLE PARENT. IM A SINGLE PARENT MYSELF, AND I AM DOING POSITIVE THINGS TO CONTINUE BEING A GOOD INFLUENCE ON MY DAUGHTER. I CANT WAIT TO WATCH THE REUNION AND I HOPE MILF )&_*`%`^)(_&_+*#( SLAPS THE ~&_@*^*`!`^^!%~~ OUT OF YOU. AS FOR WHAT JEANIEFRMTHBLCK SAID, BAY BAY BAY ISNT BEAUTIFUL AT ALL, AND NO IM NOT HATING. SHE HAS BIG AS TWEETY BIRD LIPS, AND A PEANUT SIZED HEAD. MY ADVICE TO YOU BAY BAY BAY, PLEASE LEARN TO SHUT THE HELL UP SOMETIMES, OR NO MAN AINT GO WANT YOUR LOUD MOUTH TALKING #)%$(##^)`~(@@( YOU NEED TO GROW THE HELL UP, AND STOP BASHING OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR FREE TIME.

tequila January 15, 2009 at 12:08 pm

bay bay bay, she talk entirely too much. maybe if she would have kept her mouth closed she would have gotten picked. dont get me wrong, shes a very nice woman and very confident but sometimes its better to sit back and watch then to stand up and down talk everyone

sista soula January 15, 2009 at 1:02 pm

Although Bay Bay Bay did talk a bit too much. She stood her grounds when it came to MILF. Milf was a old nasty douchebag. For Real to even consider having a washed up porn star, amongst his family, tells us his whole story. Real obviously has never been with a white girl, so this was his big chance. He will see that they are just for sex.( he is in for a rude awakening,,they smell like dogs).
Corn Fed will be retuned to sender, all used up. I don’t know why any real sista would want to be with Real or Chance for that matter. They both are corny uncke -tom ranch hands.
I see why New York sent them both *@+@`#))&*##^~$`! ng. I also see why HOOPZ laughed her azz off when Real proposed to her. BBB, you go on with your life and find a real brother , who can handle a strong blk woman. Find a man who doesn’t have a identity issue, like that big butt real. He has more butt then a woman. And he needs to cut that hair. I love my bald blk men.

kamal January 15, 2009 at 6:04 pm

I mean you have to give her, her props bay bay bay was the VILLAIN of the show, and she did make good t.v. and it made it interesting to watch. I would be watching her and thinking what an evil &^^!#$%$`_(_!@%(^ but thats why i love her. I mean she was notorious in real chance of love, she kicked @)@^@+&&_++&#$# but i think she manipulated her way towards the end which is what all villains do. I love you bay bay bay. I hope that we see you on I love Money 3!

JAckie January 15, 2009 at 7:54 pm

thank god she didnt win

divia t January 15, 2009 at 9:18 pm

honey if you would have kept your mouth shut and focus on you and not milf u would probably have won girl. Honey PLEASE WORK ON THAT MOUTH OF YOURS. Sorry just keepng it real.You are still a Miss Diva!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Candi January 15, 2009 at 10:29 pm

Well Bay Bay Bay got what she deserved……she was so fake at the end and was totally playing the game. Why couldn’t she keep to herself? That’s what being a real woman is all about, I mean HELLO!! Didn’t Corn Fed win this….umm yes and she didn’t run her mouth like every other girl did on the show. And Milf totally needed to go home, everything about her was making me sick, go home to your kid and be a mom, don’t parade your business all over tv dude….your kid is watching. I give you props Corn Fed.

sonya January 15, 2009 at 11:04 pm

and sista soula sounds like you aint nothing but a hater just like bbb when it comes to white girls lol and i’m black so i can say it

medusa January 16, 2009 at 3:27 pm

Bay Bay Bay…BYE BYE BYE.,….big mouth …that whole season shoud have been called BBB beotches at MILF……man I woulda hit you with a brick….somene should have just to SHUT YOUR BIG MOUTH UP!!! LOSER!

Make My Day January 16, 2009 at 3:44 pm

Bay Bay Bay is a lying chicken head hood rat. She told Real she was falling in love with him, now look how she crawfishin’ back on what she said. Real didn’t want her boney camel hump shaped )(`+^&_!)`~~@)$ anyway, what makes it so killling is that she knew he didn’t want her skinny )(`+^&_!)`~~@)$ why would you stay in the house when you know the man has no attraction to you WHATSOEVER! and yes, she know damn well she gave Real them bones, cause she ain’t got no )(`+^&_!)`~~@)$ to give nobody. BBB was so jealous of Milf’ simply because she had a nice body. Broads like BBB needs to be put in their places. I wish I could have been on the show, I would have put my foot so far in her boney )(`+^&_!)`~~@)$ she would have been spitting out my toe nails for weeks. I hate loud mouth tramps like BBB.

