For The Love Of Ray J Recap – Episode 9 – Seven Things We Loved About This Week’s Show

Ha! How’s this for sobering?

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Mama Norwood: the realest thing on reality TV, y/y?

So yeah, the first thing we loved about this week’s episode, as you can see above, was the reaction of Ray’s mom to this situation. What could have seemed like over-protective parenting just came off as an unwillingness to swallow any of this TV crap.

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“It only takes me 30 seconds to look at a person and determine if that person is gonna be good for my son or my daughter.” It only takes one to instill the fear of God in them! And you get the feeling that her disdain for all the women in the running for Ray’s heart isn’t to set up a hypothetical second season or anything!

The next thing we loved about this episode was…

- Danger’s opening freakout

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Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeere’s instability!

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It’s always about the eyes in these matters. And the words: she told Ray that he’s been “here” “this much”…

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…which is, obviously, a bizarre comparison. But then, the reveal of her true ire was even more confusing: “Where were you at earlier when I was on the f***in’ lie-detector test? Where were you at? Right there…But you weren’t right here, you were right there.” What does that mean, you ask? Here, I’ll translate: “PAY ATTENTION TO ME.” I think Ray said it best with:

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- Grandma

Though similarly dissapproving, her style is a little more mournful than Mama Norwood’s:

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Seriously, this woman is magical.

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Love that she was soooo unimpressed with Danger…

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Nobody can jaw-jank her. I don’t even really know what that means, but it sounds bad and so I ask: who would ever want to?

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- Ray’s friends

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First of all, I love that everyone who’s ever had a show on VH1 is friends with Warren G. I think it’s a requirement. It’s how stuff gets greenlit. There should be a Six Degrees of Warren G game for VH1 programming, except it would be One Degree of Warren G because everyone knows him!

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To use Cocktail’s words: “I mean, it’s Tom Green. Really?”

And finally:

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These people are awesome. They were so not into listening to Unique talk about crafts. This episode should have been titled Elements of Disdain.

- Danger’s homie-smashing

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That look on her face is exactly how I felt inside during her big reveal. One question, though: who the f*** is Lo? Do you think he knows Larry?

- Danger’s concluding freakout

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She pitched a fit and demanded to be taken to the hospital when she found out that Ray had planned to meet her parents. That the episode ended on an open note (no elimination!) just goes to show that this woman is a living, breathing, hyperventilating “To be continued…” notice. Seriously, no matter what you think of her as a person, as a TV character, Danger has the ability to bring the drama like few can. What a find!

- Cocktail’s reaction to Danger’s concluding freakout

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‘I’m dying, I’m dying.’ Like, what’s goin’ on now? Like, hat story is it right now? Like, what is it now? What the f*** is your problem besides being psycho? Are you melting?

I don’t think anyone threw any water on her, so she’s probably good. But really: HA! I have to remember to use “What the f*** is your problem besides being psycho” one day SOON.

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175 responses to to For The Love Of Ray J Recap – Episode 9 – Seven Things We Loved About This Week’s Show

KIARRA89 April 6, 2009 at 11:05 pm

HONESTLY…TO RAYS MAMA NOBODY IS GONNA BE GOOD ENOUGH…SOOO SHE CAN SUCK ON IT….N $$*(+~$)!*~_)^^^ TAIL VOICE IS URKIN MY DAMN NERVES…SHE JUST NEED TO SHUT THE HELL UP…N UNIQUE NEEDS TO SHUT HER FAKE %+)#$&@_)$%&$%~ UP AS WELL…N DO SOMETHIN WITH THAT DAMN COOKIE BUSH…ON STOP OF HER HEAD.. IM PUSHIN FOR DANGER ALL DAY..

Crazy Danger April 6, 2009 at 11:09 pm

I feel that Danger is not the one she is basically crazy and the fact you called her danger out of all names you could have picked and she turned out to be dangerous should turn a red light on for you not a green light.I agree with Ray J mother there isn’t a woman there for him I feel Unique is better than the other two but to be honest you sent two woman home who would I think were cool chicks and that is Cashmere and Stacks to me they were cool girls who didn’t seem like they had an agenda.

