First of all, before we get to anything, behold Chicago Larry!
Getting to watch him mutter instead of just hearing it wasn’t something we loved per se, but it feels important all the same.
Spoiler alert!
The list of seven things we loved about this rather subdued reunion starts with:
- Danger’s dis
“I’m a huge fan of yours,” she told Unique. “You were in The Wiz, right?”
Now, here’s what she said:
But here’s what we think she meant:
It’s a minor distinction, but an important one. Still: either way it’s bitchy, and we’re sure that that was exactly Danger’s point.
- Ray’s reaction to the pregnancy talk
Even though it was months ago, and even though Danger was explaining how the rumor got started (via a friend, which at the very least was consistent with what she told us when we interviewed her) and the fact that it was just that, a rumor, Ray still looked scared out of his sperm. Some dudes never get over a pregnancy scare, even when they play out in the tabloids.
Oh, and let’s reflect on Danger’s complete and total upgrade, shall we?
She looks kind of like a faded (not as in drunk, but as in toned-down hair and dress colors) Jessica Rabbit, and we mean that in the most complimentary way possible.
- Ray’s reaction to the bisexuality talk
I suppose this proves it: bisexuality in a woman is the antithesis of pregnancy to Ray (and probably plenty of other dudes). Unique denied Cashmere’s accusation, though, so :(
Also hilarious was Ray’s seriousness when Cashmere took the stage, asking if security was going to have to come down.
Naw, Ray. You’re good enough.
- That Danger didn’t stand up when Ray came out, unlike the other girls
Individuality at its stankest. We wouldn’t expect less from Danger!
- Chardonnay’s upgrade
She didn’t change things up as much as Danger, but she looked bangin’!
And, aw, she carries a torch for Ray.
But even better than that was her declaration that, “There were a reason for those splits at that moment in time.” Every last split. I never thought mating dances could be so deep.
- Cocktail’s affection
She couldn’t keep her lips off the man she calls her boyfriend. Who knows what the future holds, but for now we’re calling this a happy ending.
Except, it isn’t over, for, you see, we haven’t talked at all about…
- Stilts
How awesome was she, calling out Ray’s memory when it served faulty, striking insecurity into his heart (“So I was just an experiment to you?”), hitting back at Hot Cocoa when she piped up to throw her judgment at Stilts (“I read your MySpace!” said Stilts, in reference to the reveal that Hot Cocoa had a boyfriend), and finally, hitting back harder at Ray than probably anyone ever expected. As she was being grilled over going on the show while still being married, Stilts stated that she didn’t see how her behavior deviated much from Ray’s: “I mean, Ray, we know how you roll, too.”
That she could crack him up shows just how in check her wit was. Ring or no ring, something tells us that Stilts this show entirely too early. Our loss!
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94 responses to to For The Love Of Ray J – Recap – Seven Things We Loved About The Reunion
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Oh plz +*$+$@_#)+`#!%&( tail is far from real. Real wack if u ask me. that B***h was DEF on the Bad Girls Club being the only Goldigger. She jus so happens to be on For The of Ray. J 4 love. Please shes so full of it Ray could do way much better I mean less be honest he got rid of 1 stripper to be wit the next. Ray should keep it real the reason Y he picked +*$+$@_#)+`#!%&( tail cuz shes proved shes a f**kin weak duck, she will let him be wit other woman on her cuz cleraly he slept wit Danger, and she would devote her life 2 his every need which was proven wen he went to her house. Clearly shown that she was taught 2 cater 2 her man. Typical dumb spanish B***h.
what up thise recape of the reuniun was off the hoook!!! yahyahee espesuly seeing how muchh ray-j actully like coctail
i don’t think that ray j should have picked @(#&`#`)`%&%$!&_ tail because she’s nothing but a golddigger. don’t you think her family would have been concerned about who she’s dating but they don’t care they are in it 4 the money too. even though her mom can’t speak english her dad could have asked ?’s instead of telling him where he is from. i think he should have kept and picked chardonnay.she is a very sweet nice young lady. but like i said i dont think @(#&`#`)`%&%$!&_ tail really loves you.
I RATHER HAVE FIESTY WIN.
SHE COULD F IF +^$#_+`&^*^~`+%!( _(`@_^%#` UNIQUE DIDNT TRICK HER INTO HER !(#+*__~@+_(%+& IN SCAM.RAY J IS GOING TO HAVE A PART TWO !
AND I GUARENTEE THAT #(%(*^+^%%%&*!~& T.
()%^(*%$#^#`$^`# THEM ALL, ALL OF THEM ARE LOOSERS, GOLD DIGGERS
I know for sure that NONE of the women there were “FOR THE LOVE OF RAY J”….Ray trust me, you are NOT going to find ‘true love’ on these shows. Take it easy and it will come to you when you least expect it…TRUST
I think that Ray should have picked chardonnay to be the reveal on the show. I think she needs her own show next, she deserves it.She really got her heart broke, and now she needs a love of her own.
