Examining Sober House With Dr. Drew – Episode 1

Dr. Drew is watching! On the first episode of Sober House, the Celebrity Rehab spin-off/continuation that finds a group of Drew’s patients taking the next step in the journey of sobriety, sober living, the doctor informs us, “I will know if anything is going on in the sober house.” And now that the show’s airing, he really knows. Despite having a reduced role in this show, due to the patient autonomy sober living requires, Drew still sees his patients and, most importantly for us, has insight and opinions on their situations. As he did with Rehab, Drew will provide his episode-specific commentary each week to this blog.

Was this show your idea?

It was about as much my idea as Celebrity Rehab was, in that it came from a conversation between me and [producer] John Irwin. It was, again, me going, “Ehhh, I don’t now. I’m not sure this is possible.” And him going, “Yes, we’re gonna do it.” That’s when I came up with the idea of them letting me do what I do: outpatient treatment with them while they’re in sober living. That’s normally the way it’s organized.

How long will you typically stay with one of these patients? Years and years?

Probably not years, but months and months. As long as they’re attached to our program, I’m involved in some way. But in Celebrity Rehab, I’m much more upfront with the care than I am in real life. In real life, people like Bob and the other counselors do more of the day-in-day-out care than I do.

Is a sober house the same thing as a halfway house?

Yeah, they don’t really use that term anymore, though.

Why?

I’m not exactly sure, but the concept is a little more evolved. I think “halfway house” almost sounds criminal. “Sober living,” is clearer – it’s a place you go to live sober. Got it. Done. Check.

This is a 30-day program. Is that the norm for sober living?

It’s a common amount of time. I prefer three to six months.

Did you have any concerns with making this show that differed from ones you might have had with Rehab?

Nah, it was the same. It’s the same exact deal, just a different environment and different issues. I know how this all goes. I know what happens when they go to sober living. S*** starts happening. Stuff starts unraveling. It’s the nature of the beast. I thought it was important to show this, though. When people talk about, “Does treatment work?” this is the part most people don’t even get. You see how they unravel [on the show] when we’re on top of them. If someone just returns to work after spending so many days at a treatment facility, forget it. No way they’re gonna stay sober. My sweeping goal in this is to show more of the story of how treatment works.

Were there any cast members in either of the Rehab seasons that you were disappointed to find would not be signing on for this?

Tawny. But Season 1 provided more disappointments, it seems like. God, they all needed it. I was sorry that, coming off Season 1, Brigitte didn’t go. It turned out OK, but she was the one I really wanted to go. Chyna, I was hoping for, because she hadn’t done anything yet! With some patients, you’re just trying to keep them in treatment long enough so that something happens. She was one of those. Jeff Conway, sure. I would have loved Vicki to go. A lot of Season 2 went, which is the good news.

Did you have any association with the house manager, Jennifer Gimenez, before this show?

Yeah, she was my patient. It’s sort of the opposite situation that I have with Andy Dick, who comes on this show later in the season: Andy has been my friend for a long time and I’ve resisted treating him. I told him that if he came in, we had to end the friendship so that I could be his doctor. With Jennifer, I was her doctor and when this came up, I said, “Look, now I can’t be your doctor. You’re now a peer and that’s that.” And she agreed to change the nature of our relationship. It worked out well. She did a really good job in the house.

Did she have experience in running a sober house?

No, but that’s not how sober houses work. Sober houses are often run and owned by recently sober people. They’re usually people who are doing well in their recent sobriety that need a way to pay rent, really. It’s a job for them. It’s usually someone with a couple of years or more of sobriety. But fewer than 10 years.

Was it just her personality, then, that gave you confidence in her ability to do this job?

She’d done really well in her sobriety. She struggled. She was a tough patient that I thought could really relate to this group. And she’s an actress, so I thought it was a perfect match.

In one voice over, you say, “I will know anything that goes on in the sober house.” Dr. Drew is watching! That sounds foreboding.

(Laughs) I kinda do. I know what’s going on there but I’m not directly responsible 24/7 like I am in a hospital. It’s really up to them at this point.

Seth enters testing the rules. That’s a bad sign.