Asia Thomas April 6, 2009 at 11:09 pm

I absolutely love Danger,even if she is a little crazy.She is different and a gentle human. Some of her actions may be a little unorthodox but at the end of the day she still the realest.

Nayquain April 6, 2009 at 11:09 pm

Yo Mama Norwood is the best. She gave the girls a run for their money. She looks like she can cook though. However I dont agree with one of her choices for the girls. Danger is the best girl there and I don’t care what anyone says. If he does not pick her that willbe shocking. She is keeping it 100. Although she may have had som weird encounters withher previous boyfriends, I think she learned from her mistakes. Thoughs are thoughts. If I was in a house with a bunch of dudes competing for one girl I would be thinking about things to mess the others up. All i am saying is PICK DANGER. In spite of her smashing the homie she is still a good person.

Erica April 6, 2009 at 11:13 pm

I don’t think any of them are real. They all r out 4 themselves.They back stab each other so much. I have not seen a real sense of love. I thimk Danger love’s him but she scares me. Unique is not real at all and ((^_^`~*#++$^@(% tail she just try to blend in she’s not a strong woman.

LuckyLibra April 6, 2009 at 11:17 pm

Its funny how Unique spent all her time talking about Danger to Ray J mom.Can somebody say HATER? Is Unique threatned by danger? Idk but Ray J is most definitely feeling her.But it is clear that she is goin home i guess the panic attack was too much.

MeFiMe April 6, 2009 at 11:17 pm

Danger needs to get off the show I’m so tried of her fake a**. Ray J mom was right there isn’t a woman there for him because all of the women that came on that show came for fame you can’t find love that way if Ray j was serious about looking for a good woman he don’t need to look no farther than church even though you have some gold digger lurking around in there, but your asking for trouble when you come from a family that has money and your holding auditions for potential women to be serious with and all there looking for is camera time. Haven’t you seen enough of these shows to know what happen at the reunion?

Shannon April 6, 2009 at 11:23 pm

I’m with Danger. I can understand as a mother how Ray’s mother can be over protective. It’s her baby, and her only son. I am the same way with my 15yr old son who thinks he is Gods gift to women. But, she isn’t the one who has to be with the girl…Ray does. So he has to make the choice..and he keeps going back to Danger…go with your heart Ray…I’m with Danger all the way!

shacon barksdale April 6, 2009 at 11:23 pm

To be honest i think u should send (dangers)ass home she is so fake to me and i watch every monday i think its really funny send all them @%)*+(!^!~#!)*_#* es home……..

dina lo1 April 6, 2009 at 11:26 pm

F*** Danger, I don’t know why is she still on the show… Look at her she looks crazy. Hell if I was Ray I be scared to blink around that crazy )^(_@&@%%@`!%#((! I like Unique, she is pretty, smart, and I think she is too good for Ray. If I were her I would not waste my time with him. She can do a lot better. I don’t think Ray is looking for love I think he is looking for a nut. So he should pick that other hoe… Byy the way I think Unique is the winner, I’m basing it on the lyrics of his song “Sexy Lady”

Thanks and good looking out.

shea April 6, 2009 at 11:27 pm

Ok i love danger to she is very beautiful .im a girl but she turns me on and i have a man never been with a girl. but i think that rayj should leave with unqiue she fits for him they would be beautiful together.

Shannon April 6, 2009 at 11:28 pm

Ok…I just have something to say about Danger and her past. Ladies, there isn’t anyone on here who can’t say they haven’t made threats to their husband or boyfriend. I am happily married, and my husband tells me all the time he is too afraid to do anything because I am crazy as hell! lol…but I tell him all the time if he messes up I’ll cut him! lol…. I don’t think I would actually do it…but he needs to think it to keep his butt in check! lol I think we all have been emotional with our men, and let’s admit it..they all drive us there sometimes. Anyone who says they haven’t made threats…liars. Anyone who says they haven’t thought about killing some damn body when your mad…liars. Anyone who hasn’t thrown something at your man when they messed up…liars. Mine was texting another woman…I launched the damn phone at his head…and yes I was aiming for it. That was prior to getting married, and guess what? I haven’t killed anyone, cut anyone, burned anyone’s house down..especially not my own..lol. Ya’l need to leave Danger alone..I like her. She is beautiful inside and out!