Chicago Larry is a pervert its soooo funny because he gets his pictures developed at Walgreens and he even tried to steal some pics from one of the envelopes before he takes erotic pics of women but ultimately he is a creep that I would def not let take any pics of me!! LOL
im glad he picked $+((@!$^&^`$)+_% tail …but i wanted him 2 choose danger she really is the ^%!$~+$#^_^$`$)^ da rest of dem beeothez stay be hatinq on ha !!!..buht wat eva he chose ..who..he chose
Well i loved the show, and unfortunatly Danger didnt win, but yet a reality show junkie, stole his heart. Unique was correct when she wanted Ray J to meet her parents as Willie, Willie is who he is, Ray J is what he does for a living. So i dont belive she was trying to change him, just to not act like a star with high expections, just to be himself.
But )*)&^~`*%%#@@$^) tail, come on she made you eat goat and you couldnt even hold a conversation with her mom, unfortunatly in a serious relationship, talking and mingling with parents is something couples just do. SO good luck with that, i am sure i will see her appear on another reality show soon….
Danger was real and didnt let anyone bring her down, she should have made it to the top, no one is perfect, at least she had the guts to admit she wasnt perfect, everyone has flaws, except all the other girls thought the were perfect, good choice, looking forward to For the Love of Ray J II…..i will audition…lol
I am glad that he picked @&!!!~_+^`$*^#%& tail. danger was just down right crazy and unique was to much fo him. I hope Chardonnay find some one for her though
First of all, the show was entertaining & that we can all agree on. I had a feeling he would pic %$!)__&*~_^)%$(! tail from the beginning because she is a skinny Kim K. Danger is a sad act. She is far from REAL! She talked the talk & couldn’t walk it. She has no business saying anyone is fat because she is hardly fit to be talkin smack about others that way. Let’s hope her outfits & makeup stay as nice as they were at the reunion. Unique does dress like a frump…the get-ups she had on in the eliminations were just gross. Chardonnay was my VOTE. She is classy, sweet and very real! I hope she finds a man as worthy as she.
Fiesty is a cutie & Chrdonnay is a class act.
Im glad Ray Jay didnt pick Chardonay because that was the hottest and realest choice.Now all im waiting for is her to come out with a show so i can get at that.I really dont have much of an opinion about the other chicks, but Chardonay should’ve won the compatition, hands down.
DANGER WAS CUTE BUT CRAZY, UNIQUE IS GAY AND SHE NEEDS TO COME OUT OF THE CLOSET, CHARDONNAY WAS REAL AND __!+_^*(^$~$&^#@ TAIL IS TO EXTRA EXTRA READ ALL ABOUT IT FOR ME , BUT THE GIRL TAHT SHOULD HAVE ONE WAS ME , I CAN MAKE
Ray j is a little boy trying to be a man. He don’t even know the meaning of love and is trying to find love in prostitutes and strippers. Be for real. This is his opportunity to get his career back on track. That’s it. Keep it real!!!
OMg..
DANgER WAS BETTER THEN %`_$#~@$!&*+#`~( TAIL…
THE ONLy %`_$#~@$!&*+#`~( TAIL DID IS SNITCH AND WANT THE $^`~%^`@“@$$~$ KEN MONEy
ray j i think you and unique made a better couple any reason you choose (&&*#~@!#`@!&!*% tail was because she remind you of your ex… it will never go anywhere
you pick the wrong female you said you wanted one that new what she wanted you think *$*%+^#_$^*^`!#+ tail do…..
danger u look a hot mess.y did u do that 2 ur hair.it looked better natural
i love you ray j and you got a big *#(*_%@~_!_&*`^*
yah this you girl chelsea and i think ray j should picked danger and i hate cotail because she a $!~$`*~&(&!&`+@*$ and if i ever see her im gone beat her )&))*$_&$@%$^)% and ray j stupid for picking her because she gone take all his money and he gone look stupid and he aint gone have (&$!!#_!()((+_(` with his stupid )&))*$_&$@%$^)% i hate he for that and i dont want him tto be poor
i think that ray j isnt going to have no money because he go with cotail and she gone take all his money and he gone look stupid !+++~^+#^@++~(^ hell and i hate that ~@)_&**)^__$`+_)^ cotail why would she do some stuff like that and if i ever see her im gone beat her !+++~^+#^@++~(^ and if you dont like my comment owell kiss my !+++~^+#^@++~(^ wape me down
Ray don’t like %^%%`^%%@&&!(&+# tail like that he HAD to make a decision between unique and %^%%`^%%@&&!(&+# tail. He was really feeling danger but he knows he’s not gonna be able to have a STABLE relationship with her in which the lifestyle he lives. On the real none of those sneaky $*$&%)&+@+`@*#&)^ es had their mind right. Those last three girls weren’t good for him just like his momma said. Really at first, I don’t think ray knew what he wanted in a female but I do believe he knows now what he don’t want. He won’t be with %^%%`^%%@&&!(&+# tail long…
I loved the show!! I don’t think Danger’s crazy she acts like anyone else but the camera portrayed her negativly 85% of the time. Ray and *!*$_~!%+*`*+(*) tail look adorable together but i don’t think he found true love i feel he found a relaionship and will be looking for a much deeper less shallow relationship in the future. I can’t wait to apply to be in For the Love of Ray J2. I want the best for him, i want REAL true love for him not no groupie love
yeh for rayj his mom told him non is good so what is he doing the that dum )%*^`_`((@#($!` %`&$+$%&)%+$&$@` tail her name is what she is the only like what is in rayj pants and all she can do is use what she has in hers non of them are for him but rayj you will learn the hard way know the family you come from god has you in that place for a reason you did not need a show to find love cause god love you more than any one in this world. u and your new girl has the same in common you need a woman to complete you. you like 3 sums and all that is not good get a grip and look with in and spend time with rayj and see is this is what you want but your mom is not wrong. have a bless week and god love you
jade in the island of trinidad and tobago
One of the best reunion shows ever!
