We really thought it never would happen, but we finally got to talk to Milf. Since we never linked up for her for a post-Real Chance of Love interview, the interview below includes questions pertaining to both that show and her most recent one, I Love Money 2. Below, Milf explains why she skipped out on the Real Chance of Love Reunion, gives us an update of her family struggles that had her in tears when we last saw her on TV, talks about all the hate she received as a result of vying for Real’s heart and muses on her past as a nude model.
I’m glad to connect with you finally. I didn’t know if you went AWOL after I Love Money wrapped, since you weren’t at the Real Chance of Love reunion.
No! Not at all! My son and I have reunited, and that happened during the holiday season. It wasn’t planned – we were reunited through family, not court. So I had to take it as it came. I wasn’t planning on missing the reunion, it was just that I had no option but to work on my relationship with my family.
I thought maybe you were fed up with everything after having such a hard time on the shows.
Nah. Real and I stayed in contact after the show. I have nothing negative to say about him. It’s a tough situation to be an up-and-coming star with so many women around. I felt like he kept a lot of his integrity in spite of it all. He was really there for me in a way that I’d never experienced.
It was pretty surprising that you didn’t make it to the end, based on your connection.
He let me know that he’d rather let me go than see me continue being hurt. I wanted to go at that point, too. The things that were being said about me and my family at that point were hard to take. It was no longer worth it to stay on the show to look for love. If it was real, it would have happened after.
Do you think all that drama stemmed from jealousy?
Hands down. I don’t hate on people to get money or love. In those kind of environments, though, you’re not going to win unless that’s what you do. I think I genuinely won part of Real’s heart.
Was I Love Money an easier experience?
No! At least with Real Chance I had one ally: Real. I knew with the way I was being put in the box every time on I Love Money that there was no benefit to me appearing intellectually capable at all. Or even physically! At that point, all of my work for the team was getting overlooked. The whole point to looking as stupid as possible was to appear nonthreatening.
So after employing that strategy, were you surprised to be eliminated?
I had to fight Cali, and I can’t think of one time in my life that fighting and losing my composure has ever benefitted my life. It’s always caused more problems than it solved. So I’m not the typical girl on the show who can’t wait to beat a bitch down. That’s not how I want to represent myself and it’s not how I want the world to look. I think it was the lack of tension between Cali and I that caused me to be eliminated.
Did you bond with anyone on the show?
No! There are no friends. I’m really good at overhearing things. You’ll hear, “Let’s get together as women and get these guys out of here,” and then you’ll turn around and hear, “We’re from the same area, so…” or, “We did a show together.” There was a lot of duplicity. Everyone was being manipulative. Mass-manipulation isn’t something I excel at. I’m learning, though! (Laughs)
I thought Saaphyri had your back.
Her keeping me there over her friend that she’d done another show with was a big deal, and I had a lot of respect for Saaphyri’s game in life. She’s gone through a lot and she won Charm School. But let me clear something up: Buddha told me his last name is “Masters.” That’s why I made a sarcastic comment about him being the master of the house. It wasn’t meant on any other level. In the beginning of the show, I paid little attention to him. I can’t think of anyone besides Becky and Frenchie who didn’t want him in that way. After he got picked, he pursued me. And not in an aggressive way, but more aggressively than the other women. He asked me to stay in his room. He pulled me on his lap. He thought for sure I’d be a pawn to keep him there.
When you had the confrontation with him, were you afraid for your safety?
When I’m in a situation like that, I forget my size. So no, I was not afraid of him. I didn’t see him as someone who was gonna go out like that on TV, at least. I was disappointed in him when he hurt Saaphyri. I asked him to apologize to her before the butt-kissing challenge. I told him I wouldn’t throw it if he said he was sorry. That was the biggest issue to me, the way he man-handled her.
During your exit interview, you said that you did the show for your son. If the situation is that desperate, why not take on a sure bet to make money, like an actual job?