dinalo1 April 6, 2009 at 11:28 pm

F*** Danger, I don’t know why is she still on the show… Look at her she looks crazy. Hell if I was Ray I be scared to blink around that crazy %!)!@)~@*)!)$^~$! I like Unique, she is pretty, smart, and I think she is too good for Ray. If I were her I would not waste my time with him. She can do a lot better. I don’t think Ray is looking for love I think he is looking for a nut. So he should pick that other hoe… Byy the way I think Unique is the winner, I’m basing it on the lyrics of his song “Sexy Lady”

Thanks and good looking out.

nikki April 6, 2009 at 11:32 pm

i truly feel that after watching episode 9 that he should have let Danger go home. when you are dating someone , its only natural that you meet their family. i use to feel that Unique was good but she is so fake. she makes us church girls look bad. the front is so tired, just be real. (#+_%__$$&$)()*& tail is who she is and you cannot blame her for that. if she is weak then thats just too bad. Ray, please make the right choice. if none of them are right, then none of them are right.

wonderboi April 6, 2009 at 11:33 pm

I just wanna say this… And I hope Danger reads this…. If Ray doesn’t pick u as real as u are and as gorgeous as u look.. Plz get u a facebook page(facebook.com)imma find u.. I PROMISE!!!!

zully April 6, 2009 at 11:34 pm

im so sorry to say that i was rulling that danger won,but now i dont think that any of this girls are good for ray j.as someone that is watching everything from the outside unique is fake as hell, @(_~~(_)(@#~#++% tail aint strong enough to be with a man like ray j,and danger i think that shes losing the meaning of all of this.. shes letting the other girls get to her…

Jelly April 6, 2009 at 11:37 pm

Ray,
I don’t know if this show is 4 real. I mean why would a guy like you need to do this except for money and more exposure. Anyway, after watching, I like you as a person and if I had to pick, pick the realest, Danger. If she is too of the chain, pick `$($#$($~_%*&~!( tail. Unique is full of !%^%%+!(*(~__^*& Her putting on this “I’m old fashioned” just doesn’t come off as natural. Take this from me, a person who had a past and now I’m married to a man who overlooked all that. I never cheated on him even when we faced hard times and he is blessed to have me as I’m blessed to have him. Almost every woman has a past or gets exposed early and that is why we become women when we learn from our mistakes and respect ourselves. Even though Danger has a past, men make women and she can be molded. It’s not where you from, but where yr at. I’m not there all the time, but if she demonstrates that she could posess the qualities u like in a woman, go 4 it. However, if she is really crazy, y got t let her go. Whatever u do, please not Unique. She is a pretty girl, but she is absolutely the fakest B I’ve seen on any reality tv show lately. Last thing, I do agree with one other person that if the Cashmere would have stayed, she would have been the one!

Kim April 6, 2009 at 11:38 pm

To kiarra89….shut the &~(_`~*#_`&!+(^* up!! Ray J’s Mama is the REALEST MAMA that ever hit vh1!! Idc if she said no to all the girls, that is a REAL mom! Any boy’s mama would do the exact same thing! (Except real and chance’s mama) I love his mama!! LOL
But I am going for Danger =)

Jodi April 6, 2009 at 11:38 pm

I’m getting a strong vibe that $^!~%~^&%!`^%~@+ tail just might win this. Kids like her, friends like her, mom thought she was best of the worst…

and then you have Danger and Unique going at each other’s throats. Make way for $^!~%~^&%!`^%~@+ tail the underdog to emerge as the victor because all D&U are focusing on are each other.

Real Talk April 6, 2009 at 11:39 pm

I’m reading these comments and I’m really trippin’ out because everyone is saying danger is crazy and a little unorthodox but he should pick her that just like saying oh she might kill you,stalk you but that’s cool pick her are you f***ing serious would you tell someone you were close to that she was the right one. Danger is a groupie she has already screwed two people he knows she admitted to the one guy that wasn’t there then detail admitted he smashed her a** My advise to Ray J is to just f**k her too so he can be added to the list with his boys and start another episode because we already know what’s going to happen at the reunion.

