Return Of The Smash: Behind The Scenes At The For The Love Of Ray J 2 Reunion

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Gratitude is not an emotion you come across very often on reality-show sets (at least, not in my limited experience), but there was a pervasive air of appreciation last week on the set of the For the Love of Ray J 2 reunion. Backstage of the studio in Glendale where it was shot, the women who made up most of the show’s cast repeatedly told me how thankful they were to get to clear things up for the viewing audience. Editing has a way of begging explanation, as pretty much the entire existence of my job can attest.

I, too, was grateful for the opportunity to be there – there hasn’t been a VH1 reunion taping since last May, and I rarely feel more in my element then when surrounded by a group of women who’ve been on reality TV. Where else can you go to see so many clothed women in the same place projecting an attitude and fashion sense that reads, “F*** a stigma; I’m wearing lucite.”

For me, this reunion was like a welcome return to simpler times. I wouldn’t go as far as saying it was a return to the womb, but maybe the cradle. It’s a magical cradle wherein you sleep with one eye open, and the sounds of smack talk and sucking teeth are like lullabies. Come, let’s get infantile…

Overt modesty is also something that you don’t experience too much of in the reality world, and yet, that was present, too: this reunion was scaled down with roughly half the contestants (11 of the 19 women who showed up for the first episode were invited to this last one), and a half-size audience watching a stage that’s stage about half as large as normal. The reason for this was timing, basically – the reunion had been put together at the last minute and after multiple queries, this was the only stage that could accommodate the production on such short notice. One of the Bachelor reunions, though, was shot in this space, so it’s broken in as a place where people revisit the relationships that they had (and didn’t) on TV.

I liked how intimate the scaled-down made things while the cameras were rolling, but even before that, I enjoyed the change of scenery. Most of the girls’ dressing rooms were trailers outside of the studio, which gave things a raw, Hollywood feel. One of the first things I saw upon arriving to set that morning was Exotica walk by wearing a tutu that had only her hair as competition in bushiness. As she shuffled from the makeup trailer to her dressing room, she spit out her gum, producing an arc visible from about 50 feet away.

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There was something wonderfully harmonious about that imagery.

I started my rounds of pre-game chatter in that makeup trailer where Flossy and Extra were getting their faces put on.

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Flossy told me that Ray was the only person she was excited to see. I wondered if she had any anxiety returning to a congregation, in which she’d been a pariah, but she said that she didn’t. She’s pretty easy going, and she’s even since made amends with the woman who poured the most amount of alcohol on her (in the season’s biggest blow-up), Heartbreaker. “We partied in Miami together, so it’s whatever. We’ll see how today is. I know everyone’s going to have their game face on,” she told me. I complimented her on her hair, which I think is a very flattering look for her. She told me it’s the product of her wanting a new look for the new year. I told her that starting her head was a good use of her brain.

As if out to provide a palpable contrast with Flossy, I could feel the tension hovering over Extra, even with her back to me (that’s just how she was positioned as she was getting her makeup done when I entered — it wasn’t personal…I think). She wore her headphones the entire time I talked to Flossy, and I felt like I was interrupting her when I asked her to answer some questions. I didn’t necessarily feel bad about interrupting, just intrusive. It’ a job hazard, I guess. She finally turned around…

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…and told me that she felt “great.” When I interviewed her earlier this season, we talked at length about the difference between Extra and Sharmisa, so I asked her which had shown up today. (“That’s a great question!” Flossy chortled.) “I feel like I’m bringing both, it just depends on what’s said and how it’s said,” she said. It wasn’t long before it emerged that she was referring to the “effin’ Wolf Pack” specifically: “They are dumb. They try to play like they gang up on everybody, and then they get kicked off the show, being in love with ex-boyfriends, smashing homies and just being a bitch. Somebody should, and if not I will, put them in their place.”

Here Flossy chimed in: “The thing is the Wolf Pack didn’t run anything. No one entertained them or cared. No one laughed when they called people reindeers [sic]. No one cared. They made it seem like they controlled things, but we’re just all grown and mature and we weren’t entertaining that.”

The Wolf Pack was all Extra needed to get on a discursive roll: “Truth be told, Heartbreaker thinks she’s just the most intimidating thing ever, little skinny ass. I really didn’t unleash everything I could have unleashed. Let it go to that point today. If you get in my face or confront me about something the wrong way, instead of just asking me a question, I’m gonna jump in defense mode, and my defensive mode is kicking your ass, whether it be verbally or physically, although I ain’t gonna touch you unless you touch me. Heartbreaker just thinks she is just it. She thinks she’s H.B.I.C., and she’s not. I am.” So it’s not so much hubris that makes Heartbreaker’s self-appointed H.B.I.C. status foolhardy, it’s just straight up factual incorrectness. Got it?

