“I think he made the right decision. I think I’m a little too strong for him,” says Unique on her one-time potential suitor, Ray J. So don’t cry for her, OK? She’s doing just fine, thank you. Below, the abnormally well-spoken VH1 personality talks about her “role” as the show’s villain, her beef with Stacks and Cashmere, whether she thinks Cocktail and Ray have a future together and, of course, her rivalry with Danger.
How was your time on the show?
Crazy and intense. It was OK…no, it was a great time. I always have a great time (cackles).
Were you heartbroken after going as far as you did and not being the one to end up with Ray?
Heartbreak? No. Not at all. I was sad, but I wasn’t heartbroken. I wasn’t in love. I really cared for him, but it wasn’t love.
Were you disappointed?
I was disappointed that he wasn’t wiser and that he couldn’t see what was better for him, that I was the stronger one. I was more wifey, she was more hoochie (laughs).
He said to you, “I would rather you be with a man who is what you want, not who could be what you want.” What did you think of that?
Did he say that? I couldn’t really hear, because the wind was blowing. I think a lot of what Ray said was shocking. Even when he came to visit my family and said he felt like he had to front. I thought that was him. I thought he left Ray J at the door and was actually bringing William. I was surprised, but I could only respect it because we weren’t meant for each other. I’m a realist.
How much of a divide between Ray J and William did you see?
I think more than any other girl in the house, I was aware of it. Every time he was around only me, he was William. If it was me and a bunch of other girls, then it was Ray J. He never disrespected me, that’s the one thing I give him. When he was around every other girl, he was, “Let me feel your booty,” or, “Get in the Jacuzzi, take your shirt off.” When it came to me, he didn’t feel like I needed to always impress him. I figured that’s the real him, and that Ray J is more like, “Show me what you’re working with.” He knew not to walk past me and grab my booty.
You made sure he knew from the beginning that you wouldn’t tolerate that.
He’s very successful, but just like a beautiful girl with a bangin’ body comes a dime a dozen nowadays, a dude with a lot of money that has a great personality comes a dime a dozen, too. I think he understood that. I always used to joke with him: “You mess up in a heartbeat, I’ll call Tyrone.” I was always real with him, from Day 1: this is not hit it and quit it, like my mother said.
I love your mother.
She’s the spitting image of me. (Laughs)
She wasn’t star-struck by him, but neither were you. Is that because of your job? You’re a music journalist, right?
I’ve interviewed enough celebrities and my ex-boyfriend was a baseball player. I’ve interviewed Spike Lee. How could I go from Spike Lee to Ray J and be intimidated?
Are you still actively doing that?
Since I did the show, I’ve been doing so many appearances. Eighteen as of now, and I’m on my way to my 19th. Where I’m headed right now, I see myself ideally hosting a show on HGTV or the Style Network. I’ll host Clean House for God’s sake.
You prided yourself on being classy than the rest of your peers.
(Laugh) As I’m sitting in an airport, guzzling a glass of wine.
It’s all relative. That said, do you regret getting into it with Danger? I’d say you lost your cool.
I really did. I don’t regret it, because I think you can be a lady and do that, to a certain extent. You do not let anyone walk all over you, and you do not let anyone disrespect you. A lot of people ask me about the boxing thing. At that point, I didn’t know Ray well, so in my head, it was, “I’m not gonna box for this dude I don’t really know, and he might not even pick me in the end!” When it came to the kitchen moment, when I snapped, Danger had disrespected me, so I exploded. I wasn’t having it. You have to snap sometimes. If I’m at the mall and someone crosses me more says something slick, I’m gonna snap. Who says a lady can’t defend herself? I know my mom’s a lady all day, but you bump into her in Macy’s and she’s gonna cuss your ass out.
What was it about Danger? Do you hate her?
I don’t hate the girl. I don’t know the girl enough to hate her.
What was it about her that got under your skin?