MS. LIL'BIT April 6, 2009 at 11:40 pm

RAY J Wake up DANGER SMASHED the HOMIES!! The +)@%^@)#+&*`_~#&_ is mentally unstabled and bad for ur heatlh!! She should been gone long time ago when she took that lie detector test and u found out she was PSYCHO. STALKING her ex-boyfriend. Be careful I think she hear voices in her head. Fo’ real ur sister said she was emotional unstable and your momma said you will end up in jail in 6months. And again SHE SMASHED THE HOMIES!!! She got to go! STOP living in the moment if you really looking for relationship. If not SMASH her %^++~*#~!)`_**( to just like your homies did. And why she acting all crazy like she don’t want you to me her parents?? Cuz she think you gonna find out her PSYCHO %^++~*#~!)`_**( was in a MENTAL HOSPITAL. LISTEN TO YOUR MOMMA. SHE KNOWS BEST.

ramona April 6, 2009 at 11:41 pm

ray’s mother was right but ray’s has to step up and be a man because in the end he has to live with who ever he chooses. i love )*%`&`&$_#%%~%~& tail but i don’tknow if she will be able to put up with all the girls that he has to deal with danger has a lot of issue that she needto deal with first before getting into any relationships panice attacks are under line issue that she need to deal with within her self and there are med that she needs to take. and no man is going to deal with that even rayj unque is so fake i can see though her and so can ray i hope ray if you read this please take a min and think with your big head and not your little one and if your mind tell you what is right for you do that only you has to live with that person not me yor mother are your sister you. i love your grandmother she reminds me of my grandmother very wise and right. i wish you a long life and a good partner in your life and make god bless you in all your life respect your parent. love always

mr.heartless April 6, 2009 at 11:42 pm

hey man danger is the truth my g go for it she is the hottest one and she honest #!!%$^%^()!^+__& tail on there for tv and tv only your pay her brothers college debt lol the is a snake and made phony and she talk to much

MzPittman April 6, 2009 at 11:45 pm

Danger is my dog. keep your head up u n there. One thing i can say is that she keep it real no matter wat. Yeah she smashed da homie.But she let it b known b 4 any1 else put her out there.

Now that !)*@_(%`$+&)@$%*~ Unique just made a complete fool of her self wit that church choir ~#$^(*%&^+~)`*_# And i was going to scream if she said she was”old school” one ore time. Or that ~#$^(*%&^+~)`*_# about she is going to always b at home cooking and cleaning. !)*@_(%`$+&)@$%*~ if he wanted a momma he would b at home wit momma.

And Maria A.K.A @(^*(+&(&+%$*($@ tail u aint even n the equation. Get this 1 Danger +1 Unique = 2 4 Ray J. Now where do she come n at.

Much Love
MzPittman

EJORDAN April 6, 2009 at 11:46 pm

MAN WHAT R YALL TALKIN BOUT YEAH NO ONE IS GOIN TO BE GOOD ENOUGH FOR RAY WHEN IT COMES TO HIS MOMMA BUT BOYS R ALWAYS ATTACHED TO THERE MOMMA AND TO BE HONEST YEAH DANGER IS PRETTY AND NO I REALLY DONT THINK SHE CRAZY SHE IS JUST MIS-UNDERSTOOD AND UNIQUE IS.. WELL LETS JUST SAY THERE IS TOO MUCH TO SAY ABOUT THAT ONE AND THEN THERE IS %^~)!!#$+_%`)%%( TAIL SOMEONE WHO NEEDS A MAN AN THINKS SHE IS A GOLD-DIGGER YES DANGER IS THA BEST OUT OF ALL OF THEM BUT I THINK MOMMA IS RIGHT ON THIS ONE SO BE EXPECTING FOR THA LOVE OF RAY J 2 HALLA

MANDY April 6, 2009 at 11:46 pm

I LIKE DANGER…. SHE IS A STRIGHT UP PERSON AND I THINK THAT RAY J SHOULDNT LOOK AT THE PAST… AND THE OTHER 2 GIRLS ARE JUST HATERSSSSSS….. IN THE THE END RAY J DNT NEED HIS FRIENDS OR FAMILY TO PICK A GIRL FOR HIM… I THINK DANGER REALLY LIKES RAY MORE THEN THE OTHER 2 GIRLS DOES…. AND RAY SHOULD PICK DANGER IN THE END… CUZ THE OTHER 2 GIRLS ARE REALLY FAKE..