It was sad to me. I thought he was going to be serious this time. It’s really bad. It gets to the point where I sit him down and I say, “I love you, but you’re dead. You’re dying. And I have to learn to deal with that.” He was a struggle this time, which surprised me. I really thought Seth was getting serious about his sobriety.

Was it that the week between wrapping Rehab 2 and starting this was detrimental?

No. I could tell he was fragile at the end of CR2. When he came on, he was a mess. I could barely communicate with him. He barely pulled out of that.

Steven is even worse than Seth. He arrives with needles.

He had a huge relapse.

You aren’t nearly as concerned by this on the show as Jennifer is.

Understand that there are several things Jennifer has to contend with that I don’t. She’s never done this before. I’m used to my patients relapsing. Also, she’s responsible for the integrity of the household, that it stay together. And finally, she’s evoked! She’s an addict and she knows that being around drugs could make her use. That’s the big piece people don’t factor in. If you aren’t an addict yourself, you can’t imagine how provocative it is to have someone using around you. It’s really rough.

You say that it isn’t uncommon for patients to show up to sober living high, but I don’t know, Dr. Drew. Heroin-high seems like a huge deal. It’s not like he took some hits of weed before walking in the door.

That’s your cultural perception. It’s all bad. Somebody’s shooting dope? It happens. Nothing new under the sun for me.

Did you expect to be called in so soon?

It didn’t surprise me. The main reason I was there is because people, including the producers, didn’t really understand my role. It needed to be straightened out to the patients even that this is a new level of care. They are now independent. Autonomy is the name of the game. Normally, I wouldn’t come in. I’d say, “Call the cops or something.” Get him out. In this case, I felt like I needed to make things more explicit so they understood the program.

I guess that’s why I asked if there were additional concerns. Autonomy for addicts means more likelihood of using which means more potential danger.

It’s not as though we planned that but it’s part of what happens. We just bring them back in. We put them right back in the hospital. It’s part of the deal. But yeah, it’s treacherous. It’s not like, “Oh well.” It’s a real part of treatment.

Steven ends up staying at Will’s that night. Is that an orthodox practice?

Well, at that point, Will isn’t really working for the hospital. Someone working at a hospital can only have one relationship with a patient, and that is of their caretaker. Period. In Will’s case, he was kind of serving as a peer there. A muscled peer. To have a peer take a patient overnight when they’re loaded, that’s standard. That happens all the time. I like the fact that it kicked in. It’s how AA works. They scoop up the people and they support them.

Related content
Sober House show page
Sober House videos and extras

This entry was posted on Thursday, January 15th, 2009 at 10:56 pm

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71 responses to to Examining Sober House With Dr. Drew – Episode 1

Tim Myers January 22, 2009 at 11:26 pm

This show is irresponsible and Dr. Drew Knows it. He knows the first rule of any sober house is to kick out who ever is using and he made them keep steven for ratings. This show is using steven and putting everyone else in jeopardy! Dr. Drew is VH1′s pimp and he should be ashamed of himself. As someone in Recovery and someone who got sober because of a sober house i am offended by this show and by Dr. Drew!

Tim Myers

GERRY MORGAN January 22, 2009 at 11:37 pm

DR DREW,

Pardon my language, but what the @#@)&!!+~_`)`_~* is up? with this SoberHouse?
I just watched Sober House number 2, and it made me sick. I am currently going thru my Third try at treatment, Intensive Outpatient in Tulsa, OK. Most of the episode seemed to focus on the 1 @#@)&!!+~_`)`_~* up in the show, Steven Adler, The show SHOULD focus on the other residents that are actually working on their sobriety, not the screwups. This is terrible. ther is something called Oxford house here in Oklahoma, and in other states, you probably heard about it. If you are caught JUST ONCE using you are OUT OF THERE. AND good riddence. PERIOD. I just talked to my group therapy peers today, and actually recommended they watch Celebrity Rehab, and now Sober House, and they might learn something, like I did, at least in Celeb rehab. Most in my group thought it was purely entertainment, I disagreed, but now I have lost a lot
of respect for you and this new show,
for anyone that wants to learn something about addiction, and recovery, your new show is a huge disappoinment, and makes me embarrased to even mention that your shows are nothing but entertainmment, if that is what I wanted, I would read the bullshit mags like Star and Globe. Please let me know that I should not lose faith,
Thanks for listening,