I knew she and Ray had chemistry, but…I don’t know. She was threatened. One time, coming out of the Jacuzzi, she told me, “Yo, Unique. I don’t want you to think I’m a bitch, but I think you’re competition.” I didn’t get it. Anyway, I would never befriend a person like that in real life, so why fake it on the show? In my eyes, we had different qualities. I was the girl who’d stay home with the kids and be successful behind the scenes; she was the girl who would try to sleep with my husband. She’s jump-off material.
What did you think about her confession about having murderous thoughts about you?
(Laughs) I was surprised. It never gets that serious. I can’t stand that girl, but I would never wish death upon her. That’s when I knew that girl needed to be in a padded room. I can’t stand her. We were just in Pittsburgh together. We didn’t speak. We didn’t look at each other. She needs help.
Is it fair to say that you employed a strategy on the show? Was there a game component there to you?
When I first walked in the house, I had no strategy. I had no ideas. I just wanted to go with the flow. Until I watched the show, I didn’t realized I was being portrayed like that. I didn’t think I was a manipulator, I didn’t think I was anything. I did not have a strategy. I think it was all within editing (laughs).
What about the notion that you used Cashmere as a puppet?
I didn’t. I was actually talking about Chardonnay at the time. I interviewed the day after she was doing all the dancing: “Well, I’ll just use Chardonnay as my puppet,” because we were talking about an alliance that night. I feel like they made me look like a huge manipulator when I wasn’t.
Yeah, but using anyone as a puppet, Chardonnay or Cashmere, you’re still manipulating.
(Laughs) OK, OK. You do what you have to do. But my intentions were not to hurt any of my close friends. I did what I needed to do, like with Feisty. She’s a drinker. OK, let’s showcase that. I guess my strategy was like: you say it, why can’t I? You joke like you’re an alchie, let me throw it out there. I never threw out anything that wasn’t already said. I mean, the thing is that I’m always on my game. I’m a drinker, for instance, but I never drank in the house. I never wanted to be off my s***.
Have you patched things up with Cashmere?
Hell no. She’s the person I have the biggest beef with.
Cashmere? Why?
She tried to throw me under the bus at the reunion. I didn’t even want to go to that. I had to be convinced.
Why didn’t you want to go?
I was aggravated to have been made into this crazy character, this villain. Like, “Muah-ha-ha-ha-ha!” I mean, I got a crazy laugh, but damn.
Do you feel misunderstood?
Yes. That’s not my character. I’m very loyal, I’m very trustworthy, I’m not a manipulator. My friends laugh at the show, because they know what they’re watching isn’t me.
Regardless of what came before it, you proved yourself to be a good sport. You hugged Cocktail after you were eliminated. Most people just storm off.
I never had an issue with Cocktail. We were both in it to win it. We were both there for him. She wasn’t my best friend by far, but we were able to be cordial. I thought that’s what the rest of the cast was going to be like, but instead we had killers. Hella crazy cast.
Can you appreciate Danger from a good-TV, entertainment perspective at all?
No. Can’t roll with you on that one, Rich. I was offended that VH1 played the part where she said she wanted to kill me. That is not entertaining. That s*** is psycho. Calling me fat when she’s fatter than me, that was funny. This girl got way more cellulite.
It sounds like a stressful situation.
It was. That’s why Cashmere left, that’s why Stacks left. She blamed a lot of stuff on her father. No. Everyone let her go so smoothly, when she was there for so much exposure. I never got it. I don’t talk to her anymore. I was like, “How am I being turned into the manipulator, when she just wants to come on and get magazine spreads after the show?” I felt for her father’s illness, but that’s not how it was on the show. She said, “I’m not feelin’ him. I’m not gonna stay here.”
In the finale, it’s sort of implied that Cocktail slept with Ray, but you didn’t.
(Laughs)
What’s your take on that?
What am I supposed to say?
Did you?
I can’t tell you that, Rich! No comment.
You told Ray you’ll always be there for him. Has it been like that since the show wrapped?
We talk all the time. Me and him are so cool. He’s wanted to see me after the show a whole lot, but I’ve been so busy with work and stuff that I can’t jump at his every move.
Do you carry a torch? Do you wish things went the other way?