*china baby bithches* April 6, 2009 at 11:47 pm

WELL I LOVE DANGER AND I HOPE RAY J PICK HER SHE REALLY DO LOVE HIM THEY LOOK CUTE TOGETHER.
YEAH Dander should win his heart even though i know all this #@*$$%~&^+@#@_)~ is for tv!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kelly April 6, 2009 at 11:53 pm

I’m really rolling with Danger.She’s not stuck up and she does not require alot.She’s down 4 what ever Ray is.And Unique is fake as hell she just want’s to up grade her career(like she said she does interveiws um)And miss happy go lucky just trying to get in where she fit in.Please pick Danger.

SEXYONESTAR April 6, 2009 at 11:54 pm

RAY J I BELIEVE YOU SHOULD DATE DANGER FOR A WHILE I BELIEVE SHE THE ONE AND CHARDENEE. ALOT OF PEOPLE GOT STUFF IN THERE CLOSET I DONT NO NOT ONE FOSHOW BUT SHE IS THE REALISE CHICK AND SHE WANT LET YOU GO EASILY ONCE SHE’S IN BUT IF YOU DONT PICK HER THERE MORE LOVE TO FIND BUT THERE’S ONLY 1 TRUE LOVE IN HEART!!!!! KEEP IT ONE 100……

britt April 6, 2009 at 11:55 pm

how do i watch episode 9 online right now?

Geoffrey April 6, 2009 at 11:58 pm

judging by these episodes, I honestly think that Danger should go home, disrespecting all of Ray’s friends. She’s really creepy throughout this episode and past couple ones. Unique is freaking boring as hell. +##@~_&_&`_!))#$ tail is a little bit better than the other two, but as Ray said, he needs a strong woman. She was a little nervous around ray’s mom so it woulda been better if +##@~_&_&`_!))#$ tail express how much he loves him that much instead of focusing on the other two.

niecey April 6, 2009 at 11:58 pm

I think Ray J needs to get rid of danger before its too late. She might hurt herself if not Ray J. A blind person can see she is unstable and crazy.She thinks she got him but it will be unhealthy to pick her.

Judah April 7, 2009 at 12:04 am

Well i think Danger really smashed the homies, that was totally crazy… But I really Think she’s in love with Ray more than #))^%%__#!()$!)) tail and Unique…. If there’s any1 that has to be eliminated it should be #))^%%__#!()$!)) tail….She just isn’t right for Ray,not a bit… Unlike Danger and unique, #))^%%__#!()$!)) tail doesn’t even seeem to love Ray all she wanna do is get them out the crib.. I expected #))^%%__#!()$!)) tail to be gone earlier but I really dunno how Ray feels about her.. Danger is just right for Ray, all she has to do is let her pst be her past

BUTTA April 7, 2009 at 12:08 am

RAY J STOP PLAYIN YOU KNOW THE SHOW WAS OVER WHEN MAMA SAID NO NO NO.I BEEN SAYING YOU TOLD YOUR GIRL BYE LAST WEEK.CHARDONAY WAS THE ONE.YOU ALWAYS WANT TO BE THE BESTFRIEND TO YOUR LOVER.THEY ALL ACTING LIKE THEY GOING TO WIN SOMETHING AND ITS SUPPOSE TO BE LIKE DATING YOU.ALL THREE HAVE SOME MAJOR RED FLAGS FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEY JUST SOME COOL CHICKS IN DIFFERENT WAYS.NO MATTER HOW GOOD THE SEX OR STYLE BECAUSE THATS NOT WHAT YOU AT HOME WITH ALL DAY AND SEX ONLY LAST SO LONG..

