The Celebreality Interview – Mz Berry

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And so, it turns out not just that Mz Berry was there for the love of Ray J, but that Ray J was there for the love of Mz Berry. Below Ray’s second-season pick talks about winning Ray’s heart, what communication has been like since taping the show, the stress and ridicule she had to endure throughout her stay in the mansion and why she thinks so many women relate to her.

Congratulations!

Thank you.

How has communication with Ray been since the show wrapped?

Really, Ray and I aren’t allowed to speak to each other. We aren’t allowed to meet or anything like that.

Do you have a good feeling about where things are going?

We just have to see. You can’t really base on everything that happened with us three, four months ago. I wouldn’t say feelings change, but you just have to see. In any type of relationship, you just take it one step at a time. We’ll definitely both talk about what we want, and we’ll see where it goes from there.

Are you excited to see him at the reunion?

Yes, very excited. I’m a little nervous, but very excited.

What about the other girls?

I feel fine about seeing them.

When Ray picked you, was there any sense of accomplishment, especially considering the way you were treated by the other girls?

No. They never really harassed me to my face. A lot of what was said on the show was said when I wasn’t present. Nobody really came at me crazy, except for the one incident when we were all outside. Other than that, there was no other time when anybody except for Danger said anything to me. Nobody.

Has it been hard, then, to watch the show and see what people are saying about you?

Not really. It’s not even hurtful. I think maybe my friends and family are more hurt when the girls call me old or say that I’m jealous or a freak. I’m just like, “Whatever.” It’s not that serious to me.

It’s pretty ridiculous that 32 is considered old.

I just had a birthday, so I’m 33 now. That’s not old at all, but it’s relative. I think when you’re in your early 20′s, someone who’s 32, 33 could be old. It’s like, “Oh my god! Wow, I don’t ever want to be that old.” But it’s not old – I feel like I’m just starting my life.

It seems like you really invested yourself emotionally in this show.

I wouldn’t even say I invested myself in the show. I’d say I invested myself in Ray. I wasn’t there for a show, I was there to meet this man.

It really crept up on you, right?

It did. I think even still now, it’s all very surreal to me that 1) I know him and 2) that we have the type of connection that we have. It’s very strange. I wasn’t expecting that. I was very naive going into the whole situation. I didn’t think I’d even be called to do anything like that. I just filled out the application on a whim, and had no idea. Then when they called me, I thought it would be no big deal. At one point, I didn’t want to do it, I figured I’d just find love on my own. But my mom told me, “No! Give it a shot! You never know where you going to find love.” I figured whatever, what do I have to lose? Then I got there and I met him and he’s just a really sweet, genuine person. He’s got a really big heart. I like him as a person.

You told him you were in love with him.

I really felt like I was falling for him. I fell for him pretty hard. I believe that Ray and I would have left and been together [if we stayed in contact]. I believe it would have been a very strong relationship. I’m interested to see what happens when we do get back together. But you know, life happens. I told Ray that no matter how you put it out there, even though this was a show, love is a very powerful energy. It’s very strong. If you put that word and energy out in the universe that that’s what you want, when it comes to you, you have to be willing to accept it. I’m sure he wasn’t expecting this to come from a TV show, but neither was I. It’s very hard for him to reconcile his feelings for me because this came at him in such an unconventional way.

Watching you get increasingly upset over him spending time with the other girls felt really real to me. If you’re invested in someone, I feel like that should bother you, and yet it’s something we rarely see so explicitly on these shows.

That’s why when people said I was a jealous freak or whatever, it’s not like I was jealous of them, it’s just that it hurt a little bit. It was very irritating to see him really go overboard with showing those last three other girls so much attention on the day after our overnight date, for example. I really think he was doing a bit much.

Was this situation taxing on you?

Definitely. I was completely out of my element being there. I think it came across in the wrong way. I think a lot of the girls were put off by me staying to myself. It had nothing to do with me not liking them, because I’ve always said all of the girls have a lot to offer somebody. I think they’re all talented in a lot of different ways. They’re good women. But it was different for me. I don’t have friends or people that I hang out with that are in their early 20′s. All of the fighting and yelling and screaming and picking on this one one day, bullying another person the next, getting up in somebody’s face…I was out of my element with that. The less drama, the better for me. I didn’t want to be around the negativity. I wasn’t there to get camera time. I was there to meet Ray and have him get to know me.

What did you think about the question pertaining to whether or not Ray was ready to be a father to your kids?

My children have a father. The most he could be was a role model. That’s it.

Did your kids watch the show?

A little. My daughter goes to bed at 9 every night, so if she did catch it, it was online or after school. She was really interested to see who got voted off, and she still doesn’t know who won. She has a clue, but I didn’t want her to tell anybody.

What did you think of Ray’s parents’ assessment of you?

I actually didn’t see the clip show yet, but my mom told me what his mom said. She said she agreed with her. When I met them, I thought that they were wonderful people, and if I were his mom, I too would be concerned about him dating a woman with a son that’s half of Ray’s age. If she wasn’t concerned, it would have been a problem.

Was that a concern to you, though? Like did you ever think, “Whoa. I’m into this guy that’s twice as old as my son…”?

Not really. I wasn’t looking for someone to be my kids’ father. They have a father, he’s present in their lives. This was somebody for me to spend time with, somebody to make me happy. And if I’m happy, my kids are happy.

You mentioned not being there for camera time, and I think that really came through on the show.

People say that, and it’s like, I don’t know any other way to be. I think I got screwed up pretty bad, because I really was there to meet this guy and see what would happen, and I was caught off guard by a lot of the stuff that happened. And just thinking, “Is this just a TV show or…?” It was really surreal and a lot to handle. But I really appreciate people being positive toward me, being uplifting. I’ve had women come up to me and say I’m an inspiration to them, and that’s so amazing to me because I have a story that I will share someday. It’s my testimony. I’ve had a long, long journey, and I’m very grateful for the place I’ve come to in my life. Someday, I’d like to really help a lot of people with the situations I’ve been through. Sometimes, it’s so weird, like, “How do I have fans?” But it is nice to hear that they really related to me. And this being a reality show, I think my life is the reality. The women who watch that show are just like me. We live our lives, we take care of our children, we go to work, and that’s it. We look for love in all different ways, and mine just happened to be on TV.

Keep up with Mz Berry via her MySpace and follow her on Twitter.

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  1. bronzeb says:

    YEAH! Ms. Berry is beautiful and CLASSY!!! You can actually take her somewhere other than a STRIP CLUB!

  2. reese says:

    I’m so so so happy Mz Berry won I had to come on here to put a comment because she is not old. I don’t care what nobody say, you are not old. I’m 22 years old from Ohio and I need to know when 32 has started being old. The other girls were just trying to make her feel bad, I mean she is only 4 years older then Ray J. If thats the case all the girls are too young for him. Because he is like 6 and 7 years older then alot of the girls, so he is too old for them then. If im not mistaken wasn’t Extra and Lucious like 21 or 22 and Flossy. All I’m saying is there is a bigger age gap with them. So you are not old Mz Berry and I’m happy you won girl!!!

  3. BaBy GiRl says:

    I can not believe that Mz Berry won!!! She was way too emotional for Ray J and comes with alot of extra baggage. He should of picked Platinum, she was a much more confident woman.

  4. ms.pooh says:

    yes!!! im so happy he pick ms.berry. i feel she wa the one for him all along! go ray great choice!!!!!

  5. kim says:

    I dont think that either one should have won!!! Ms. Berry is to demanding and and I also think Ray J is not ready for that already made family. Plantinum is just a girl u can just take out when he is there but when he is gone she will wonder. And as for everyone talking about age age is nothing but a number Im 26 an my husband is 33 and we are very happy together. So i say there will be a Ray J 3!!!! He has to find someone that wants the samething he wants and im sorry to say i dont think it will be on tv even though i love to watch shows like that cuz people make fools of themselves!!!

  6. eve says:

    I am happy ms. Berry won. she is a real woman.

  7. reality fan says:

    Ms. Berry is a great pick for him. My hope that the two are still together; typically, these shows are for entertainment purposes only and don’t last beyond the show….

  8. Sirena says:

    although ray has picked mz. berry. we all know thats not gonna last. Mz. berry’s ex will be one of the main factors( besides her being emotional) of their relationship not working out. Like everybody says, she carries extra baggage and with the ex, its gonna be hard for her to move them out to cali, bc there goes the issue of him not seeing the kids. Ray’s not ready to handle all the drama. He should have picked Platinum.

  9. Holly says:

    1st of all Ray is almost 30.

    2nd of all I believe he also has kids…

    If he isn’t ready to share in childrens lives at nearly 30 I would like to know just when it is that you think he will be “mature” enough to do so?

    Ms. Berry was a nice looking lady and I hope that Ray, for his own sake, is actually sincere in his apparent desire to be in a comited relationship.

    Years and years of all different bimbo’s in his bed must get lonely; no real emotional attachement in that.

    I wish them both well.

  10. missme says:

    Ray J choosing Mz Berry proves he is finally becoming a grown man…I really hope he takes this relationship serious and wasn’t just for TV..Mz Berry is sexy, cool, and full of class. Just like LL cool J, Snoop, dr. dre and many other rappers out there have “REAL” women now so does Ray. Ray you definitely picked the right one.

  11. Daisy says:

    Well i think Mz. Bery is way to nice and classy to be dealing with a BOY like Ray J he is imature and i f he does stay with Mz B he better appreciate her a woman like her comes along one in a million, and he just wants to bang anything that may be interesting to him from what ot seems???? MY OPINION DONT HATE

  12. Daisy says:

    Wrong he wont change he will continue to be a player and strive towards that STD hes been looking for, he deserves what ever he gets!!!

  13. cinnama says:

    Im glad he picked Mz Berry I was afraid of what she would have done if he didnt lol but seriously he should have never kept a girl who smashed a homie, or still loved her ex as long as he did. There was nothing Platinum about Platinum and truth be told she was just as emotional as Mz. Berry. 32 is not old, Platnium knows how to put on a good face for when she thinks its appropriate. At the end of the day you have to be well rounded not just the private eye freak Platinum proved to be. Now will there be a part 3 maybe… but you all know if you were in these chicks position and you feeling a dude who claims he feeling you yet he hugged up kissing and everything else in ur face most of you would have been kicked off for cutting someone. So congrats Mz Berry you did your thing and was classy about it, to all those who feel she carrying baggage lets talk about all the babies that are thrown away or hidden by most for the sake of looking young and baggage free, guess standing out and being different made the difference!!

  14. MiSSLOkAA says:

    Caliente Should Have Never Gotten Off .
    RayJ & Her Would Have Lasted Lmaooo =p
    Atleast Thats What iThink Reqardless To Her Not Speakinq Enqlishh .

  15. Beast says:

    So when does For Love of Ray Jay 3 start?

    We know Ray Jay is NOT really dating Mz Berry.

  16. sarah says:

    i think he made the right choice. Platinum never once said she was fallin for ray until the very end and she still has feelins for her ex. Yea mz berry comes with a lot of baggage but really who doesnt have some kinda baggage? Ray likes older women look at who he has dated in the past for example: Whitney Houston!

  17. chuck says:

    Mz Berry im 34 and people say im old, i feel the same way you feel but baby its all good. i love your style and i think Ray made the right choice so you keep stuntin.

  18. Hannah says:

    Ray please lesion to your mom she knows and love you. is not about what you want its what you need so lesion to your mom she made the right decision to choose your dad r? So lesion to her ok I love you mz berry is too needy for you. did you ever ask ok know why she got a devoice? Find out.Ray keep trypng.

  19. JoAnna says:

    I’m surprised no one is spazzing about that R word in one of the questions…after so long without a reunion from a dating show, there’s actually going to be one? What?

  20. V says:

    I really like when she said you messing around with other girls, “um..not with me” made her seem so real. Thats like the realest ive ever seen anyone on these shows, and ive been watching since 2005. Everyone else was just like yeah, whatever, ill agree. She really stood her ground, in the end i think she was the best pick.

  21. SARAH ESTELLE says:

    HAHAHAAHA OH MY GOD TO BAD I JUST STARTED WATCHING IT TONIGHT. I WATCHED 3 EPISODES AND FELLLL IN LOVE WITH THIS HOW!!! HAHAAH AWWW I LIKED ALL 3 OF THE LAST GIRLS. THATS ALL I KNEW THOUGH! THIS SHOW WAS FUNNNY and good!

  22. Cecilia says:

    Oh thank goodness he picked you! I was rooting for you from the start. I really hope you two are able to be together. :) either way you put yourself out there. I think Ray was into you from that night you spent together but for the show he couldnt make it obvious. It was almost like his distance from you was the biggest indication that you were the one at the end! Congrats and I know a billion people are wishing you the best!

  23. Ash-cat2203 says:

    GO MRS. BERRY I WAS CHEERING FOR YOU THE WHOLE TIME!!! U 2 MAKE A CUTE COUPLE!!!!

  24. countrylover says:

    so when does season 3 start?

  25. Perfect Body says:

    Oh, now she “likes him as a person”. She’s not in-love w/him anymore? Also, if it was real, they could have texted each other or something. What a bunch of baloney!

  26. lovely says:

    does anyone else here think that PLATINUM looks like the sloth from ice age???? well anyways i LOVE Mz.Berry she has always carried herself very well and i honestly have nothing negative to say about her!! HAHAHAHAHAAA…..lmao. TAKE THAT “WOLF PACK” it BUUURRRNZZZ doesnt it!!?

  27. kayfizzle says:

    Yes…i picked Mz Berry!….Go Ray J!

  28. Maggi says:

    I think he made a bad choice!!! The jealousy thing is gonna kill mz berry!! She is someone who needs her man at home and Ray J is to busy for that!! I don’t know about Platinum either but I think they would have been more evenly matched!! Look for For the Love of Ray 3!! Maybe i can get on there!! LOL

  29. MissJudi says:

    Glad Mz Berry won…but I think she could do better than RayJ. He came across as immature and childish. Isn’t he 30 his damn self? He should be dealing with women on Mz Berry’s level now, not the chickenheaded 20-somethings that dominated the show.

  30. ana banana says:

    I think that Mz. Berry was the classiest one of the bunch. Of course the cameras were gonna focus on the drama and the coyotes (wolf pack?) cuz it made for better tv. I still don’t think that Ray is gonna pursue a relationship w/her and in a few weeks (who wants to bet on how much time it will take for the publicist to report that they are no longer an item) or possibly 2 months at the most he will be announcing a new show. New show possibilities: RayJay of luv Bus? These shows are all fake so Mz. Berry make the most & get a good rep. so u can make the most of your 15 minutes! Look at Jersey Shore cast who are making up to $10 grand an appearance!