The next trailer was Exotica and Jaguar’s.

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After I introduced myself, Exotica immediately took me to task for an inaccuracy in the interview with her that I ran. “I said I speak Portuguese, you put French,” she told me, and I immediately felt really bad that I 1) patently misquoted her and 2) didn’t know more about Cape Verde to realize I’d screwed up. However, I went back to the interview after the reunion and, uh, she said, “French,” very clearly in that first interview (have yourself a listen), so who’s zoomin’ who? I guess sometimes it’s hard to remember what language you spoke for the first 15 or so years of your life. Whatever. Exotica’s funny, though: while Jaguar said she was very excited to see Ray, Exotica gave me a sarcastic, “Oh…yeah…” when I asked. Like everyone, though, she was happy to clear the air: “They didn’t show me kissing Ray, and I actually did. They didn’t show me talking to Heartbreaker, showing how she’s so nasty, she’s a hoe, she’s a slut, and everything. So today I’m going to make sure to put it out there how she’s so ugly and wear makeup 24/7 even to take a shower with makeup on.”

Jaguar added her two cents about Heartbreaker: “Heartbreaker in the house, we did not like each other…I thought she was just fake. You could tell she was working for the camera. She was just loud for no reason.” As much as I respect everyone’s opinion, it was at this point I started to wonder exactly what people would be talking about if there were no Heartbreaker. Seems to me that at the very least, she deserves some kind of respect for keeping everyone so occupied.

Besides, without her, we wouldn’t have this gem of inight from Exotica: “You know Heartbreaker was in the bathtub and she was saying, ‘Oh, you know, Ray’s not packing, it’s not working, so…” She pledged to ask onstage, “So what’s the deal? How big is it Ray?” I told her she could find that information on the Internet. In fact, I would have done so before even signing up for the show. Research is the responsible thing to do!

Before I took this picture of Jaguar…

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…she told me that she needed to tuck her fat in. I think she should invest in an eye exam, instead. Silly girl!

Then, it was time to experience Caliente, Lava and Popper:

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Here, the object of scorn wasn’t Heartbreaker, but Extra. Caliente had told me that Extra had mocked her English (and, I’m assuming, not on the ha-ha-ESL-is-so-endearing way that’s appropriate but all mean-like). “Extra looks like she’s about to jump everybody. She just put her little iPod in to ignore everybody…If you want to know who’s really crazy, talk to Extra,” said Popper, also referencing Lava’s reputation for being one machete short of a horror flick. “I show no sign of crazy!” said Lava. “Are you serious? We just gotta love editing. That is just my buddy there. For real, editing is my best friend. There’s no bad publicity.”

That publicity, Lava told me, has made her “internationally memorable,” and caught the attention of Sean Paul’s manager, who flew her to Jamaica to host the Pajamarama Masquerade Party, where she met her boyfriend, sprinter Usain Bolt. So that all worked out for her. What didn’t: a thinking-out-loud plan that would have found her placing a “diarrhea pill” in Extra’s soda. The only problem? Lava didn’t have any diarrhea pills. Maybe next time!

Lava also told me that her new ‘do is not new at all: her hair has always been this short, she just rocked extensions on the show. I thought she looked great enough to shut down any argument as to whether less is more, once and for all. Because indeed it is:

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My favorite part of this particular visit was when Ray J’s track with New Boyz, “Tie Me Down,” came on the radio they were playing in the trailer. “Uh, oh, here’s your boy!” said Lava. “No, your boys!” said Caliente, maybe not quite getting what Lava was referring to. “I change my radio station when he comes on!” replied Lava, just in case you were wondering if she’s carrying a flame.

Next up?

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I’m devoting my interview with all three of them to a separate post, because the overlapping crap-talk that went down must be experienced in its entirety to be appreciated, and it’d be too long to print here. But just as a teaser, keep in mind that while Heartbreaker did most of the steering, Platinum chimed in regularly and Luscious was mostly occupied by the 50 or so pictures she took of herself during my 15-minute chat with them.

