Early this morning, the “winner” of Real Chance of Love, Corn Fed, posted a long missive on the status of her relationship with Real. The text was a stark contrast to the pair’s pledge to “give it a try,” which we saw this week on the show’s reunion special: “I had so much love for Ahmad and I tried sooo hard to make it work. You guys have to understand, I was devastated when it didn’t work out. I even thought maybe seeing him at reunion would rekindle some of those feelings. We even went as far as to say we were going to try and make it work. But he has not reached out to me since.”
After reading Corn Fed’s post, we got her on the phone to talk some more about where she is both with Real and emotionally. According to Corn Fed, this is yet another Celebreality relationship to go down the drain…
On stage at the reunion, you and Real resolved to give your relationship a try. What happened between then and now that made you write what you did?
I reached out to him. I texted him. He didn’t hit me back for about two days and the only thing he said was, “Sorry I didn’t make it out [to see you], tell Cali I said happy birthday.” He hasn’t tried to get in contact with me after that. I feel like his attempt to have a relationship with me was just for cameras. I went into the reunion thinking there would be something again, and he completely lied. I feel like it was acting. He came up with all these excuses to break up with me. I don’t think he had a legitimate reason to break up with me. I never checked his phone. I never “went left field.” I’m a very laid-back person. I was very understanding of his lifestyle. We were thousands of miles apart – I had to be understanding. My thing is, if he doesn’t want to be with me: fine. But don’t come up with all these excuses not to be with me. It makes me look like an idiot. I’m a good woman and really awesome girlfriend.
What was the breaking point? You visited him Labor Day weekend and it was all good. Things went awry from there?
He started acting weird on the phone. He went from calling me three times a day, telling me how he loved me to calling maybe every two days. He had all these excuses and I could tell he was being distant. There are a lot of rumors going around saying there’s going to be a Season 2. I know this show was really successful, so maybe that was his purpose? He kept saying that it wasn’t good for his career to have a serious girlfriend and he wanted to take things slow…just different excuses all the time. I was like, “How much slower do you want to take it? For God’s sake, I live in North Dakota!” He went from asking me to move out there to taking things slow and it was just like wow. He completely flipped.
In light of this, do you question his sincerity in the first place?
Absolutely, I’m gonna question it. I put my heart into this and I feel like he felt the same way. I don’t think that he did not have feelings for me, but I know for a fact that it wasn’t love. I think it was just strong feelings. I’m pretty sure that I fell more in love with him than he did with me. I really, really did love Real. There are people who think there are a lot of fakes out there, that this stuff is just for TV, but my heart was so invested in this.
Did Real ever give further explanation for the “not good for my career” excuse? Good for his music career? His reality TV career? What?
He thinks he’s some rock star and I can’t handle his rock-star lifestyle. I don’t get it. What do you mean you’re a rock star? Don’t go on TV looking for love if you don’t think any girl can handle your rock-star lifestyle.
Are you heartbroken?
I was very heartbroken when we started getting distant. It took me a long time to get over him. Even up until the reunion, I still had feeling for him, or the old feelings came back. A part of me will always have a lot of love for him. Who I fell in love with on the show was who I thought that Real was. After it ended, he seemed to have changed. I don’t love that person. To go on the computer and see what he said about me behind the scenes, that was totally bulls***. He said one thing behind the scenes and then he gets onstage and says something else. Real is not what America sees. He is not Real as people think he is.
So you were growing distant, while everyone was watching you grow together. That must have made a strange viewing experience.
It was difficult. Just when you think you’re starting to get over somebody, you gotta watch it. I would start experiencing feelings again and start missing him a lot. I started hearing that he was talking to the other girls from the show. And I don’t care, he can have any type of relationship he wants with them. But he wasn’t talking to me anymore. I thought, “Wow. You really don’t want anything to do with me.” The thing is, I developed strong relationships in that house so he couldn’t do anything behind my back. I heard everything.
Do you know which girls he was talking to?