  31. bigdadddy says:

    I watched the show and thought that his parents were a little hard on miss berry cause she had kids , she is only 4 years older and Rays sister has a kid but i don’t think they would think Brandi was not a good catch for a guy is she was looking for love cause she has a kid , it is time to grow up and Mz. Berry is more of the real thing that is out there if you live and love you will have kids but you are still worthy of love. and 32 is not old at all!!

  32. Sarah in Az says:

    Good for you mamas! I’m happy you won, what ever happens with your relationship with Ray J. U deserve the best! And if Ray j is not it for you, you will find him! God Bless hon!

  33. Real Man says:

    IT’S VERY SAD TO ME THAT RAY J HAS BEEN LYING ALL THIS TIME. HE DID NOT WANT THE BEST ONE OR A REAL RELATIONSHIP WHICH WAS OBVIOUS FROM THE LAST SHOW. HOW CAN YOU PICK A WOMAN TO BE WITH WHO NEVER ASK YOU WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO DO, IN ORDER TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER CHILDREN? CLINGY WOMEN ARE NOT GOOD FOR A MAN IN THIS PARTICULAR INDUSTRY. SHE’S VER JEALOUS AND NEEDY, RAY IS AROUND PRETTY WOMEN ALL THE TIME. HOW CAN YOU FOCUS ALL OF YOUR ATTENTION ON RAY, WHEN YOU HAVE TWO CHILDREN AND ONE IS A TEEN-AGE SON? SHE WAS MARRIED FOR TWELVE YEARS AND DECIDED HE (EX) WASN’T GIVING HER WHAT SHE NEEDED. MRS. BERRY HAD HER CHILDREN YOUNG AND FELT TIED DOWN AND WANTED TO RELIVE HER YOUTH. CALENTEE HAD REAL FEELINGS FOR RAY AND HER OWN MONEY AND CAREER. THE LANGUAGE BARRIER WOULD WORK ITSELF OUT. RAY REAL MEN LOOK BEYOND THE OBVIOUS THINGS WE SEE IN THE NATURAL. YOU ALWAYS REFER TO GOD, WELL WHY NOT ASK HIM TO SEND YOU THE MATE HE DESIRES FOR YOU? GET READY LADIES FOR THE LOVE OF RAY J SEASON 3 IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER. PLATINUM GAVE UP ON HER REAL LOVE TO TAKE A CHANCE WITH A BOY TRYING TO FIND HIMSELF. RAY, STOP ACTING WITH THE KEEPIN IT 100 AND KEEP IT 100 WITH YOURSELF. ARE YOU READY FOR A 14YR OLD STEP SON WHEN YOU BOTH ARE STILL DOING SOME OF THE SAME THINGS? REAL MEN DON’T HAVE 14YR OLD BUDDIES, OR HOMIES THAT STILL ACT 14. YOU SHOULD CALL STEVE HARVEY AND SEEK HIS ADVICE. SNOOP GAVE YOU THE BEST ADVICE I’VE HEARD ON YOUR SHOW IN TWO YEARS AND YOU STILL DID THE OPPOSITE. FOR THE LOVE OF YOUR FANS RAY, YOU KEEP IT 100 AND SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY. THAT’S WHAT REAL MEN DO.

  34. Janine says:

    I am happy that Mz. Berry won for several reasons but the top two would be that she really seems genuine and that she is a real woman or at least seems to be! She did not go on there acting like she had no class and letting these young girls out here watch that, I assume because she is a mother she probably knows, like I do, that these young woman today really need something better to look at as an example of what a woman really is!

  35. Chiqui says:

    If he was serious about changing is ways, then he made the right decision, but I don’t think it will last. she is way too possessive and won’t understand his lifestyle. you were the right choice, but not at this time in his life. love you, girl…

  36. Chiqui says:

    If he was serious about changing is ways, then he made the right decision, but I don’t think it will last. she is way too possessive and won’t understand his lifestyle. Ms. Berry, you were the right choice, but not at this time in his life. love you, girl…

  37. frankie says:

    Are you kidding me! Mz BerrY????? Give me a break, that woman is too caught up emotionally for Ray J to even have some fun let alone a life. Also, is Ray J ready to date a woman who has children and is too eager to settle down? I don’t think so. I was so disappointed with the ending of the show and I think he missed out on a real relationship with Platinum. Good luck with Ms Emotional Baggage!

  38. steel says:

    Silly Ray J, Mz Berry is a crazy overly emotionaly bag. Mary was a sweet, true gal, the world could see the differences! Remember that episode where “Mz Berry” was talking to her friend and her friend was like oh no here she goes again, gettin crazy over a guy. Sounds like the norm. Ray, go get your girl Mary back, I bet it isn’t too late.

  39. Teresa says:

    Something to ponder…

    Everyone is commenting on Mz Berrys age, calling her old. If you look at Ray J’s history with women, for example…

    Kim K is older (29)
    Lil kim is older (35)
    Whitney Houston is older (46)

    Apparently he is attracted to older woman.

  40. missme says:

    Ray now has a “REAL WOMAN” just like Snoop,LL cool J, Dr.Dre and other rappers have. Ray J choosing Mz.Berry shows that he is becoming a grown man…He realized he needed someone that is more then a good time in bed and at the clubs…They looked so classy going into the private jet together..Even though she was emotional at times I think this showed that she really cared for him…which woman wouldn’t be jealous seeing her man kissing other women. Its only natural..Mz Berry is Sexy,Cool,and Classy..Good job RAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  41. keepin_it_100 says:

    I am glad MzBerry won…if Ray was going to pick anyone from the show…she was definitely the most classiest choice…but from the way Mz Berry is talking in the blog, she knows that she is not going to be with Ray J. It has me thinking….is this stuff for real or is it just for TV? Before the show aired Ray was seen in Hawaii with another girl and it wasn’t Mz Berry. I am a little confused….and I think Ray is too…and he’s dragging Mz Berry in the confusion as well. Ray make up your mind. Stop taking these women through this if this is not what you want. If this is just for TV than I am the only one confused….LOL….these women know what they are getting themselves into….See you on Season 3.

    ~ Keepin_it_100

  42. Truth says:

    I watched last evening and was sooooo happy with Ray’s choice. Mz. Berry seem to be very level headed to be as young as 32. There are 32 year olds that are still airheads, but not Mz. Berry. She maintained her integrity, poise and was quite the lady. She set an example for young ladies on and off the show (the watching audience) how to conduct themselves with respect. Ray seem to be actually ready for a real mature relationship. I would encourage Mz. Berry, the other girls needed something negative to say to try in destroy her confidence, but the lesson I’m sure they’ve learned is, “you can not tear a real woman down when she’s in pursuit of her heart throbe.

    Good Luck Ray J and Mz. Berry!
    p.s. (It’s about time seeing Ray with a sister too)

  43. licia says:

    im so happii myz.berry wiin ray-j finally found a gud women 2 b in his life hope yall the best from
    ALICIA FROM THE BAHAMAS N BY OMEESHA 2 BAM BAM BAM MYZ.BERRY SHHOULD B TURN INTO MRS.RAJ-J 4 LYKE
    CONGRATS FROM ALL THE CENTRAL SKOOL

    PS U FINALLY FOUND LUV

  44. Audrey says:

    I had my fingers cross for you to win so bad -
    you are a beautiful and classy lady. enjoy every moment with your new MAN – wedding bells coming!!!!!!

  45. Jasmine says:

    i am so glad he chose mz berry….platnium looks like a fat asian

  46. lisa says:

    MzZ Berry I was rooting for you 100% no matter what people say or think go wiht your heart it never lies

  47. Crystal H says:

    Congrats 2 u and Ray hope everything works out

    representing Detroit

  48. Jodi says:

    Great interview!

  49. Virtuous says:

    If i were Ray J i would have chosen Platinum because Mz.Berry don’t too much trust Ray J out of town around other females she even lied on the detective test i don’t understand why he chosen her.

  50. b-rock says:

    Mz. berry was cool but he aint with her and probably was living in the moment. This show was done filming in October and ybf has pictures of him with a 20 year old girl and sources say that is his girlfriend. If she thinks Ray really did love her I find that hilarious. Brandy said it right when she said she does not believe in falling in love on TV. Ray is not ready for a 14 year old kid and ready made family. I find it odd how she just signed the divorce papers and went on a dating show. Her overly emotional behavior and needing to be around him all the time is eerie and a little troubling for me. I bet on the reunion show he isn’t with her and has no plans to be with her. Ray’s parents where right and should listen to his parents

  51. Lexis says:

    I am so happy she won!!!!!!! bu I wonder How her 14year son looked lmfao(Thinkinq thnkin tinkin)!!!! Congratzz Mz Berry plz hold on 2 him!!! I dnt wanna se for the love of RayJ 3 j/p

  52. jerneisha says:

    Im glad Mz Berry won…she was the only one there for ray. like she said her kids already have a father, ray just needs to be a god role model..Plus ray parents know him but they cant tell him who to be with or not. This is not the 1800′s.

  53. D.Wolff says:

    Congrats mzberry, i wish you well, i think you are a real, calm and truthful woman, you look like 19yrs old , very beautiful, and you will be good with are without Ray,Blessed love

  54. kori says:

    damn ray j you could do better the 1st season girls were alot better looking than this season and what is up with ms berry she is ugly and old not to mention she has like 3 kids

  55. fave_63 says:

    OMG!!! I FELT SO LET DOWN… PLATINUM SO SHOULD HAVE WON! MS.BERRY IS OLD AND CRAZY JEALIOUS.. IT’S GREAT THAT THERE NOT TOGETHER NOW AT LEAST HE CAN HAVE SOME FUN BEFORE SHE JUMPES INTO THE PICTURE WITH ALL THEM TEARS AND DRAMATIC O’L ATTITUDES BET THATS WHY THE DEVORCE HAPPENED? RIGHT? REMEMBER RAY, SHE AINT GUN TIE ME DOWN!!!

  56. Toi says:

    Mz. Berry,
    I was so excited when Ray J pick you. I thought he was going to pick Platinum and I really was going to be upset. I know no one can tell anybody were they can find love and I pray that Ray J doesn’t break your heart. All I can say is stay strong and put God first and everything else will fall in place.

  57. chocolatediva129 says:

    i am sooo happy mz.berry won!! she seems like she has a lot of class & can make ray j. a better man! she is NOT ugly and she’s definitely not old! ray j. definitely made the right decision this season.. let’s just hope this one lasts!!

  58. Alyeashia says:

    I am soooooooo glad MZ BERRY one. Platinum was saying she was old.Shes a beautiful woman and real.Platnum was weak and strung out over her ex, shes fat and ugly and it looks like she have 2 necks.She needed Proactive more than she needed RAY. Heartbreaker sucks too much thats why her teeth is screwed up.Mz.Berry was the very best choice and shes a real woman.

  59. Tiffany says:

    I am sooo happy that he picked Mz Berry, and not the usual airheads that come his way. She is a beautiful woman, and she keeps him focus. I hope everything works out great.

  60. cmarj says:

    I don’t understand why people say that Mz.Berry was too old for Ray J, he is 28 and she is 33. Not a big age difference to me. And on the part of him being with someone that has a 14 year old child, don’t forget he was with Whitney Houston and her daughter was older, but they seem to have gotten along. I feel that he is mature enough. He has truly been around all type of women, young and old. I hope the best for the both of them, together or not.

  61. VERO says:

    Im glad ray j chose MZ Berry she was really their for him and ray needs a strong woman next to him and MZ Berry is so beautiful… they make a great couple together

  62. Toshia T says:

    Hope everything work out wit u 2 okay. So don’t make him unhappy gurl work things out soon love him wit all of your heart and don’t give up hope for u 2 things going 2 b okay. Gurl i knew that he was going to pick u gurl alright bye.

  63. cecelia says:

    I myself don’t have anything negative to say about Mz berry,she’s very gorgeous,seem like she got a great head on her shoulders,and a great mother,but i dont belive she was right for him.Mz berry is on a whole different level than ray,one reason is she has kids.Mentally he’s just not there,so that’s why i feel he should not have picked her.My choice would be CHARDANNEY.(OK HOPEFULLY I DIDN’T DEMOLISH THAT WORD,IF SO O WELL!)She was the only one out of all the girls in each season that i thought was truly sencire about him and was mady in love with him!!!!

  64. B-Inspired says:

    Mz Berry…intelligent interview. Im happy for you and pray that you have a continued & strong relationship. But remember if something happens and its not RayJ, he was never meant for you and was only a stepping stone to the next person in your life. Someone that will know true love and show you that you are his queen. This thing called love is not easy to come by but when it does, each person will know it without a doubt. To everything there is a time and season. I myself had a really bad marriage and then I had a good one with a Godly husband that passed some years ago. we only had a year and 5 days of marriage-heartbroken but stronger for it. I was his queen and he my King. I encourage other ladies and let them know somewhere there is such a thing as a match made in heaven. Thats part of my testimony. You have a lot going for you. Continue to remain a lady and focused on the things that are important in life. Remain encouraged and know that we live in a world of negativity and it helps to have all the positivity we can. There are those people that will never be happy for anyone because possibly they’re not happy with themselves. Everyone deserves a chance at happiness so I hope the best for you both. Keep and guard your heart with all diligence for out of it flows the issues of life.

    Orlando, Fl

  65. GG says:

    I love the show, dont get me wrong, but at the end of the day, it is just a show…. All these girls going to the show thinking that they are going to be together forever is just a trip…. Congrats for MZ Berry and I hope they can be together…

  66. Wise in Chi says:

    You have to admire Ray J for his choice of Ms. Berry. As he said, Platinum has what he needs now but Ms. Berry has the qualities he knows he’ll need for the future. He couldn’t have stated it any clearer. His days of Ms. Right Now are gone. He has grown and matured as a man knowing what’s best for him. Platinum has a lot of growing up to do based on the lifestyle Ray is leading with his career and business. Ms. Berry will only strenghthen and provide the support a man needs at this stage in life.

    Congrats to Ray and Ms. Berry. Love is not easy by any means. Communication, trust, respect and tolerance are the key to your happiness.

    Wise In Chi (Chicago)

  67. Beast says:

    Why are people posting like they don’t know that everyone on the show is an ACTOR playing a part?

    Ray J and Mz Berry are NOT dating in real life.

    All of the women got PAID money for each week that they stayed on the show. This is what these shows are about to the contestants. a CHECK.

    I bet the women got $20,000 per show.

    So like I said before, when is For the Love of Ray J 3?

  68. KPN_TRL0813 says:

    It’s so funny how people are saying Connie is old. She is only 4 years older than Ray. Guys ‘date’ girls way younger all the time. ie. Rock of Love.

    I think Ray J needed to grow up before he ended up being the old guy in the club. I hope it works out. His rejects can continue their careers as strippers, golddiggers, groupies, video vixens, internet hoes and aspiring trophy wives.