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Also, here’s something Platinum had to say about Mz Berry: “We were all downstairs being crazy psychos and Caliente comes down and says, ‘While you were arguing, I just had to pull Ray out of the bathroom because Mz Berry was trying to lock him in the bathroom with her. I walked in and said no!’ So, while we were being crazy, she was taking advantage of the situation! Mz Berry is not nearly as classy as she likes to come off. I’m supposed to be the most ghetto bitch in the house, but you never heard me talking about how I wanted to sit on his face.”

So yeah, the girls, they were on that day.

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As I was leaving, I explained that I’d see them again, since I’d be around the whole day taking pictures of people. “Take pictures of us!” called Luscious. “Just us, we’re the best ones, anyways,” agreed Plat. “No one wants to look at the other girls!” concluded Luscious. They reminded me of the Blondourage with fangs in the place of peroxide.

Finally, my last stop was Mz Berry’s dressing room, which was inside the building, way apart from the other girls.

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Here’s what happened: I got in, asked Berry how she felt to be there and immediately, her eyes welled up with tears. She cried silently for so long (about a minute and a half) that I wondered at first if she’d heard me and then I wondered if I could have said anything that would have provoked a more tempered response. I’m not sure that I could have. She did lighten the mood a little when she admitted, “This is the beginning of the month, I shouldn’t be this emotional.”

I really like Connie — I think that much like Rock of Love Bus‘ Taya, she gets a bum rap that has more to do with her strengths as a love competitor, if you will, then the content of her character. That said, she did stick out as the only person on set who wasn’t excited about the opportunity to play out reality in front of cameras once again: “I just would rather not have to do this. If Ray and I are going to work on whatever then we do, and if not, then we just drift apart. That’s it. Just leave it alone, instead of having to relive the whole situation again.”

I wondered if the fact that she’d be reliving it in front of an audience of her “peers” and others had anything to do with her anxiety. “It’s just different. Whatever’s gonna happen with us is gonna happen. I don’t know. I know we put this out there for the public to see, but just to go through this is hard. It’s hard to let everybody into something so personal. For me, it’s not a TV show. It’s not a game. It never has been.” At this point she was crying again, and I was seriously worried about her makeup. I asked if she regretted doing the show in the first place, now that she knows how hard it is to offer your emotions for public consumption. She said no. I wondered if that meant she’s at terms with the price you pay for looking for love on TV. She said yes. She also pulled it together rather quickly for the sake of the picture of her above, as well as this one:

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So, at least she cleans up well. And quickly!

Before the girls hit the stage, Extra treated me to a rap based on her time on the show.

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She had expected to be able to perform it during the actual reunion, but since that didn’t happen, you can listen to her short verse here. It’s kind of clever, and these few bars constitute taking more away from this experience than most do.

Soon, it was time for the girls to line up and get on stage…

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Once, there, Luscious complained that the seating arrangement had her separated from the rest of the Wolf Pack, though they’d go on to spend so much time on the actual stage that it barely mattered.

There were, obviously, differences between what you saw on TV and what actually happened (an entire segment devoted to Popper, for one thing). Ray taped his entrance a few times, and at first came out without a glass of champagne. Upon retaking, he asked aloud if he should bring a glass, wondering if that would be over-the-top. “I’m a little over-the-top right now,” he said, and carrying the glass it was.

I thought Tanika Ray was a fantastic host (I gushed to her after the taping, too): natural and uncommonly quick on her feet. For example, during Jaguar’s segment (which aired out of order — it was actually taped before the Wolf Pack took the stage), Ray expressed remorse for coming off as having eliminated her only because she wouldn’t give him any action. During the Wolf Pack segment (as you saw), he admitted action helped keep (at least) Heartbreaker around. Tanika called him out on the contradiction, and Ray, somewhat sloppily explained that any inconsistencies can be chalked up to the fact that his head is all over the place. He wasn’t kidding about that.

During the Mz Berry segment, she said some things that helped clear Ray’s name — I felt like the way he was portrayed (on top of Cocktail’s haranguing) made him come off as if he cared a lot less about Berry specifically and these women in general than he seemed to from watching it live. It’s weird that it turned out this way, but obviously, this story is not yet finished being told. Two shows were taping that day: this reunion, and Brandy and Ray J: A Family Business. Because of this, when Ray stormed off the reunion stage, we backstage could still fall along with what was going on (albeit with virtually no sound) by just turning our heads and watching the Family Business monitors.