A large part of my income before I had my son was through fitness modeling. Because I’m not the average 9-to-5er, marketing myself as a product is what I’ve been used to doing. I’m an unmarried woman who had a biracial baby. I’ve faced a lot in society. I just stepped up into the spotlight because I wasn’t going to hold my head down. I’m gonna find love and I’m gonna find money. Granted, I’d never again go to do it on TV. And I’ll be honest with you: my son’s father is a slightly famous individual. This was a chance to get out from behind his shadow. So basically, my decision was specific to my life than that of any other single mother. They can’t compare their struggles to mine.
So what are you doing now about it?
I do personal training. Prior to the shows, I was working for a gym and basically getting $9 a session because my certification expired, even though I’ve been doing this for 15 years. Now, basically, I have a website where I talk people through training and getting ready for fitness. I’m also about to do another photo shoot.
Some of the adult modeling you’ve done…
That was all done before I had my son. There was one photo shoot I did before I was born. There was only one after he was born that involved nudity, but it was in the same style as what I did before. What I’m I gonna tell my son? “I’m willing to do that before you were born because it was with a cool name like Playboy, but when we’re struggling after leaving your father, I’m not gonna do it for us?”
Yeah. And it’s amazing that you got to work with Anna Nicole!
Yeah. That was before my son.
I know. I’m not judging you. You worked with an icon. What do you think of being called Milf?
At first, I hated it. But it does depict my life’s struggle. I am a mother and I’ve marketed myself in a sexual manner. That duplicity for the sake of survival is summed up by my name. I don’t let my son see the shows, though. He has no idea his mother is Milf. No matter what people think of me as being really sexual, before Real Chance, I went through a long period of celibacy.
How long?
A very long time. A time that’s not believable: it was close to a year. That’s not to say there weren’t options, it just wasn’t my priority. And then you’re locked up in a house and pursuing somebody and you realize that you have urges and feelings that you’ve been taught by your own family that you didn’t have a right to feel. If you’re a single mom, you’re not supposed to need those things.
One of the big moments of Real Chance happened when you were in the limo bickering with Bay Bay Bay and you said to remember the next time she kissed Real, his lips had been all over you. You later took it back, but that was the truth, right?
No. I mean, we did kiss and lay next to each other all night, but there wasn’t an explicit act that went on. That was just bitches talking s***. I let myself get caught up in some female s*** about a man. You’re up there kissing him and saying I’m disgusting, and yet he’s wanting me in his room. What does that tell you about you?
What about the Risky confrontation, do you regret that?
It was timing. Bay Bay Bay had gone Biblical on me, and Risky walked by. Truth be told: I had heard and known things prior to that. She made a smart-ass comment to me at a time when I was feeling vulnerable. It was like, I’m so sick of going back and forth with Bay Bay Bay, I’m just gonna have my little reality Jerry Springer moment with the only one who can bounce back from me if I get that angry.
So, it’s great that you’re back with your son.
I got what I wanted out of the shows. I didn’t have to use the courts to do it. Media’s just as powerful as government.
Did you get your son back as a direct result of the shows?
Yes. And it was a direct result of people in my life who were treating each other terribly because of racial and cultural differences now had to get together and talk about what was going on.
What was it? They saw you talking about the situation and it ignited reconciliation?
My son’s father’s mother, a black woman, got involved. She connected with my mother, who had my son. He wasn’t taken by C.P.S. She addressed the situation, that what was going on with the family to punish her wasn’t going to benefit him.
You to Real that your mother took your son because you smoked too much…
There were a lot of factors. Part of my struggle is when I was a younger individual, I was around family that had a hydroponic lifestyle as a means of support. This for my mother was unacceptable, and I became a hypocrite when I had my son and excluded all these people from our lives and a lot of support for me to make her happy. Saying that on TV was a general way of not addressing that bigger picture. The bigger picture was that I’d been in volatile situations with his father, and by keeping my son from me, my family thought they could prevent me from going back into that.
Last time we saw you on TV, you were crying about your family. It seems that things have turned around for you.
I’m not rich, but I’m OK with being me.
Keep up with Milf via her MySpace and her official site.