    They are threatened by an independent woman. If Mz Berry is old then what about Brandi or Ray’s mom. They need to take some big girl pills or go holla at Soldier boy.

  69. Frankie says:

    Wow I’m So Happy For You Mz.Berry I Wish You The Best And Many Blessings .

  70. Rell says:

    Congrats to Mz Berry and Ray
    Im glad he picked you.
    Now, Mz Berry be the lady that i know you are take care of your man and show these people that age dont matter. It all about the love between two people. You and Ray J.

  71. insomniacgirl says:

    Glad Ray picked Ms. Berry, she is beautiful and anyone can see she has a warm, loving heart, unlike those dog ugly wolf packers. Even Ray’s sister Brandy said she felt Ms. Berry had “good energy”. Platinum showed what a nasty, ugly person she really is inside by constantly bullying the other girls and trying to make Ms. Berry feel bad for being older. Regardless, her face & body still looked better than those so-called young girls. Go Ms. Berry!!You rocked it girl, and got your man!! You showed those hookers what was really up!!

  72. Robin says:

    I think that Ray picked the right person to be with and Im really happy for Mz. Berry. I truley think that Ray and her have a really strong connection with eachother and she is real towards the things she says and I have a lot of respect for people that does that. But if he didn’t pick her he wouldve made another mistake just like from last season. But I kinda think that she’s a little bit to old for him but heyyy age ait nothing but a number and if you really care a perosn that shouldnt matter so CONGRATS Ms. Berry and I hope yall last long because I really do think yall are right for eachother… think

  73. MizzJacquetta says:

    I happy she won YAy!!!!!
    Congrats too you!!!!!
    Mz Berry is the best and i don’t care they alsos calls her grandma like that…..

  74. inimeg says:

    This show was obviously for publicity, as the first one. If you watch the finale episode closely and watch Ray J’s body language (or at least what the video editing shows) with Plat compared to Mz Berry; you can see he was definetely resenting Mz Berry and her drama and was much more open and affectionate with Plat… An example would be the final meeting between the two contestants.. Ray J kisses Plat on the lips several times while just going for the cheek with Mz Berry.. the results were made for TV so I didn’t doubt for one second they wouldn’t be together.

  75. Latifa King says:

    congrads to u Msz.Berry…u won ur man….So tell all them chicks to kiss ur ass….RayJ..what r u doing…U better go get ur Lady & stop playin….VH1 know Msz Berry want to spend sometime with her man!!!!!

  76. MZ.Huston says:

    Congrates Mz.Berry I sure hope Ray is threw playing around because you could teach him so much. You kept your eye on the sparrow and Gods will will be done. Remember don’t put all your eggs in one basket just yet. You may feel as if your falling in love but please becareful because he is young and still have a lot of growing to do. Good Luck

  77. MZ.Huston says:

    Mz. Berry just remember hes still young. Hes still figuring out himself so I don’t think he really no what he wants until he really get to no himself and God. If a man don’t love the lord first. We’ll not going to get into all that I just wish you all the luck in the world I hope you find someone that loves you as much as God loves does.

  78. Fierce says:

    Congratulations! girl i wish the best for you and ray! You are very Beautiful and Independent. And yes Ray needs a women, and that’s you. may god Bless yours and Rays Love…….

  79. Karen L says:

    Congrats Mz Berry..i think u and Ray make a wonderful
    couple, u have the strenght to keep him happy…ur a beautiful woman full energy…u were send in his life for a reason…be there for him and over look any problem that comes ur way.

  80. Happy he chose u says:

    I am so happy that for you Mz Berry because you were truly the best choice for Ray. You are mature, graceful and a class act! You are for sure deserving of this gift so continue to be the wonderful person that you are, and don’t ever stop doing you.

    Those lil girlz were jealous of you, that is why they were talking negative about you. I am so happy Ray chose you. It is as good as being chosen myself. My light skin sister, you rock!!

  81. joanna says:

    omg, ray , i don’t believe that mz berry won she’s OLD AND JEALIOUS

  82. Happy he chose u says:

    I love that you are so open-minded and you make it clear that your children already have a father. You are seeking companionship for yourself. You have right mindset. You also make it clear that if it works out great, but you will be alright either way. Again, you rock!!

  83. boni says:

    good for you mz berry, you are so real… u make it clear that ur children have a dad who is present in there life.

    and you also realize that it could go either way but i say he chose u for all the right reasons. i truly believe he has grown tired of playing the field with them trashy stringyhead classless ho’s!

  84. ladyvivav says:

    I am really happy for Mz berry. I respect her going after something she wants and actually getting it. There will always be people who hate on ur situation and that just shows their level of maturity. Hopefully things work out after the reunion show. Best of luck!

  85. Francis Nevarez says:

    I thought that Mz.Berry was and is definately the right fit for Ray J!!! She was the one and only female that seemed like she was 100% woman with class. He definately made the perfect choice in choosing her. May God Bless you guy’s in all of what life has to offer and just make sure to live your lives to the very fullest potential! Good luck!!!!

  86. donte says:

    they should have a show wen he meats the kids i wanna see that

  87. mzcarolyn says:

    goooooooooo girl

  88. jj says:

    Mz. Berry is beautiful. But yea now a days, weve seen enough Flava of Love’s to know that these girls are trying to make names for themselves and thats what this is all about. i guarantee you theyre not together. what guy or woman is still with the person they picked on their reality show. NO ONE. New York started this ish.

  89. Becky says:

    I want you to know that i am very happy that you got Ray. I think (from what i seen of you) that you will bring good things to his life. I think that some times not seeing the one you truly love for a min is a blessing because if it is true love it will bring the two of you closer together. I hope and pray that your children will love and respect him as i pray for the same with him respecting your children. Please keep in mind that he is a big name out there and you are new to the game, your going to get upset and angree but you have chosen this life style for you and your children. You can get through any road bump your higher power puts infront of the two of you if it is really meant to be. Good luck and congrates!!!
    Becky

  90. trini says:

    I watched the show because of MZ berry,plus she is so sexy,looks like 18 to me.Congrats 2u and ray.COME TO TRINIDAD & TOBAGO 4 carnival

  91. jamie says:

    i think that Ray couldnt have made a better choice. U go Mz. Berry

  92. Ms.RealE says:

    I wonder why people think that Mz.Berry is old. She is not old at all. Like she said in her interview, only people in their 20s think that she is old. And furthermore Ray J is maybe 2 years younger than Mz.Berry, he creepin on 30 his damm self, so all the haters need to stop and grow up. Plus didnt he use to date Whitney houston briefly, he likes older women for a reason. Look at Jay z and Beyonce, Jay is 40 and Bey is still in her 20′s and they are happily married. Aaliyah said it best, age ain’t nothing but a number. So Mz.Berry never mind the simple minded people who think you are old, Im a single mother of two girls and Im 30 and Im not old baby. I still got it, Besides you dont really start having fun until you hit 30 anyway, 20′s you still have a lot of learning and growing to do,and I think that Ray J is ready for a change, ready for some grown man thaaagggs, Ya Know, Mz.Berry the best of wishes to you and Ray J!!!!!! Ha Ha Haters!!!

  93. qwesha says:

    i wanna sayi feel you on that ms.berry .. i’m just your age also and you is i believe an woman who real about there’s and just know what a woman wants out of live and in a man congrats i hope you and ray stay together for each other andlive happy together love you both good luck with your new man.

  94. Rose says:

    Yes I watch this show cause it is entertaining but I seriously hope Ray J one day regrets how he is acting. First he signed up for season 2 before season 1 was even over so he knew he wasn’t really gonna even stay with cocktail. He totally lead her on. Then season 2 and he’s got pics floating around of him and a 20 yr old girl kissing her and everything. And that was right after the show ended! And he’s had no contact with Mz Berry? Messed up!!! I’d fly out there, hunt him down, and kick his ass if I were her! Ray J needs to get some KARMA coming his way! I hope no decent, quality women sign up for season 3 cause they are just gonna get played with and their hearts broken.

  95. jodi says:

    RAY J WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU THINKING? MZ BERRY FOR REAL? GRANDMA IS A WINING HO!! SHE IS NOT RIGHT FOR YOU, YOU PICKED THE WRONG GIRL… I FEEL REALLY BAD FOR YOU.. SHE IS GOIN TO BE CRYING EVERY TIME YOU TALK TO A GIRL LOL.. MAN U SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT WHEN YOU ARE GOING TO BE ON THE ROAD AND SHE IS GOING TO BE LIKE STALKER GRANDMA LOL SHE EVEN HAS KIDS LOL.. ARE YOU GOING TO SUPPORT HER KIDS LOL.. WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO JUMP INTO SOMETHING LIKE THAT? WRONG DECISON RAY…

  96. Brandy says:

    Wow… This woman seems intelligent! How’d she end up on the show?!? lol… She sounds very sweet and honest, so I hope she finds a good man. I don’t think that Ray J fits that boot though. I think he’s too into himself and the celeb life of too much attention from other women to be committed to just one person. Look at him… It’s obvious that he likes the attention. I see a season 3 or some crap… It’s all getting played out. But hey, If I’m wrong and things do work out for them. I wish them the best! ;)

  97. Chey_Gonzal says:

    WOW….I love your answers mz berry. You are true to yourself. If you have fans and you want to help people I say go out there and do it. You’re an intelligent woman, you are determined and you know what you want in life.!!!! kuddos to you mz berry

  98. Tia says:

    Very good Ms. Berry you a good real Woman!

  99. DEE says:

    Mz. Berry good qaulity amsweres and u did your thag on the show, you deserved to win because umlike most of the other women you was there for ray, kudos!

  100. PEACHEZ says:

    I AM HAPPY FOR MZ BERRY. I WAS HOPING SHE WIN AND SHE DID

  101. Gracefulsista says:

    Congrats Connie, I wish you both the best. A Relationship with a younger man has its ups and downs but they are minor when you are dedicated to each other. I am speaking from experience. Just go into this relationship with an open mind and not let your emotions get in the way…..Much Love Sis

  102. Porsche says:

    Ms berry you are so real and beautiful and sweet danger is a psycho to say what she said about you. I hope everything works out for you with or without ray.

  103. Sondra says:

    Congratulations Mz. Berry!!! I am so happy for you i was routing for you since the first day. You had such a great oral about you he stated that he wants to change his ways and i knew that you were just the medicine he needed i think that your children would be an asset to his change and not a hinderence i think nothing matures a man more than having the responsibility of being a role model for a younger family member RayJ has a close family and i think that he and your son will have a great relationship! Again Congratulations and God Bless!!!!

  104. Sondra says:

    Congratulations Mz. Berry!!! I am so happy for you i was routing for you since the first day. You had such a great oral about you he stated that he wants to change his ways and i knew that you were just the medicine he needed i think that your children would be an asset to his change and not a hinderer i think nothing matures a man more than having the responsibility of being a role model for a younger family member Ray J has a close family and i think that he and your son will have a great relationship! Again Congratulations and God Bless!!!!

  105. sheena says:

    Don’t get me wrong, i like Mz.Berry.More of, platinum would have been a better choice for Ray J because of the fact that they relate to each other in so many ways. I don’t think its going to last between the Ray and Berry because their lives are so different. In my opinion there not compatible. But I Love You Ray J!!!!

  106. Gina says:

    I was watching the show last night and mad that I feel asleep on the end! But I’m glad he picked Mz Berry! Basically he had two totally different woman – if he wanted to go out, party, and still be the man that he has always been then Platinum would’ve been better choice – all she ever said was “He will have more fun with me than Mz Berry” but sometimes it’s not always about that – yes it’s important to have fun with the person you went but that’s not what it’s all about – if he wanted to grow up and be a better man than Mz Berry was the better choice. She’s a very intelligent woman and so what if she is emotional – what woman isnt????? What woman wouldn’t get jealous that her man is spending more time with other woman than her? like seriously! and she’s not old – 32 is really not old…plus she doesn’t even look her age but she is very mature and I like that about her! I’m tired of always seeing these immature women on these love shows winning because what do you really have to offer except fun and sex….Mz Berry was a totally different type of woman on this show than we normally seen – she stayed true to herself! Plus everybody keeps saying Ray J ain’t ready to be no father as she already stated “her kids have a father and he’s present in their lives so Ray J would just be a role model” – she just wants someone for her and I’m glad for that! Hope it works out because Ray J really needs to grow up!

  107. bring_it says:

    To all of you who are hating on Mz Berry(Connie)chew on this; everybody in the house were out of their league, they didn’t have a chance up against Mz Berry, she had Ray on lock the day she entered the house. Ray chose Mz Berry because, just like a woman don’t want a broke azz man; a man don’t want a broke ass woman. Ray need a woman who is classy, well spoken, patient and kind all the qualities Platinum do not possess. I wish Ray and Connie the best. Ray you picked THE RIGHT ONE.

  108. Julett says:

    Mz Berry… Put God first in all that you do… and remember, what God has for you it is for you. I watch the show and it was just something about you that I really admired. You are a very classy and sufficated young lady. I knew that you were going to be the one for Ray J. Much love and I will keep you guys in my prayers.

    From Texas

  109. carol says:

    I am so happy the Mz Berry won I would have been mad if he pick another party girl like in last season. mz Berry you go girl. Ray now you will get to know what a REAL woman is about not one that is always shaking her asssss all over the place but one that know how to be a LADY at all times one you can bring home to mom even no body will every be good enough. But that is ok and remeber mom Brandy has a daugther some man will have to except her as well when she find a new man. So good luck and God Bless

  110. SUNNYD says:

    i loveee mz berry . she’s sooo sweet . i’m glad she won but reality show couples hardly ever last soo goodluck to you both :)

  111. TATYANA says:

    I CANT NOT BELIEVE RAY J PICK THIS GURL I LIKED HER FROM THE BEGINNING BUT TOWARD THE END SHE START BEIN A CRY BABY FOR HER TO BE THE OLDEST ONE ON THERE AND EVEN THE OTHER GURLS DIDN’T CRY AS MUCH AS MZ BERRY. BUT I WANTED HIM TO PICK LUCIUS HOWEVER U SPELL IT.BUT I WONDER HOW LONG THEY GOIN TO STAY TOGETHER AND I CANT WAIT TO SEE THE REUNION NEXT MONDAY.

  112. ReRe says:

    I am so happy that she won I was rooting for her from the beginning she knos what she want congrats Mz.Berry

  113. nessa says:

    wow!!! i’m really surprised at her answers… very impressive!! well personally i don’t believe that age should be a determinant factor for any relationship. ray likes her she likes him…congrats to them both. i hope i never see a “FOR THE LOVE OF RAY J 3″ mz berry is quite a beautiful woman, very sophisticated and knows exactly what she wants. ray is a nice catch himself and could use a little bit of guidance in his life. most of the girls i believe just wanted some camera time….but mz berry i believe was genuinely there to find love. congrats again guys!!!!!!