malibu April 7, 2009 at 12:11 am

I don’t care how real a person (Danger)is if they are crazy, then they are just real, pretty, and crazy. She has not known him that long and she admitted at the dinner table with his parents that she does not know him that well so how can you be so in love with someone you don’t know that well. I think she is infatuted with him and she is one of those chicks that if a guy shows her some attention she falls head over heals quickly and THAT IS NOT CUTE! Also, Danger seems to have a problem with everyone that challenges her, she goes into protective mode (which is called for sometimes in life, not all the time), so what if someoone in his family doesn’t agree with her or state their opinion will she automatically go into defensive mode? I must stress this point that Ray has his own issues to deal with he does not neeed someone with as many issues as Danger adding into the mix. #&&`(%_#&&^~_(^% tail, is ok but needs get more of a backbone.

Unique, can be a bit boring for Ray, but may be what he needs to settle down.

Ain’t nobody more REAL than Ray’s mom, but she can lighten up a little bit. You have to admit she got all the Norwood men by the balls.

One Of A Kind April 7, 2009 at 12:34 am

I think he should let Danger crazy ~@%`(^`%&#)!`_^ goooo!!! Im not just saying that cuz she slept with the homeboys, Im saying that cuz she a crazy ~@%`(^`%&#)!`_^ female!!! And while everybody saying that she slept with them in the past, thats still not cool!!! Now wat if ur boyfriend/girlfriend slept with not one but two of ur friends??? Wtf!!! If it was me, Id let her psycho ~@%`(^`%&#)!`_^ go and recommend her to go see a psychiatrist!!! She freakin nuts!!! Looney!!! Crazy!!! Psyhotic!!! LET HER GO!!!!

keke April 7, 2009 at 12:36 am

BRING CHARDONNAY BACK JUST LIKE FROM FLAVOR OF LOVE

Miss Official April 7, 2009 at 12:37 am

Danger is that deal. She reminds me of myself alot. She is not krazy people, she is clearly misunderstood. Anyone who has the guts to be 100% real is always considered krazy. If you want a fake female who changes everytime the company changes, then go for unique becuz she is fake. Danger is a nice young female that is strong willed and willing to give her all for a good dude. She look like she’s been throough too many heart breaks to play any games. The family will learn to love her, don’t worry about that. Her past may be very rough, which made her have to be the person she is. You never know what she may have went through. A person’s childhood is very important in a person’s life. She’ll be a great pick, she’s no krazy, she just has issues like every human being on this earth I can relate becuz i always feel like there is a million things on my mind at once……Pick Danger!

Dee-Dee April 7, 2009 at 12:38 am

I love Danger, she’s the most honest person there. I love her confidence and she’s very beautiful and unique. If he doesn’t choose her, it’ll be his loss.

ana April 7, 2009 at 12:56 am

hey ray j look i really think tha the gurl that love you and is down for you is Danger she really looks that she love you even that she past truth a lot stuff she love you …..thats what i think

Jewls Valantino April 7, 2009 at 12:59 am

Out of the 3 you gotta go with danger, $_%@~%~&@)`&(*)# tail is the bomb but you can’t trust her….danger smashed a homeie but maybe you might have smashed on of her homeies…Ray J you my dog…always been, I know it is what it is but you gotta make a choice but it aint no long term there bro…unless danger got her sheet together …holla at cha boy…one

modesty April 7, 2009 at 1:03 am

danger is totally the one if ray pick the other two it wouldn’t last #%!!%(**$~&~!$^_ tail a gold digger and unique lil front is bull )!_&`*$%#`$++~@` and shes a +#_)!%~^^&+_^%~@$ she didnt wanna fight danger and i just dont like them,and danger keeps it 100.they might say danger is a lil crazy but shes tha one all i have to say is ray pick tha right girl and be happy in tha future!