Very distressed,

GERRY MORGAN,
BROKEN ARROW, OK.

steven January 23, 2009 at 12:45 am

STEVEN: SERIOULSY, YOU WILLL DIE.. PAY ATTENTION…

Carol Brewster January 23, 2009 at 2:16 am

I was very pissed at the way Jennifer handles everyone, she has a self rightious attitude. I wanted to use just watching the way she talked to everyone. And I have been sober for 2 years. I think the guy helping her should be running the house. And she should have called an ambulance for Steven Adler, not the police. I think she is a B!%$h! And I don’t call people names very often!

Barb January 23, 2009 at 2:32 am

The men are so disruptive in these rehab programs. Why don’t you separarte the men and the woman into different houses?

Anna January 23, 2009 at 3:25 am

so im totally a reality tv show junkie and for sure noticed that mary careys boyfriend was also on bravo tv’s show “date my ex” with jo de la rosa…he is obviously just looking for his 15 minutes and probably not good for mary’s sobriety

Gisele January 28, 2009 at 3:49 pm

i saw an episode 2 last night. Steven Adler took some hits of herione in the house. i guess i’m tyring to understand why something that is so personal that a person is suffering such as this is being shown on TV for all to view. I think it is clear that Steven needs to focus on treatment for himself and not to be involved with this entertainment, cameras, media to tape his suffering. It needs to be a focus away from these things. i was kind of shocked that people in the psych field didn’t determine this isn’t a good environment for him with a show. is he on this show because it bring ratings. where are our values?

SC January 28, 2009 at 4:03 pm

Dr. Drew,
Watching Steven Adler struggle illustrates the futility of our all or nothing approach to addiction treatment. Clearly, Mr. Adler has a medical condition, and should be treated medically, i.e. a Dr. with a specialty in addiction, such as yourself, should work with him to find a maintenance dose of heroin that would allow Mr. Adler to function as a normal human being while receiving other treatment, i.e. counseling, etc. to give him the tools to overcome his mental health issues. This is what a sane, rational health policy would allow Dr.s to do… instead, we are stuck in the dark ages, treating addiction almost as a demon to be exorcised. It is an abomination that our laws do allow the medical profession to treat addiction medically, as it has been proven repeatedly to be the most successful way to treat addiction. Your thoughts?

james February 5, 2009 at 11:35 pm

Why no 12 steps? Why no sponsor? You mention “it’s how AA works”, why no mention in the shows?

Inez Maciel March 18, 2010 at 6:06 pm

Dr. Drew, I am a fan of your show. I jus moved to France and the video (using my PC) doesn’t play over here… What??? I will do like that irritating Kari Ann: “I want it… I want it… I wan…” . Please, can you do something about it? Thank you. God bless you.

KATHY FEIL March 18, 2010 at 11:30 pm

Dr Drew,
I have been following your shows for two years now. I cannot believe that these lucky people are not only getting paid to be on your show but they are acting like everyone in the world owes them something.It just blows my mind. I have an alcohol problem but I don’t have the money or insurance to pay for the treatments that they are getting. Other then Dennis Roddmen none of these people would show up dead in the obituaries except in a little excerpt on page 6 or 9. They are spoiled and do not deserve the time or money that you are putting into them. I know It makes tv but I cannot believe these people think they are actaully this important to anyones lives. I really think after watching tonights show that I cannot watch these ego maniacs any more if they don’t want to help theirselves when many of us would love the help that you give. Sincerely, Kathy

donald April 1, 2010 at 11:49 am

dr drew makes a mockery out of recovery. as a recovering addict and a staff member of a rehab dr drews celebrity rehab and sober house are a joke they let these people mistreat every one around them that is not how recovery works dr drew does a disjustice by catering these addicts

frannie April 8, 2010 at 3:29 pm

do the celeberities pay to live there & be on the show? Or do they get paid, I saw Kate gets $200,000 for being on Dancing with the stars.,

Linda April 14, 2010 at 11:52 pm

I view your program for insight into drug rehab and getting clean…my step-son is a heroin addict and I find your show informative. I seriously try to discount the celebrity aspect and extract serious information on how to help my step son when he gets out of jail since I do not want him lose his life…these people are definitely spoiled brats but that does not translate into not deserving of help…they are total pains in the ^$+^+^+@!!!_&`@ thanks dr. drew…I am sure they are thankful for your insight and compassion as well as those you employ to help theses people.