  114. debbie says:

    Mz. Berry. I was cheering for you all the way. Although, I have doubts about Ray Jay seriousness. In the end I saw a special side of him, allowing God to lead and guide him. Whether he was serious of not , it sounded pretty convincing that he was glad he found an intelligent, mature, sophisticated woman. I sure hope it work, there is always room for change, give it time.

  115. SVPrice says:

    Why is it that you are not able to see RJ. I thought this was real, and a beginning to a new and exciting life together. What’s up with that?

  116. SVPrice says:

    So when will the relationship begin? Why is it that it seems so real on TV, but then everything stops once the show is over. Will you ever be able to have a true and lasting relationship with RJ or is it all just fake. SVP

  117. Aisha says:

    Mz Berry, my daughters my niece and I were all pullin for you gurl…. I’m so happy you won. You are classy with style you have a life and so much to give to help keep him grounded. I am a May Decemeber bride, and he loves him some me. Congrats

  118. HOLY BOLDNESS says:

    Well done Mz Berry. You are a beautiful women and you showed that inside and out, I wanted Ray to pick you and he did, out of all the females on that show you were the best women for him. Good luck and remember what ever happens GOD HAS YOU!

  119. Bethany says:

    she shouldnt of won…her and Ray J wont last. At the reunion he is gonna dump her if he hasn’t already.

  120. dymndntheruff says:

    I agree with Brandy on the very first post in full. Is Ray J forreal or is he all about the hollywood image and women. Mz.Berry, if he hurts u…remember mr.right had to be watching and waiting to see what will happen so he can find you and give you the love that a woman like u deserves. Congrats Mz.B, so happy u won no matter what.

  121. Lynn says:

    I really like Ms. Berry, she’s a beatiful intelligent woman. I’m glad Ray J didn’t let his family’s opinion discurage his dission, I truely belive he made the right one. Now let’s hope that he doesn’t screw it up. Hang in there miss Berry!

  122. Zaniyah says:

    I THINK MZ.BERRY WAS 4 HIM AND SO WAS PLATNUM. I THOUGHT HE SHOUD HAVE PICKED MZ.BERRY BECAUSE SHE COULD OFFER HIM MORE AND SHE IS MORE ADULT. PLATNUM WAS JUST A YOUGN FEMALE DAT WAS READY 4 A BOYFRIEND BUT NOT A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. HE MADE DA RIGHT CHOICE. SHE MIGHT HAVE KIDS BUT HOPEFULLY THEY WORK THINGS OUT AND THEY STAY TOGETHER. MZ.BERRY IZ JUST TOO EMOTIONAL AND BOSSY. SHE COULDNT REALLY HANDLE HIS LIFE STYLE CAUSE SHE WOULD WANT TO BE THE BOSS OF EVERYTHING AND SHE CANT. ALL OF HIS FAMILY WILL BE GLAD HE MADE THE RIGHT DESCION. IF I WAS ON THE SHOW I WOULD HAVE WON CAUSE WE ARE SOMEWHAT ALIKE AND HE IS MY TYPE OF MAN. RAY-J IS SO FINE AND I WOULD MARRY HIM AND HAVE KIDS BY HIM (4).

  123. Ro-Ro says:

    MZ.BERRY YOU GO GIRL I THINK THAT YOU WERE 1 OF THE BETTER LOOKING WOMEN ON THESE SHOWS YOU LOOKED BETTER THAN PLATIUM AN THATS ALL THAT NEED TO BE SAID SHE NEEDS VENEERS ISNT THAT WHAT MOSTOF HOLLYWOOD HAS YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL I MEAN WHEN YOU HAD ON YOUR JEANS AFTER HE TOLD HER SHE WAS GOING TO VEGAS I KNEW THEN YOU HAD WON.. YEAH…SO GIRL USE THIS AS A STEPPING STONE FOR BETTER THINGS AND TAKE THEPLACE BY STORM..YOU ARE GOOD ON THE EYES..

  124. Tia says:

    OMG…ANOTHER “I WANT REAL LOVE” SHOW AND THE COUPLE NEVER SEES EACH OTHER AGAIN AFTER THE LAST DAY OF TAPING THE SHOW…
    RAY J 1 AND 2,ANTONIO SABATO JR, TILA TEQUILA 1 AND 2, ETC, ETC, ETC…..

    ARE THESE SHOWS REAL OR NOT!!!!!!!

    NO…THEY ARE MAKING A FOOL OF ALL OF YOU!!!!! MZZ BERRY WILL NEVER LAY HER EYES ON THIS KID AGAIN.

  125. ahndrea b. says:

    I’M SO HAPPY THAT HE PICKED MZ. BERRY. SHE IS A STRONG WOMAN THAT STAND UP 4 HERSELF. FEMALES HATE THATS LIFE. N THEY MAKE THIER SELF LOOK BAD BY ACTING LIKE KIDS. SHE IS A WOMAN, N THATS WHAT MEN WANT NOT A LOUDMOUTH LIL’ KID!!!

  126. Rose says:

    I’am glad that Ms.Berry won because she seems a women that knows what she’s doing and also on what she wants …. She is a really pretty women .. :-)

  127. Litabug says:

    Hello Mz Berry,
    I am very happy that he picked you but I am sad that you guys can’t really see or talk with each other for four months. Four months can put a tole on any relationship. I hope the both of you can move forward together because you are good for him. Ray has a religous back ground and knows right from wrong. I believe that he is ready to settle down with a good woman. Mz Berry stay true to God, yourself, your children, and him. Ray loved your honesty, I think he even loved how you showed your emotion. He knew why you were there and you did not let him forget. When you love someone don’t ever stop letting them know. God Bless You

  128. luvmzberry says:

    you go girl!!! ur not old at all u may have been older than all the girls but they sure did look older than u so people need to stop hating

  129. MiSz Amanda says:

    Mz Berry seem’s like a very Secure person, she doesnt seem like the type of girl who feels she needs to prove Somthing or Gossip etc! Very mature.

  130. shaknbak480 says:

    If I were Ray I woulda eliminated her for her own good.. She was obviously an emotional wreck and would never be able to handle his life style. He was around 3 other girls and she was freaking out, try a whole stadium of ppl!

  131. Sam says:

    For the people who wonder why they haven’t seen each other, remember the taping of the show ended several months ago. To not spoil the outcome, they have to keep the contestants tight-lipped and the winner unable to see Ray J. The cards are definitely stacked against Ray J and Mz Berry, but let’s just wait and see what happens when they have the reunion. That’ll be their reunion, as well. If nothing comes of it, she’s a gorgeous, articulate, level-headed lady who will hopefully go on to do something fantastic!

  132. Shuna says:

    I am so glad that Ray J picked Mz.Berry I think they would make a cute couple and I think Mz. Berry is what he is lookin for in a relationship.

  133. Pach says:

    Congrats Connie aka Mz. Berry. I have put you nd Ray J in my prayers Matthew 21:21 to you having the faith that makes things happen.I’m glad Ray did not pick platinum she was phony and very immature calling Mz.Berry old and saying goodnight mom, Ray J only saw the side of platinum that appeared to be nice viewers saw her evil streak & mean Girls aka wolf pack mentality. So if Ray J was looking for a real woman not a party girl who needs to grow up then I say Mz.Berry was the best choice, as for Ray’s moms comments on Mz.Berrys kids, how would she like someone to say that about Brandy or hold it against Brandy because she also has a ready made family.Hmmmmmm. and that’s some food for thought.Any way, I’m happy for you & Ray MZ. Berry

  134. Michelle says:

    I really am so very happy that he picked Mz. Berry. He has tried the other younger ladies and apparently it didn’t work so now you have someone that is very mature and knows what she wants put of life. I really hope this relationship last because I am not up for a third season. So Platnum I guess Mz. Berry isn’t too old for Ray after all. You go Mz. Berry. You stood in the race and won and I am so very happy for you. In spite of all the accusations You still came out on top

  135. Anastasia says:

    i new she was gonna win the whole time

  136. krystiina says:

    Congratulations Mz.Berry ! ! !

    I knew you would of one since the very beginning.
    Since you stepped foot on the show, Ray had his I eye on you since then. You are a special women than the other girls. You just want the best for Ray. I think you would last with him. You are classy, intelligent, sweet and honest. But, Mz.Berry you are right for telling Ray if he wants to have a relationship with you, he has to be dedicated to it and not to other girls that he might be around. I think you guys would have the best relationship. I think Ray and your son would get along just fine. I think this is perfect that Ray found you, because other girls sometimes there for the money! but i don’t think you are like that. I could tell that you are deeply in love with Ray and you were looking for a man that would love you and your son. And i think you found him. WIsh you guys the best wishes! ! :-)

    Ray I hope Mz.Berry is the right woman for you and full fills your dreams. I think you have chosen the right one. Hope you guys make the relationship last for you guys and your son. :-)

    Once again congratulations Mz.Berry ! !
    Take care of Ray And your son. :-)

    Krystina A.K.A Kimberly From the Bronx

  137. Ekaterina says:

    “For the love of Ray J” was probably the first reality show I got into, because it looked pretty intriguing and funny.And I would say I’m really dissappointed that Mz. Berry and Ray don’t even see each other anymore. I don’t really know the rules of “aftershow”, but if it’s a reality show, it should be real till the very end. Knowing that it’s all just for the money makes it not interesting to watch anymore. So if Ray has another show, I won’t be watching it, because it’s all fake. I’d rather watch “Keeping up with the Kardashians”, because at least they are a real family and their dating is real.
    P.S. I really liked Mz. Berry. I think she is a very nice and honest lady, ready for a truthful relationship. And she is not old. I really hope she meets a nice man who’ll treat her right.

  138. Christie Robinson says:

    Mz.Berry;
    I pulled for you from day one. I knew you were the most mature for Ray, he knew that too. What he needs to realize is that he’s been searching for love and hadn’t found it the first time or with any other “young” girls he’s dated. He’s not getting any younger and if he ‘s looking for love, he needs someone like you who’s grounded and knows about life. Simply,”No Drama”!!!!
    You two make a wonderful couple and I hope he realizes that and you stay together!! Besides, he’s gonna be a father soon and needs to grow up anyway. Here’s his chance!!It will set in when he becomes a father!!!

  139. wanda says:

    I loved it when they flew away on the jet I cried what a date I ran the video over and over ms berry looked pretty and the whole scene was a fairy tale

  140. shelia says:

    Mz Berry. I watch all of Ray J shows and i thought you was the nices lady for him. You really put a good show on that you really cared and had fell in love with him, but now reading this you wrote just don’t seem you really love him.You act like you are not sure. Ray seems like he is a really sweet guy and he desired the best and find the love of his life. If you was not sure you loved him you shouldn’t have told him.Since you won you should be happy and live life to the fullest and quit that crying all the time. You have him now so make him happy. Like he told you at the beginning he was a busy man and he couldn’t see you all the time. So when you do let him know how much you care or you will lose him like the other girl’s did.I wish you both the best.

  141. Christy O says:

    Bravo to you for being so elegant! You definitely shine!

    I must comment on the negative remarks you received regarding your age. As you put it, someone in their 20′s might think someone in their 30′s is old. I’m sure when all these 20 somethings who were on the show get to be in their early 30′s, they won’t look as half as good as you look. They all seem to live pretty fast lifestyles. It’s very aging as they’ll find out soon enough.

    Good luck to you in everything you do!

    ~ Christy

  142. Danielle says:

    I would love to say that you and him have ture love.

  143. lilblakk2010 says:

    C0NGRATS MZ. BERRY MZ. BERRY..

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  144. Sara says:

    Mz Berry came off as being desperate for her age especially right after a divorce. So tragic.

  145. chenille says:

    Congratulations Mz Berry!!! Although I think you’re a bit too mature for Ray J, I think you were the best pick in the house. I just don’t think Ray J is ready for a woman on your maturity level. Proof of that is that he looked for love on a TV show. But hey if you guys work out, which I hope you will, I wish you nothing but blessings.

  146. Bo$$ WUUD says:

    CONGRATS to Mz. Berry and Ray J for starters! I think they look GREAT together. They compliment eachother. I was rooting for Mz. Berry from day one, because of the way she carried herself and the level head she kept through the whole segment. I hope it works out for them. She could be the one to tame that a$$ Ray! LOL Be safe and Good Luck to you both!!!

  147. Sunny says:

    Too bad he had a girlfriend while her was taping the show.

  148. paula says:

    I think Ms. Berry has class and timeless beauty. She is breathtakenly gorgeous naturally. This is intimidating to a lot of women. Congradulations.

  149. JASMINE says:

    MY BESTFRIEND LOVES RAY J. IF THERE’S A SEASON 3 SHE WOULD LIKE TO BE ON IT. N SHES WILLING TO GIVE RAY J EVERYTHING HE’S LOOKING FOR. SHE’S NOT AFTER HIM FOR HIS FORTUNE OR FAME. SHE JUST WANTS HIS HEART THATS ALL SHE WANTS. SHE’S A WINNER…

  150. sweetness says:

    i am so happy that u won mz.berry or connie,i hope things work out for the best for u and ray

  151. haha says:

    wat happen to da gurl from da first season? dey didnt last so wat makes yuh think dat dey wuld last haha

  152. tay bigs says:

    MZ BERRY SHOULD HAVE WON.

  153. MizzJacquetta says:

    at once again, Happy again too see mz berry and ray j got real more love connection

  154. evon says:

    RAY J YOU DID A GOOD DECITION BECAUSE MZ BERRY LOOK LIKE SHE IS A GOD WOMEN AND SHE HAF MORE ESPERIENCE I HOP THAT YOU AND HER STAY TOGEDER 4 A LONG TIME BECAUSE YOU AND HER MAKE THAT PERFECT COUPLES…

  155. barbara says:

    well i didnt really like her but o well can help who the heart fells in love with

  156. bREeZy says:

    I was suprise that mz. berry won i thought she was going to be to old for him. but she is pretty. they are a cute couple. but they know they seen each other after the show was done taping!!!!!!!!!

  157. bREeZy says:

    I was suprise that mz. berry won i thought she was going to be to old for him. but she is pretty. i thoughtplatinum was goin to win.they are a cute couple. but they know they seen each other after the show was done taping!!!!!!!!!

  158. brenda says:

    So your not ating Ray-j anymoree?

  159. chanell says:

    its all t.v Ray dont want that old lady.

  160. erica says:

    Mz. Berry, shame on you for leaving your 2 kids behind just to be on a reality show. Mz. Berry made out with a stranger on TV, it’s unbelievable how some of you think that is classy. She is a desperate Golddigger, thats all. Season 3 can come now.