`Manda January 16, 2009 at 7:37 pm

Good tellin that Soul Sista, Sonya ! Tis`nt no soul in that ‘sistah’.
She`s a BBB for sure, and I ain`t talking bay bay bay. lol
What do you mean white girls smell like dogs and only good for s e x ?
White girls smell like flowers, petal soft skin, unlike your crustiness, funk, non hair washin, ashy bikini line,
5 days wortha dirt in your scummy bath wowta. we all know how you angry BBB`s roll.
You see Cornfed as she comes outta the shower, and getting in the pool, while Bay Bay Bay would not even attempt that.
I am coming to see that ‘strong black women’ refer to being big mouthed, drama filled, uncouth, and beligerant. Why would Real want someone like that? A man wants peace and enjoy NICE company.
A sweet, kind , big hearted, sensitive woman. Not a lawyer wanna – be. As if even that.
What floors me is how some peep say Bay x 3 is intelligent !
Does rambling, bible thumping, and intimidation count as intelligent? To not letting someone else have their say, and yelling out LIAR ?! To taking things outta context?
BTW, Real`s hair is gorgeous, but the ONE thang and prolly only thang me n Soul Sista have in common is our love for the beautiful bald black man. I am married to one.
And I am not entirley black, I am multiracial, but I CAN still say whatever I wannu.

Tawni January 17, 2009 at 1:50 pm

You tell ‘em jiggyboo.

trenagel January 17, 2009 at 7:18 pm

Where did you get the name “Bay Bay Bay”? I understood the others eventhough some were cheesy, but what’s up with yours?? It’s weird.

slim January 18, 2009 at 11:49 am

I am so glad you were not picked. You have a loud mouth and the fact that you would have a bible and preach “the word” to someone is just stupid. You are there drinking and chasing a dude just like everyone else. I seen from jump he wasn’t into you and you knew that! Take your flat breast and big wide teeth back to the barn you horse!

Yolanda January 18, 2009 at 2:39 pm

Bay Bay Bay,

Girl, you just need to control yourself a little bit. Don’t worry about people like Milf because you know you have it going on so why be so worry about her? You just need to take this as a lesson learned and move on with your life because there are men who love strong women like you to keep themselves straight.

Keep your head up girl.

Yolanda January 18, 2009 at 2:41 pm

Manda or whoever you are,

Who are you do say that black women don’t smell good? You must be smelling your upper lip to talk about people who you don’t know that well so keep your comments to yourself.

BBB, girl be strong and take this as a lesson learned and not be so focused on other women when it comes to winning the love of a man. Just worry about you.

Jersey Girl January 18, 2009 at 4:42 pm

No offense Bay Bay Bay but you did talk too much and started a lot of drama. I believe you only talk that way about Real now because he didn’t choose you. You say it was because it was a competition but I think your lying and jealous that Real picked Corn Fed, whom I was hoping for anyway. I think Corn Fed looks better with Real than you did or would have. Not trying to be funny but you look like a funny looking bird or something. Believe me boo I’m not hating, it’s a fact!!! Don’t be mad.

Meka January 18, 2009 at 4:50 pm

okay miss manda @_^#&_`__(!`~`+^( you need to shut ya ugly dumb ^#*%%^$%@~)$(`* up and keep ya lil racist cmts to ya damn self!
girl you aint no betta den any otha girl you average @_^#&_`__(!`~`+^(

Sharon January 18, 2009 at 5:01 pm

Braybraybray is loud and obnoxious and a bit of a head case. She criticized other women for crying but she also cried. She is needy and insecure. She looks like a Tweety Bird with a horse face! We kept laughing at her because she made herself look like a fool.

laces January 19, 2009 at 5:45 am

The whole thing was fake as it pertains to Real and Chance, they re just trying to promote their sorry music. Watch for the worthless season 2………thats why Chance did not pick anyone…job security, …..PLEASE NO SEASON 2…..this was too getto

Twanne January 19, 2009 at 8:30 am

IF you are a African American male/female , and your bashing Bay Bay Bay ……… You need to have your blackness Checked ………………… the world HATER does APPLY …………… When you look down or make fun of another BLACK individual , that makes you NO BETTER than the uncle TOM that loaths the black skin he is in ………………I raise my BLACK woman up …. nomatter wha they are doing …………. Have love for your people …… CUZ TRUST ………………. other who arent your race , Look down and treat YOUR KIND the same way you treating her …………. 2009 PEOPLE ……….YOUR PRESIDENT IS BLACK …………………… show some GAWD D@%M respect!!!!!!!!!!!

