Deb Hits the Air-Waves Next Time on Gotti’s Way 2!

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Find out why Irv’s worried about Deb’s appearance on Gayle King’s radio show in this sneak peek of the next episode of Gotti’s Way 2.

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  1. suvono says:

    I am soooo sick of this chic whinning and crying, she is so sicking. All she does is ^&*!)+@~%^&&!&*#! and mon and I cant stand to hear her voice. Irv is a fool and so is she. Move around if your so tired of everything you insecure ^&*!)+@~%^&&!&*#!

  2. MsTee says:

    IRV should definitely get OVER HIMSELF!!!!! She didn’t force him to het married for whatever reason they married and now that he has discovered she isn’t EVERYTHING to him, he won’t DIVORCE her. He wants to have his ~#_$!&(###$)_~()~ S and his nice little wifey and home!!!PLEASE!!!!! IF I WERE DEB I’D DO WHAT THE F—!!!! I WANTED TO AND IRV COULD GO F—!!! HIMSELF!!!! Divorce his SORRY A–!!! DEB and take HALF that’s what he’s afraid will happen… You are a beautiful woman, stop letting him walk all over you!!!!!!!!!!!

  3. Cynthia Ward says:

    Mr. Gotti:

    Congrats in a wonderful show that is very real. What you are going through with your family, people have gone through for generations. I am a 50yr old fan that have followed your career. Go Home Irv. Your boys need you, don’t let thm grow up in a broken home. Nothing in the streets will ever come close to the proud feeling you get when your boys grow up to be successful men, because they were raised and loved correctly. GO HOME!!!
    Take it from me who have raised 2 successful adults. You will forget the names of the people you sacrificed your children’s childhood and happiness.
    You will find Success that will be larger than before. Keep a level head.NO ONE COMES BEFORE YOUR KIDS. YOUR KIDS ARE YOU.

  4. Ms. CW says:

    Irv Gotti should go home. He will not remeber the names of the women that he sacrificed his kids childhood and happiness. One day he will not be able to get it up. What then? Your kids would have been raised in a broken unhappy home. Their success in life may be hindered because you were in love with a temporary feeling. This is the mentality of a crack head, chasing a feeling you will only get once. Meanwhile, your boys future could have been better if Irv Gotti had his priorities straight. YOUR BOYS COMES FIRST. No feeling compares to the proud feeling when your boys are successful rich men, because they grew up in a loving home. YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE! YOU SIGN THOSE BROKEN HOME PRODUCTS.

  5. Lynn says:

    I think in my opninion that they should cancel the gotti’s way show and they should stay together neither one want to leave the other. So just cancel the show stop bring your problem to the public eye. But i do have one comment I feel the wife should find some type of career for herself to make money. You already know the way the world is now we can’t dependent on man anymore never did and never will this be gooing on for thousand of years.

  6. Thickums says:

    DEB YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING DIVORCE IS SORRY BUTT!!!! GAIN YOUR CONFIDENCE BACK AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO COOK AND CLEAN. LET GOTTI GO OUT THERE AND HAVE SEX WITH EVERYTHING THAT MOVE AND GET A DISEASE WITH HIS DUMB BUTT.

  7. xoxo!! says:

    Deb… I think your friends and family are giving you horrible advice. I’m no expert but I don’t think it takes one to tell you, you are doing the right thing. Just because he is the bread winner doesn’t mean you need to stay with him to continue living the “good life” and allow him to walk all over you. He ain’t god you don’t need to take crap from him. And if it were so “good” you wouldn’t feel pain and sadness. Good luck in all you do!

  8. honeydew33 says:

    The lady at Irv’s office should shut up she probably just wants him thinking that she can get some money! Unless you’ve had to deal with it directly you have no idea. She is right to set boundaries for his behind he can’t have his cake and eat it too. Marriage is a covent! and he is abusing all of his rights! I only watch it because of her and what she’s going through. I am a married women myself that have had to deal with some of the same issues…Pray Deb…when you’ve done all you can you just stand and pray!