  161. ronn says:

    Hopefully, Mz Berry isn’t reading these idiotic comments, but if she is, girl, whoever is calling you old, just wish they look as hot as you.

    Do you have a comprehension problem? Ray gave THE major reasons for choosing Mz Berry:

    1. when he is with her, he is able to focus more
    2. she makes him a better person
    3. she connects him to the person WHERE HE WANTS TO BE!

    While Plantinum is all about fun and he is trying to put that life behind him. He also said that choosing Platinum is like choosing any girl out there (there are lots of girls like her). I had my doubts about his maturity also, but it seems like he is growing up.

    And why should he choose platinum when she already told him that she is in love with her ex and she would go right back with him if he came knocking. And don’t forget there were trust issues there.

    Mz Berry is a very beautiful lady who is loaded with class. Her behavior was no different to another girl whose man is out with another woman. But I give her major props for letting him know UPFRONT that she will not accept him running wild with other women…and he chose her.

    It says that he is really maturing. Will they make it? Probably not. I hope they do, though.

  162. mrs.kia says:

    Well mz berry you did it and Im happy for you as to the haters ha…ha.ha.. move on to the next gold mine @~*_(~^*&~+$^#^_! es

  163. Sami says:

    I think that mz Berry is a bit too classy for Ray. Ray is very scandalous. All he wants to do is sleep with these girls. Mz Berry needs to find herself a mature man who can be a role model for her kids, not Ray. He’s looking for another Kim Kardashian but he cant seem to find her yet.

  164. MZKITTY says:

    CONGRATS MZ.BERRY. HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU AND RAY 4REAL! I’VE BEEN ON TEAM BERRY FROM THE VERY BEGINING AND WAS FOR REAL CRYING WHEN YOU WON! AGAIN CONGRATULATIONS

  165. priscilla says:

    I DONT THINK SHE SHOULD’VE WONN!!!! SORRY…

  166. CCLOVE says:

    this show was tight!!!!!!! it was unexpected that ray went with MZ BERRY i was thinkn he is going to continue the same old path buttttttt . . … .he picked the girl god wanted him to spend the rest of his life with!!!! god luck there will be ups and downs but stay stong=)

  167. tone says:

    congrats to u mz berry but i must say u r very beautiful and u picked the wrong man ?i wud be the ideal choice

  168. xouth says:

    Mz.Berry was the most beautiful, and I hope Ray J is kind to her because she is a true lady.

  169. jucci says:

    diz goes out to all the haterz who hating on mz.berry i mean +%(!)~&_#_&&@_& on get a life its not gne be season3 mz.berry youre a diva i love what you are doing let them haters hate u a strong beautiful black women you dont take no crap from nobody you know how to control yorself im happy for you im not jealous ray is sexy @*@%&@($#*!&~($ hell and your type yall make a cute couple love ya gurl!!

  170. cooliegyal says:

    congrats to mz. berry i was praying that you win and get rayj heart i think that you are the right person for him to settle down with me and my friends had bet on who we think would have won his heart and i win im sooooooo glad that he pick u hope you guyz stay 2gether and good luck on ur relationship cant wait to seee the reunion CONGRATS once agian good luck in the future

  171. cooliegyal says:

    congrats to mz. berry i was praying that you win and get rayj heart i think that you are the right person for him to settle down with me and my friends had bet on who we think would have won his heart and i win im sooooooo glad that he pick u hope you guyz stay 2gether and good luck on ur relationship cant wait to seee the reunion CONGRATS once agian good luck in the future LOVE MZ.BERRY AND RAY TOGETHER SOOOOOO CUTE

  172. kittykat says:

    U STUPID RAY now u got kidz and gradma who die 1st

  173. Delilah G says:

    i dont think Ray should have picked Mz.Berry cause not only was she a cry baby but she wasnt ready for the celebrity life.celebrity life comes with females lots of them like coworkers fans ect.He should have stayed with platuim cause she layed back kool and she know what to expect from a celebrity as far as the females and the hole life style and if he would have picked her they will be together right now

  174. smexxie says:

    i thought mz.berry would and should win from the beginning of the show i thought platinum wasn’t all that pretty i dont know just something but mz.berry is naturally beautiful glad u won, with love and respect

  175. DramaFree says:

    “Mz Berry”….smile….we love! you girl….your more woman then all those little girls put together…and it’s a blessing to be older and wiser….no matter what happens we all know that you will be alright….and if push comes to shove and ray j is not the…”Man” we all witnessed that day…and he has went back to being a young boy who plays with young girls….move on! and we know! that VH1 will give you your own! finding love show…and we all know that yours will be for real!…..

    But we all are hoping that You and Ray j have made it threw…in a whole and complete way….God Bless you all.

    Again we love you Mz Berry
    A sista from Brooklyn N.Y.
    smile

  176. misz thang says:

    im only 18 and i felt like ms. berry was my favorite person in the house..a lot of people tell me i act grown for my age but i think it’s just a sense of maturity and i felt like ms. berry handled every situation she was in very maturely..so kudos to you and if things don’t work out with you and ray..im sure you will find someone that will love you for you because your beautiful and you are a very genuine person..what else could a guy ask for!!

  177. gigi says:

    From la isla Puerto Ricoo I defenietly agree with you, Paula… My best wishes to you both who seem so mature and will be able to handle this and more…

  178. Prescious says:

    Sunny; i no he has a girlfriend already haha, and its funny seeing people talk bout Mz berry and RayJ and a couple, he hasnt even contacted her since the show, i kno they say there not soppose to but he’d at least call her, and he dont. He’s already talking about a new show with his family. The funny part about all these shows (Love of Rayj,FlavorFlav,NY,etcetc) is its on reality TV and the shiits fake, and they booted the real world to another channel lol

  179. Karen says:

    I loved Ms. berry, she was beautiful and made the other girls look so immature and weird.

  180. mila says:

    i dont think he should of picked you i dont like u and u was only for his money

  181. tynisha hatney says:

    stop hatin’ on mz.berry. she won get over it.

  182. keeya says:

    i still dont care look at mz.berry close up she got that droopy old person look in her face and she dont look like halle berry so stop saying that i know the real HALLE BERRY was like thats a insult

  183. Michelle says:

    You go girl you are a very strong beutiful women who I think deservs better I dont think ray j is ready 4 a grown women he is still a child that is still playing at the play ground (reality check) ray j recess is over it’s time to git grown be a man stop playing house and step up stop playin games maybe ive said a little too much any way MZ Berry I wish you and your kids the best I truely hope you do find love

  184. TYE says:

    in all honest out of all the girls mz berry you were the right woman for him.if that’s in fact what he is looking for a woman. if it doesn’t work out like +%!&!$#~#_!~&#_* tail i will no longer watch his show and a whole lot of other people that i know.

  185. Persident ChinahThe'great says:

    I just wanna start off and say im excited that Mz. Berry won. In the whole begginning of the process of the show i knew Mz. Berry would be they winning. The other girls where they were they for Ray as well but not enough as I seen in Mz. Berry. So I would like to congratulate Mz. Berry in her furture of beaing Ray’s girl and I wish them the best. Yhea she is FOR SURE there for the love of Ray J. [=

  186. Fadam says:

    I just saw the reunion show and I hope you didnt decide to stick around after all that

  187. nic-nic 30 says:

    I just saw the reunion that came on @11am. Mz. Berry is better than I thought bcuz ain’t no way his ex Coctail would be causing so much drama and I keep a level head. You Go Mz. Berry.

  188. LA LA says:

    SHE IS NOT OLD!!!!!
    32 is not old. 42 is old. yall are so stupid.
    Mz.Berry is too GROWN for Ray J. He is a young punk who would rather risk getting an STD than settle down.
    I hope she didn’t stay with him after the Reunion show. I would of kicked his `+**%$(~%++~!@) after seeing him all up under Jaguar!!!! Hell NO

  189. DEBORAH says:

    I LOVE MS.BERRY, SHE HAS CLASS CAN NOT BE SAID FOR THE OTHER SO CALLED LADIES ON THE SHOW. RAY J IS SO SWEET WOULD NEVER THINK OF HIM WITH KIM K

  190. Natalie L. says:

    Mz. Berry, you have so much class. I wish you and Ray the best of luck! He better keep you close, because I’m sure there are many men just as classy as you who are ready to swoop down and try to become a part of your life!!!!!!

  191. kleef says:

    Just watched the reunion show and all I could say was Wow! I must say that Coktail definitely had a point. I like Ray J because I think he’s funny and he has good snse of style. But Ray J is a player and will always be a player. His show was fake, just like Flavor’s show was, just like all these reality tv love shows are.

    But it is the first time I’ve seen that fakeness broadcasted so loudly. Thank you $!_+**%%$*&~&)$+ tail for letting everyone know what kind a person he is.

    “He is not a one woman man”

    Best damn quote I’ve ever heard in a reality TV show.

    Mz Berry, you seem like a smart woman, and it’s obvious you should move on. And Jaguar, you are a nice girl, way too nice to be hanging out with this man @%“^!((%^~&_)&%&

  192. angel says:

    even know this is how ray makes money (having a dating show) iwas really hoping this time it would be genuine that he wanted to settle down. it appears he found a great person to do it with but he cannot be faithful. how could any woman expect ray to be exclusive when he is living the playboy life while “pursuing u” on a tv show. he was bonin and hugged up with 19 chicks. i really liked ms berry and wished ray was more of a man 4 her. Just look at how immature his friends are. thats when i wouldve left. Birds of a feather.

  193. Jodi says:

    So I watched the reunion show today and it sucks. Ray J seems like an _~#))~%`@@^^~$^ he has had connections with a few girls besides Mz Berry since the show! And ^%^^!*_&^!`(#~`# tail was on here too and she was so upset that Ray J would do this again to another girl! She still see’s him too! What an _~#))~%`@@^^~$^ I think ^%^^!*_&^!`(#~`# TAIL should have her own show! I love her she is so cute!!

  194. Big Red says:

    I think she is jus too good for him but love is love and i wish them all the best i hope ray knows he has a good one catch

  195. meka moreno says:

    man i am so happy that mz. berry won gurl yuh were the rite woman for him frm the get go…congrats gurlie…nd gurl better put her boo in check so he dnt _#%+#)@&%###~^)# up again especially to a woman like mz. berry

  196. nelly from raleigh, nc says:

    im happy that mz. berry won, she is much older than ray but she look much better than ALL those little girls in the house, plus they have no class!!!!!!

  197. nelly from raleigh, nc says:

    im happy that mz. berry won, she is much older than ray but she look much better than ALL those little girls in the house, plus they have no class!!!

  198. nelly says:

    im happy that mz. berry won, she is much older than ray but she look much better than ALL those little girls in the house, plus they have no class!!!
    p.s my bf says (_%$~*%_%@~#$!@! ALL THEM (*$^)%)`+`$#+#+_( ES!!!!! LOL

  199. MYMANSAY "SEXY" 2 ME EVERY NITE!!AN HE LUV ME says:

    mz.berry congrats.i think you really deserve a good man. i think that you deserve someonethat will love you for you.the only thing that is concering me is that you r so mature.i dnt think that you and ray r rite for each other.you have kids, and have had a life of pain, i dont think that you and ray belong together, but… i cant control your feelings and they way you feel, and if you feel that you abd ray are rite for each other than you shpuld try and work it out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  200. Micheal's Girl says:

    mz.berry congrats.i think you really deserve a good man. i think that you deserve someonethat will love you for you.the only thing that is concering me is that you r so mature.i dnt think that you and ray r rite for each other.you have kids, and have had a life of pain, i dont think that you and ray belong together, but… i cant control your feelings and they way you feel, and if you feel that you abd ray are rite for each other than you shpuld try and work it out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  201. nelly says:

    CONGRATULATIONS TO MZ. BERRY!!!!! im really happy that she won, i knew she was gonna win since day one, mz berry and caliente were the only real girls with class in that house, she is much older than ray but she deserved to win, even if she didnt win ray-j’s heart, she deserved to win the show….

  202. CS says:

    So I’m confused after watching the reunion show, Is Ray J and Mz Berry together? Is he trying to get with Jaguar now, I mean what’s going on? I think this is all for publicity and I’m not watching another thing that has to do with Ray J. Just on the fact he picked someone then didn’t see thenm for FIVE months, and the gets on TV and says “I messed up” when he’s in Jaguar’s face. He’s a lame _$$)*^~#+_^(`#_ wannabe playa, washed up has been, and Mz Berry is better off without him. It’s a DAMN shame because I really believed in Ray J this time around. I just hope Mz Berry finds a man who can TRUELY keep it 100!

  203. CS says:

    So I’m confused after watching the reunion show, Is Ray J and Mz Berry together? Is he trying to get with Jaguar now, I mean what’s going on? I think this is all for publicity and I’m not watching another thing that has to do with Ray J. Just on the fact he picked someone then didn’t see thenm for FIVE months, and the gets on TV and says “I messed up” when he’s in Jaguar’s face. He’s a lame %$`!!*)`&)))@&( wannabe playa, washed up has been, and Mz Berry is better off without him. It’s a DAMN shame because I really believed in Ray J this time around. I just hope Mz Berry finds a man who can TRUELY keep it 100!

  204. Toy says:

    I am happy for the winner of season two. Ms. Berry is a mature woman. Just watched the reunion and I believe (`%~!_#~+_()+`~~ tail should have kept herself off the show….First it was not cool for the invite to the show….All the drama and trash talking from (`%~!_#~+_()+`~~ tail to try and discourage Ms. Berry was wrong….I believe Ray J did change, his intentions were noted enough for Ms. Berry to see through to his heart….I say go for it! So what if Jaguar really liked him(so did the others), he’s a young man doing things most young men like…..btw…we all have regrets..Jaguar step aside..let the man go on with his woman Ms. Berry. Don’t tell a man you’ll be there for him when he already dumped you….

  205. Tiff in Hotlanta says:

    I am truly disappointed in Ray J’s actions on the reunion and the way he disrespected Mz Berry. I hope Mz Berry gets many opportunities in her real estate career and PR exposure out of this hot mess. Ray J has alot of growing up to do, money and fame is not everything. One day he will recognize that a real woman has crossed his path and he missed out on the opportunity. I wish both of them well and keep them in prayer!

  206. rew says:

    Ms. Berry you are beautiful in and out. i was very upset at last episode. God has better for you.i would love to hear your testimony. Stay encourage. You do deserve the best. Girl to thy onself be true. You might have open Ray eyes to a real women. Don’t entertain the thought of him changing. If friendship is what you have enjoy.In the end he said you don’t deserve this and you Don’t.