I think he made the right decision. I think I’m a little too strong for him. Watching the show along with America, I think I’m too much for him. Not just in height. In everything. He’s like a cute, little puppy. I’ve dated big, old strong guys in the past. Ray was a sensitive, little doggy.
Do you think it’ll last between him and Cocktail?
Hell no. That’s why her name is Cocktail: you slurp her down like a drink, and then you go on to the next one.
Keep up with Unique via her MySpace.
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unique is so fake , she is acting like she so good and godly but she sitting there badmouthing these young ladies . how does she know if they are going to work out . she just a hatting `##+~#*(@_*@$^~~~
i think he made the right choice because she was trying to make him something he is not and the other just let him be him self and i think that is what he was looking for. i hope it works out for them
First of all I got nothing but love and respect for Unique.Cocktail is just a hot mess and a skank jalepeno pepper with her wack *@*!*~+@(_@“%# Cashmere is a punk !^(~&~^#~*%(~_`~* she punked out like a !^(~&~^#~*%(~_`~* on her own and it’s not like Unique pucsed her out the door.She would have gotten her booshy *@*!*~+@(_@“%# beat down like a man by me if she tried to talk (~_%)~_(_@+`$^!^ or put somebody on blast.That (~_%)~_(_@+`$^!^ with stanky *@*!*~+@(_@“%# douche needing (`@&)$_)&@%^~~&^ tail will not last cause thats a hoe and you get a latina money hungry skank hoe a dime a dozen. And if he was really going to work,why does he try to contact and see Unique all the time.Ray J did exactly what fans would hav wanted him to do.But that is not where his heart is. She will end up getting dumped like Cornfed.And (`@&)$_)&@%^~~&^ tail is really not a pretty girl.Her nose is big and looks like it weighs more than her head.I HATE THAT RAT *@*!*~+@(_@“%# !^(~&~^#~*%(~_`~*
all Unique hataz shut the *#$(!^^&**`_*~~ k up !~^*@)_*%`!_*!+&^ es,.
i didnt like unique at all.im happy with rayj decision.but danger was my favourite girl in the house
ARE YOU PREGNANT BY RAY J. ME AND A FRIEND WAS TALKING ABOUT THE SHOW AND IT WAS MENTION THAT YOU WERE OR IS.
I think he should have choosing unique.becuese she’s more woman like and wifely .cocktail is not going to last…shes like the other women he’s being dateing.
I cant stand unique. I think she is very very fake. I also think she was jealous of danger. She always try to put herself on a high horse like she better than everybody. Unique you are just another average $*$`_#*#*@(@#~&^% She showed her true colors when she went off on danger. She is another ghetto braud tryin to hide it by saying she’s classy. $*$`_#*#*@(@#~&^% you r not classy. She was scared to fight danger cause she knew danger was gone beat that %(**&#&`#“$&`+ thats why her dumb %(**&#&`#“$&`+ had to covince her team not to fight cause she knew she was gone look like a damn fool on national TV. All she got is a lotta mouth. And she know she @!@^#+~+*($`)+~^ ed Ray. %!)+)`!!*&(&*+#*$ wasnt no good and thats why he let that %(**&#&`#“$&`+ go! @__$@)~&#%$$$(#) tail brought it apparently while unique was tryna brag about her night like it was the &^+&)%%_(!&`&^%% She just be frontin and she’s a damn liar! Her face just irritates me! UGH! Now she tryna clown ray cause she got the boot. $*$`_#*#*@(@#~&^% you was all in his face tryna make him be you dream man. $*$`_#*#*@(@#~&^% you wasnt your real self how you gone try to convince some body to be somethin else other than theirself. And she lied again cause on the finale when they were on the plane the $*$`_#*#*@(@#~&^% said she loved ray and now she tryna switch it up. She’ the biggest manipulator i’ve ever seen and she knows what she is. Like I said in the beginning I cant stand that $*$`_#*#*@(@#~&^%
And danger was my favorite on the show. She was one of the realest besides chardonay. I liked her too! I wish one of those 2 would of won! And &(_&&!$_~)^+_(~& tail aint all that hot with her skinny !&%)*^@~“#*)*~ I know Ray like the thick girls! lol
Lady J’s coment is the best ever..thaan you.