  9. roosevelt heath,sr says:

    whatever happened between irv and deb is pretty much over…why carry on??…deb really should grow up and make her own dam money if she’s so independent or whatever…all i hear is her carrying on about irv messing around and she sounds soooo pathetic pissing and moaning about the same thing…get a good lawyer and get her out of your life irv….kinda whack having a reality show centered around his ex…it’s over move on……get back to the inc empire and show us what the latest is on that..not listening or watching his ex constantly downtalk irv..dam!! at least have something postive on the show………

  10. Renee says:

    I just want to way real or staged I do enjoy the show if for nothing else, to remind me of the decision I myself made was a good one. Deb it is severly a time to move on. That disrespectful fool who you continually stay married to has no respect for you or your family. He is the epitome of why so many men do not respect the sanctity of marriage and commitment and in his case because he’s the bread winner. I was there once, not exactly the situation but I was so hung up on being and staying married and keeping him happy that I lost myself in him and when things got rocky he really thought I would not walk away. I have a good job and had to hold on to my self respect and realize the treatment that I was receiving was not worth my self respect. Money or no money Gotti is not a role model for his sons if nothing else. I pray that they will not grow up and treat women as they see him treat you or to have Angie meet a guy and have him treat her like gotti treats you all in the name of he can because he’s the breadwinner and trying to make her think she can’t survive without him. You can do it. My life took such a better change and he then felt left out because once I got the nerve to stand up and do me which is what was best for myself and my kids, the kids love our life now because i’m happier, in a great relationship and nowhaving to deal with him trying to come back missing what he had. Thats only because i’m happy now but not having it. My last child is off to college this year and i’m now doing more of me and loving it. My prayer is that you find you and become a much stronger woman for your kids and show your boys how they should treat a woman by your words and not by gotti’s actions.

  11. Nancy says:

    Ms Tee is right, the only reason he doesn’t divorce Deb is because he’s afraid he’ll have to pay up. All the talk about it’s “his house, he pays the bills”- divorce he’s _@`)~)%&$#*$!$) and you will get all that and then some. He doesn’t want a wife, he just doesn’t want to pay up in the divorce settlement. He’s an idiot, I see right through him. Deb you need to be strong and sure of yourself, don’t be afraid, the best revenge is hapiness. Show him someone else can be there for you unlike himself. He can get any girl he wants as long as he has money, but life takes many turns. If that’s the kind of empty, meaningless relationships he wants with floosy gold diggers let him, eventually he’ll see that what he had was good, but he lost it. And about your mother in-law, no one ever truly has their support, just lean on your own family who are truly always there for you.

  12. Heather says:

    Deb,
    I just watched your show, it comes on early out here in California! And I just have to say I AM SOOOOO PROUD OF YOU!!! I am completely on your side, I agree with your every thought about the “warped” mind of Irv. I cant believe you have stayed in this situation as long as you have, but I have to commence you on your loyalty. Its your turn now girl, live your life. You and Irv will always remain civil and probably close because of the kids, but its not fair for you to live your life without love. He may “provide” for you, but hes really not doing anything for you that really truly matters in life. Love, devotion, loyalty he doesnt provide you and every woman deserves that!! I hope you find it and move on with you life. And besides, im sure you wont have to worry about money at all, once you are divorced you will get half and child support anyway! You take your life and put it in gear and find yourself a man who will not only take care of you financially but emotionally as well!! I wish you the best of luck, and hope the next chapter in your life is full of nothing but LOVE and some great sex haha!!!

  13. Teela says:

    I was on Deb’s side until the end of this episode today. As a parent, I don’t think how she carried herself with handling Irv in asking him to leave the house was 100% correct, did she have rights yes she did, did she carry herself correctly in the situation no she didn’t. Just because you gave Irv his children does not in ^+^*^+(((`*^%(^ le you to make an $(@_`&!!$`!!!)( of him in the home(The FAMILY Home). The home is for the children and outta love for Deb and that’s the reason why Irv does what he does financially for them, it’s his FAM!!!!! You as a woman keep your disrespect for the father and what you have going on with him behind close doors or in private when no children can be present at all to hear nor witness the harshness of the reality of what the two of you happen to be going through.

  14. Ree says:

    this is one of the strongest chicks i’ve ever seen… money, power, and material things aren’t everything and she is mature enough to know that. most women in her position wouldn’t leave but babyyyy sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. he’s the fool and i’m sure will end up alone one day while she is happily taken by someone who loves, respects, and treats her just the way she wants. :)

  15. diva says:

    DEB NEED TO DIVORCE HIS SORRY, FAT, UGLY *+`~`^@^*##*)+_ JUST CUZ U HAVE MONEY DONT MEAN SHE NEEDS TO STAY. TAKE HIS DUMB *+`~`^@^*##*)+_ TO CHILD SUPPORT AND GET SPOUSE SUPPORT. TAKE 90% OF HIS (@#)_*^+$`%%~*+(

  16. diva says:

    DEB NEED TO DIVORCE HIS SORRY, FAT, UGLY ~$@~(&^~@(+!$$+ JUST CUZ U HAVE MONEY DONT MEAN SHE NEEDS TO STAY. TAKE HIS DUMB ~$@~(&^~@(+!$$+ TO CHILD SUPPORT AND GET SPOUSE SUPPORT. TAKE 90% OF HIS $&&&!#+@+#^&%`+%