Lauren Doty April 15, 2010 at 11:09 pm

Wow…Dr. Drew, I am watching the episode where Jen Kicks Mike out. That Guy is a habitual $^~)(&*!!`#%%+) hole! He puts every one at risk. Jen has tried to take the high road and it got her no where. And Heidi Fleiss Is just as bad. She continues to abuse the rules and has no respect for her situation(BOTH are habitual liars and have no reality). Both Heidi and Mike are obviously mentally unbalanced to say the least. It’s not fair to everyone else. And why the hell is mike in sober House instead of Detox…C’MON! This is so sad that you are so manipulated by these mental infants. You are encouraging the negative behavior by lack of consequences. It’s disgusting. It is. Absolutely Disgusting.How dare you get on Jen. She is spot on and you know it.

russell April 15, 2010 at 11:48 pm

All ofmthose punkasses on the show are a bunch of lazy %~$`@~*~+_)%*@) slobs. besides their addictions they dont want to do #!*_()(+`@!`@!@@ feel sorry for the house manager. this episode dr. drew is siding with a bunch of addicts. sorry mfer. its sad how people feel sorry for a bunch of alcoholics ,meth heads, shooters and junkies. if they dont want to comply, get the fuc out!

russell April 16, 2010 at 12:08 am

anybody that thinks an addiction can be cured being on a tv show is an idiot. period. obviouslythe hous manager still has half a brain left and is sober. i do not feel sorry for any of those people. they all had the dream of the big life and they blew it. let them kill themselves. they are just a waste of time. if you dont want to be sober you wont. they walk in on their own and they walk all over everybody. what they need is a good old fashion (&*$(@^%_**“@# whoopin. especially that little +_`$_~!*%+!+)~*$~$

russell April 16, 2010 at 12:13 am

sorry. they are all a bunch of lazy @##^%~_!%_#*!(! grown up punks. and if mr size more wants to get it on i will gladly kick his toe jammin arse. this show really pisses me off. it is sad sad sad.

Joan April 16, 2010 at 11:57 pm

I wish this program would focus more on, how to recover from addiction, and less on all the drama, between the housemates. Talk about the twelve steps, talk more about obstacles to sobriety, codependency,enabling,ect, ect. I also think that Jen, although she is an angel and means well, is not equipped to handle addicts. Her getting in Mike’s face like that, was crazy. She should have given him a choice, either comply or leave. If he refused to comply, she should have had the cops, escort him out. She did not need to create all that drama. There is a more mature way of doing things. Despite her flaws, I wish the cast could have given her a little more respect. She cares a about them a heck of a lot more, than their shady, druggie, friends. That’s what depresses me, this woman would probrably give them the shirt off her back, and they talk behind her back,like she’s a piece of #))`+#_+*#^&($~) She is really trying and no one appreciates her efforts. They could say what they need to her face, in a kind way, and not be so judgmental towards her. At the same time she could use a little more training, on how to deal with addicts. Although I’ll continue to watch the show, I just which they would show less drama, and focus more on recovery. Alot of people watch this show not just for the stars, but because they themselves, are suffering from addiction in some way.

Cindhy Davis April 22, 2010 at 11:09 pm

Hi Dr. Drew;

I have only recently been a big fan of your show. I am also an addict. 2 years ago I attempted suicide went into rehab and have continued to drink. My question is? Recovery … everyone says you should reconnect with family and attempt to make it all right. Has anyone thought that maybe you should treat us how to move on from family, that by reconnecting that puts us back into the circle to use again….because that is the reason we started using in the first place. Please rethink this therapy and instead of putting us back into this position….let us move on by letting go of the very factor that got us here in the first place

Joanne November 18, 2010 at 5:55 pm

I love watching Celebrity Rehab. When is it going to be on again? I miss it.