I do, but I don’t want to say. The girls are the ones who told me. One of the girls he was still in contact with didn’t even know he picked me. I played dumb and didn’t let them know he picked me, just to see what they’d say. That’s how I played the game in the house. I would never put mine and Real’s business out there, but those girls would do that in a second. I don’t see why they’d lie about it, but when I’d confront Real about it, he’d tell me they were making it up. I wanted to believe him because I loved him, but it was happening too much.
I’m sure you’ve heard the rumor that you’ve been dating Nick Brown from The Real World Hollywood. Do you care to address that?
It’s so funny. Nick and I are really good friends. I worked with this booking agent, who worked with a lot of Real World people, so he introduced me to Nick. Nick and I started talking on MySpace and then the phone. We have a lot of things in common. We put each other in our top friends and then this rumor started going around that we were dating and we hadn’t even met physically. We didn’t hang out till last weekend. We’re not together or dating, but he’s a good guy and I like him a lot.
So just to be absolutely clear: it’s absolutely over between you and Real?
Yes. I don’t know what he’s going to say about it, but anything he says is a lie. I’m so sick of holding this in. I held it in for way too long. I’m still the same person and I want people to see that I’m a real person who had real feelings going into this. I was hurt bad. Like, really, really bad.
You said that you didn’t think love could be found on reality TV, but then you got there and found that it could. Looking back, do you wish you’d kept up your guard?
No. I don’t regret anything. I’ve always been the type to go into a situation with my heart on my sleeve. I don’t think you can find love unless you wear your heart on your sleeve. It sucks that I got my heart broken, but I picked myself back up. I’m gonna move on because I’m a good woman and whoever I end up with will be lucky to have me. I’ll be lucky, too, because he’ll be the one.
Keep up with Corn Fed via her FamousVH1Friends.com profile and her MySpace.
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Don’t even trip off that guy men are going to be men now what you have to do is get back up on his horse and ride away. I think ur cool and skrew him!!!!
REAL SUCKS and his music sucks too. He has no talent and is a scumbag who makes all men look bad. I will not watch Real Chance 2 cause it is FAKE and so is Real!!!!!REAL FAKE!!!UNREAL!!!
Real is a true ^^)(#`@&*^)@!(( hole for hurting corn-fed. I knew all along that the show was for his music career. People really abuse their authority when they get a little money. All these reality shows are not reality. ITS ALL ABOUT MONEY AND FAME! I TRULY HOPE REAL GETS HIS HEART BROKEN! HE KNEW IT WAS GOING TO BE A SEASON 2.(SEASON 2 SUCKS AND SHE BANNED OFF THE AIR! REAL AND CHANCE ARE SO FAKE1
As a man Real or Chance got caught up in fame.Love took a backseat for right now. At 60 I know,they’re young it takes time. Good attemt to try CornFed,wish you luck
Hey i think they shoulda stayed together
WOW,cornfed that is so sad.Now there is a new episode of Real Chance of Love & i enjoy watching them and all the reality shows on VH1.But if there fake and noone really stays together at the end why bother watching?If he didn’t want you he made a big mistake.It might be the $$$$ and that only takes you so far.It dont buy love.
Girl, you know…I am sick and tired of hearing how these people “looking for love” on these reality shows (not the contestents) really are just looking for publicity….like Flav staying with his boo from long ago after three attempts…and Brett Michaels going back with his baby mama….and now this….Stallionaires PROMO. That’s about all it is was and ever will be……New York was thier stepping stone…I mean, why would two brothers compete for the same girl in the first place…hmmmm…now they have thier own show cuz of it….leary from the start. Sorry girl but you are gorgeous and I am proud of you for giving it a try and going on national tv….find your prince charming in North Dakota ay?
corn fed you dont need him find another man it was just for the cameras anyway
Girlie…just chalk it up as an experience and move forward. It’s his loss. You played a large part in making the first season of the show successful. Real and Chance could not have pulled it off without sincere, honest, caring, and real people like you. About this season’s show of Real Chance of Love 2, the freshness is gone and the show lacks depth, character, and interest.