  207. Lookie says:

    After seeing the finally, ray j is a scubb bag. I can not believe he found a true geniune person like mz berry and he still pulls things like what was said in the show. Ray j needs to grow up and actually learn how to be a man. Hes just a little boy that uses womens as toys. I used like his music but I wont listen to it anymore hes trash!!!

  208. Nalini says:

    Ray J needs to dump this woman and get wit jaguar I liked her alot and I thought she had more class then anyone else. She is the right age and beautiful. Ray J go get Jaguar.

  209. marquetta says:

    I’m glad Mz.Berry won.She the type of woman he needs. The others are not on relationship level,they still need some growing up to do.Mz.Berry is where he need to be and the other girls are where he use to be.

  210. teona says:

    I was really shocked after watching the reunion show, I thought you was a good woman from the start, you had charm, grace and just a lady, I wanted him to pick you for your happiness, but I knew he didn’t have what it takes to be with you. Especially how he embarrased himself on the reunion and talking about how he liked Jaguar, If you kick it with him than have fun…….It seems that’s what he like to do

  211. christina says:

    I hope this show is fake..if not ray j is f***** up! and I’m no longer a fan of the show or him…mz berry is too much woman for him..and he says he’s a grown a** man..yeah right..AND what’s up with ~$*#(%_##)@+`(@_ tail’s dumb a** talking all that sh**. what? she want him back or something? she shoulda stayed home..And jaguar?? what’s up with that “let’s talk after the show” bull sh**? Little miss “I was raised conservative” with her short little skirt and short little top..that made sense. She don’t kiss but she shows her a** on tv! okay that’s all i gotta say:) I hope everyone enjoyed the show more than I did:) no more love of ray j for me..He’s full of it.

  212. christina says:

    I hope this show is fake..if not ray j is f***** up! and I’m no longer a fan of the show or him…mz berry is too much woman for him..and he says he’s a grown a** man..yeah right..AND what’s up with ^^(&`~^`@&$@+`!* tail’s dumb a** talking all that sh**. what? she want him back or something? she shoulda stayed home..And jaguar?? what’s up with that “let’s talk after the show” bull sh**? Little miss “I was raised conservative” with her short little skirt and short little top..that made sense. She don’t kiss but she shows her a** on tv! okay that’s all i gotta say:) I hope everyone enjoyed the show more than I did:) no more love of ray j for me..He’s full of it.

  213. gizelle says:

    I THINK MZ BERRY SHOULD FORGET ABOUT RAY J. ONLY BECAUSE HE IS AN !))*_!(!_)+%#_( WHOLE. MZ BERRY DESERVES SOME ONE MUCH BETTER THAT RAY. GIRL ONLY LIKE HIM BECAUSE OF IS FAME AND MONEY. HE IS DEFENITLY NOT HANDSOME AT ALL. MZ BERRY IS 2 GOOD 4 HIM. SO TO MZ BERRY GOOD LUCK I HOPE YOU DO FIND A GOOD MAN AND A GOOD FATHER FIGURE FOR YOU CHILDREN. AND 2 RAY I KNOW YOU WON’T FIND TRUE LOVE ON THE PATH YOUR GOING.

  214. kleef says:

    Just watched the reunion show and all I could say was Wow! I must say that Coktail definitely had a point. I like Ray J because I think he’s funny and he has good snse of style. But Ray J is a player and will always be a player. His show was fake, just like Flavor’s show was, just like all these reality tv love shows are.

    But it is the first time I’ve seen that fakeness broadcasted so loudly. Thank you @^`&(#%^*+_@+&@# tail for letting everyone know what kind a person he is.

    “He is not a one woman man”

    Best damn quote I’ve ever heard in a reality TV show.

    Mz Berry, you seem like a smart woman, and it’s obvious you should move on. And Jaguar, you are a nice girl, way too nice to be hanging out with this man %`%&$$^^*(`+^*$^*

  215. pauline says:

    mz berry is avery mature intellegent and full of class lady and is someone like her ray needs in his lif

  216. Mz T says:

    Mz. Berry, you brought class to this RayJ show. You are 100% real and this young man is not ready. This is show business to him. Remember only God knows your heart and Mr. Right will found you, just let go of that little boy. Also I pray that VH1 want bring his butt back on TV with this mess, about he wants to found real love. This young man needs to make a movie and leave this realty mess along.

  217. BRed says:

    I am so sorry for @_+`)@@_+%~@*@$^ tail, she was the first girl to get decieved by rayj – she DID NOT have someone to tell her what a freakin loser of a man he is – i know this will be the end of me watching ANYTHING havin his name *#`_`^#~+$(_)`+ ociated.I use to love watching his show and would watch his reruns all the time.After seeing the reunion he showed his real true colors of being a nasty disrespectful man to a woman. When a guy wants a relationship he will make the effort to be a good man to his new love interest. However, he is the one that SMASHED EVERYONES HOMMIE! Ladies stop feeding into his disgusting behavior, he is using everyone. His NASTY and disrespectful foul mouth to women just sealed it. I will never ever see anything about him anymmore. @_+`)@@_+%~@*@$^ tail you are better that, stay away from the USER LOSER !!!! find a good man to respect you. @_+`)@@_+%~@*@$^ tail I am glad you confronted his LIES about how he is trying to be a good guy. He is the Nasty B#*^%!. Mz Berry stay far away from him, or you will be in @_+`)@@_+%~@*@$^ tails position too.If he can talk like that to @_+`)@@_+%~@*@$^ tail in your presence,in time he will talk to you like that. KARMA ray !!!!!!!!!!

  218. shocked says:

    OMG!! This was sooo deceiving! Mz. Berry if you read this, please move on. You are a strong, beautiful, and classy woman who is too good for someone like Ray J. LOVE on T.V. never works out! We know you gave “100″ of your heart but he gave you what? A five month diss and a “i still like Jaguar”. Please I used to love Ray J, but dang.. aint nobody gonna watch a show with him as the star!! VH1 please come up with shows that aren’t so LOW-CLASS!

  219. Francis daughter says:

    Mz Berry you are a highly blessed beautiful young lady,from what i can see with 2 little loved ones GOD himself has blessed you wit follow your heart,your heart will tell your mind what to do,do not listen to no scorn (male or female),you have a new true friend if that is all or more,just do not listen to the haters,yet do not ever close your eyes o.k,real talk

  220. SAMONE says:

    AFTER WATCHING THE REUNION SHOW I CAN SAY I AM SO DISAPPOINTED IN RAY I WAS VERY MUCH A FAN OF THE SHOW AND HIM AT FIRST.I WAS IN HIS CORNER UNTIL I REALIZE THIS IS ALL A GAME TO HIM.I’VE BEEN IN MZ.BERRY CORNER FROM DAY ONE OF THE SHOW.SHE’S NOT THAT OLD SHE’S JUST A FEW YEARS OLDER THAN RAY SHE’S THE MOST ATTRACTIVE FEMALE IN THE HOUSE.RAY J SEEM TO JUST BE ON THE SHOW FOR EVERYTHING ELSE OTHER THAN FINDING LOVE.MZ.BERRY DESERVE BETTER AND CAN FIND BETTER.RAY J JUST SEEMS VERY IMMATURE AND HE TENDS TO PICK THE SAME TYPE OF GIRLS BECAUSE HE STILL YOUNG IN THE MIND HIMSELF.LOOK AT THE WOLF PACK ALL OF THEM WERE DANCERS DID’NT HE ONCE SAY HE’S TRYING TO GET AWAY FROM THOSE TYPE OF WOMAN BUT HE SEES THEM AFTER THE SHOW IS OVER LOOK AT +!`(%#%&+^@#!&$( TAIL HE SAYS SHE INTO WOMAN HE’S YOUNG AND HE LIKE THE BULL KRAP THAT COMES WITH IT.I DON’T THINK HE WILL SETTLE DOWN WITH ONE WOMAN AND HE WANT EVERYONE ELSE TO KEEP IT 100 HE WAS SO FAKE TO ME.HE CAME OUT WRONG OFF THE BREAK SHOWING HIS TRUE COLORS WHEN HE SAID A FEW WORDS TO JAGUAR AND THEN SEEING THE REST OF THE GIRLS AFTER MZ.BERRY WON SHOWED THIS WHOLE SHOW WAS A JOKE.THIS WHOLE SHOW WAS A WAIST OF WATCHING AFTER REALIZING RAY’S BS

  221. TYE says:

    I WAS SOOO DISGUSTED AT THE REUNION SHOW LAST NIGHT . WORDS CAN’T EVEN TO BEGIN HOW DISAPPOINTED I WAS. MZ BERRY STAY AWAY FROM RAYJ HE IS THE ~@+`~%!#`(~!#*!@ ING WORSE. HE STILL BE CHILLING WITH THE WOLF PACK. HE TOLD JAGUAR HE MADE THE WRONG DECISION. AND POOR #&^`^_@*)(#%!@)$ TAIL SHE REALLY WAS CRYING AND HE JUST WAS WITH HER RECENTLY. DID ANYONE BESIDES ME HEAR HIM CALL #&^`^_@*)(#%!@)$ TAIL A ~)$#^@*(`$@+#)+@~ AT LEAST 3 TIMES? MZ BERRY YOU WILL FIND TRUE LOVE JUST NOT WITH THIS WOMANIZER. THAT WAS THE LAST TIME I WILL WATCH ANYTHING _+*`(@)~~#@#%*& OCIATED WITH RAYJ.

  222. Ms Good-Good says:

    Im very happy for Mz Berry,you go girl. And it doesnt matter about the kids, I hate that because its the first thing they look at.She is much muture and got A head on her shoulder. She is someone any man would want rather its Ray or not. And her age is not old she is just begining. I really think that alot of the girls were jealous of her,because she’s classy and they were trashy. Good luck Mz Berry with your man and dont let him go maybe your that woman he needed all this time.

  223. nursejacob says:

    Rjay needs to stop going on TV looking for love and start a new show called for the fake love of rayj..the producers of for the love of rayj need to get all his past bed warmers and put his nasty #`!&@`)#*^`#(^* on blast..he really needs to stop riding his sisters coat tails!

  224. bronzeb says:

    I’m glad he chose Mz Berry. 3 years is NOT a lot older. Ray is 29 for goodness sake, not 19.

  225. keanlynn figueroa says:

    ms berry ithink u are a complete beautiful woman ur honest real and i really hope that it works out with u and ray trust the lord let him guide u love u girl

  226. Lashaunda Boyd says:

    I want to know what happen everybody is wants to know not just me are they together or what

  227. shon says:

    Ms Berry. 1 word to describe Ray J<LOOSER

  228. shon says:

    Ms Berry. 1 word to describe Ray J<LOSER

  229. JEN says:

    This type of show appeals to low class people. Ray-j is a well to do hood rat and no more. He has tacky friend and he is tacky. What is wrong with women who want nasty looking bad boys for their man? Pants hanging off his like the rest of the fools. Ray-j isn’t even nice looking and he has a hood rat mentality. The thing that got me was you see him kiss one person and then he turns around and kisses the other one right in their face. Sorry but I would think to myself where has her mouth been. The reality shows like this and Real Chance, Flavor of love, New york make African American women and men look like trashy +~&^*$__&&##*@^_* s and fools!

  230. BIANCA says:

    i think mz berry should just move on. there will be a ray j 3!!!!!

  231. Hazelize says:

    I hope it took _%~^%~@#!%++~_$$ tail putting Ray J on blast for him to realize he has a good woman and needs to treat her with respect (Mz. Berry). You get back what you put out. I lost respect for him after last night as well. I’m extremely disappointed!

  232. nanzyni says:

    well,well,well….

    I honestly think MZ Berry was fake.If you go back in when the show started..you’ll see that she would cry for anything..just to get the camera’s attention..
    she would go crying to ray..but then she claimed to be the mature person..when she wasnt..

    is like that other girl said.. MS BERRY is way too needy to be with a guy like Ray.
    ***I DONT LIKE HER TILL THIS DAY***
    to me, she was the fake-est in the house..

  233. Summer says:

    Love Mz Berry so is pretty and she should have her own show

  234. lyrinika evans says:

    mz.berry is to classy for you could you need too grow up ray j and i’m been 100%

  235. Justified says:

    I am not glad Mz Berry won b/c she’s too good for him he’s a no good dirty dog and I wouldn’t pay a dime to listen to his no good singing a$%!! It’s not right to mislead a mature woman with children. if they are still together they wont last because like #`+)&)^&+_`)##~_ tail said he’s not a 1 woman kinda man. He’s already been smashing all kinds of homies since the show was over so what does that tell you he’s no good he’s just as much a hoe as some of them hoes on the show. #`+)&)^&+_`)##~_ tail spoke the truth and the truth will set you free peace!! People stop lying and saying he is a good man a good man wouldn’t be bouncing around from woman to woman.

  236. Trisha says:

    Ray J is a cheating dog. Openly expressing in the reunion that he missed Jaguar and thought about her and that “maybe” he madea mistake sending her home then kissing her on the lips! He keeps in contact with some of the girls from the show even textin one of them the day after he picked MZ.Berry and he hasnt seen her in how long??! Hes likes to think of himself as a good man but in reality he is celebrity scum. Can we even call him a celebrity? When is the last time you heard a good Ray J song on the radio?..

  237. kleef says:

    Just watched the reunion show and all I could say was Wow! I must say that Coktail definitely had a point. I like Ray J because I think he’s funny and he has good snse of style. But Ray J is a player and will always be a player. His show was fake, just like Flavor’s show was, just like all these reality tv love shows are.

    But it is the first time I’ve seen that fakeness broadcasted so loudly. Thank you &#&^*%_^@%%#!^$$ tail for letting everyone know what kind a person he is.

    “He is not a one woman man”

    Best damn quote I’ve ever heard in a reality TV show.

    Mz Berry, you seem like a smart woman, and it’s obvious you should move on. And Jaguar, you are a nice girl, way too nice to be hanging out with this man )*_)*$^(^`^`$~$^#

  238. Keshia says:

    I am soooo happy that Ray J chose Mz. Berry over Platinum because I’d see Ray J puke himself than to be a one woman man to a fake chick from the wolfpack!!

  239. Gloria T says:

    Enough of “Are U Here 4 the Luv of Ray J”! We can all see that Ray J is still confused. He does not know who he wants. In all reality, by his actions from the reunion show he is not even ready to settle down! All of these women that go on these shows just make plum `_+~%%_(&~~^__+ es out of themselves, including Ms. Berry. This woman has 3 kids at home including a 14 yr old son and she is on TV sleeping with Ray J. If she is as intelligent as she trys to portray herself — why go on TV to find love? 10-15 women kissing and sleeping with the same man. Disgusting!!!! All I see are a bunch of *#*!+`@^+++*%#`@* s trying to get their 15 min and will end up butt-ass naked all over the internet. GET A LIFE )$@“)$$)*!)^%`!* es!!!