Unique is a classless, “swearing-christian” on the church choir pretender. Unique, you need Jesus. Stop hating your competitors, u did not like the guy. U need a makeover from head to foot. I am only sad hat he did not chooose a genuine person like Chardonnay.
IT IS OBVIOUS THAT UNIQUE SLEPT WITH RAY TO WIN BUT DIDN’T. SORRY – NO WONDER U ARE SO BITTER, UNIQUE.
AS A CHURCH GIRL, SHE SCORED THE LOWEST ON THE LIE DETECTOR TEST, AN EX-STRIPPER GOT THE HIGHEST SCORE. WOW! – LOVE AND RESPECT TO CHARDONNAY.
UNIQUE U ARE A LITTLE BIT PRETTY, BUT THAT’S ALL. YOU NEED TO GO TO FINISHING SCHOOL. U STILL HAVE VERY ROUGH EDGES. CALL STACY & CLINTON ON WHAT NOT TO WEAR TO HELP U WITH THE DRESSING AS WELL.
FIX UR MEAN HEART ALSO AND GO TO THE ALTER AND REPENT BEFORE SINGING ON THE CHOIR AGAIN.
U UGLY @+!@`)&&*“#)#!@) U WAS A BIG UGLY BIT DIRTY @*@~@+!%!*!$($+ U AINT @`)!)$_#%$+#%#%_ BUT A CLOWN DID U LOOK AT UR SELF BEFORE U WENT TO THE REUNION EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW THANK GOD HE DIDNT PICK U UR MAD @+!@`)&&*“#)#!@)
i think that she ia a fake &&@!(^#!`_)*%^_ $#^%($#)*&(`($!#& who didn’t like my girl danger. she was just a old ugly &&@!(^#!`_)*%^_ $#^%($#)*&(`($!#& i am glad he didn’t pick her haten &&@!(^#!`_)*%^_ Lette baby
yes, i think he’s with the wrong woman.i believe that it will not last, that’s because rayj is a player.so to unique, lady, you are just that a LADY!!!! he’s not mature enough for a really woman(lady). and !!#!!#*_@@%!#)#) tail, my,mymy, she went where she shouldn’t have went on the finale. I thought she had more respect for herself. to do all that she did in front of the camera just showed that she would do anything for a STAR. Unique kept her business off camera. She just proved that a Lady never shows or tells her business.(no matter what it may be)Cocktail exposed herself to all of the VH1 view(world). What she would do to get her moment with a young star/player. She Will Be The One Hurt In the End. RayJ is not ready for a true/serious relationship or ready to seattle down. He’s still a young-gin)(as the old people would say
she just needs to go hide herself…i liked danger so much better…and this #%(~_&!$_#%_+&+() was scary and fake as hell
Unique is pretty but the !&&~_&*_$%#*`!#~& is a hott mess !! ughhh !! her personality SUCKS!!!
Unique huh?,i guess so, only i must add that she is uniquely FAKE, uniquely mama-ish, uniquely 2face, uniquely slimey, uniquely deceptive,uniquely old fashion,uniquely strange, uniquely lying bad-mouthed shameless old hag. i can go on and on but i’ll catch myself from such a terrible fall b4 it gets nasty. This WOMAN would never have been picked by Ray as he wasnt looking for someone to replace his mother, but rather a real girl.You´ll agree with me that there is nothing girlie about this Grandmother-looking-person, theirs would have ended up looking like”mother-son” affair or better still, sugar mama-ish affair cause she’s way too old looking for him. I think she should go look for a preacher to get married to or better still just come clean and stop all the faking.
