VH1 Tough Love: Learn About the Casting Call For Season Two!

Yep, tonight’s the last go-round for VH1 Tough Love. Steven Ward and his matchmaking skills took the girls through a rather remarkable journey. From Jacklyn to Jody, each participant learned quite a bit about herself. Even with all the bumps, you could watch the ladies grow more confident throughout the series.

The good news? VH1 Tough Love is returning for a second season, and it’s offering viewers a chance to be part of it. Head to our casting site to answer a few questions about yourself. The show will review your information. Who knows, in a little while you could be toe to toe with Steve, participating in a great show.

HEAD TO VH1 TOUGH LOVE’s SEASON TWO CASTING SITE.

This entry was posted on Sunday, May 3rd, 2009 at 10:01 pm

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460 responses to to VH1 Tough Love: Learn About the Casting Call For Season Two!

Trina January 17, 2010 at 6:18 pm

I NEED HELP! im in a relationship that nobody seems to approve of. He is my babys father and we have another child on the way. Sometimes he seems to not show very much interest in family but other times he is the sweetest most perfect man in the world. I love him so much and he says we are gonna get married but i dont want to end up making a mistake. My biggest fear is that it wont work out. I think Steve is just what we need and i would love to be on the show.

Tara January 18, 2010 at 10:45 pm

u guys should do another Tough love bc I must be doing all the wrong things! Always getting tricked by the bad asses and jerks.

Nadine Walker January 19, 2010 at 4:56 pm

Hey Steve I’ve been in a realtionship for 5 years now we are discussing about marriage plans but it seems that he needs a little more work. I not sure if we both need work but im tired of the relationship if he doesn’t try to change. this is my first long relationship that ive been in and im not sure if i should keep looking or settle for what i have. Im very confused steve i need help ive watched u with the girls on the current show and ive been at home learning and taking notes. If anyone should be on your show it should be me.

patrice January 22, 2010 at 12:37 am

hi steve i am a big fan of your show and i would love to be on couples tough love, becuase i meet my boyfriend kevin rodriguez on a chat line a few years ago and we have been together ever since,and we are ready to meet each other in person, he is a good guy and we love each other so much, he is puerto rican and i am so scared that my family and friends are not going to like him, and i feel like he is trying to ask me something, please i need your help. thank you so much.

renee craig January 29, 2010 at 2:42 am

No comment.

Jennifer Moe January 31, 2010 at 9:51 pm

How do I find out if and when there will be a next casting call for Tough Love?

amber February 1, 2010 at 1:16 am

I’m not sure if there is going to be a season 3 but i differently want to apply i need help bad. i have only had to long relationships but i always get scared after the 3rd year.
thanks, Amber

Victoria Vestal February 1, 2010 at 1:20 am

Hi, I’m wondering when the casting call will be for Tough Love’s Seaason THREE!In California.

Jacquelyn February 1, 2010 at 1:41 pm

Hi my name is Jacquelyn watts i live in columbia missouri and i am only 20 with two kids i just got out of an abusive relationship with my youngest daughters daddy and i would like to come on your show because i would love to know what i need to do in order to really and truely find my match and someone who would be able to show my daughters how a real man is supose to treat them

Debra February 2, 2010 at 12:26 am

you should do a show with mothers and daughters that are looking to find out why they have difficulties finding love. I have a 23 yo and she like myself cannot seem to find the right guy, I wonder if its b/c of her watching my dysfunctional relationships that she is now unable to find someone, I have always been single while she was growing up and while I didnt bring alot of men into the house I wonder if the way I related to men has effected her ability to find a stable relationship, here is the funny thing she is biracial ( black/white ) and will only date white boys and I prefer black men, makes it interesting. I would love to have the opportunity to have you help both of us find out why we are both unable to find the right guy.

Jeff February 2, 2010 at 1:53 am

Where was the show filmed? San Diego?

Melissa February 2, 2010 at 2:18 am

I’m ready for season 3 casting! WHERE CAN I SIGN UP!?