I don’t buy Chardonnay’s drama about still caring for Ray. Come on, she knew that she didn’t have a “romantic” connection with Ray. Let’s not be gullible people! If anyone watched the show, they know that there wasn’t anything beyond a physical connection.
And as for Ray and ^&^$)^$(_~!`%+)+ tail, I hope she’s been watching his interviews lately…
Ray J Choose The Wrong Girl $+#&!(_(~^`@*_~) tail But I Still Don’t Like her Always ($_&_&_!@*%(%($* she a gold digger slut He Should Choose Chardonnay But,They right: She The Realest like other Chicks
Aoki22.. “Typical dumb spanish b***h??” Really? so all latinas are dumb b***hes.. That’s the most ignorant thing I have ever heard in my life.. Your words clearly show you are ignorant, and you obviously do NOT think before you run your mouth. I’m happy `&)#^@`^(“)~+*+ tail made it to the end.
everyone has a past so why is everyone hatin on #!~~+)~#(`@~%%(( tail for bein real to him now? but she was the best one for him besides chardione i cant spell her name right.
ray j was the main `&_~$_#`~^+$&%$** of the show!!!!!so one `&_~$_#`~^+$&%$** found himself a mexican `&_~$_#`~^+$&%$**
chardonnay need her own show ray j done her wrong and I think Danger told people that she was pregnant her friend did not do that she did. She’s cute but she is not all that. I don’t know who he should have picked I was with his mom no no and no.
when did ray j have sex with danger
does ray j know *%^$_(_^)!!~+&~# tail is a golddigger
I find it interesting that Danger maintains that Ray J “didn’t deserve to meet her family” because he was having sex with La Latina. Prostitute with a heart of gold, maybe??? Personally, I was disappointed – I was DYING to see the family that spawned her! As for the reunion, my girl Unique kept it classy, including her reaction to her loss and the Queen Skank trying hard to critique her. As for La Latina, Ray better wrap it up two or three times. La Latina’s mom is the youngest of 15 children (15!!!!) and she has already put her daughter on notice that she wants grandbabies…Guard your little swimmers, Ray!
I am so GLAD Ray picked coctail!!!! I think they look so good together… I didn’t like unique, she was TRIFLIN & I don’t like females like that & she says she did that because it was a competition but I say once a triflin female ALWAYS ONE! I feel like if she was a true female than it would shine through & Ray will see it!
O M G ! ! ! You guys are ALL HATERS!!! How could you even hate on _@~&(@)^)~`_%(%_ tail? She not only played the game right, but she was the most honest one to Ray J on that show (besides Chardonay). When you get past the whole “game” part of the show, you would see that _@~&(@)^)~`_%(%_ tail is a bad )%^(@*_%~_^@%(~ chick and a good balance of everything! I think Ray J made the right decision! I really want it to work out for them!
Check it, He has access to gorgeous females like Caviar (who was the hottest chick on the show). He’s a photographer and manager for celebrities and models. Hot girls + Celebrities + HOT GIRLS = HIT SHOW. (check out Chicago Larry on YouTube, You will laugh your a** off).
This guy is hilarious, I checked him out on youtube and damn near pissed in my pants. Where do VH1 find these people?
hi ray j this is kiara and i am so happy that you picked _@##@*#&(*$@@&&) tail even if she tells it does not matter.
Unique I feel was playing a good game for the Love of Ray J but she did have gay action such as having another women give you a lap and she enjoyed all of it. She did favor the Lion fron the Wizard of OZ.Mrs Nice Nasty(spititout1@yahoo.com)Essie Rerun Berry
Stilts should have been called slick chick full of `(`_#@+)+)%@((~_ How Disrespectful was that for her to go on a show to find love, and she was married.Be real to your self.But that says a lot about your husband(spititout1@yahoo.com)Essie Rerun Berry
I turned on the Love of Ray show tonite here in AZ and I cannot understand how you could have such a big nothing man like Ray on the show and coming onto these girls like their pigs. He’s the pig. Such a nothing looking thing and the girls want to be with him. Has any of them got anything going for them to want to be with him. All he wants to do is go to bed with them and that ugly man has nothing that any women would want to be with. Are they that hard up. If your going to have a show like this have a man that really looks like something. When he talks it’s like a 2 year old is talking Ugh!!!!
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