  240. reddhair says:

    I think Ray is a ho, and you could do much better Mrs Berry.

  241. kathy says:

    I LOVE MZ BERRY! She’s a bad *!&#&_!@**$+@*^_` got her (*&$_&^!#&“%)^( together… ugly %%@!%#$)*+@++!( platnium and the rest of em ugly strippers need to stop haiting! I hope u and ray j do last! U deserve it!

  242. melanie tapp says:

    So you they together or not? I think that miss berry was the are choice I like her from day one and i hope that everything with them is wotking. she kept it real and was the biggest person of them all and if anybody act there age it was her I am almost 25 and my husband is almost 31 so there is no problem with her age

  243. drama says:

    vh1 should never let that dum ugly girl back on the show how dare her to interupt ms berry moment and no one did interrupt her so unfair

  244. Blondy says:

    I personally dont think mz berry is too old for Ray. They’re only 4 yrs apart. If he was the one who was 4yrs older, would ppl think he was too old? Ill answer that NO.I think they look great together, and although he’s the one with the fame, he should appreciate what he has.

  245. Sheriff says:

    I was very disappointed in the reunion show! I know that Ray J. has more class than that after all u do have a mother, sister, and a niece that I know u would not want a man to treat them in the way u treated Mz Berry on the reunion show. I felt you disrespected her along with Jaguar and the other little girls. Because that’s what they are and Mz Berry was truly into u and if you wanted Jaguar you should have let Mz. Berry know that in private not in front of the whole Damn world. Like I said u do have a mother, sister, and niece and maybe one day a daughter! Mz. Berry deserves an apology from you on national TV. Sooooooo sad at the way things turn out. I know its just TV but damn come on now let’s keep it 100 for the real love of Mz. Berry!

  246. tati says:

    call me crazy but he is not in love with Mz. Berry you can when he chose who he was going to be with.. Platnum was easy to be with.. easy to talk to.. kind fun to be around she connects to he is right now.. Mz. Berry connects to who he wants to be the perfect husband boyfriend ok hello news flash we can all improve our selves but thats it we can’t change completely and its very oviouse that ray is and is always going to be a lady’s man like *#^^`@)`**%+#$`* tail said he is no one lady’s man his actions on the reunion from the first season the second season have proven that a man who is ready to settle down does not flirt with other girls does not say “i think I made a mistake” ladies come on I think our mothers have taught us to have a little love for our selves and not be second plate in a man’s life.. Mz. Berry honestly I think you can do much better ray not only is younger than you by age but metally speaking he compared to you is a child who does not know what he wants and you deserve much more than that.. my suggestion is that you break up with him because to be completely honest with him you are not going to be the only girl in his life.. but as my mother would say second plate.. and thats no life for a girl who wants something serious..

  247. Celishia Rose says:

    OmG! IM REALLY HAPPY HE PICKED U. ONE COULD SEE THAT YOU ARE THERE FOR REAL LOVE. IM PRAYING THAT YOU GUYS MAKE IT TOGETHER; YOU GUYS SHOULD REMEMBER THAT YOU CANNOT LOOK ON SOMEONE AND, SEE THAT THEY HAVE A DISEASE SO IF U N RAY ARE TRULY IN LOVE… JUST PRAY N LET GOD DO THE REST. PEACE OUT. IM FROM JAMAICA.

  248. FrauWOW says:

    The reunion show was a hot moving mess. Ray is off the chain. This makes no since. First let me start by saying shout out to Mz Berry for keeping it classy and not ##!*!@^^`~@#%^+ y. She really held it together in spite of the fact that she is dealing with an idot. All of them are young and dumb including Ray to the J. Mz Berry is to much of a woman for him and he needs to stop this crap for the Love of Ray J he is just doing all of this to expand his going no where career. He at this point can’t sing me a dog food commercial ad. Mz Berry on the other hand just made her debut and VH1 should totally give her a show. For the love of Mz Berry but please screen these people. They must be of standard because all these shows just put anybody on here. Mz Berry do the dang thang girl!

  249. Tam says:

    I think MZ Berry is cool but way over the top emotional, I think she needs to re think her having a relationship with Ray specially since there is still all this stuff she didn’t see at the reunion she didn’t even know Jaguar and Ray kissed or see how she and him felt about each other. I thought they were going to hook up right then and there. ~@~&@!%_($*#)$+# tail is bisexual she ain’t deny what ray said about the girl she was hookin up with. Ray ain’t ready to settle and knows nothing about a real women. Grow up Ray quit screwing with these women you watched thin line between love and hate HAHAHA.

  250. Blessed says:

    Mz Berry I was voting for you the whole time. I believe God placed you there to turn Ray J around…meaning to mature him. You can only go so far living the way he does and seeing the women he does. I really like Ray J I have been watching him for sometime, and my heart goes out for you both. Yes, there is a time that change must come about and Ray J must know, he needs to become a better man, or he wouldn’t have picked you. He knew you could help him to change. But he has to be real with himself, not even you can make him change.

    You are both in my prayers, and my sister (Mz Berry) stay strong no matter what you are truly a woman, young women can look up too, and you did stand out from the rest that was on the show!
    God Bless

  251. denise says:

    Ray J just got exploded on his sneaky underdog situations. He’s still young and not ready to settle down with no woman. Ms. berry is too elegant for him, look how he acted on the reunion show. It really brought out how ray-j act, instead of admitting to doing mischevious things, while not talking to Ms. berry. I know his mother was very upset!

  252. Dj OnPoint says:

    LOOK: WHAT THIS PERSON…drama Says: vh1 should never let that (dumb) ugly girl back on the show how dare her to (interrupt) ms berry moment and no one did interrupt her so unfair.

    (8) REASONS WHY THIS IS SO PREDICTABLE

    1. VH1 RAY-J BLOG.THIS HAS TO BE THE STUPIDEST PERSON I HAVE EVER SEEN TYPE..PERIOD

    2. RAY-J IS A HOE. TIGER WOODS LIL BROTHER.

    3. RAY-J TRIED TO GET OUT SOME (@@`(`$&&(_#^$&& HE FELL IN.

    4. LOOK AT RAY-J’S FRIEND THEY ARE A REPRESENTATION OF YOUR PERSONALITY.

    5. RAY-J WANTED MISS BERRY BECAUSE HE HAS A KIDS LIKE HE DOES DUH!

    6. COME ON RAY-J A CAPRICORN HE NEED A HOE TYPE GIRL LIKE A SCORPIO THAT HE CAN SWEAT.

    7. RAY-J WAS FLIP FLOPPING. ONE SECOND HE’S A MAN THEN THE NEXT HE’S A FEMALE.

    8. LAST BUT NOT LESS. BRANDY I’LL FEEL SAID TO HAVE A LIL BROTHER THAT PAY FEMALE TO KEEP THERE MOUTH SHUT.

  253. Nicey says:

    well i honestly think mz berry you can try to change him but if you think about why would that girl `$!~^)^@*&%)^)@# tail go on stage starting. make sense he a player so deal with that ~`~~%_`%+*@(#$$# try to change ya damn man and if he dont change it others out there r jay your not the ~`~~%_`%+*@(#$$# sweets and you cant sing boh.and dont get mad at `$!~^)^@*&%)^)@# tail cause she telling the truth grow up and get one girl and you proved ya self a player by kissing that girl knowing you go with mz berry

  254. DeeDee says:

    I was very disappointed in the reunion show. I thought Ray J was better than that. I don’t even want to see Ray season 3… I’m done…. but I agree with the comment above… I would definitely watch for the love of Mz. Berry… go girl !

  255. Jess says:

    Mz. Berry kept it classy and even after knowing how much of a b#tch Ray boy is checked on him anyway.We all know why Ray Jerk stayed in contact with the other girls….because they gave him head in the bathroom and he admitted to sleeping with the wolf pack and Caliente, and still “smashing” ^^)`_`()~!+@)(+^ tail and the extra girls she brings on the bus for them both to play with. Mz Berry by the way had already peeped his whack game months ago that’s why SHE DIDN’T CONTACT HIM FOR 5 MONTHS. She has been busy hosting children charities and parties and taking care of her children, and the fine MEN are lined up. GO GIRL!!and for the haters who hate on Mz Berry stop being jealous of a 32 year old woman that has the looks and body of a 21 year old and whom is classy and not trashy like your dear old wolf pack whom by the way although they are younger than her look older than her….TEAM MZ BERRY…Hell I’m on any woman’s team that has been done wrong..Demand respect ladies because a man can only do what you allow him to…and to all the men I love yall…the real MEN that is…fellas demand respect also and leave these trash boxes alone…you know what they say…if you play with fire you might get burnt…and fellas you know you don’t want to get burnt now do ya

  256. chocolate kisses says:

    I loved the show and am happy he chose mz berry cuz that the girl i wanted for him.I wish i was on that show cuz am madly in love with ray J.the show will go on until he pick me lol

  257. QueenBee says:

    I feel that, not hatin on rayj…cause he fine, but dude aint tryin to settle down. i think he just tryin to see who better in bed.

  258. Tonya says:

    I hope MZ Berry will see this.From one grown 32 year old woman to another, as far as Ray J is concerned, RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are too intellengent sophisticated and classy for for that HOOD RAT BOY.(Remember even if you put a gold ring in the snout of a pig its still a PIG!!) You are worthy of a mature man who can handle a loving commited relationship!

  259. Andrys says:

    Im sooo MAD aat the fact on how the reunion ended up and Mz Berry you looked wonderful aand Ray J you are I cnt even say but it was disrespectful on how you kissed Jaguar and let the whole world know you still thought about her and still til the reunion knowing you did not contact with Mz Berry within 5 months Im soo disapointed in you and I actually believed the bull crap on how you wanted to settle down but It looks like you dnt and the way you handled it at the reunion was more of a child soo dumb im hoping you dnt break Mz Berry’s heaart becuz she is a good woman and can do you good.. your 28 or 29 not 21 sooo GROW UP! WE ARE ALL UPSET AND WANT ANSWERS ON WHAT HAPPENS NEXT! PLEASE!

  260. Lakendra says:

    Hi ms. Berry im one of ur biggest fans how did it feel being around alot of (kids)? as u would say grown women.

  261. bebe says:

    ray j is lame and wrong. I have lost respect hundred percent for him… and vh1 love shows too. they r all a joke… have fun in hell ray j u deserve it

  262. "O" says:

    Is It just me or does @@@_(~!*$)&_#@“ tail and Heartbreaker look alike ? Wow , they could actually pass as biological sisters. on another note, I’m soooo proud of Mz.Berry. she really is a 1st class act. This women kept it together from day one and she really showed the other girls how to act like Grown +`@~%&()+(^`^+& women even during the reunion, she thinks things out B4 speaking which gives all her gestures substance,not Fluff ! even when all hell jumped off, she still kept her demeanor. Now that’s Hot! Although i must say, i’m a lil disapointed that Ray hasn’t even called or text her in over 5 months. Guess i cant hate on that cause i dont know all the facts yet. but if Ray is truly keepin it “one hundit” and wants a mature and real women it can only come down to two women from season 2, that would be Mz,Berry or Jaguar. Im surprised the 2 of them didnt connect on the house ,True game recogizes true game !!!

  263. Roxana says:

    For the love of Mz. Berry. Ray J, you just lost another fan. What you did with Jaguar was super disrespectful and i cant believe you focused on everyone else, except the beautiful woman you had to your right.

    One warm hello and then on to chewing the other woman. Not an adequate greeting for sonmeone who has not seen his girl in months.

    Embarrassed for your family, hoping that Mz Berry picks herself back up and finds real love.

  264. PATRICIASTEVENSON says:

    I THINK RAYJ SHOULD TREAT WOMAN WITH RESPECT AND MZ BERRY IS A BEAUITFUL WOMAN HOW COULD HE NOT EVEN CALL HER HE STUPID

  265. PAT says:

    RAYJ IS STUPID

  266. Louise says:

    My theory about RayJ is that he does not really want a good girl. He has good girls (his mom and sister) in his life and would like to appease them by choosing a good girl, but is this really in his heart. I don’t believe that Ms. Berry is right for him. Jaguar seemed more suited for him, but the good girl in her, did not allow herself to behave inappropriately on TV. RayJ could not appreciate this. Jaguar seemed like a perfect girl for Ray J to grow with and settle down. Ms. Berry is a lovely lady, inside and out, and deserves a more mature man. VH1, please offer Ms. Berry a show with mature, intelligent men vying for her. I certainly would watch.

  267. princesss says:

    Uhm I think Ray-J is full of b.s. he pretends he was mad cuz `#)(&&~!+!&$&@_$ tail put him on blast @ the reunion thats why he walked off stage he kno he isnt about the right stuff he still wants to be a pimp…hahaha there will be more For the love of Ray J’s coming sooon!lol.

  268. Kishawna says:

    i dnt feel &$(++`@~(*#@`*%) tail was not the wrong..!@#$%^& lol
    she was just telling….><Mz. Berry what it was as a women a REAL ONE… SOO00O0O0O0 who ever think she was peddy i dnt ….she keepin it 100%

  269. Princess Shay1 says:

    Mz.Berry I admire you dearly and i love the class that you have. And just watching the show, seeing what a sweet and conservative woman you are, makes me admire you more. I look to you as a positive role model and i think Ray made the right choice. If he messes up on you. then it’ll be his loss.

  270. Dacia says:

    Is there going to be a Ray J. Reunion 2 show? I think that Mz Berry got the short end of the stick when we didn’t even get the chance to hear where the relationship was going. I think that Ray picked the right one for him. Mz Berry appears to be a WOMEN that would be down for her man and would bring something to the relationship instead of trying to gain fame and T.V. time

  271. Ck says:

    Did anyone see the same reunion show i saw this was crap yes i agree they should have had more control of the reunion show but ms.Berry was the only classy woman on the show the rest of these were little girls wanting attention ms. Berry i thank you for showing the world what a real woman does you are BEAUTIFUL!!! now as for Ray J he does not seem to be looking for anything that is serious ms.Berry you are to much of a women to be waiting for 5 months to see anybody yes the guy may be busy but who doesnt fly there woman to places there at

  272. KELA says:

    FROM DAY ONE I HAVE BEEN ON UR SIDE U ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AND HAVE A GREAT HEART! THE REUNION CUT OFF AND I DID NOT GET TO SEE IF U AND RAY ARE STIIL TOGETHER I HOPE AND PRAY U ARE..BECAUSE U DESERVE NOTHING BUT THE BEST!! YOUR MY ROLE MODLE AND I HOPE U HAVE GREAT SUCCESS IN LIFE AND IN LOVE…AND U ONLY DESERVE THE BEST!!!!! LOVE YA GIRL!!