kitty444 April 7, 2009 at 1:06 am

)@~~$%_~%+^@(+&@ tail is a hypocrite..she’s talkin ab other ppl being a gold digger and she’s on bad girls club wanting a rich man..lIkE OH MEE GawSH..wuuht??..like wtf fake a$$ $&&&~_^%$*$_~(~`_ And everytime something bad and serious has happened, Unique starts laughing..she is evil, i dont kno why she thinks shes classy..covering up your fat with old lady clothes isnt being a “woman”..she’s a flake too. I think Danger is just misunderstood, no one knows her, and everyone thinks she’s crazy, but how about you get asked those questions on the lie detector test. No one knows what happened in Danger’s life, some really effed up ^$~_*_(&__*!^)^# could have happened to her, and laughing is just immature..when he picks her in the end, gold digging non talent fat ugly b!+ches are gonna get “their heart broken”.

Dwayne April 7, 2009 at 1:08 am

~`~*(%#__$^^^^~& tail has got this competition on lock if she just stays focused.

Britster6901 April 7, 2009 at 1:11 am

I honestly think they are all not right for Ray but if he has to pick the least psycho, it would have to be ^!%+^`@~*^)@~`~! tail. Unique is manipulatively and has a way with words and winning people over but I think she is FAKE! Danger is gonna go postal if she doesn’t get picked. I like ^!%+^`@~*^)@~`~! tail right now the most but I don’t think she will be able to handle Ray’s lifestyle, too jealous already. And if his mama don’t like any of them, they are gonna have it rough cause, Ray takes what she says to heart, but seriously, he’s 27, cut the strings!

brooklyn April 7, 2009 at 1:22 am

Danger is crazy when unique said she was climbing tree at 4 in the morning that’s one clue. The test she is a stalker with issues that two.Three she acted like she is sick when he want to go to meet her family or did she think she was going to get elimanated for smashing not one but two of his friends. How is she going to say that he will meet 50+ of her family? What reality show meet with more than your mother and father? Tell her father to put away the shot gun? The apple don’t fall to far from the tree. I wonder what her mother got in her waist line. Ray listen to your mother, mother knows best 6 months jail crazy you’ll be in jail and Danger will have your career ask Chris LOL You need your shorty back chardonnay she got gifts and she can reverse her style and be professional. `~`~^(%^((@!$^~# tail is looking for a pay day and unique already got what she wants to be on tv to get known. If she says she isn’t here for the camara again I don’t know what to say?? Just don’t go to jail Ray you don’t got that many tricks LOL

takara April 7, 2009 at 1:22 am

hey rayj.well i think u need to send danger home

NIKA April 7, 2009 at 1:26 am

DANGER SHE SMASHED THE HOMIE, DANGER SHE SMASHED THE HOMIE LOL

crystal wainscott April 7, 2009 at 1:35 am

I think danger is very real and she seems like a cool )!*$“`#`*!(+() girl and i dont think she is crazy and i know she had sex with his friend but the pass ia the pass and she aint know he was ray j friend i feel bad for her and really hope she wins forget them other fake )!*$“`#`*!(+() b*****

SHEILA B April 7, 2009 at 1:42 am

I THINK THAT YOU’RE REALLY NOT FEELING EITHER ONE OF THEM THAT’S WHY IT IS SO HARD TO MAKE YOUR DECISION
YOU REALLY NEED TO HAVE TIME TO FEEL OUT THAT PERSON AND
THE LITTLE TIME THAT YOU ARE SPENDING WITH THEM ON THE SHOW IS NOT ENOUGH TIME THIS IS YOUR FUTURE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT YOU NEED TO KNOW NOT THINK THAT YOU LOVE THIS PERSON AND THAT THIS PERSON LOVES YOU TO THIS IS A SERIOUS THING SO JUST SIT BACK AND REALLY EVALUATE WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO DO AND WHATEVER YOUR HEART AND MIND TELL YOU TO DO JUST DO IT YOU CAN NEVER STEER YOURSELF
WRONG I HOPE I HELPED YOU IN A WAY THAT WILL MAKE YOU HAPPY AND CONTENT WITH THE DECISION YOU ARE ABOUT TO MAKE
LOVE YA AND GOD BLESS.