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Corn Fed: It’s Over!
Early this morning, the “winner” of Real Chance of Love, Corn Fed, posted a long missive on the status of her relationship with Real. The text was a stark contrast to the pair’s pledge to “give it a try,” which we saw this week on the show’s reunion special: “I had so much love for Ahmad and I tried sooo hard to make it work. You guys have to understand, I was devastated when it didn’t work out. I even thought maybe seeing him at reunion would rekindle some of those feelings. We even went as far as to say we were going to try and make it work. But he has not reached out to me since.”
After reading Corn Fed’s post, we got her on the phone to talk some more about where she is both with Real and emotionally. According to Corn Fed, this is yet another Celebreality relationship to go down the drain…
On stage at the reunion, you and Real resolved to give your relationship a try. What happened between then and now that made you write what you did?
I reached out to him. I texted him. He didn’t hit me back for about two days and the only thing he said was, “Sorry I didn’t make it out [to see you], tell Cali I said happy birthday.” He hasn’t tried to get in contact with me after that. I feel like his attempt to have a relationship with me was just for cameras. I went into the reunion thinking there would be something again, and he completely lied. I feel like it was acting. He came up with all these excuses to break up with me. I don’t think he had a legitimate reason to break up with me. I never checked his phone. I never “went left field.” I’m a very laid-back person. I was very understanding of his lifestyle. We were thousands of miles apart – I had to be understanding. My thing is, if he doesn’t want to be with me: fine. But don’t come up with all these excuses not to be with me. It makes me look like an idiot. I’m a good woman and really awesome girlfriend.
What was the breaking point? You visited him Labor Day weekend and it was all good. Things went awry from there?
He started acting weird on the phone. He went from calling me three times a day, telling me how he loved me to calling maybe every two days. He had all these excuses and I could tell he was being distant. There are a lot of rumors going around saying there’s going to be a Season 2. I know this show was really successful, so maybe that was his purpose? He kept saying that it wasn’t good for his career to have a serious girlfriend and he wanted to take things slow…just different excuses all the time. I was like, “How much slower do you want to take it? For God’s sake, I live in North Dakota!” He went from asking me to move out there to taking things slow and it was just like wow. He completely flipped.
In light of this, do you question his sincerity in the first place?
Absolutely, I’m gonna question it. I put my heart into this and I feel like he felt the same way. I don’t think that he did not have feelings for me, but I know for a fact that it wasn’t love. I think it was just strong feelings. I’m pretty sure that I fell more in love with him than he did with me. I really, really did love Real. There are people who think there are a lot of fakes out there, that this stuff is just for TV, but my heart was so invested in this.
Did Real ever give further explanation for the “not good for my career” excuse? Good for his music career? His reality TV career? What?
He thinks he’s some rock star and I can’t handle his rock-star lifestyle. I don’t get it. What do you mean you’re a rock star? Don’t go on TV looking for love if you don’t think any girl can handle your rock-star lifestyle.
Are you heartbroken?
I was very heartbroken when we started getting distant. It took me a long time to get over him. Even up until the reunion, I still had feeling for him, or the old feelings came back. A part of me will always have a lot of love for him. Who I fell in love with on the show was who I thought that Real was. After it ended, he seemed to have changed. I don’t love that person. To go on the computer and see what he said about me behind the scenes, that was totally bulls***. He said one thing behind the scenes and then he gets onstage and says something else. Real is not what America sees. He is not Real as people think he is.
So you were growing distant, while everyone was watching you grow together. That must have made a strange viewing experience.
It was difficult. Just when you think you’re starting to get over somebody, you gotta watch it. I would start experiencing feelings again and start missing him a lot. I started hearing that he was talking to the other girls from the show. And I don’t care, he can have any type of relationship he wants with them. But he wasn’t talking to me anymore. I thought, “Wow. You really don’t want anything to do with me.” The thing is, I developed strong relationships in that house so he couldn’t do anything behind my back. I heard everything.
Do you know which girls he was talking to?