  273. brittany smith says:

    is u and ray j still together or wat

  274. Stasia says:

    I really enjoyed watching the show, but since seeing the reunion, it gave me a whole different perspective. After seeing how things got heated b/t &~)#@)$+$~&_$*!` tail and Ray J…..I lost all respect. And, to see he still had feelings for another while choosing someone else…thats a bunch of crap. These shows have gone too far and they play with people’s emotion and give nothing but air time of fame…..for awhile. These are just becoming too old..nothing but a bunch of high school head games and set up for heart break in the end.

  275. Teresa Edwards says:

    I AM REALLY HAPPY THAT YOU WON MS. BERRY I DON’T THINK THE OTHER WOMAN WERE WHAT RAY J NEEDED IN HIS LIFE I THINK THE RIGHT WOMAN IS YOU EVERYBODY NEEDS THAT EXTRA GUIDANCE NOT SAYING HE NEED IT ARE ANYTHING JUST SAYING HE NEED THAT STRONG BLACK SEXY GROWN AND VERY CONFIDENT PERSON IN HIS LIFE TO HELP HIM SEE THE GROUPES JUST WANT HIS MONEY AND YOU WANT LOVE SO PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU. DALLAS TEXAS
    REPRESENTING TO THE FULLEST MAY GOD BLESS YOU!

  276. Dee says:

    I’m almost ashamed to say that I was hooked on this show/foolishness (I’m in my 30s as well). I thought that Jaguar and Mz. Berry were the classiest but in the back of my mind I kept saying, “Ray J ain’t tryin to find love, this is all a publicity stunt”. I was concerned for any woman who believed that they could find true love on a reality show but like I said, Jaguar and Mz. Berry were my favorites and I was hooked (for some odd reason) to this show. I had mixed feelings when Jaguar was booted off and even more confusion when he picked Mz. Berry. Bottom line, I was not at all surprised by the reunion show. Ray J is a young, wealthy, black man with fame. A target for women all over the globe. There’s no way he’s ready to give that up right now; you can tell by the caliber of women selected for his shows. When you can only pick two classy women, you know he’s searching for the wrong thing. Guarantee, if there’s a, For The Love of Ray J 3, I will not be watching it. I might consider a, For the Love of Mz. Berry, however.

  277. Raven says:

    Was the reunion that bad? Damn i gotta watch this. and congrats to mz berry.

  278. Mz Berry fan says:

    Mz Berry is a very beautiful and classy lady, reminds me of someone else we all know:). I thought Ray was serious until the reunion show. Mz Berry deserves better, though Ray is not a bad guy, he is just not ready and with all those women coming at him i’m sure it’s tough. Expect a Ray J3 though becasue of how this ended it will lost some luster because if Ray was serious, the right woman is right in front of him.

  279. joewell says:

    The show is Ridiculous, the dude just wants to sleep with girls, he is not real when says wants to find a girl that he can be with.haha

  280. bbintexas says:

    I was a big fan of Ray J and his shows. I loved the fact that he chose (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail on the first show. She was very genuine and true to herself. Her family values were real. When i found out he was doing a second ? show i was puzzled. So, i just decided to follow his show again. After, i saw the second reunion with (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail I was floored with the fact that he had not put closure to his past relations! Not just (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail , but every girl he encountered in his second show. I felt extremely sadden by the all the girls that got caught in his web of lies, not to mention his horrible foul mouth and disrespect to (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail by calling her ugly names. That sealed it for me, to stop supporting this guy. It was obvious that she was still in love with him and talk about disrespecting her. I know now that i will NEVER,EVER watch ANYTHING that has his name )@@~`@(`$*_+!!` ociated. I will not support his UGLY,UGLY behavior towards women. I know plenty of women supported (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail for exposing his real intentions towards women who are being decieved by his horrible intents. I also heard his mom telling (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail at the end of the show “you need to just leave”. MOM, YOU need to educate your CHILD on how to treat women, and not use them for his own selfishness, because Apples do not fall to far from the tree. Is that how his dad treated you! Thanks again (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail for exposing a !@#%*, Much love from TEXAS. Mz. Berry you were playing him during the 5 months apart, well, he was playing you the next day after the show.It was obvious he didnt have feelings for you. Leave it alone, before you are next to get used and disrespected by him, did you not see what his family said about you. Brandys facial expression alone when she mentioned your child. Run girl while you still can. (!)!+%))#)~$!*)* tail the Lovely Latinas in Texas love you for being just you – true to yourself, girl! Much love.

  281. jamecia says:

    MZ. BERRY, I LOVE YOUR CHARACTER, U HAVE A UNIQUE WAY ABOUT U….RAY J, YOU’RE A VERY NICE PERSON BUT U DID MZ. BERRY GRIMEY, SHE SHOULDNT HAVE BEEN PUT THROUGH THAT TYPE OF EMBARRASSMENT, MZ. BERRY IS A LADY, A WOMAN, NOT A GIRL OR A CHILD, LIKE THE REST OF THE FEMALES ON YOUR SHOW, LOVE COMES FROM EVERYWHERE, EVEN TV SHOWS, MZ. BERRY JUST HAPPENED 2 FALL FOR THE WRONG 1….MZ. BERRY I WISH U WELL AND GOOD LUCK IN FINDING A GOOD MAN WHO APPRECIATES THE TYPE OF WOMAN U ARE BECAUSE YOU’RE NOT GONNA FIND THAT IN RAY J

  282. sexyblack says:

    so is msberry still with me ray beacuse she say tha se was n love with him r was she playi with him beacuse i think tha he rally like msberry u should be happy tha u win n i think u should tel ur kids bt i feel like ur interview u is nt the poeple tha u was on the show bt msberry if u was n love with him u need to show him n let never boby knw beacuse i would if i was u msberry.

  283. TONYA says:

    IT IS A SAD THING THAT TV SHOWS HAVE TO STOOP SO LOW FOR RATINGS-THE GIRL FROM LAST SESSION SHOULD HAVE NOT BEEN THERE. I BLAME VH1 FOR THAT MESS.

  284. Ki-Ki says:

    It’s okay, I really don’t think you need him. Me personally, I think that hes just not ready for antbody yet….

  285. sandra says:

    i wish u luck and may god be with u and your famliy

  286. JR says:

    Actually, after watching the reunion show, I will never watch another Ray J sho again. He screwed his rep up with me. He completely disregarded Ms. Berry and entertained @#*`())_%%__+`_+ tail’s ingnorance. To me, that was a sign of guilt. Anytime a man runs away like Ray J did, he’s guilty. To continue arguing backstage with her like they were married was even more disrespectful. Then, he told one girl on stage, “we gone talk”…Are you kidding me? Ray, you sold out dude. How can you perpetrate like you looking for love, love is in your face, you deny it, and then play games. Keep it 100 homey. I can’t watch your show anymore dog.

  287. Naima says:

    Miss berry how is everything what is happening now that you and ray finally seen eachother and please tell me that the reunion did not put a hole on things between you and him

  288. lora says:

    MZ BERRY DOESNT NOT NEED RAYJ SHE TOTALLY DESERVES BETTER. HE HIMSELF IS NOT FULLY A MAN HE ACTS IMMMATURE AND HE DOESNT MEASURE UP TO MZ BERRY LEVEL

  289. loletha says:

    I think coctail shut the show down. I think Ray j punked out when he walked off the show. he surely not ready for real relationship…

  290. TIKKA says:

    i DON’T NO I’M PUSHING FOR YOU AND RAYJ BUT SOMETHING TELL ME THIS IS NOT GOING TO WORK FOR YOU MS.BERRY BUT WHO KNOW.

  291. ck says:

    Mz Berry I am an older woman, much older than you. I have to say that when the women on the show kept calling you old and making snide remarks about your age – you had to be under 23 to take them serious. I viewed it as jealousy, wishing they had your beauty, poise and maturity. Thanks for representing the correct way during the show. During the reunion show, i was a bit surprised to hear that RJ didn’t carry through with you as I expected. What was the purpose of the show then? Anyway, I wish you the best.

  292. Clarissa says:

    I applaud Ms. Berry througout the drama & the foolishness. She is mature, classy & resonated that through the entire show. Ray J. doesn’t deserve a woman like her. It is so obvious he is not ready for a meaningful relationship (what intelligent grown man says “smash the homie”? What independent grown man need approval from his mother, father, sister & friends? I had a serious problem whith Ray’s mother. She try to portray as if her son is a “quality” man & no woman is good enough for him (We all saw that was further from the truth). I also had a problem with his sister Brandy. She had a problem with Ms. Berry having children. What is she trying to imply? Single mothers don’t deserve another chance @ love? Is it me, she is a single parent herself? You would think she of all people would be less judgmental since it wasn’t that long ago she almost rotted in jail for killig someone. WHAT NERVE!

  293. KIA says:

    that relatiship won’t last long

  294. tip little says:

    you are a nice lady and i think you need to leave that no good #!+_+~%%!+#@%&*@& and a good man will come soon for you. when i say no good it mean RJAY

  295. blancablac says:

    I wuld lik 2 no wut happen after the reuion show???

  296. Pat says:

    Hello Mz Berry,

    You did you just right… you are a very sexy, classy &
    sophisticated young lady that has much respect for herself. I believe in my heart that you are Ray J’s future, you are the one that can help him to change his ways. I like the way you carry yourself in the house inspite off all the drama with the other girls, you did not allow it to stop you from doing you… Follow yout heart and remember to always put God first in all that you do and He will direct your path (Proverbs 3:5-6).

    P.S. I am dying to know what happen after the reunion? Because I believe that “what God has for you it is for you, and know devil in hell can stop that “.

    God Bless you,
    Love, Ms. Pat

  297. APRIL says:

    I THINK RAY IS NOT A ONE WOMEN MAN AND SHE CAN DO BETTER THEN THAT HE IS PLAYING ALL THOSE GIRLS AND HIS SELF

  298. Joshua Arnold says:

    Mz. Berry you need your on show. I would love to see that one. I will will sing up for that.

  299. Amanda says:

    Ms.Berry & RayJ let me tell use one thing im a 42 year old woman and since the age of having my first child at the age of eighteen had my first seroius operation then it just kept going ive had 16 surgerys but not only that ive was in colma 1time &yhen after ive been close 2 death 4 times i have 3 kids i gave birth 2 is been 2 year that my mom & sister past away back to back 1 in jan the other in feb but i give thank 2 GOd 7 Jesue Crist 4 one beautiful baby boy that my newphew gave birth 2 cause they gave him 2 me when he was 4 months and he was very sick he has a Gard 3 infection which i brought down 2 a Gard 2 ok now my reason 4 all this is that life is very perious and Ray ive seen u since young & from all the girls u made the right choice _#*@%`!+_^&$#(_+ corn fed she is just jeallous & if u ever need advise dnt hesistate 2 get in contact cause what ive told u is just the starting.

  300. Nature_Island_Princess says:

    Mz Berry, 33 is not old the one thing I admired most about you on the show is the fact that you are a Lady these girls who were on the show were only there for fame………..you are classy, pretty and you have a good head on your shoulder and that is what they are jealous of. Good Luck and all the best. I hope Ray is a sensible young man.

  301. Quiana says:

    I think ray j pick the right one she pretty the other girl didnt no what she want i think ray no who he wanted and that was mizz berry

  302. suzanne trickler says:

    Ray J is the worse actor i’ve ever had the displeasure of watching and for him to make all these young ladies think he was looking for love was a real joke! I hope he doesnt make a for the love of ray j 3 because the 2nd was hard enough to watch! pitiful!!!

  303. kelseyakamae says:

    mz berry is hellof a cool i am really happy that she won ray jay heart she is the right woman not girl for him ray jay needs somebody like her tobe with i love u ray jay o stay in starkville mississippi

  304. Alo1000 says:

    We the Fan want to Know Is Are You still Together.

  305. betsy baber says:

    I dont care what anybody says, you are a classy lady and ray j needed somebody eaxactly like you to keep his feet on the ground, you are a very pretty lady and you carry yourself as one and he should be proud to have you on his arm, and if people think your old oh well, sorry about there luck , right? Im just happy he picked you and not the other, Im sooo happy for you!!! Good luck, and remember you won!

  306. JENNY says:

    HEY RAYJ, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? WHERE IS THE CLASS, THE MANNER? ARE YOU KIDING ME? I AM NOT SURE THAT YOU ARE READY FOR TRUE LOVE. I AM 48, I SUPPORTED AND WATCHED YOUR SHOW BUT IT SEEMS LIKE SOMETIMES MONEY MAKES YOU FEEL LIKE ON THE TOP OF THE WORLD, THEN YOU DON’T CARE ABOUT HURTING PEOPLE WHO SINCERELY LOVE YOU AND THOSE AROUND YOU.
    IF TRULY YOU HAVE WISDOM AND EYES WIDE OPEN TO SEE WHAT YOU ARE ABOUT TO MISS, THE BEST CHOICE IS MZ BERRY, SO HUMBLE, SO CLASSY, SO SOPHISCATED AT THE SAME TIME. RAYJ, WAKE UP AND GROW UP PLEASE.

    I LOVE YOU MZ BERRY AND GOD BLESS YOU.

  307. milla82 says:

    I think that Mz. Berry is way too clingy and annoying. No way you fall in love with someone that fast. I understand if your falling for them, but not fall completely in love. I will say that she is very classy, beautiful, and a mature woman, but in my opinion she went on the wrong show. Ray J needs someone young and not fully mature yet, because he’s not fully mature yet. Ray and Mz Berry are at two different steps in their lives, and I just think Mz Berry would get in the way. He ends up breaking it off with her anyway after the reunion. Maybe she should go on The Bachelor or something. But she is far too clingy to be dating a r&b star.

  308. brit18 says:

    Ray jay doesnt know what he wants.. he’s not ready to stick with one person. I think it was crappy he did that show and all he could say was keep it 100 and he couldnt even do that.. he wasnt even true to himself so how is he goin 2 be true 2 some1 else. Another thing i didnt like was ray j couldn’t even just tell her the truth that he didnt want to be with her and then when he went out on stage he acted like it was all good and the whole time he was behind stage he was like im telling her… I think he was being a chicken…he had to hint around the bush about it… then when miss berry told him he needed to figure out what he wanted he acted like what i know what i want and acted like he didnt know what she was talkin about.. knowin she not stupid it just really rub me the wrong way he needs to grow up and be a man.. stop letting his mom fight his battles I really liked the show until he did all that.. But everbody makes mistakes he will grow up 1 day.. but mrs. berry you go girl u handle ur self real good.. u have this glow about u.. don’t let him r any1 else bring u down ur very smart and pretty. god puts us in people life 4 a reason even if it to help them over come something their many different reason i really believe that everythings happens 4 a reason..

  309. Lucy says:

    idk if dey broke up congrats

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