As it usually goes when reality TV couples don’t work out, the “winner” of the dating show that’s just been picked up for another season has taken to her MySpace to discuss her breakup. We’re, of course, referring to Cocktail, who posted the following today:
“So most of you have seen photos floating around with me and a guy who is obviously not Ray. Some of you have been asking questions about who I am dating, is it Ray? or this person or that person and I want to clear some things up.
When I was on the show, I truly fell for Ray. I invested my time, effort, and emotions into him and wanted things to work. But the reality of reality television is that it doesn’t always work. Ray and I are no longer together. We have not been together for awhile now but we have remained friends and when we hang out we have a great time. I miss him very much and respect what decisions he has made. He is a really cool person and someone I feel connected with for sure but aside from that, I can’t say.
As for the tour we just did and ‘acting’ like we were together, it comes with the show. What people saw of us on tour was real. When we are together we have a cool chemistry. We have fun and enjoy each others company. But at the end of the day I wasn’t the right person for Ray and although it hurt me at least he was honest about the situation before it went any further.
I do want to end this on a positive note, I am happy. I am having fun, living life and doing me. I have a lot of projects coming up and you will see a lot more of me for sure.”
So there you have it, straight from the Cocktail’s tumbler. [Cocktail's MySpace blog]
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i hop u stay strong.
yeah BIG SURPRISE THERE!
I’m bummed that it didn’t work out for $*)&*`@_*&^+()(# tail and Ray J. But she’s a very smart and classy girl to walk away with her dignity. I am also very happy that she didn’t lower herself to Tila Tequila’s level and respond.
this *!+^&`+@&%)+$$_% is wack!!
A WASTE OF @#$%%#% TIME RAY FELL OFF BIG TIME AND THIS PROVES IT A SECOND TIME AROUND… OMG HORRIBLE…BUIT HE STILL SEXY THOUGH…NOTHING I WOULD DO ITS A WASTE OF TIME AN ENERGY..COCKTAIL GIRL YOUR TOO DAMN BEAUTIFUL YOU CAN FIND A DUDE WITHOUT A PROBLEM…MMMM MMMM MMMM…THAT’S REALITY TV FO RYOU…LOL!
i cant bbelive it
wow dat didnt come as a surprise it is called a reality tv series these things dont normally last and 2 _&$)(^`*#*@(&$*~ tail wasnt right for him anyway i didnt see the chemistry
i knew it ur deserve your own show like megan.
i saw this comming no offense ^%&+!)((%`@)*+$! tail is a nice young lady but shes not strong enough to handle a real man like ray. u can see her weakness in her eyes. plus he needs a real woman whos willing to stand up for his love and condone in a positive way, not be on sum little girl petty bs non sense. he needs a RIDE OR DIE chickkk. IM MORE THEN RAY WILL EVER BARGAIN FOR..BUT IM CONFIDENT THAT IF I GET ON THE SHOW I WILL WIN RAY’S HEART…ONLY DIFFERENCE IS IM FOR REAL UNLIKE THESE GROUPIES.
I think Ray J is fine as hell. But I honestly don’t think he knows what he wants in a woman. I think he wants his cake and ice cream and these women might give it up to him. But in the long run when it’s all said and done they end up wanting more from Ray J like a comittment. I think that scares Ray J. He probably isn’t really ready to settle down with just one woman yet. He wants this from that girl and another thing from another girl he can’t seem to find all that in just one girl. So that right there is saying he don’t no what the hell he even wants yet…. I hope he finds out what it is he wants in just 1 woman. Good luck Ray J. You will find it one of these days. I can believe that it’s rough when u are a celebrity. You always have to watch yout back for the users that just want u cause your famous in the puplic eye and your makin money. There’s a lot of shallow people that only want someone for what they are or have. It’s sad but true.
i sooooo happy for them but i think thet sleet go to togther i hate they did but i see they was so happy about they lives and ps i love you rayj i hpoe you u saty strong
dat really sucks cuz i thought that they would work out bcuz they looked so cute together!!! <3 coctail and rayj fo life!!!! <3
they’re rich, they’re famous,got everything good going for them so what the hell……go ahead ….break some hearts…..thats how i look at these reality shows…..its sad for the women and men who audition for these shows because although most of them are in it for the money and temporary ‘fame’ some of them get emotionally involved……but anyhow u look at it, it’s win win on both sides……i mean &@^#&)!^%(%)%(~# tail seems to be crushed but she’s talking about having alot of things going on and seeing more of her …….so thats the fame i was talking about right there……how can that
be reality???
Im so sorry to hear that U and Ray are no longer together. The two of you’s seem so perfect together, and I thought it would be a long relationship.
But sometimes life is funny, the most important is that you as a person, not only had a great time, but a great learning experience. Never be afraid down the road to look back at all of this. Also, never be afraid to allow yourself to fall in love again. #$@#+#)_~~_##*`~ tail, not only are U a sexy woman, but U seem to be
a real person, who is sweet and kind!
ALL THE BEST TO YOU!