Berry and Ray talked backstage for much longer than what you saw on the reunion. At one point, it appeared that he was crying (she definitely was). Pretty hilariously, as Tanika attempted to get him back out onstage to finish the reunion, he back-talked her. “We need Ray to get to the bottom of this. We’ll have him when we get back!” is how she set up the eventually aborted final segment. “I ain’t comin!” yelled Ray. A bit later, she said, “Ray, come out!” “No!” he yelled back. “Now! You say you want an aggressive woman…” Tanika joked back. Finally, she said as a way to conclude, “I have a feeling it’s not over…” and Ray narrated from backstage, “It ain’t over! It’s never gonna be over!” The fact that he and Mz Berry came back out and could be seen embracing after most people had left the studio…

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…suggests he might be right. At the very least, it won’t be over for a while still.

Update: Find out what Mz Berry has to say about her relationship status with Ray, as well as Cocktail’s thoughts on the reunion.

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Howling With the Wolf Pack
The Celebreality Interview – Mz Berry
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For the Love of Ray J 2 show page
For the Love of Ray J 2 videos and extras
RAYJ.com
Ray J – Exclusive Video Interview

  1. so fake says:

    this ~~@__@^$$!)~+*$^ was so fake and setup, vh1 yall fool everybody else, but not me.

  2. so fake says:

    this !(`#`&_`+`&)!*+& was so fake and setup, vh1 yall fool everybody else, but not me.

  3. tia says:

    the show was amazing

  4. nita says:

    Who is ray really with Ms. Houston? Ms. Berry ? who?.I feel that this is all about money and Ray is in the money making business. I am sure that there is someone that is very special to him I think it may not be his time to settle down. There were some silly girls this season almost made it look as if it was about the $$$$. After jaguar who else was mature enough to stay other than Mz. Berry. This doesn’t mean that they will be together it just mean that out of all the women in the house that was left she was the best suited.

  5. sexymama2 says:

    ray you need to make up ur mind .MZ.BERRY think of this. all this drama we didnt see not about mz.beerry and ray j. did they talk ,why he is smashing all this girl with in the five month he dont see Mz.Berry . why he didn’t fly her in if he has money.It sseem like he dont care.

  6. Sara says:

    Mz Berry was tragic enough to be a 32 year old woman falling in “love” with the immature Ray J, on nat TV only after 2 weeks of knowing him. All she did was get embarrassed on the reunion. And Ray J is such a dog! His true colors came out with +)_##`$_$`)^$#~+ tail on the reunion, that’s for sure. Let’s see how long it takes before season 3 of ‘For the Love of Ray J’ is on. So lame.

  7. curtis douglas says:

    to me this was the most sickess show that vh1 ever had as african- american black man it made sad the way he acted towards #($$!+#`%%$((_#( tail,and the other women. and she just told the truth. and for him to treat her like a slut was wrong. then he said if you want some money you should have stayed home. that tells me the he set the whole thing up.and for him to dogg elle about smashing his homey. he is a fool and i want women to all black men our not like that.and ray j you know you was wrong you still sleeping with #($$!+#`%%$((_#( tail. and you asked for it. ms. berry you too smart to fall for this bs. he is in love with #($$!+#`%%$((_#( tail and you better hope she isnt carrying his baby. and you need to find some one whos not going to break your heart stop looking at the money and fame and fortune

  8. Frances says:

    Ray J. the reunion show tonight really disappointed me. All season long you said you wanted a woman NOW you have one be the man that you should be and the man Mz. Berry requires in her life. You can love anything a pair of shoes, a car but in life FALLING IN LOVE is something very different then just loving something or loving someone. If you really still want to be with Jaguar then you need to be honest with Mz. Berry and do the right thing. Ray J. understand this “Part of the art of being a man is knowing when to be a gentlemen, a gentlemen always lives honesty & speaks truth. Ray J. you are responsible for what happen tonight on the reunion show. You chose a woman but still want to play with girls. As for your Homies ask yourself this which one’s really want to see you in love & happy and which ones want to live off your celebrity. Sometimes in life you must let go of the old so you can mature into the new man you require yourself to be. DO THE RIGHT THING Best wishes Fran

  9. shesosexy78 says:

    I really used to digg Ray J unitl this very pointe. This reunion has shown who Ray J really is. A fake!! He had the nerve to tell the ladies in the house to keep it 100 when he has been a fake the whole time. I totally lost respect for Ray J when he called *&~^*&+&$&)`@(&( tail a &%*!_+)#*^(#)##!% Is he for real?? I feel like he’s the real &%*!_+)#*^(#)##!% He couldn’t hold it together when *&~^*&+&$&)`@(&( tail was calling him out. What a sucker!!She wasn’t hating, she was just stating facts doggie..I feel like he is a disgrace. Brandy should be embarrassed right now. He’s just a total let down and such a little boy. Mz Berry I know you probaly came for other reasons but now that you are in the spot light I think you really need to lettem go!!! Ray J I think you need to stop wasting people’s time and really try to focus on what you think you do best(music). And for future references,u need to take a class on keeping it real 101. you have alot to learn cause ur a fake!!Oh and as far as the you callin *&~^*&+&$&)`@(&( tail a &%*!_+)#*^(#)##!% I wish it would of been me you called a &%*!_+)#*^(#)##!% cause I would of shown you what a real &%*!_+)#*^(#)##!% is!!!

  10. brownsugar says:

    I think `&$@%$^~(`~*~&(~ tail was just being a spoiler because it didn’t work out for her and Ray J. I happen to like Mz. Berry because she has class and style, and maybe, just maybe Ray J will happen to respond to her. After all, age is not a factor as she is three or four years older than him. Maybe he needs a WOMAN and not a GIRL.

  11. Kelly says:

    So is Mz Berry and RayJ together or not?? They left me hangin!

  12. Diana B. says:

    Ray J. you were blessed with the opportunity to show america a strong, black, financially successful man, who could be honest with his feelings and share his love with a woman who would appreciate and care for yours, but instead maintained the stereotype of many black men. The realist person on your show was your mother because she said that you weren’t ready for any of the women; not because the women weren’t ready for love, but because your mother knew you could not yet appreciate them. Remember Ray, in life, you get what you put out. One day you will meet the lady who will take your breath away and it will be then that you receive what you put out; deceit and pain. Also, your character is defined by the company you keep. Your company is in poor taste. Snoop kept it 100 for ya but all the while you were telling everyone else to keep it 100, you kept in 50; never being completely real with the most important person in the game; YOURSELF! Next time, call it, “For the love of Money”, cause baby the way you going, you not even lovin yourself, no less anybody else. Peace!

  13. Veronica A. says:

    Ray was just madd becuz the girl he picked from last season put him on blast! in front of every1… Men are like dogs! thats ashame how he picks these nice sweet women just to use them & dog them in the end! He aint really tryin to being a player… Becuz being 1 is making him rich w/ all these shows!

  14. Lane says:

    So Fake shut up its real and anyways all reality shows are fake

  15. sarah says:

    I dont think Mz Berry and Ray will be together long because Ray still wants to play and tho she wants to think being grown you must stand by your man, She’s not putting up with that !%_$(%`+#`!&&&*@ for to long!

  16. TANISHA says:

    I AM REALLY MAD RIGHT NOW. I JUST CANT BELIEVE THAT MZ BERRY HAD TO COME TO THE REUNION TO BE HUMILIATED. I AM VERY DISAPOINTED IN RAY AS TO HOW HE FLIRTED WITH JAGUAR AND LITERALLY LET HER KISS HIM ON THE LIPS. I HAVE LOST ALL RESPECT FOR VH1 FOR LETTING &`+(*~&^#&)`&^_^ TAIL STEAL MZ BERRY’S MOMENT. MZ BERRY IF YOUR READING THIS I WISH YOU THE BEST BECAUSE YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY AND YOU CARRIED YOUR SELF REALLY WELL ON THE SHOW EVEN THOUGH YOU WERE HUMILIATD IF RAY J CANT SEE THAT YOUR A GENUINE LADY HE HAS MISSED OUT. PLATINUM IS NOT CUTE SHE IS FAT……. I HOPE THERE WONT BE A SEASON 3 EVERYONE IS GOING TO TAKE HIM AS A JOKE. ALL RAY WANTS TO DO IS SMASH THE HOMIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  17. erica says:

    SARA UR RIGHT! “Mz Berry was tragic enough to be a 32 year old woman falling in “love” with the immature Ray J, on nat TV only after 2 weeks of knowing him. All she did was get embarrassed on the reunion”

  18. jenn says:

    Ray just using stupid naive Mz.Berry for comfort in the last pic.

  19. Pedro says:

    He is like any other man. Im sorry to say. We are all the same. Until you do find the right women. You wont stop. But when you do find her. You know it. You dream, you miss, and find anytime to be with her. But just prey that she feels the same. And it all works out.