  17. diva says:

    DEB NEED TO DIVORCE HIS SORRY, FAT, UGLY @~(~*!~*`!@(&_& JUST CUZ U HAVE MONEY DONT MEAN SHE NEEDS TO STAY. TAKE HIS DUMB @~(~*!~*`!@(&_& TO CHILD SUPPORT AND GET SPOUSE SUPPORT. TAKE 90% OF HIS $$#)+!&#%$()#((#

  18. diva says:

    DEB NEED TO DIVORCE HIS SORRY, FAT, UGLY $&+!&%*)(!$^+*% JUST CUZ U HAVE MONEY DONT MEAN SHE NEEDS TO STAY. TAKE HIS DUMB $&+!&%*)(!$^+*% TO CHILD SUPPORT AND GET SPOUSE SUPPORT. TAKE 90% OF HIS `!!$(^`@++`^)^$*

  19. diva says:

    DEB NEED TO DIVORCE HIS SORRY, FAT, UGLY `&+##!!%))%*+)+ JUST CUZ U HAVE MONEY DONT MEAN SHE NEEDS TO STAY. TAKE HIS DUMB `&+##!!%))%*+)+ TO CHILD SUPPORT AND GET SPOUSE SUPPORT. TAKE 90% OF HIS @)~%@$_+!((_%()!

  20. diva says:

    DEB NEED TO DIVORCE HIS SORRY, FAT, UGLY `#&)+`@!$+(`)@& JUST CUZ U HAVE MONEY DONT MEAN SHE NEEDS TO STAY. TAKE HIS DUMB `#&)+`@!$+(`)@& TO CHILD SUPPORT AND GET SPOUSE SUPPORT. TAKE 90% OF HIS $)&`_&&!`^(@~))*

  21. DannyDee says:

    I’m sorry.. but I have to vent about this. Watching this .. gave me chills and I wish Deb could read this. She made me so proud watching her go off on him and stand up for herself. I’m sorry, but yes, he’s rich, yes he can pretty much give her money for whatever and anything.. but he will take care of her regardless. Like she said, she is the mother of his kids, and I don’t think hes that much of an a*hole that will let her do bad because she got a new man. Now – Irv says that Deb doesnt clean, Deb doesnt cook, He needs a full blown H0* .. Ok. Let me just say this – SO WHAT!! There is a man out there that will love Deb regardless! That will cook, and probably ask her to help, and inspire her to do it. That will clean, and make a joke out of the fact that she doesnt… and yes, a man that will bring the h0* out of her , because every woman has it in them.. Did Irv ever think that maybe HE just doesnt do it for her? It disgusts me that he brags about cheating, brags about him and other women. Ok, we know the industry and can only imagine what these groupie chicks and superhead let you do with them.. but you have no respect for the mother of your kids. You talk bad about her infront of the entire world and she is just a fool in love like most women are or have been, and has hopes of being the happy family. I’m so happy that she shut him down, and you could see she was proud of herself in her eyes. I hope she keeps this up, let him take the kids, and stop letting him run stuff, and in and out as he pleases.. it will only get easier Deb!! THe longer you wait, the harder it is. I wish you nothing but the best. This is the first time I wrote on this blog, I usually dont try to get too involved, but Im too passionate about this right here…

  22. Quay says:

    Go Deb!!!!!!!!! Just watch the new Gotti’s way and now the name should be Deb’s way!!!!!!!!!!!! Gotti is not running anything any more!!!! I am so glad she finally put her foot down and doing what makes her happy. She should have done what she just did when he first told her he cheated and wouldn’t stop. I love Deb. Much hope for her happiness. She doesn’t need Gotti, she can do bad by her damn self!!!!!!!

  23. NeTerri Barnes says:

    Deb, you go girl. don’t let no man treat you the way Irv’s crazy behind treats you. I think you are doing it right (with the counseling & all). I would personally cutt his butt off. He’d be mad messing with me. But I wish you all the best in getting stronger. You have a daughter watching & you defintely want to break the cycle now. Hold your head up girl!!!everybody is not juding you. But I’ll be cussing Irv’s `+(^%^+^@`^!)!* out for you. you have my support. Bless his poor parents, they must must be so ashamed.