Corn Fed, of ALL the women on these reality love shows you had to have been the realest. I hope you find true love. I heard what happened in Fargo, I hope you weren’t affected. I wish it had worked out but really you deserve better. God Bless
Everyone knows that their music sucks. Really, they will never make it big even with a tv show. I laugh when they look so serious singing those horriable songs. Corn Feed, girl what do you see in that loser? You should be happy you are not with that idiot. He thinks he look good with his long hair looking like Rick JAMES went to rehab with a perm. Forget about it.
this whole show is a waste of time, i always knew chance was a user but i never thought real was too, they are just using these young ladies,they are not looking for love, just publicity and airtime.
ww’ll all i have to say is i really don’t care why they cause if he not trying get into a relatinship then why you keep doing this to these girls they being on the show to get played and all them )%~@@%$^$@+&(~@)) es was fake except for risky that’s my gurl chance be the dumb $_(`)#*^*`_!@&& and not choose nobosdy he could of went with risky and bay bay bay talk about people too much and don’t back up her word
chance and real r just 2 phony’s that r just trying to be on t.v .If they r looking for real relationships they should worried first of their looks. These girls must be really desperate to find a man and to be on t.v. Most of them r not bad looking and I’m pretty sure that they could find someone in their hometown . They just want to be on t.v. for some reason. Over all these guys r just just fun to watch, ill give half of thumps up, “their funny”. Good luck ever finding true love. Not a hater just a lover!
he a player he just wants to be on tv again dont let it get to u
HAPPEN I ALREADY NEW IT WAS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT
YALL SHOULD HAVE NEVER GOT TOGATHER YALL SHOULD
HAVE STAYED AWAY FROM EACHOTHER IN THE REUNION I
NEW IT WAS’ENT GOING TO WORK OUT IM SORRY HOPE ONE OF YALL FINR SOMEONE
HAPPEN I ALREADY NEW IT WAS NOT GOING TO WORK OUT
I THINK REAL AND CHANCE WERE ALL JUST ACTING 4 THE SHOW SORRY YOU END UP GETTING AND THEYLL DO IT AGAIN IN AQUINT
real and chance are to fake for me it all about tv not real love.this show is all set up people really wacth this fake ~!!)**%^*%))$`~+
Thes guys are not looking for true love. They just want to have fun and these girls are fool enough to go on the zhow. It is all about ratings and MONEY.
i new they was not going to stay to togheter
Corn fed, just keep your head up, like to have been. Remember that everyone has a motive. Maybe yours was to find real love, and Real’s was to boost his career and also have the opportunity to expose all of you woman and make you fall in love with him. I give my hat off to you for being strong. Good luck to finding TRUE LOVE and not REAL LOVE.
I think Real made a huge mistake by letting Corn Fed go. She seemed like a really great girl… maybe he just doesnt deserve a real woman. I think the second season girls are not like the ones from the first season, i dont even care to watch it…Its all a bunch of bull….
i wish Real and Chance, especially Chance, stop wit these @**_^*`!##^^`#~ ty boppers. They think all they need is sex appeal and looks, not realizing it takes more than that to be able to be the TOTAL PACKAGE. I have yet to see these ‘girls’ feed these men. home cooking i mmean. When Chance is really serious, hit me up. I have the looks, personality, smarts, i can cook, and everything in between
Real is just a player looking for stardom. He’s a nobody that got some recognition from a reality show and he loves the attention. It’s too bad he has to lie and hurt people in the process of thinking he’s a famous rockstar. Rediculous! No one had ever heard of him before th reality show. What a loser! At least his brother is more honest and decent. He didn’t pick anyone at the end of his show. He didn’t make up any lies that he pretended to be in love. Go fly a kite Real!
all of them fake!!!!!!!!!!!
I think its dumb if people like real or chance make a TV Show just for the fame!It wont break their hearts for sure because they arent the ones who are fighting for love!playin with others peoples hearts.. All i think why even have a show if your going to dump the person who won right after? Come up with a hit song if you wanna be more famous.The only thing youll do is loose more fans like youve lost ME.Cornfed Be stright up ad sho that your an indepndentwman!