I do, but I don’t want to say. The girls are the ones who told me. One of the girls he was still in contact with didn’t even know he picked me. I played dumb and didn’t let them know he picked me, just to see what they’d say. That’s how I played the game in the house. I would never put mine and Real’s business out there, but those girls would do that in a second. I don’t see why they’d lie about it, but when I’d confront Real about it, he’d tell me they were making it up. I wanted to believe him because I loved him, but it was happening too much.
I’m sure you’ve heard the rumor that you’ve been dating Nick Brown from The Real World Hollywood. Do you care to address that?
It’s so funny. Nick and I are really good friends. I worked with this booking agent, who worked with a lot of Real World people, so he introduced me to Nick. Nick and I started talking on MySpace and then the phone. We have a lot of things in common. We put each other in our top friends and then this rumor started going around that we were dating and we hadn’t even met physically. We didn’t hang out till last weekend. We’re not together or dating, but he’s a good guy and I like him a lot.
So just to be absolutely clear: it’s absolutely over between you and Real?
Yes. I don’t know what he’s going to say about it, but anything he says is a lie. I’m so sick of holding this in. I held it in for way too long. I’m still the same person and I want people to see that I’m a real person who had real feelings going into this. I was hurt bad. Like, really, really bad.
You said that you didn’t think love could be found on reality TV, but then you got there and found that it could. Looking back, do you wish you’d kept up your guard?
No. I don’t regret anything. I’ve always been the type to go into a situation with my heart on my sleeve. I don’t think you can find love unless you wear your heart on your sleeve. It sucks that I got my heart broken, but I picked myself back up. I’m gonna move on because I’m a good woman and whoever I end up with will be lucky to have me. I’ll be lucky, too, because he’ll be the one.
Keep up with Corn Fed via her FamousVH1Friends.com profile and her MySpace.
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October 19th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
I did’nt like cornfed in da first place i wanted bay bay bay to win.
October 20th, 2009 at 8:38 am
real is a #)@^)****_&%^$+ hole for what he did..he is fake as ~&_*#^“$+~!^!@~ and pretend to be someone that he is not. what career is he talking about???? he has no damn career. i havent heard any of his songs noone heard any of his songs. so that means he sucks..no one is going to buy his cd or whatever. what ever career he thinks he has is a joke. where is he going to be after reality tv no where and noone will remember his #)@^)****_&%^$+ when cornfed and the rest of the girls will be on top looking down at him
October 20th, 2009 at 8:38 am
real is a *&^_%~^_((^_%+` hole for what he did..he is fake as #&@&~^()@!%~~&^! and pretend to be someone that he is not. what career is he talking about???? he has no damn career. i havent heard any of his songs noone heard any of his songs. so that means he sucks..no one is going to buy his cd or whatever. what ever career he thinks he has is a joke. where is he going to be after reality tv no where and noone will remember his *&^_%~^_((^_%+` when cornfed and the rest of the girls will be on top looking down at him
October 20th, 2009 at 8:40 am
real is a ^%~(%^)(~~)&`!` hole for what he did..he is fake as &#$^+@#^(`*%(!*+ and pretend to be someone that he is not. what career is he talking about???? he has no damn career. i havent heard any of his songs noone heard any of his songs. so that means he sucks..no one is going to buy his cd or whatever. what ever career he thinks he has is a joke. where is he going to be after reality tv no where and noone will remember his ^%~(%^)(~~)&`!` when cornfed and the rest of the girls will be on top looking down at him
October 21st, 2009 at 5:17 am
WOW……….I’m so glad I just read this post DAMN…………no wonder folks say they fake!Seriously they aint no better then Flav or Brett.Even though on both seasons of Real Chance of love and I love new york they swore up and down that they aint promoting themselves they a damn lie!Remember the last episode of I love New York when Tango called Chance out on that self promoting crap and Chance threw a HUGE tantrum?!Like Tango said he did that because he knew it was the truth! Well at least we know now for DAMN SURE that there WILL be a 3rd season since the stallionaires need to promote themselves more. I do give Chance credit though at LEAST he didn’t pick anyone last season which means he at least has a heart and didn’t wanna hurt either of the girls……..unlike Real who’s giant douchebag that acts like he’s the nice bro!Dude please!At least Chance is OPENLY an a ss hole!Real is faker then a 3 dollar bill!