Candace February 2, 2010 at 1:31 pm

Hi Steve,
I just finished watching the finale for Tough Love 2. It amazes me that you have such a wonderful gift for helping people not only for themselves, but for their relationships as well. I was so touched, I started crying and wondered if I would ever be as happy as you made those girls. I would love to be considered for your upcoming show VH1 Tough Love Couples. I could really use your help! I’ve been in a bi-racial relationship for the past 2 years, and it seems like all we ever do is fight and bicker. I love this man and I would appreciate your help on making my relationship positive and happy again. Thanks!! Candace :)

Amber February 2, 2010 at 6:09 pm

Hello, my name is Amber and I don’t really know how this works, but I would really love to be on Tough Love with Steve. I have been in and out of some what long relationships with bad guys. In the end I get hurt and cant stop the tears. I have tore my family apart with all my bad choices with guys. I just keep picking the same guy and he turns out to tear me down and my family down in the end. I have watched your show and how what you do helps those girls and I wish that you could help me. I would love to find someone that is a good guy and wont cry sad tears, but only happy tears.
I am just a normal girl looking to find Mr. right for me. I am not a movie star or anything, just someone that needs guidance in finding that special person. Watching your show gives me hope, when I see those girls at the end cry happy tear that someday that will be me.
I am tired of not finding the right person or not looking for the right person and always finding the wrong person. Maybe its something I am not doing or doing wrong.
Please help me in any way you came. I really dont know what else to do.

Amber February 2, 2010 at 6:09 pm

Hello, my name is Amber and I’m 27 yrs old, and I don’t really know how this works, but I would really love to be on Tough Love with Steve. I have been in and out of some what long relationships with bad guys. In the end I get hurt and cant stop the tears. I have tore my family apart with all my bad choices with guys. I just keep picking the same guy and he turns out to tear me down and my family down in the end. I have watched your show and how what you do helps those girls and I wish that you could help me. I would love to find someone that is a good guy and wont cry sad tears, but only happy tears.
I am just a normal girl looking to find Mr. right for me. I am not a movie star or anything, just someone that needs guidance in finding that special person. Watching your show gives me hope, when I see those girls at the end cry happy tear that someday that will be me.
I am tired of not finding the right person or not looking for the right person and always finding the wrong person. Maybe its something I am not doing or doing wrong.
Please help me in any way you came. I really dont know what else to do.

Bonny February 2, 2010 at 11:17 pm

I have been trying to figure out where the audtions are for Tough Love Couples. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for two years. I think he’s the one, we have discussed the future, but i think we need some fine tuning if this is going to work. I’ve been married once before so i want to be sure this time. We both live in Southern California and need this opportunity!

Teresa February 3, 2010 at 2:09 am

I what to know how to get on tough love couples me and my ex or boyfriend .I don’t know what we are , we need the help bad lol

stacy lease February 3, 2010 at 5:44 pm

dear steve,

me and my boyfriend have been dating for about years. i feel he is afraid of commintment becuase of his past relationships. i have a promise ring and i dont know how much of a promise it is becuase i want it to lead to marriage and he tells me hes not sure about everything. hes the most caring persen you could ask for but thier are some issues here that need to be resolved. i feel that we could really benifit from the couples bootcamp. we are living together and we are from little falls minnesota.im 24 and he is 28.

samantha February 3, 2010 at 6:11 pm

Steven Ward is the finest thing ever! I love the smile and his eyes. When he is tough with the girls it shows what a real man he is. Would love to meet someone just liek him.

july February 5, 2010 at 12:46 am

I have been in relationships and evrytime I think this is working out well he messes up and I dont know what to do so steve will u consider me in your show my clock is ticking.

Joyce February 13, 2010 at 12:33 am

It would be really great if there could be Season 3 Tough Love. Steve always gives such great advice for each different person. I am a an attractive fairly young lady that just can’t pick guys that potentially are a good match. Steve is the man that makes it happen. I know im not the easiest person to deal with but ready, willing and open to whatever it is Steve feels i need fixing. I want the chance to be given the Tough Love.

Danielle February 13, 2010 at 12:51 am

I WOULD LOVE TO BE ON THE SHOW but at the sametime I’m not sure if the show would help us…Me and my boyfriend has been together for over a year and we have huge trust issues..He always questioning if I’m cheating on him.Its like I cant even go to the bathroom/take a shower without him accussing me of cheating.HE’S A GOOD GUY!!! IT’S JUST HE’S BEEN HURT IN THE PAST AND ITS AFFECTING US!!!!I tell him my every move so there’s no way Im cheating..I dont know what to do at this point I could use the help

shanae hughes February 13, 2010 at 5:15 pm

hello i am a shy quite girl i live in toledo ohio have the worst luck when it comes to guys i seem to look for love in all the wrong places and i dont want to be 50 years old and single!. i wish there was some way i could get the kind of guys i want but i dont know how i really need your help i watch your show and i love how your so nice to help people find the one they are looking for

Jaimie February 14, 2010 at 1:05 pm

I need to be on this show. If anyone really needs help in finding someone its me. It seems like i do everything wrong and i have huge self esteem issues and i see how you have helped these girls and i want help too. I dont want to end up a cat lady! I wont go very deep into but please inform me on the next casting call for tough love because i am more than interested!!!