Twanne January 19, 2009 at 8:45 am

I didnt wanna preach but it hurts my hurt to see the attack of a black woman , who was put in extreme living situation , surrounded by other woman who in turn had a mental black about her KIND of female …… they see a strong minded , never back down personality in a BLACK woman and they cant stand it ……… Bay Bay Bay was doomed from the time she signed the contract ……….. I would at least have thought tha she would have her people behind her ……. but it seem society has turned us against each other ………. not to make it a black and white thing …… but jus a LOVE for your own kind ……………………….Why she has to be all these names I will never kno ….. Cuz truth be told …. the names you calling her …… MOST of you have the EXACT same features , so really you jus HATE yourselves …………….. ALL THE WOMAN ARE BEAUTIFUL …….. and I hope they go on to live happy and productive safe lives …………………The rest of you need to be ashamed of yourselves …. FORREAL ………………..

Sharon January 19, 2009 at 11:19 am

Braybraybray deserves that name because she brayed like a donkey and looked like a jacka$$. She has some serious issues with anger. She exploded on other women in the house that she was intimidated by, namely K.O., Rabbit, and Milf and finally Corn Fed. She made herself look like a fool because of her anger outbursts. All we did was laugh at her. She is an idiot.

Misty January 19, 2009 at 4:57 pm

Bay Bay was a real eye-openr for moi. She is a very intelligent woman, but, she forgot the classic adage for Real, ” a man loves a ++^)%$_#@*`^$$&#$ in the bedroom.” By the time, she got around to that aspect of her character as a lover for Real he was fed-up with the endless dramas. She taught me to modify my voice to be soft and girlie and sometimes we got to act dumb. But let’s keep it REAL. Real’s mom spoke the truth she was a great and smart lady who needed to be soft. Bay Bay forgot that. And all that drama was over the top to the point of trauma for him. When she looks at herself in this show she should smile and say girl, “I kicked those b——–butts.” His romantic date with her in Puerto Rico was a giveaway that he wasn’t going to pick her. I hope he hires her whenever he is in need of a brilliant orator or lawyer if that is her profession. She needs a quick course in dating etiquette on how to have a fluff dinner conversation. I liked her because she kept it real for REAL. I hope they remain friends. He needs a sista to watch his back. But, don’t give him any if he comes around sniffing. You deserves a man who can handle your brain and guts to be a warrior. Brush up on your Goddess side.

Michelle January 19, 2009 at 6:55 pm

Oh puhleeeezzzzz. Give me a break. *rolling eyes*

linkinpklove January 20, 2009 at 12:33 pm

I was rooting for you Bay Bay Bay….. No one in my household had anything nice to say about, said you needed to gain some weight and wanted you off the show from day 1. I really wanted you to win and talked about how pretty and genuine you are constantly. You need to focus on YOU though. ganging up constantly on MILF made you look really bad whether your argument was legitimate or not. I understand your reason for it, but its still unjustified. You made your self look bad in front of the world and most of all in front of the parents. Pick your battles, you made yourself look insecure and I dont know if you are, but I do know you have no reason to be. Look in the mirror at that beautiful girl each day and remind yourself that you are self aware and you are an exceptional woman for not letting anything bring you down or shadow you self esteem.. After all you were one of the chosen out of thousands right?

tima January 20, 2009 at 2:35 pm

Bay Bay is loud mouth and speaks uneducated I can not believe she is a lawyer..she overpowers the conversation to the point of being loud and corn feed just does not want to get into a yelling match with her and I do not blame corn feed..corn feed is the best for real…besides bay bay looks like a man in drag….bay bay your loud and aggressive get therapy….

Pooka1983 January 20, 2009 at 3:49 pm

I got a question to ask? Is Chance gay or not we need to know because he doing alot of covering up and giving gays bad reps. He need to come clean yo!!!!!!!!

ClassySassy January 21, 2009 at 7:39 pm

One of the best parts of this show was watching big-mouth, bossy, messy BayBayBay get BUMPED in the end. This conniving, two-faced, back-stabbing, drama-mama is nothing but bad news for any man who values his sanity and peace of mind.