October 22nd, 2009 at 5:33 pm
both of thm are 100% fake ,corney and they are cornballs
October 23rd, 2009 at 11:18 pm
well corn fed im sorry to hear that. give your self to god and the right man will always be there for you. god bless you.
October 25th, 2009 at 12:42 pm
i personally think there both gay and they just want to be seen y don’t they do like tila and bring men and women on the show and be real with themselves.
October 26th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
you suck eggs!!!
October 27th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Real you should have stuck with poca she was the better choice. Maybe she did lie but maybe she just didn’t want you to judge her for something she did when she was younger. I am sure you have done tings to. If you have the chance again in life you should get to know her better. I think the two of you would be great together. She is a pretty woman and she may have been to good to be true with the exception of one mistake seems like she was true to you. You and doll will not last. She may have won the show but she will not stay with you. She did describe the kind of guy she is looking for and that is not you. No woman wants to be with a man that is like her. Your mate should have somethings in comman but you should be able to bring out the best in each other. Poca could have done this not doll. I am glad you did not pick sassy she enjoyed poca’s sadness to much. She is the one that is fake and got the hair to prove it.
October 28th, 2009 at 12:21 am
anyone could see that REAL ain’t real…..CHANCE is more of a real person when it comes to love and being honest.
October 28th, 2009 at 9:20 pm
did real respond to this?
October 29th, 2009 at 11:23 pm
real i feel like u really dog the sisters,i mean u let aa lot fine black women pass by.i mean u caught poca $#&@$_+`&~&#^^^ in a lie,doll basically was really looking at chance and u said out your mouth sassy was the same person (real) what more could u ask for, and yet u pick doll sneaky looking $#&@$_+`&~&#^^^ i personally dont think u are into sisters, too strong for u, thats @)(#_!_*&&`#!+(+ ed up yall took mamacita and doll on the yacht and sassy n hot wings to the dam swamps $#&@$_+`&~&#^^^ holes, real ur not as romantic with the sisters on dates like u are with white girls etc…etc,i dont know why sisters run to ur show, for what to get dis.i wonder after new york dis u had u crying is why u do sisters,i mean u are fine as hell and would look real fine with a fine,intelligent,fun, loving black woman whats the problem,now your brother made the right choice.
October 29th, 2009 at 11:29 pm
real i feel like u really dog the sisters,i mean u let aa lot fine black women pass by.i mean u caught poca )&*+*()#)_#+^*# in a lie,doll basically was really looking at chance and u said out your mouth sassy was the same person (real) what more could u ask for, and yet u pick doll sneaky looking )&*+*()#)_#+^*# i personally dont think u are into sisters, too strong for u, thats *`_@^#!%~(`_&!@_ ed up yall took mamacita and doll on the yacht and sassy n hot wings to the dam swamps )&*+*()#)_#+^*# holes, real ur not as romantic with the sisters on dates like u are with.white girls etc…etc,i dont know why sisters run to ur show, for what to get dis.i wonder after new york dis u had u crying is why u do sisters,i mean u are fine as hell and would look real fine with a fine,intelligent,fun, loving black woman whats the problem,now your brother made the right choice. bay bay bay had class looks personality and ur )&*+*()#)_#+^*# picked cornfed..u suck u are something else,ur brother should been name real u should of been chance thats what a sister take u a big chance and waste their time i feel sorry for them because a lot of them are sincere poor sassy.
October 29th, 2009 at 11:34 pm
real i feel like u really dog the sisters,i mean u let aa lot fine black women pass by.i mean u caught poca ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ in a lie,doll basically was really looking at chance and u said out your mouth sassy was the same person (real) what more could u ask for, and yet u pick doll sneaky looking ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ i personally dont think u are into sisters, too strong for u, thats @_+`&%_*)@$~$)^) ed up yall took mamacita and doll on the yacht and sassy n hot wings to the dam swamps ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ holes, real ur not as romantic with the sisters on dates like u are with.white girls etc…etc,i dont know why sisters run to ur show, for what to get dis.i wonder after new york dis u had u crying is why u do sisters,i mean u are fine as hell and would look real fine with a fine,intelligent,fun, loving black woman whats the problem,now your brother made the right choice. bay bay bay had class looks personality and ur ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ picked cornfed..u suck u are something else,ur brother should been name real u should of been chance thats what a sister take u a big chance and waste their time i feel sorry for them because a lot of them are sincere poor sassy.