JAMIKA SHEARER February 17, 2010 at 1:35 am

IM HOPING TO BE INFORMED FOR INSTRUCTIONS TO CAST FOR THE NEXT TOUGHT LOVE… IM 37 MOTHER OF TWO I CAN HONOSTLY SAY I HAVE DEALT WITH PEOPLE BUT I DONT FEEL I HAVE BEEN IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP, AND IM STARTING TO FEEL I NEVER WILL, I DONT KNOW WHAT IT IS WITHIN ME BUT EVEN WHEN I CHANGED THE TYPE OF GUY I DEALT WITH I SEEM TO GET THE SAME RESULT… IM FEARFUL OF NEVER EXPERIENCING TRUE AND MEANINGFUL LOVE. I HAD A BOYFRIEND IN HIGH SCHOOL THAT CAME TO SEE ME EVERY DAY BEFORE HE LEFT EARLY AS A SENIOR WHO WAS ADAMENT ABOUT TAKING ME TO EAT AND BUY ME SHOES THE NEXT DAY SCHOOL AS USUAL AND HE CAME TO MY CLASS AS HE ALWAYS DID TO KISS ME GOODBYE AND IT WAS THE LAST TIME I SAW HIM ALIVE SHOT TO DEATH LATER THAT DAY. MY CHILDREN ARE BY THE SAME MAN AND SHORTLY AFTER I GOT PREGNANT HE WENT TO JAIL DID 18 MO DURING WHICH TIME WE HAD A SON, HE GOT OUT WE GOT PREGNANT WITH OUR DAUGHTER THEN HE WENT BACK TO JAIL 6YRS.. I THINK I MAY HAVE SOME ABANDONMENT ISSUES, WHICH MAKES ME VERY ANALYTICAL WITH EVERYTHING, I TEND TO GRAVITATE TOWARDS LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS THEY SEEM EASY BUT I DONT WANT TO BE LIKE THIS I NEED TO KNOW DESPERATELY WHAT IM DOING WRONG… THANK YOU.

Charrlena February 19, 2010 at 1:16 am

I would like to try out for tough love couples. My boyfriend and I been togather for 3 years we live close to eachother but some how people keep on getting into our relationship his family manily his mom. my parents dont care to much but his mom is just to much he say nothing to her. like one day she slapped me and he stood there looking at me didnt tell his mom a thing. I nwant our relationship with him not his family we are in this not them and dont get me started on his family trip omg steve they made me cry.

Andreana gomez February 19, 2010 at 12:17 pm

Hi steve my name is andreana gomez and im 22 years old. I would love to get the chance to be on tough love 3. I have been in many relationships and it seens i end up babysitting them and im tired of it i need your help and advice. I want to be in a relationship that is worth putting the time and effort in. I feel that i obviously am not going the right way about it! Im single right now have no children but would love to with the right one! Please do consider me steve. Thank you, Andreana Gomez

Latanya Griffin February 20, 2010 at 10:15 am

HELLo my name is Latanya Griffin and i love the show tough love. i am a woman that always pick the wrong kind of man. i am in the medical pro and i am a mother of two. IT hard for me to meet new people first i don’t know what to say. I am so close off because i been hurt so many times. so now i have a wall up. I think if i can get the chance to put my self out there to meet new people and hopefully finding the man for me i would be so so happy. I am from chicago but i live in indiana now. I need this bad. I find my self weak to man because i feel i need or miss something. all i do is work work work and it’s no fun any more i need to find me again i want to smile be happy and do diffence things. so i hope you all look at me and give me a chance that going to change my life. THank you God Bless Latanya M. Griffin

Connie February 27, 2010 at 3:51 am

I have never been in love before. I mean a part of me thinks I am ready to settle down. I really want to find that special someone. But I am so torn about the commitment thing. What’s crazy is I am sort of controling, but in a different way and I refuse to be controled, and I won’t put up with no bs.
I am a sucker for a cute face. I love a good looking man. And I want one. I need help Steve, I have always been the type of woman who feels men are there for my convenience, like they don’t have feelings. I want to put my guards down so I can experience something different.