I just really wanted to know why Unique didnt want to fight Danger during the boxing match. I really think its because she was scared not that she wanted to be CLASSY, and all that bull. Not only that she wanted to get bad with Danger and argue like she all big and bad wtf, where did she get all that backbone from all of a sudden
sup unique…. i was sorry to c u did not get ray j at the end ……. i feel as tho ur mother seal ur faith when she told him (if he is playin games with u just to leave u alone ) from that point on the game was over……….he did not even have to waste ur time on the one night u spend with him ……… i feel he knew he was not goin to pick u ……….. if ur mother did not say that to him u may have been the one because Brandy really like u ……… like he told the other chick on the show…….. he was not lookin for a party girl……….. i think out of the 2 of u *@&@@+^$!)++%&^! tail party more than u and maybe he was lookin for a wett `_&@*_$_&(#)+_+&` at the time and not any one wit brains……..god bless and be well
UNIQUE %+(_**~@&+`%^@#! WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE HAS TO SAY I WAS ROOTING FOR YOU THE WHOLE TIME BECAUSE I FELT LIKE WEN HE MADE A REALITY SHOW HE WAS LOOKING FOR A LADY AND NOT A HOE OR SHOULD I SAY AN EVERYDAY GIRL AND DATS EXACTLY WAT DA REST OF THEM WAS AND LIKE YOU SAY DANGER IS CRAZY AND @!!+$~~+~`@*#)#@ TAIL AINT STRONG ENOUGH TO WHOLE THINGS DOWN WHEN HE ON THE ROAD BUT DA ONLY OTHER PERSON I WOULD HAVE SAID WOULD HAVE BEEN GOOD WAS CHARDONNAY BUT SINCE SHE AINT WIN I THOUGHT U WUZ ALL IN BUT HEY LIKE YOU SAY RAY J IS A PUPPY THATS HASNT GROWN UP YET AND DIDNT KNOW WHAT BEST FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!
NOBODY CAME ON THE SHOW ON 2 BE FRIENDS SO AS I LOOK AT IT ANY AND EVRYTHINGS GOES EVEN IF DAT MEAN BETRAYING YOU HOES!!!!!!UNIQUE YOU DID WHAT YOU WAS SUPPOSE TO DO RATHER IN WAS INTENTIONAL OR NOT IT WAS WAT IS WAS
!!!!!RATHER YOUR A LADY OR NOT YOU PLAYED YOUR PART WELL AND I ADMIRE YOU FOR DAT!!!!!!!(NOT GAY) DONT LET WAT DIS OTHER DUMB BROADS GOT TO SAY GET TO YOU CUZ U SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE ONE TO WIN IF HE WAS LOOKING FOR A LADY BUT SINCE HE WAS JUST LOOKING FOR A GURL DATS EXACTLY WATS HE GOT NOTHING MORE!!!!!
ok i klove unique she is da best and most prettiesr and realist vhick(no homo) and i truthfully liked u da hole show and think u shuld have won danger is a hata and needs 2 fall back cuz u got her by landslide in da looks and everything else except da physcho part which u dont need cuz ur urself and u r unique~ u so rock i love u 4eva and wish u luck wit ur life
I like Unique. She carries herself with class. While the other girls where slutty. Hope she will find love. I agree that `&+*~@+%!#`^%*!# tail and Ray J will not stay together. She won’t last. And I feel soory for her, she really thinks she can make a difference in his life. But she won’t, and she’ll walk away with a broken hart.
im so glade u didnt win
if u plan to marry one of dem girls u really crazy.dem look nothing to marry no pride there self and both of their attitude stinks.
This ^#+@&+^*^~+!~#%&+ is a sooper Hater!!! SaYiN ThaT SheS KoO WiT +!)$~&#(^~&^%&^# TaiL BuT TheN ShE sAYs ThaT CoMMeNt “That’s why her name is +!)$~&#(^~&^%&^# tail: you slurp her down like a drink, and then you go on to the next one.” $+%&~$^!%@#`@%$! ThaT HaTeR!! ThaTs Why +!)$~&#(^~&^%&^# TaiL WoN aNd NoT U ^#+@&+^*^~+!~#%&+ LOL
I have got to say that last comment was funny unique. slurp her down and go on to the next one. LOL. THAT IS FUNNY. Ray made the right choice when he picked her. Picking you would have been a long hall and would have been beneficial. Ray knew exactly what he was doing. HELLO season 2. You came out on top actually.
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