October 30th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
i think him and chance are fake as +@$!_(+()$$_#)`! their show sucks look at that hair of reals come on give me a break
November 1st, 2009 at 11:13 am
I just want to say that I loved corn fed and when I found out that there was another show of real chance of love I was like what the hell. And when I saw it, it was like I saw him vwey differnt. Sorry Corn Fed for what he did to you. He really ain’t worth the time.
November 1st, 2009 at 9:42 pm
I can’t stand Real. He looks crazy and disgusting. I would not date him at all. At least Chance is honest. Oh and the music sucks!!! On these shows stop acting like when you go to the club they actually just happen to be playing your music. I mean really??!!
November 3rd, 2009 at 1:13 pm
I cant believe Real.?.?.Had me thinking he was soooo real! he need to change his name to…Fake Azz N****!! These guys arent looking for love..they are out to PROMOTE!!! and its sad because these women are putting their hearts in to it- only to get it broken! They sleepin with these woman and leavin’em! NOTE TO ALL LADIES…STOP GOING ON THESE SHOWS!!!! ITS NOT REAL!?!?!
November 3rd, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Cornfed, you won…but what did you really win? Its sad that your heart was broken. Keep your head up and forget about him! By the way..i loved you on the show. Any man would be blessed to have a good woman like you! STAY STRONG
November 3rd, 2009 at 5:06 pm
well cornfed sorry to hear about the break up but I knew this show was just for tv girl you do better by trying to find someone in the club or online or in a damn grocery store both of them chance and real are fake they don’t have a carrer that should tell you something right there they are trying to make money off of putting wemon on reality shows to bust their ratings how sorry is that I think they are both gay this tv dating scence was just a big front and you should have known better how could you be so niaive? as for real and chance they are better off playing for the other team like they have been doing just like mamacita said they are freaking gay lMAO
November 4th, 2009 at 11:44 pm
~~ well i think they are both looser and you deserve better for your self…i really don’t think their looking for love more like searching for fame……and their music is lame !!!!!!!
November 7th, 2009 at 8:50 pm
U GO GIRL GOOD 4 U!! IM GLAD U HAVE MOVED ON FROM THIS. IVE WATCHED BOTH 1 AND 2 AND I ALWAYS WONDERED IF HE COULD REALLY BE THAT PERFECT. I WAS HOPING HED PICK U IN SEASON 1. SORRY TO KNOW THAT HES JUST LIKE ALL THE REST THESE DAM SORRY (+(^(%!!(@)$~@% FOOLS. I KNOW HIS MAMA RAISED HIM BETTER THAN THAT
November 8th, 2009 at 9:31 pm
I really like real but what he did to corn fed was not kool. I also think that if he can’t be good to her he willn’t be good to doll is new girlfriend. I also like corn fed she is very smart and real f___ that up i was sure that change was the bad boy but real prove me wrong they are both bad man and they like to play with woman feelings and that is not kool. When ya two grow up and be a man and stop playing games with all this woman pick one and stay with her ya a_s h_l_s. Get the pic.
November 9th, 2009 at 3:18 pm
Will that’s good ^#)($%^!!_`&`(!` happen’s just go fnd you another black looking man.
November 12th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
real an’t (*(*+*&`)~^^(+`( he just could not handle a real female.me personally i want chance , just want a nut that’s all
November 15th, 2009 at 10:53 am
real i think you have made a good discision about corn fed because she is a lier.:::::::::::))))))))))!!!!!!!!!!
November 16th, 2009 at 8:26 pm
I am really disappointed that real isn’t so real. Although their show was good I thought chance was the playa not real. Real looked very genuine and sincere but he’s the typical %#~@`*##%_$%(`!%(%__ Fake as HELL!!! Corn Fed u can do better
December 2nd, 2009 at 5:12 pm
I knew from the beginning that the show, was just that
a show and the girls should of known from the beginning that (they) meaning all the previous shows were not about finding true love for these guy’s, flav, bret, rayjay, I mean come on, the girls they pick all complain
that all the guys ignored them after the show.