Ms.Trina March 17, 2010 at 3:58 am

I just wanted to say Tough Love is a great show. But as I do understand that there’s going to be a Tough Love version for couples. Now what I want to know is that when is there going to be casting calls for Tough Love 3? I would love to know so that I can try out for the show. I really need some HELP WITH LOVE because it’s not happening on my own. Thanks
–Ms.Trina

jason April 3, 2010 at 12:31 pm

My girlfriend and I just split after 2 yrs but still do the booty call thing. I,m a firefighter, shes a model. We are both very attractive and in great shape. I love her deeply as does she love me, but her family and fake model friends, as well as her need for attention all the time, keep us apart. I cannot stand her friends most of which are fake, plastic and are among other things are cheating on their husbands or boyfriends. So, I choose not to go to work functions…I cant stand fake, cheating people, maybe you could help?…thnx

Allison April 12, 2010 at 9:19 pm

I am watching tough love couples, and reaize my boyfriend and I would really benefit from this. I was wondering how we can apply for the next season of Tough love?

shaye cannedy April 13, 2010 at 8:22 pm

hi my names shaye cannedy an i am in a relationship with the woman of my dreams an i dnt think she feel the same i mean we use to be really tight together can u please help me im am a 21 year old black male looking for your guidence.

bethany needs serious help April 14, 2010 at 5:37 pm

ok i hope u have a season three because i need your help steve. i just moved to California from Rhodeisland with a guy that ive been dating for a year and a half im totally in love with him and within to months of being here he just broke up with me for no reason. now before him i had just gotten out of a four year relationship with a guy that was on the wrong side of the tracts so to speak and it did alot of damage to my family and myself im sick and tired of bending over backwards for men that treate me like garbage but i cant seem to break the habit it seems. now ive found myself across country trying to make ends meet with family and friends 3,000 miles away, im asking for your help steve please!!!!! if there is a season three please cast me im scared and alone

Nashel April 16, 2010 at 12:19 am

I am a big fan of tough love and I watch it here in Jamaica. I myself am seeking for love I never seem to come across the right guys and at times feels used. I love the whole concept of your show and look forward to see many more episodes.

Kevin Dennis April 18, 2010 at 5:09 pm

I need your help i know this show is my only chance to change and be the man i know i should be i was in a relationship for two years with the most beautiful and sweetist girl in the world that i loved more then life it self and i was hell bent on distroying it and i know this would be the only way i could earn her trust back and her back if it isnt to late already please do a another season and pick me to show her i can be that man she wants and deserves thank you

roxanne April 19, 2010 at 10:09 pm

i would love to be on tought love im 24 with 2 kids two diffrent dads and been throught alot with guys and cant seem to find the right guy i have tryed and need some help please

Erika April 20, 2010 at 2:20 pm

I’m with Melissa. WHEN’S SEASON 3?! AND WHERE CAN I SIGN UP!

deedee May 15, 2010 at 8:48 am

I would like to be on tough love. I am 33 and divorced. I look like I’m 20, but I don’t trust men. I don’t have trouble dating. I just have a trust issues and I’m very picky. I don’t want to ne that kind of person. I really need help with my issues. That is why I need to go I’m a show .

brittney May 16, 2010 at 6:08 pm

I would love to be on tough love my boyfriend and i wanna get married but we need help with are problems and we dont no how to deal with them.. please help us..

Amber/Samareo May 17, 2010 at 11:23 pm

Hi I am 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We have been together since December 2002. This show is just what we need. I love the show and watched ot twice with him and we came to the same conclusion. It is perfect for us. It seems as if we have peaked. We love each other dearly but wonder if we should bow out now. We are young and I personally dont want to devote some of the best years of my life to a failing relationship. It seems as if we do have some of the same expectations out of life…but we are definately trying to reach them differently….We are total opposites at times…and there is NO TRUST. The cheating from both of us has simply wiped all trust away

Charlotte Woodward May 18, 2010 at 2:30 am

I want to be part of Season 3 Tough Love…I’m 28 & want to find someone who fits me, I just ended a 6yr relationship w/ my fiancee, *who is still my best friend*, his lying tore our relationship apart & I’ve finally come to the time in my life where I would like to have kids & marriage…but now I’m back to square one. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, I’m a pretty blonde, level headed, fun, & loving…guys love my video gamer side & my geeky ways even though on the outside I would never be pegged as geeky…I look like the sexy nice girl. I need Help and want to be on the show to change my outlook on things, I have free time, flexible schedule & live in Glendale AZ. Let me know if I’m a candidate for the show. Thanks, Char

Jenni May 18, 2010 at 8:04 pm

I had never seen your show before. I happened to catch an episode right after a long term relationship break-up (so I got hooked). I just had to let go of the love of my life. We would only argue a few times a year, if that. Each time it happened, he would ditch me. No call, no contact, not even returning a text. I would always be the one who went back. This time I had to let go or else I risked losing myself for good. Why? Heartbroken………….

victoria May 26, 2010 at 1:36 pm

i want to do this show.