I think its dumb if people like real or chance make a TV Show just for the fame!It wont break their hearts for sure because they arent the ones who are fighting for love!playin with others peoples hearts.. All i think why even have a show if your going to dump the person who won right after? Come up with a hit song if you wanna be more famous.The only thing youll do is loose more fans like youve lost ME.Cornfed Be straight up and show that your an indepndent woman!
girl i knew they were bein fake. they music sucks they not that cute.it was ~@(+)@%$*_`($$@+ ed up how they did all the girls and u just dont do women like that.i will not be watchin part 2 they not lookin for love. i guess they have to get paid someway cause they music is garbage.
LOOK THATS WHAT SHE GET TRYING TO BE MEAN TO BAY BAY BAY SHE JUST GOT WHAT SHE DESERVE I THINK ITS FUNNY DONT TRY TO TALK BAD ABOUT REAL BECAUSE HE REALIZED HE PICKED THE WRONG PERSON BUT I KNEW HE WASNT GOING TO PICK BAY BAY BAY.
I feel very bad for Corn Fed you are a very nice country girl but its good that you are keeping ur head up and meeting new people. The fact that you are not letting this experience change you is great and real will get what is comming to him cause God don’t like ugly
I did’nt like cornfed in da first place i wanted bay bay bay to win.
real is a #)@^)****_&%^$+ hole for what he did..he is fake as ~&_*#^“$+~!^!@~ and pretend to be someone that he is not. what career is he talking about???? he has no damn career. i havent heard any of his songs noone heard any of his songs. so that means he sucks..no one is going to buy his cd or whatever. what ever career he thinks he has is a joke. where is he going to be after reality tv no where and noone will remember his #)@^)****_&%^$+ when cornfed and the rest of the girls will be on top looking down at him
real is a *&^_%~^_((^_%+` hole for what he did..he is fake as #&@&~^()@!%~~&^! and pretend to be someone that he is not. what career is he talking about???? he has no damn career. i havent heard any of his songs noone heard any of his songs. so that means he sucks..no one is going to buy his cd or whatever. what ever career he thinks he has is a joke. where is he going to be after reality tv no where and noone will remember his *&^_%~^_((^_%+` when cornfed and the rest of the girls will be on top looking down at him
real is a ^%~(%^)(~~)&`!` hole for what he did..he is fake as &#$^+@#^(`*%(!*+ and pretend to be someone that he is not. what career is he talking about???? he has no damn career. i havent heard any of his songs noone heard any of his songs. so that means he sucks..no one is going to buy his cd or whatever. what ever career he thinks he has is a joke. where is he going to be after reality tv no where and noone will remember his ^%~(%^)(~~)&`!` when cornfed and the rest of the girls will be on top looking down at him
WOW……….I’m so glad I just read this post DAMN…………no wonder folks say they fake!Seriously they aint no better then Flav or Brett.Even though on both seasons of Real Chance of love and I love new york they swore up and down that they aint promoting themselves they a damn lie!Remember the last episode of I love New York when Tango called Chance out on that self promoting crap and Chance threw a HUGE tantrum?!Like Tango said he did that because he knew it was the truth! Well at least we know now for DAMN SURE that there WILL be a 3rd season since the stallionaires need to promote themselves more. I do give Chance credit though at LEAST he didn’t pick anyone last season which means he at least has a heart and didn’t wanna hurt either of the girls……..unlike Real who’s giant douchebag that acts like he’s the nice bro!Dude please!At least Chance is OPENLY an a ss hole!Real is faker then a 3 dollar bill!
both of thm are 100% fake ,corney and they are cornballs
well corn fed im sorry to hear that. give your self to god and the right man will always be there for you. god bless you.
i personally think there both gay and they just want to be seen y don’t they do like tila and bring men and women on the show and be real with themselves.
you suck eggs!!!