Joe Powell
Ray J is so sexy if i was her i would be mad…
i thought they would work.y did they brake up anyone no y???
no better ever be together in the end on reality tv so no big surprise there.
that really sucks! for him… u seem like such a cool person. hope u have a great life!! i was rooting for u the whole time.
Damn ^~@$__~@(“#%%_# tail…I loved the show I really was hoping you two were going to work it out I have never blog-ed but i had to say I know you fell for Ray I could tell by watching the show.
Disagree with the rest, I can believe it. Tis what follows suit with reality tv, baby. Unfortunately.
yo she was hott i wouldnt dump her she had class and she was smart but i hope ya work it out instead of the new show
well i thought ya made a cute couple and i hope ya get back together in the furture
Real talk come to think of it I really think !~^&^+)$%+`&+_!# tail did the show to be expose, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see. all in videos, come on now she knew what she was doing.
i kinda wondering if RAY J will find love doing this show.
none of the “love” shows EVER work out!
Im glad he didnt stay with her thats how sluts get treated…..
Shy-Shy, you have your shows mixed up. Risky and Bay Bay Bay weren’t on For the Love of Ray J. They were on Real Chance of Love.
As for @#*%!)!)&$_%@_*& tail I knew she wasnt the one for Ray but acting was one of her best qualities. She was and still is a ~`!#_#&&+)$(!`^(& to me. She was jus the obvious pick because she was as close to Kim his ex’s looks as it was gonna get but reality ~*$+*`$*@@&`**!! never works out. Now if you wanna disagree speak on it
actresses, actresses. do not feel sorry for her, the whole situation is alll scripted and her speech was written in advance for publicity. damn same ole story, same ole song. Our society is desparate for entertainment for falling for this same soap opera over and over again, just different players.
Fool yuh isz craziii why would yuh break up wit him….he is fine as eva…….i knew yuh onlii went on that show so yuh can get famous and stuff…….see dahts why i neva liked yyuh ffrom dha beggining……i knew he shulda picked danger..she was dha rite girl for him and she spoke her mind….
i think all u girlz are stupid ray iz just doing thiz for fun…..
hi ray j u dont have to do that again,just go find another of those dat u already knew,wat abouyt unique or chardonney
I think that danger and Ray J would have been the best couple and I believe he will bring her back for season 2. I knew that him and #(%$@^##&~_&(!&_ tail would not work out. I feel bad for her NOT!!!!!!!!!!! LOL I am happy that i am right. Besides #(%$@^##&~_&(!&_ tail was the biggest snitch in the whole house so she got what she deserved.
Don’t even worry about it +`(+$~`~#@^#*~+` tail your madd beautiful and you can find someone more real for you. im sorry that #*)^$_((#+)*#$+^ didn’t work out, LOVE YOU;)
Hey %!&(@*~#*@+$_^&! tail thats some bs to be honest i think u and ray weren’t really datin i think it was a publicity stunt but thats neither here nor ther i just wanted to say…I think you guys really made a good fake couple
chica tu fuiste la mejor del sh0w y p0r es0 llegaste hasta el final!!.. eres muy divertida y se ve que disfrutas la vida sigue asi… y no te detengas!!!! de todo lo negativo sale algo p0sitiv0!!! jeje!!! arriba l0s latin0s!!! y arriba sacramento0!!!! gracias p0r representarn0s de esa manera!!! n0 pierdaz tu sencillez!!
I’d note the people of to see that too!
dam all i ggt ta say is yew to dam sexy
n i wanna bite dat anii time!!!!
sorry it didnt work yall was a good couple tho
He’s a loser that why most of these chicks move on to the real guys, athletes not Flavor flav wannabes
i still love ray besides the fact that she (cocktail) wasnt the right person for way. i think it was kind of out of line for her to come on the show n put ray on blast like thats his show u know but i do understand that she was trying to warn Mz. Berry but still … i guess i still stand on ray’s side because i do believe people can change.
I feel that !(~&^*~$@+!%*)_~ tail was out of line how you going to throw Ray J under the bus and then in the same breath say you love him. She is on some fatal attraction type #^)!!“@`+@)@+&) I say Ray J settle his &+`%$!~*))_+`~) down with jag and have some kids and leave MZ Berry &+`%$!~*))_+`~) alone too. She’s just to emotional and he dont need a experienced cry baby he needs someone his age that he can grow with and learn from and jag is that girl.
RAY WAS WR0NG H0W HE CALLED ++`__@#&#+~#~#!) TAIL A _^~)~))*$`@~@“_$ AN WAT N0T BUT HE STUPID ANYWAYS…. HES A L0SER AN HIM AN MZ BERRY AINT G0N MAKE IT N0 WAYZ S0 HA HA J0KES 0N RAY 0H LAME $)(#)~%^&!!%_@^
…….VH1 PLZ MAKE A SHOW OF !$~*@$@!*`&!~!(& TAIL OF LOVE OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT…..IT WOULD BE AWSOME AND HAVE LOTS OF RATING…….
MAKE A FOR THE LOVE OF *%#~(“$*~!~&%%$ TAIL…….
i think you should find a good girl and you should be a good boy freand .
from kele
ps
i hope you find a good girl freand thank you.
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