Putting herself on TV might actually save some other brother from being manipulated by this non-stop trash talker. She thought she was slick, but in the end, she got what she deserved…NOTHING!

smallfry916 January 21, 2009 at 10:16 pm

It was quite obvious, Real WAS NOT attractive to any of the black women on the show except Rabbit. Chance is torn between being straight or gay. Most of the black women presented themselves as trashy and ghetto. Nevertheless, Rabbit and Risky did not, but still, both were insecure and desperate along with the others.It is sad to see what some women regardless of race would stomp to in order to gain a man. Real and Chance are misguided “little mama’s boys”. How can their parents give advice when both their son were desperately seeking fame and attention from New York. Now, they are trying to be Rock / Rap / Pop / TV stars. Just like Flavor Flav, New York, Brett Michaels, and all these other nasty, sex infested individuals on reality television, the women of Real Chance of Love make society and most men classify them as bitc*** and #(*`_(%!%**#`(&!( s. In todays society some men and women strive to suceed by any means necessary and that’s sad!

sara January 25, 2009 at 3:50 am

Bay, Bay You were one of my best girls, but you have to have control of that mouth! I know that you see these shows now, and think (WHY)!!!! was I a fool to think that I could come on this show as a law student, and blab my way through. Girl you did it overall, big gum and all.

Lahonda January 25, 2009 at 5:41 pm

Bay,Bay I think that you are a strong black women and Real didnt make a right choice. Personally I think that you was one of the best women on the show and Real made the wrong choice.Keep your head high and I dont think that you loud and ubnoticous.You were just too strong of a women for Real.Let him rock with Corn Fred because it not going to last for long and Real going to realize that he made a bad choice.

Gangstaboo0130 January 25, 2009 at 8:21 pm

Bay Bay Bay was annoying. She should have tried to make herself look good by telling Real about HERSELF, not talking bad about the others. To me it was trashy and made her look even worse.

Jackie January 27, 2009 at 11:45 am

Well Bay Bay Bay, you are no one to pass judgement on Milf. You stated that she had a man time she left the show. You clam that you are now engage to be married, I guess you waited a week for your man. For someone to always read the Bible and judge someone, you had no place or the right to do it. You were no better than Milf. You are indeed as *(~$$!_^(&&@~#^#( With your Chicken Looking self…

Linda January 28, 2009 at 10:38 pm

Im actually happy for Bay Bay Bay. She is very intelligent, very verbal, and she’s not afraid to use both to get her point across. As far as her finding someone after the show, I mean…this person could have been someone whom she loved but their friendship was in the way or something. WHATEVER. It’s none of our business! She’s happy. That’s all that matters!

Jen January 29, 2009 at 3:38 pm

hey i think Bay Bay Bay should of got picked cuz she iz mad krazi as hell nd keeps it real.

headgoneladyf February 20, 2009 at 2:04 pm

the fake women from real chance of love!
i feel bay bay bay is fake because she hated on mailf on the reunion show talking about how she could be in a relationship already but how coult the show be done in 3 months and your engaged so your saying that you can meet get to know someone and spend time wit them in three months and be engage wit them thats over the top and i want her to know i said it because she is a no body milf wasn’t the best person on the show i admite but “don’t throw rocks when you live in a glass house”.

rayane May 2, 2009 at 5:25 pm

vou ta pelo amor de Deus
Deus abençoe sua vida!!!!
rayane nanne!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hot coco May 19, 2009 at 8:01 pm

Grl u were the bomb wit your cute hair cut. Milf wasn’t nothing compared to u, all she wanted was fame and another blackman to take care of her child. I was hoping that u would win because out of all the women there, u and risky were the stongest. Keep your head held high because you wll find someone who deserves your love. lol

Tamira May 25, 2009 at 12:07 am

You said you were engaged on the realchance reunion. So, are you still engagrd?

Tierra June 29, 2009 at 10:13 pm

OMG I KAN’T BELIEVE THAT PEOPLE R SO HATEFUL… Y HAVE SO MUCH HATE TOWARDS SOMEONE U DON’T EVEN KNOW?? WELL DESPITE OF WHAT EVERYONE ELSE SAYS I THINK YOU ARE A PHENOMINAL WOMAN AND I THINK THAT PEOPLE R JUST JEALOUS AND ENVY THE FACT THAT YOU ARE A STRONG BLACK WOMAN WHO KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS AND WON’T LET ANYONE RUN OVER HER. THEY R JUST WEAK AND SIMPLE MINDED.. I LOVE YOU GIRL AND I AM PROUD OF YOU… YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION…

Da 1 n Only!!!!!!!!! June 30, 2009 at 1:49 am

BAY BAY BAY U IZ SO COOL LIKE 4REAL U KNO N WAT THESE OTHER PEOPLE THINK I DISAGREE CUZ IT AINT THING WRONG WITH SPEAKING UR MIND