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| 214 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Finale Bonus Clips | 5/04/09 |
| 214 | Show Clips | Videos: Finale Show Clips | 5/04/09 |
| 213 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 13 Bonus Clips | 4/27/09 |
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| 211 | Show Clips | Videos: You Can Scream All You Want Show Clips | 4/13/09 |
| 210 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 10 Bonus Clips | 4/06/09 |
| 210 | Show Clips | Videos: You Made Your Bed, Now Lie In It Show Clips | 4/06/09 |
| 209 | Show Clips | Videos: Thrown Under the Bus Show Clips | 3/30/09 |
| 209 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 9 Bonus Clips | 3/30/09 |
| 208 | Show Clips | Videos: How Do You Say 'Implosion' in Spanish Show Clips | 3/23/09 |
| 208 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 8 Bonus Clips | 3/23/09 |
| 207 | Show Clips | Videos: Are You There, God? It's Me... Show Clips | 3/16/09 |
| 207 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 7 Bonus Clips | 3/16/09 |
| 206 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 6 Bonus Clips | 3/09/09 |
| 206 | Show Clips | Videos: The Chickens Who Come Home to Roost Show Clips | 3/09/09 |
| 205 | Show Clips | Videos: Alliances Are Dead - Or Are They? Show Clips | 3/02/09 |
| 205 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 5 Bonus Clips | 3/02/09 |
| 204 | Show Clips | Videos: Kiss My... Show Clips | 2/23/09 |
| 204 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 4 Bonus Clips | 2/23/09 |
| 203 | Show Clips | Videos: It's in the Cards Show Clips | 2/16/09 |
| 203 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 3 Bonus Clips | 2/16/09 |
| 202 | Show Clips | Videos: Stripper Moves Show Clips | 2/09/09 |
| 202 | Bonus Clips | Videos: Episode 2 Bonus Clips | 2/09/09 |
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37 responses to to The Celebreality Interview – Milf
i like her. she seems genuine.
i dont understand why everyone dislikes milf. I think she’s nice
milf i thought you were crazy on those two shows, but this interview cleared up a lot of misconceptions about you…you’re a genuine individual, keep your head up
Out of all the blogs I’ve read on vh1, MILF you are the most positve individual. Keep your head high and you will get what you want outta this life!
she has alot of issues. she needs counseling
that nasty behind female need to go sit her old rump down. some were and go get her kids back old nasty self milf my )$+!)~~)(+_#`#@
i think alot of people look at her as a bad person just because she has done playboy she did what she had to do for her and her son i think if i were in her shoes i would do the same thing. the problem with her son just cuase she didnt have her son does not mean that she is a bad mom cuase i have had my kids taken a way from me and it is nothing to play with that really hurts i know what she was going through when people put you down like that it makes you fell like (##++%+(&_%@+^^& dont let any of those (##++%+(&_%@+^^& talking hoes get to you keep you head up just think of it like this you got your son back now….
I have to agree 100% with boytoy and Jennifer.
Milf is just a faker, she wants money and wants to be in the spotlight just like any other reality star. How can she say that no other single parent can be like her, any single parent would not go on a show to find love and have her son taken away from her! That tell a person what kind of mother and human being she really is. And hinestly if she was a fitness model, she would not be flabby and out of shape, and have to be on a reality show for money she would be making money. Milf stop being a liar and tell the truth, no wonder why Bay Bay started telling you the truth.
um sassy obviously you didnt read the whole article. She DID NOT have her son taken away from her by an agency. Her mother took her son because of the situation she was in with his father. READ THE ARTICLE before you start runnin ur mouth and talkin *&^% that u OBVIOUSLY dont kno nuthin about.
milf i commend you on being a strong woman and doing what you had to do to reunite with your son i am so happy for you.
i really learned a lot in life thru milfs situation i dont have kids but u still can learn a lot. hold ur head up high milf and continuo being who u are which is a truthful and beautiful person inside and out i believe bay bay bay is da liar here never liked her after wat she said and did 2 u xoxo
Hi Milf so they call you, keep your head up and stand tall we go thru things that are unbelievable but only the strongest survive. Peace-N-Love
i think that Milf was played by the teams and i was glad that Buddah was sent home because he was getting in her mind.