  24. AllThatGlittersAintGold says:

    Irv and Deb’s priority should be the well being of their children first and foremost. Whatever that may be. Nobody is perfect, however, the argueing and fighting in the kids presence is not healthy. It allows the kids a direct in on what they are argueing about and in some ways influence them in developing an oppinion and they may start to take sides. I also believe that when you think about your words and choose them wisely before you say them makes a world of difference! I wish them both the best and hope they can come to a happy medium that will allow them to coexist in a way that is most healthy for them all. I will end in saying:
    Irv: As real as it is to her, Deb don’t wanna hear about naked pics of you and random chicks in your phone.
    Deb: Don’t react to the hurtful things that he may say. ie…throwing his phone out the door.

  25. tt says:

    YAY Deb…. Glad to see you’re doing things differently! Stand up for what’s right and put your trust in God. Insanity is doing things the same way and expecting different results. Do something different as it pertains to Irv and wait and see the different result you get. Marriage is trial and error sometime. Be Blessed Deb…

  26. Ms.ChristianLove says:

    This comes from a Christian especially since God has been so good to all of us. Look Irv I dont judge but you know Deb is a good woman. If a woman loves you dont take it for grantend. Because you said tonight all the woman would have sex with you. But they dont care about the real Irv. The look at the mask. But who is the real Irv Gotti. She had your kids. She cares for you. At the end of the day she gonna be there. Money cant buy many things. Such as love, happiness, it cant cure sickness. Everything your taking for granted people wish they had. Deb is beautiful. If you treat a woman that God bless you with for granted you dont deserve her. Look Irv your a good dad but you made a comment to her and God. You need to look at the future. Why would you mess with these woman out here when you have a beautiful wife at home, who cares for you. The reality is she would have not been the way she is if you would have not cheated. A wife needs a good husband. Respect, love her and if you cant you need to let her go. Question and not to be funny. Is it that you Deb will be there but you want your cake and to eat it too. Love is doing whats best for the person inspite of. If you really love her and are afraid too keep hurting her let her go. Dont do that too her or your family. Think about your kids and everytime they see mommy cry or scream and how it effects them. peace out Irv. This came from the heart because I care and the enemy (devil) is just trying to destroy family apart.

  27. Jelly says:

    DEB- I’m very proud of the steps your taking to move on and leave Irv. I know you want to stay for the kids but staying with Irv is worse for them, letting them experience the fighting and the blaitent disrespect that Irv shows you. I can see you growing and getting the confidence to stand up to him. All those people in your life saying that you should be happy with what you have don’t know happiness. Irv doesn’t get any props for payin the bills because he’s the one messin’ up and a TRUE MAN would be taking care of his family regardless! Plus, if he won’t do it it willingly THANK GOD FOR THE NEW YORK COURT SYSTEM!!! I look forward to seeing you grow more and become stronger! Surround yourself with positive people not the ones that want you to be content with a negative and unhappy lifestyle!

  28. Malinda says:

    Hi Debbie – I totally agree with you…put him out. Concentrate on yourself and being the best divorced mom you can be. It’s better for your children to see you as a strong woman that doesn’t allow her husband to emotionally abuse her. I’m 100% behind you. You’ll be okay financially because your husband will have to pay you alimony and child support. You don’t need to be in a relationship with a man that cheats on you with strange video women that have had sex with hundreds of men. Gotti is endangering you and your family by having sex with multiple women with questionable pasts. God forbid he contracts HIV and brings it home to you. If that happens you won’t be around to raise your children. Get rid of him…he’s a walking parasite. Best of luck and may god bless with the strength to move on. Kind regards, Mia

  29. Nic says:

    This is for my girl Deb, girl I feel you 110% How could you fully move on with your Husband still coming through whenever he want. What other man is really going to respect and accept that. I think you are doing the right thing. You are such a good Mom and Gotti is having his fun now but he will realize what he had when you are no longer available. He rather give up his family life just to get head every night that is sad. Girl don’t let your life pass you by. I also agree with you needing an older man with cash of course, someone who will accept and love your children as much as he loves you and I really truly believe that you will find your true love because Gotti wasn’t it. You know what really upsets me that you were the one that was there for him when he was going through trial and he turn his back on you; yes he pay all the bills but it’s much more than just paying all the bills and he just don’t get it. He’s the one who need to see a psychiatrist.
    I watched the show tonight and the chic that made the comment about being a single mother and having to do it all alone and would be grateful to have someone like Gotti, well let me tell you I am also a single mother and I too work and hold down my household but I will never accept no man coming and going as they please because they pay all the bills. So Deb keep ya head up and keep raising those kids the way you’re doing because you doing an awesome job!!