I would of had more respect for you if you would of
went into it with the intent of just having fun, I mean I would’nt of given them the cookies, but I would of had some fun, minus the drama that the producers produce, and fuel. Like that tired $~$(#_#`*+^&^~^ miss newyork, her and her mother looked liked men with weeves on.
but I have to give it to newyork after she dusted herself off she was dumped by flav, she went ahead and made some money and she did what was done to her.
The ending of hers was so funny when she told that guy
who won was carrying her and she said you can do what
you want with me. He should of dumped her ugly $~$(#_#`*+^&^~^ in the dumpster.
December 7th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
i believe corn fed was the realist girl on the show. there is no dought about that.And real is a jack @$$ for sending her clean off. Real is no damn rock star i live in chicago and ther is no buzz about his music in these streets the only way we know him up here is his show. and every one knows anything thats hot runs through chicago.you dig! go on corn fed live your life and do yo thing ma.
December 11th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
ITS FUNNIE THAT CORN FED SAID WHAT SHE SAID ABOUT THE WHOLE ROCK STAR THING CUZ WHEN REAL CHANCE AND THERE BROTHER CAME TO MY HOMETOWN THEY WERE SO NOT LIKE ROCK STARS I MEAN GRANTED THEY GOT THE KEY TO THE CITY BUT THAT DONT MEEN CRAP THEY ARE SO FULL OF THERE SELFS AND I NOTICE THAT REAL WAS FAKE THEY ARE NOT EVEN CELEBS.THATS Y THEY GOT KICKED OUT OF THE HOTELS THEY STAY IN CUZ THEY ARE SO LAME..DONT WORRIE CORN FED YOU COULD DO SO MUCH BETTER YOU DONT NEED REAL HE JUST DOSE IT FOR T.V ACTING LIKE HIS CARRER IS GOING TO GO UP CUZ OF IT WELL NOTTTTTTTTT.HAHAHA.
December 11th, 2009 at 2:18 pm
REAL IS FAKE AND EVERYONE KNEW THAT FROM JUMP..
December 12th, 2009 at 4:19 pm
Real and Chance. I’m not hatin’, but seriously, these two dudes are as corny as they come. Real tries to palm himself off as some type of Prince clone, but he’s too chubby and he looks too old in the face and chance acts like the black Jerry Lewis..I believe he’s on medication…..they need to keep the Stallionaires off tv for good.
December 13th, 2009 at 2:08 pm
Real, is still in love with Hoops.
December 14th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
girl dont worry cause real and his brother is a fake i shoulda known. new york made them and flav made her.
December 17th, 2009 at 11:32 pm
thats a damn shame… real i am so disappointed in u… i really believed u was such a sweet heart and a gentleman since i love newyork but i guess u prooved america wrong… cornfed didnt diserve wat u did to her cuz she was real wit u and she didnt put ya business out there like milf and some other girls did… to cornfed dont worry girl cuz karma is a !!^)(@&!%))~~+&+) he will get his n u just keep ur head up high n u will meet the right guy some day
January 5th, 2010 at 8:45 pm
i think real and chance are both pawns. it’s sad that vh1 will give a reality tv show to anybody. flavor flav, new york, and now these too d-bags. this has gone way too far. OH AND NEWS FLASH!!!! your records are wack!!! absolutley wack…. not even suburb certified lol! LADIES!!! stop throwin yourself at these posin itchy n scratchy lookin mofoz… it’s just bad!
January 12th, 2010 at 12:12 am
Those boys are wannabe’s.Real loks and sounds like a horse.their 15 minutes of fame will soon be up.It is these girls who give them a show ie who put money/food on their table.they are plastic./fake.
January 13th, 2010 at 10:24 pm
ya he aint shit i use to talk to him for 3 weeks when i went to new york and his sex games was so weak girl yes u can do better trust
January 29th, 2010 at 12:56 pm
y corn fed wat u do 2 ur self die ur hair blode a gain
February 7th, 2010 at 7:28 pm
COULDNT EVERYONE TELL THEY WERE FAKE?????????????ITS SO OBVIOUS……
February 7th, 2010 at 9:03 pm
When did these clowns become celeb’s?? lmao