Real you should have stuck with poca she was the better choice. Maybe she did lie but maybe she just didn’t want you to judge her for something she did when she was younger. I am sure you have done tings to. If you have the chance again in life you should get to know her better. I think the two of you would be great together. She is a pretty woman and she may have been to good to be true with the exception of one mistake seems like she was true to you. You and doll will not last. She may have won the show but she will not stay with you. She did describe the kind of guy she is looking for and that is not you. No woman wants to be with a man that is like her. Your mate should have somethings in comman but you should be able to bring out the best in each other. Poca could have done this not doll. I am glad you did not pick sassy she enjoyed poca’s sadness to much. She is the one that is fake and got the hair to prove it.
anyone could see that REAL ain’t real…..CHANCE is more of a real person when it comes to love and being honest.
did real respond to this?
real i feel like u really dog the sisters,i mean u let aa lot fine black women pass by.i mean u caught poca $#&@$_+`&~&#^^^ in a lie,doll basically was really looking at chance and u said out your mouth sassy was the same person (real) what more could u ask for, and yet u pick doll sneaky looking $#&@$_+`&~&#^^^ i personally dont think u are into sisters, too strong for u, thats @)(#_!_*&&`#!+(+ ed up yall took mamacita and doll on the yacht and sassy n hot wings to the dam swamps $#&@$_+`&~&#^^^ holes, real ur not as romantic with the sisters on dates like u are with white girls etc…etc,i dont know why sisters run to ur show, for what to get dis.i wonder after new york dis u had u crying is why u do sisters,i mean u are fine as hell and would look real fine with a fine,intelligent,fun, loving black woman whats the problem,now your brother made the right choice.
real i feel like u really dog the sisters,i mean u let aa lot fine black women pass by.i mean u caught poca )&*+*()#)_#+^*# in a lie,doll basically was really looking at chance and u said out your mouth sassy was the same person (real) what more could u ask for, and yet u pick doll sneaky looking )&*+*()#)_#+^*# i personally dont think u are into sisters, too strong for u, thats *`_@^#!%~(`_&!@_ ed up yall took mamacita and doll on the yacht and sassy n hot wings to the dam swamps )&*+*()#)_#+^*# holes, real ur not as romantic with the sisters on dates like u are with.white girls etc…etc,i dont know why sisters run to ur show, for what to get dis.i wonder after new york dis u had u crying is why u do sisters,i mean u are fine as hell and would look real fine with a fine,intelligent,fun, loving black woman whats the problem,now your brother made the right choice. bay bay bay had class looks personality and ur )&*+*()#)_#+^*# picked cornfed..u suck u are something else,ur brother should been name real u should of been chance thats what a sister take u a big chance and waste their time i feel sorry for them because a lot of them are sincere poor sassy.
real i feel like u really dog the sisters,i mean u let aa lot fine black women pass by.i mean u caught poca ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ in a lie,doll basically was really looking at chance and u said out your mouth sassy was the same person (real) what more could u ask for, and yet u pick doll sneaky looking ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ i personally dont think u are into sisters, too strong for u, thats @_+`&%_*)@$~$)^) ed up yall took mamacita and doll on the yacht and sassy n hot wings to the dam swamps ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ holes, real ur not as romantic with the sisters on dates like u are with.white girls etc…etc,i dont know why sisters run to ur show, for what to get dis.i wonder after new york dis u had u crying is why u do sisters,i mean u are fine as hell and would look real fine with a fine,intelligent,fun, loving black woman whats the problem,now your brother made the right choice. bay bay bay had class looks personality and ur ^*!^^)!`~(^(~*^ picked cornfed..u suck u are something else,ur brother should been name real u should of been chance thats what a sister take u a big chance and waste their time i feel sorry for them because a lot of them are sincere poor sassy.
i think him and chance are fake as +@$!_(+()$$_#)`! their show sucks look at that hair of reals come on give me a break
I just want to say that I loved corn fed and when I found out that there was another show of real chance of love I was like what the hell. And when I saw it, it was like I saw him vwey differnt. Sorry Corn Fed for what he did to you. He really ain’t worth the time.
I can’t stand Real. He looks crazy and disgusting. I would not date him at all. At least Chance is honest. Oh and the music sucks!!! On these shows stop acting like when you go to the club they actually just happen to be playing your music. I mean really??!!
I cant believe Real.?.?.Had me thinking he was soooo real! he need to change his name to…Fake Azz N****!! These guys arent looking for love..they are out to PROMOTE!!! and its sad because these women are putting their hearts in to it- only to get it broken! They sleepin with these woman and leavin’em! NOTE TO ALL LADIES…STOP GOING ON THESE SHOWS!!!! ITS NOT REAL!?!?!
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