  30. divasistha says:

    Deb, sistha to sistha, I am so proud of you. You are finally standing up for yourself. I know you were upset but Kayle and {you know how} would not be proud of the langauge. We will give you a pass this time becuz he is a azz hole, who is so full of himself. But one thing I do know, he will eventually get old and will be by himself. You are such a beautiful lady and deserve a man who will love and respect you. PLEASE DO NOT CARRY IRV’S BAGGAGE INTO A NEW RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU HAVE. ALL MEN ARE NOT LIKE HIM. BE STRONG MY SISTHA CHANGE IS COMING. He will be the one 20, 30 years from now saying, ” If I could turn back the hands of time to make it right with Deb”.

  31. sabrina says:

    Deb first of all you have to love you. Second I think you need a friend. Someone who you can talk too. I look at the show when I get off work. With friends like yours, you don’t need no enemies.What friend would tell you, you got it good when you AIN’T got a piece on the side. I’m not saying cheat ,because to me i’m not a psychologist but the relationship between you and gotti is over. But you told gayle that you want a old man. I’m 36 and I think 45 is to old. Now is really the time for you to work on you and your selfesteem. I ain’t gay. But I know if I can pass for 25. I know you can . People use the term friend alot. A friend only want to see a friend happy. Good Luck on what ever decision you make. Do me a favor do it for DEB. Because everything DEB do she do for her kids. Like ME. Much love sabrina.

  32. maegan says:

    Deb, I’m so glad you kicked his a** out tonight! I’ve been waiting on that because that’s something i need to do myself and I just don’t know how. I don’t think Deb should let Irv come back because things and feelings will never be the same. No matter how much someone promises not to cheat anymore, it will still be in the back of your mind. Your feelings will always be hurt even though you might not show it. Men like Irv only make women have their guard up. Deb is doing a great job trying to get through her hurt feelings and I commend her for that. I only wish I had a little of your strength and that’s why I watch the show because it’s like my therapy because my husband is the same way. He believes he can do anything he wants while I’m suppose to sit at home 24/7 clean, take care of kids, and be his sweet little wife when he decides to come homme, F**K THAT! I’m tired and I hope I can only become as strong as Deb has sooner than later!

  33. marilyn says:

    you go Deb get rid of his sorry ss you need to move on he not the only man in this world and money not everything .and anyways if he with you he going to pay you. if he not he steal going to pay you. you need to move on with your life .life is to short for all of that bull that you are going thought with this man he or any other man is not worth the bull that you are going thought you are a pretty lady move on with your life start by loving yourself and it will all fall in to place you have kid’s that seeing what going on thy do not need this and i will like to say you go girl when you put his sorry ss out that shows him that you are getting strong i was happy when you put him out keep it up it will get easy as time goes on and you can make it just ask god to give you what you need to get rid of him and stay strong deb do not give up you can make it.it will be OK in do time

  34. marilyn says:

    you go Deb get rid of his sorry ss you need to move on he not the only man in this world and money not everything .and anyways if he with you he going to pay you. if he not he steal going to pay you. you need to move on with your life .life is to short for all of that bull that you are going thought with this man he or any other man is not worth the bull that you are going thought you are a pretty lady move on with your life start by loving yourself and it will all fall in to place you have kid’s that seeing what going on thy do not need this and i will like to say you go girl when you put his sorry ss out that shows him that you are getting strong i was happy when you put him out keep it up it will get easy as time goes on and you can make it just ask god to give you what you need to get rid of him and stay strong deb do not give up you can make it.it will be OK in do time good luck

  35. lindsey8158 says:

    Suvono, I totally agree with you. If you does not like who he is and he makes it very clear she needs to step. I don’t even think that he is asking much…..if she is going to be a housewife and his mate and she should provide and live up to those standard,just as much as she expects him to provide. It’s a two way street baby.

  36. LEE says:

    I’m so happy Deb took that big step and threw Gotti out HER house..LOL!! IF GOTTI really cares about Deb he should do what she says “OR HE SHOULD LEAVE THE HOE’S ALONE AND GET BACK HOME TO HIS FAMILY” GOTTI IS ONE BIG IGNORANT #+#~&_)+^~`~)_)#`%! SORRY GOTTI BUT YOU ARE).

  37. LEE says:

    I’m so happy Deb took that big step and threw Gotti out HER house..LOL!! IF GOTTI really cares about Deb he should do what she says “OR HE SHOULD LEAVE THE HOE’S ALONE AND GET BACK HOME TO HIS FAMILY” GOTTI IS ONE BIG IGNORANT `)!+@^%+)+&*+@`%~+~ SORRY GOTTI BUT YOU ARE).