PS:stay strong and you will be O.K!!!!!!!!!!!!
love you milf, it’ll be okay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
milf is an old butter face ugly tramp and vh1 are a$$holes
I’m so pleased you and your son have finally been reunited! Many of us can relate to your story! Keep your head up, keep your career moving forward, keep faith in yourself and in your higher power…
milf is a good lady who shouldnt been put off the show
She’s a buddaface!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think what she did was good because she chose her family over some stupet show were lots of inmature woman were fighting over the love of not 1 but 2 men.
milf you rock you shudnt have been eliminated from ilm2 ! buh hey at least you got yhur song back much love n respect xoxo kelly.d.
Milf, I really wished that you would have won on Real Chance, but he was a little too childish for you anyway so its a good thing you didn’t he wasn’t looking for love just some @$$ just like Chance. I knew he wasn’t going to pick baybaybay because she looked like an anorexic chicken and clucked too much. I hated that they got rid of you on i love money but all of them are treacherous especially saphyri. The thing i don’t get is why everybody joining together with one person to go against others when only one person is going to win the money…are they planning to give their alliances part of the cash…..no they are not so everyone is going to cut throat one another.
u a dumb )))+$@#^!&!@+&*~^ 4 belivin safari was keep u around but thats my )))+$@#^!&!@+&*~^ her an buckwild
You’re a great girl! You’re the best. I admire you and wish you well. You should have tried for Bret Michaels. ;)
Honestly i think milf is full of (*~&^&@_(^%)!*!( she trying to make it seem like her world is revovled around her son. if that the case she wouldnt have been on those shows away from him. She wants people to fell sorry for her )(`$*)`$(!`*%^+ and im not one. how the hell can you be a single mother when your mother “took your son” not cps but your mother. she was raising him while you was “making a better living for him”. now im wat you call a single mother. i had my son son at the age 17 and im 20 now. even with a child i still manage to graduate high school, buy a car, my own place, and hold a 9-5 job and still pay all my bills without having to expose my body in any type of way and my son have everything he need and wants. i didnt have nobody but my friends to help me, so she better be happy her mother was there for her to take care of her kid while she did wat she was doing and stop making it seem like she hurt you n so many ways. she was doing you a favor. n so wat if ur son is biracial your not the first honey. its america honey and it happens everyday. ugh that whole interview just seem so phoney
i still don,t like her *&((**$~((((@%!
I was so bumd when you got voted off I love money you should have stayed you were so stong some people thought you were a weak team player but not me just let them talk becuase bricks and stones mite break your bones but words will never hurt me I hope beleave me I love you milf I want to be like you when I grow
are you stupid or crazy mabe both for beleaving safari crazy (*&%#!@) SUCK(#@$^^*^)
I think some people that blog on here are hateful and immature. Milf as you can hear in her answers is educated and loves her son.What a hateful thing to say about her son “you know who you are”,you are immature to speak about someone’s child.
The only people that say hateful things are jealous.Grow up and try to find good in your heart..
Alot of those girls hated on Milf because her body looked better than theirs and they were younger and not to be funny, but some girls don’t know what to think when white girls’ bodies break the flat )&$(~!!&$`*`)_` stereotype. I think it is definitely okay for someone to do whatever necessary to raise a child within reason. Professional athletes are good parents who have to leave for long amounts of time to provide. I think milf had other issues obviously, but she seemed really down to earth and not ignorant. Real was feeling Milf the most, he was pressured because of her past not to pick her, but she needs to focus on the quality of her relationship with her son, not the quantity of the bank account. We all have to make sacrifices as mothers to make the best decisions for our children. But time with our children is always the BEST decision.
i want her @_++_@&^##^+#`+$^
I think Milf will be a good candidate for the upcoming charm school.
Milf makes me sick, shes on tv crying about her son! Go Get Him then, there is no excuse, I have 6 kids and I have to take care of all of mine, why cant you take care of your son Milf!? Nobody feels sorry for you, Stop chasing men and money and take care of your kid, you dont count as a MILF considering the fact that you arent a mother to your son!
Poor Milf…such a sweetheart but she never realized that she was nothing more than a joke of Real chance of Love from day one… hasnt she checked out her name…
Awersome
y’r really nice guz
37 responses to to The Celebreality Interview – Milf