Rachel Wolf May 26, 2010 at 4:30 pm

Hi my name is Rachel..I am legally married to my guy. I was pregnant my senior year in high school and we were basically given the choice to either give Tanner (which is our son) up for adaption or get married and keep him. We obviously picked get married. Right before we were married we had the best relationship we laughed, talked, and went on many dates. We were not in a relationship more than a year before we got married I didn’t even get that surprise purpose that every girl dreams of. Anyways about two years ago we just decided to go our separate ways we couldn’t pay for a divorce because of money issues so we did a split which we were still married but we didn’t think of it like that. Anyways I dated a guy and go into a party stage I will admit that and he did as well. But we got back together now and I really love being back with him I have missed him tons and you can see it in our sons eyes he loves having us both back together. But this time it is different. He doesn’t have those surprises or do the dates anymore which is sad to me because i loved them. We only put our self’s as in a relationship right now not married. He has the rings locked up until we feel that it is all good. I want this not only for our son but for our self’s I really do love and don’t want to be without him again. I feel horrible for being that person who went out in a party stage and I think he hates that he did that too. Please help us

Rachel Wolf May 26, 2010 at 4:32 pm

my comment is not going though I dont think?

Rachel Wolf May 26, 2010 at 4:32 pm

my comment is not going though I dont think?? how do you get it to work? I really need to get on this show

Rachel Wolf May 26, 2010 at 4:37 pm

Hi my name is Rachel..I am legally married to my guy. I was pregnant my senior year in high school and we were basically given the choice to either give Tanner (which is our son) up for adaption or get married and keep him. We obviously picked get married. Right before we were married we had the best relationship we laughed, talked, and went on many dates. We were not in a relationship more than a year before we got married I didn’t even get that surprise purpose that every girl dreams of. Anyways about two years ago we just decided to go our separate ways we couldn’t pay for a divorce because of money issues so we did a split which we were still married but we didn’t think of it like that. Anyways I dated a guy and go into a party stage I will admit that and he did as well. But we got back together now and I really love being back with him I have missed him tons and you can see it in our sons eyes he loves having us both back together. But this time it is different. He doesn’t have those surprises or do the dates anymore which is sad to me because i loved them. We only put our self’s as in a relationship right now not married. He has the rings locked up until we feel that it is all good. I watched the first season and I really think this could help us. It may be hard but I think we could really use and this would be the boost to help us out. I want this not only for our son but for our self’s I really do love and don’t want to be without him again. I feel horrible for being that person who went out in a party stage and I think he hates that he did that too. Please help us thanks

Rachel Wolf May 26, 2010 at 4:37 pm

Hi my name is Rachel..I am legally married to my guy. I was pregnant my senior year in high school and we were basically given the choice to either give Tanner (which is our son) up for adaption or get married and keep him. We obviously picked get married. Right before we were married we had the best relationship we laughed, talked, and went on many dates. We were not in a relationship more than a year before we got married I didn’t even get that surprise purpose that every girl dreams of. Anyways about two years ago we just decided to go our separate ways we couldn’t pay for a divorce because of money issues so we did a split which we were still married but we didn’t think of it like that. Anyways I dated a guy and go into a party stage I will admit that and he did as well. But we got back together now and I really love being back with him I have missed him tons and you can see it in our sons eyes he loves having us both back together. But this time it is different. He doesn’t have those surprises or do the dates anymore which is sad to me because i loved them. We only put our self’s as in a relationship right now not married. He has the rings locked up until we feel that it is all good. I watched the first season and I really think this could help us. It may be hard but I think we could really use and this would be the boost to help us out. I want this not only for our son but for our self’s I really do love and don’t want to be without him again. I feel horrible for being that person who went out in a party stage and I think he hates that he did that too. Please help us thanks.

Lisa Carter June 2, 2010 at 9:28 am

another tough love boot camp is in order. It was amazing to see what you did with those girls,and it gives me some hope that things could change with the proper guidence. I need some desperate help, Steve. I am in one abusive relationship into another and I am miserable. I really want to find some happiness, but I am not sure if I am ever going to get there, but I believe in you and your show and what you do. And I know that I am stubborn most of the time, but I would work hard and deal with the issues head on for a chance to finally find some stablity in a relationship. Can you help?