  38. miss fine says:

    he is a dumbass fool! he thinks he can cheat and she has to sit there and take it? please got get a hoe and leave already. you are a terrible example for your kids..losers like gotti make the world go round. how bout some respect 4 the mother of you kids? yall need 2 get a divorce and kick rocks!!! sign on the dotted line and throw up the dueces!! damn. Deb hold it down…. and man just let it go girl. do what is right 4 you and your kids. what example 2 you want 2 set 4 your kids? Step up like us MOMMAS do and keep steppin…rite 2 your OWN destiny!!!

  39. jennifer says:

    She’s right! Id take my half and be on my way! she should not be put down for raising her kids, because she didnt pay for the house, instead she stayed home and raised three children while he was free to make his millions and sleep around! Money cannot buy happiness, true happiness is knowing that we are loved. Id eat him up like like a bowl of Cheerios in the morning.

  40. kina says:

    Deb need to get laid and stop whinning. Move on if your tired of Irv. Woman do it everyday. Deb is also very weak. Who did you think you married joe down the street. He is a celeb and I agree with everything he said about the type of woman he needs, a cook, housewife, and a %!^($~#*((%_*#_&* eeeeee. Deb step your game up and stop whinning or keep it moving.

  41. big vic says:

    i am tired of his wife. im not condoning him cheating but he is doing everything he is supposed to be doing to keep her happy. thats his sh#$. period. hes sharing it with you. if it was all that bad leave and do for yourself. you knew what he was doing a long time ago. i dont hit women but you lucky he didnt choke you. throw my blackberry! she just showing off for the show.

  42. mizz Piggy says:

    I think that deb she went to far she didnt have to do all of that i mean he was not right for cheating on her but still he need to respect her. and just cauze he pay bills he cant do anything he want n just cauze she had hiz kid so wat she dont cook r clean thatz the main things of bein a wife wdf z wrong wid her. but still I felt bad for him but den felt bad for her i felt were she was commin from just cauze he got money n take care ov everything he still need to respect her n he z not the boss he just got monet now he all alone I mean I hope him n deb work it out just for the kidz sake.

  43. kina says:

    Deb need to get laid and stop whinning. Move on if your tired of Irv. Woman do it everyday. Deb is also very weak. Who did you think you married joe down the street. He is a celeb and I agree with everything he said about the type of woman he needs, a cook, housewife, and a ^@`@_*^^$~(!~“^@ eeeeee. Deb step your game up and stop whinning or keep it moving.

  44. Chloe says:

    Deb does not realize that she is fighting a losing battle. Her relationship with Irv is over. Irv called Deb his ex wife on today’s episode because he knows it is over. He does not want a divorce because he knows that he has to divide the *`!(_#@@()*~$+* ets between the two. He knows Deb will receive a substantial amount of his fortune. Irv does not want to release Deb from his clutches because he wants to keep her at arms length. It is impossible to move on in a new relationship while Irv is at her residence constantly. No respectable man will tolerate this. Irv is very selfish, and emotionally abusive. It is emotional abuse when you toy with someone’s emotions in order to gain submission. Irv has the perfect situation. Deb is alone with the children and he can roam free and bed numerous women and brag about it. This is an act of degradation. The children should not be subjected to this. This is a terrible example for Angie. A man who brought so much turmoil in to your life by giving in to his selfish desires does not deserve any more of your time or tears. Things will only change if Deb refuses to allow irv to control her. I know it may be hard to recover from divorce but, you can’t let this over take you. Being a lonely bitter woman hoping that he will change or realize he made a mistake will eat away at your soul. It will allow you to question yourself and feel unworthy and crush your self esteem. What Irv wants is total submission and that is unattainable and Deb can’t change him. She tried for many years and suffered as a result of it. Move on and try to find some inner peace by indulging in activities that give you some solace. Money is not a substitute for happiness. Deb should seek advice from a lawyer and get her financial affairs together. Irv is degrading Deb in the worst way by speaking publicly about his numerous affairs. He is bring shame upon his children as well by his obnoxious, selfish, arrogant, abusive behavior.

  45. Iamlovinthenewdeb says:

    Kuddos to Deb! YES, she has taken a stand and is making HUGE progress. While I do not know her personally, I am so very proud of her for no longer putting up with that nicca’s +)*$#@~!++^^&*~) Keep it movin ma, you are doing great for yourself and your kids.

  46. aj says:

    This goes out to Deb.MUCH LOVE MA BRAVO.You have no idea how many woman wanna do exactly what you did but scared to.after seeing you kick Gotti out YOUR house,I’m now a BIG fan of yours.Please stand your ground and do what makes you happy.Tell Gotti he could get right or BE GONE.Bravo and much love.

  47. Ambi says:

    I am so proud of Deb. I’m glad she is letting him know that she is done with his mess. She is absolutely right when she said that he is paid in full. He can’t have it both ways. If he wants to be out in the streets with random women then let him stay there. However, Deb needs to get her own hustle and put the Gotti name to use for her own financial benefit. Whatever happens between these two Deb will get her fair share. Divorce his a–!

  48. MiSs33 says:

    OH HELLLLL NO! DEB YOU ARE SUCH A *@~$`#&+(&((##$~$ IRV “SHOULDN’T” BE PUTTING UP WITH YOUR *#__%%~^@~+#!~` YOUR DIRTY! HOW CAN YOU JUST KICK IRV OUT HIS OWN HOUSE… “HISSSS HOUSE”! THAT MAKES ME SO MAD… DON’T BE SUCH A *USS% IRV….

  49. priscilla says:

    yes!yes!yes!finally deb is doing the right thing.stay strong you can do it, it’s irv’s loss.you have put up with his &#(#^*~%%(#*&#*) for too long.you deserve better and so does your kids .he may be a good father to their kids along with being a good provider but his %^*~&`(`&_&~^~@ sucks at being a good husband.I love you,love you, stay srong sista you can do it.

  50. Astylez says:

    YO PLEASE CANCEL THIS SHOW 4REAL I GOT NO LOVE 4 IRV ….I DON’T KNOW WHO LIED TO HIM TELL HIM I GOT IT LIKE THAT WIT CHICKS….HELL NAH …THAT DUDE IS BUSTED ….DEB U DOING GOOD I KNOW IT HURTS BUT B STRONG …HE’S JUST GASSED RIGHT NOW..WATCH HE’S GOING TO WANT U WHEN U DONT WANT HIS #%$($_@@*%%#@)* NO MORE!!! IRV PLEASE STOP YOUR WACK!!! SORRY …WAIT NO I’M NOT!!!

  51. pumpkin28 says:

    go deb i’m so proud of you you went off last night and i was loving it keep up the good work

  52. eisha143 says:

    Deb u go girl, I want to say to u that Irv is an ^$^&~&$)@&!@!_^ hole. What he says out of his mouth is crazy, my thing is that he must of been an ugly fat kid in High School who hasn’t had any girl because for him to be a grown ^$^&~&$)@&!@!_^ man with a family and act the way he does about women is crazy, women come and go and the family is here to stay. I am totally 100% behind you in what ever you do. 7 years is a long time for this to be going on. good luck to u and your family with what ever decision you make. I hope this gets to u, I wanted to email u personally but I guess this will do for now. Take care

  53. jen44 says:

    You go Deb, you needed to put your foot down. Gotti thee are women out there cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids and guess what you men are still not happy. Men are never satified!!!

  54. MONIQUE says:

    YES!!!! Deb, find your voice girl…YOU ARE THE HEAD WOMAN IN CHARGE of your household….payment of bills does not mean Irv owns you OR runs the house! TAKE BACK CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE….enroll in some college courses even if online. Get a degree, go to work and SUPPLEMENT your income! Irv’s money can be PLAY money! LOL…

  55. Yonni says:

    I was actually not happy to see that this show returned for a second season. The way Irv “Gotti” acts is disgusting and deplorable. He does not respect her at all. It angers me that he treats the mother of his children like she is just some common woman that he met off the streets. So Irv it is okay to cheat on your wife and boast and brag about it like ti is nothing, and Deb is supposed to just look the other way because you pay the bills? Who takes care of those kids, and that house? Without her you would not be where you are today. Think about that for a minute. Irv, I hate to break it to you, but you are not all that. One day these young “groupies” are going to be done with you, and you will want Deb to be waiting for you? So she should have to put her life on hold because you can’t pass up some free meaningless sex? That is wrong of you to even think that. What kind of example are you setting for your daughter? You are telling her that if she meets a man and they fall in love, and in his mind everything about him is perfect except that he wants to have sex with a bunch of other women that it is okay and she should just shut her eyes and pretend she doesn’t notice? That is what you want for your daughter? How about your sons? Look at the way they see you treat their mother? They will learn from your example. You are sending a bad message, and the example you are setting can affect the generations to come in your family. I did watch the show last night and I wanted to come through that TV and along with Deb kick your #_&$$^@~!@`@~%` all over HER HOUSE! You had me so enraged I had a dream I kicked my husband’s #_&$$^@~!@`@~%` over some dumb stuff like that. Irv – get a clue! To be so “smart” as you claim you are, you really are a dumb #_&$$^@~!@`@~%`

  56. J says:

    Deb,I feel you when you sa you need to set boundaries. You need to take it to the next level though. Get your own place, begin a career and truly move on. Your child support and alimony will enable you to find a beautiful home. It is only THEN that Irv will get the point. And it is only then that you will find happiness. Him sitting there in your face is the same as you’re being married. But instead of him running the streets all the time and you being mad because you are his wife, you already know he is in the streets and you two are separated. I know he only comes on the weekends, but he should be treated as a visitor. Eat dinner prior to him coming so his only purpose is to interact with the kids. Not eat, not watch a movie, not chill on the couch and play poker. You want to set boundaries, well they must be complete boundaries.

  57. aries19 says:

    I am so proud of Deb. She handled her business, threw the phone and kicked Irv out. This is something she should have done years ago. I know how it is to keep holding on and things don’t change so at some point you gotta let go. Hopefully Deb does not fall into the trap again and start letting him control everything. I can tell she’s a strong woman and she needs a strong man beside her and Irv does not fit the discription. He’s said time after time that he wont change and loves sleeping with different women, so even more reason that she needs to let him go. He only keeps coming around the was he does and spending the night so he know Deb aint messing with somebody else and to keep her thinking he’s the one. She needs to continue making him pick the kids up and not let him spend the night, cook dinner and everything else she let him do. Get tough with him Deb and put your foot down! show him you grown and you got your own thang going.

  58. CC says:

    Yes Deb! What took you so long? That idiot you are married to is the most immature, immoral, ignorant little boy on television. He’s not a man, plain and simple. He’ll get older and fatter than he already is and will wonder why his children don’t respect him any more and no one who really matters is around. He’ll die looking for that great comeback hit, only to realize that God didn’t put him on earth so he could record “Down *!@~%$&#^#)^&“ %@%~~@`~%)#&$~@$& You need to leave this fool alone. He’s got some nerve trying to tell you what you can’t get. I guarantee, he’ll be the one hard up for genuine love cause God ain’t gonna continue to bless junk when you throw treasure in the trash can. He’s willing to throw away his family for cheap sex and a hit and wonders why his comeback ain’t happening. Some people are just dumb and not worthy. Keep it movin’ girl, we got your back.

  59. momofjah says:

    Deb – we are so proud of you for taking a stand and setting boundaries. You have wasted a few years fooling with Irv and his BS. He is not going to change but reassured he will be a lonely man because of his selfish, immature actions. Throwing him out was a good thing and you should not let him back in at all. When he gets the kids – sit in the car and wait. You tried to be nice but he has truly taken your kindness for a weakness.

  60. JP says:

    Deb,

    I understand coming back to that big house isn’t quite what you expected but have you seen the whole episode. The man says he wanted to have kids, and you weren’t really the one for him. Loney or not I would get rid of his dead beet fat )$*!((`(@_@*%&+ Don’t let you daughter or son go on thinking this is happiness.

  61. Diane says:

    Deb,
    I am so proud of you,I know he is the father of your kids and he may be good to them,but he is disrespectful to you. You have a daughter watching this,and you don’t want her to think this is ok for a man to treat her this way. I watch this show with my husband and I can’t shut my mouth about how he does you. Yes I am sure he provides for you guys well,but he is so disrespectful.I can’t stand him. I know, I don’t know him,but you seem to be a great mother and wife. You don’t seem to be out there in the spotlight. You seem live for your kids. I respect that and I hope he changes or you get rid of him. Either way I wish you well and happiness. I was so proud of you for standing up for yourself and throwing his ()()%&)@`&~~`@^ out. Good luck,Go Team DEB!!!!!!!!

  62. pl4 says:

    Paid In Full!!Irv is an idiot! He thinks the cheaper to keep her will work. Telling Deb that she has it good cause he pays the bills without a court order. He is a sad case of a man. He does not want to let Deb go he want her to stay his way. The weekend dad IS hurting their kids. Deb needs to put the cement boundaries up. He does need to spend time with his kids at his crib. Pick them up and be a parent full time not when it is easy for him. Irv is a fool. Deb put it 100% paid in full.

  63. Michelle says:

    Deb, I am sooo proud of you. I love the show and I was so happy to see you tell Irv that the house is yours because you are takin care of his children! Men don’t understand that,they think just because they give you money you are supposed to sit down and be happy. No it doesn’t work that way! And the part where you threw the pager outside was Classic!!! Thanks Deb!!!!!!!!!

  64. sushi says:

    i agree with deb just because my husband takes care of his family that gives him a right to cheat or do whatever he pleases no when you get married it turns from an i to a we money dosen’t by happiness or love i agree deb you can do it not beacause of the fab life but beacause you are a strong woman and mother and your worth much more