  20. miss butaflyy says:

    i think dat u and mz berry are a perfect match ray j i am one of your biggest fans if i was mz berry i would have smacked $_$(`()(!)+*&(+^ tail in da (_~+%@&)(_^++#$_ ing face…even if you did fly her into l.a. it was no ones business but you and hers but i hope u choose to be with mz berry because she is a sweet and beautiful woman and you need someone like her in your life. well thats all for right now and i will talk to you another time.. I LOVE YOU RAY J!!!!!

  21. Harsh truth says:

    Paltinum is beat up form the feet up! i dont know how she lasted that long…oh yeah it was the head she was givin up lol. She is caaaned! And luscious and plat think they the ish cuz ray is smashin all they potnas..lol..smh. You dumb pale ugly broads should be more concerned wit why he aint smashin yall! lol dumb birds!

  22. insomniacgirl says:

    Wow!! This was so disappointing. How stupid can one man be. You have two beautiful, smart women (Ms.Berry & Jaguar) who had true feelings for you, but you are stick stuck on dealing and wallowing in trash. Instead of trying to build something new & wonderful with Ms. Berry he’s still whoring around with girls going nowhere. He’s not ready for quality, and Jaguar was the smart one of them all for keeping her goodies and not putting herself out there like a desperate hooker.

    Boys always reach for the rotten apples at the bottom of the tree, because it’s too difficult for them to put in any real effort to climb to the top of the tree to get the bright, shiny and worm free fruit. I may watch a follow up program to this reunion show, but I would not waste my time to watch a season 3 of this %^&$@. Cause he’s apparently not even keeping it 10% let alone 100%.

  23. QUINISHA says:

    Why was &(@~`(^~%+(_^`$+ sucking &(@~`(^~%+(_^`$+ tail there anyway.She is nothing more than latina trash.She made herself look like a crack head feenin for publicity.She need to be happy with her 15 minutes of fame.It’s ova with now.that skank #~$+~%~&*&&*`@)((

  24. ajanay says:

    i think the wolfpack should shut their mouth because if i was there i would have been just like extra but worser i would have beat their (#)$%%^(!$)!$!+ they think there bad _%#%+~^*+#&$%~_@( es i show u bad!! oh yea _%#%+~^*+#&$%~_@( es watchca bacc!!!

  25. msjonvb says:

    Ray is a showed his %+@_$&!)$(%_(!*%% assness they we all knew he had, How you gone pick this lady and treat her like some old rag doll, then come on the show and gush over a chick that he didn’t want before, I believe he wants a boy RAY IS A LOSER, AND WILL ALWAYS BE BRANDY’S LITTLE BROTHER GROW THE F___K UP DUDE

  26. XOXOJAZZ says:

    WTF, 1st OF ALL WHAT HAPPENED 2 LA LA. 2nd RAY J TALKED A GOOD GAME ON THE FINALLY 2 MZ. BERRY WHICH TURNED OUT 2 B A BUNCH OF @+_@!`(^)$(`_`+! SURPRISE). 3rd ON THE REUNION HE NEVER TALKED 2 MZ BERRY 2 ADDRESS NONE OF HER CONCERNS. THAT SUCKS, HE SUCKS BUT I GUESS ITS 2 B EXPECTED. I WONDER WHEN IS SEASON 3. I WONT B WATCHING THOUGH BECAUSE )%(%_`@$@&#_+^)~ TAIL, & THE OTHERS HE SMASHED PUT HIM OUT THERE. HE REALLY LET MZ. BERRY DOWN.

  27. Noel says:

    I would like to tell ray J that ilove him very much an can he give me a chance.

  28. msjonvb says:

    Ray is a showed his $(`@()+&`%^_^*#_% assness they we all knew he had, How you gone pick this lady and treat her like some old rag doll, then come on the show and gush over a chick that he didn’t want before, I believe he wants a boy RAY IS A LOSER, AND WILL ALWAYS BE BRANDY’S LITTLE BROTHER GROW THE F___K UP DUDE

  29. XOXOJAZZ says:

    WTF, 1st OF ALL WHAT HAPPENED 2 LA LA. 2nd RAY J TALKED A GOOD GAME ON THE FINALLY 2 MZ. BERRY WHICH TURNED OUT 2 B A BUNCH OF %#!%%!_*)(!%*+() SURPRISE). 3rd ON THE REUNION HE NEVER TALKED 2 MZ BERRY 2 ADDRESS NONE OF HER CONCERNS. THAT SUCKS, HE SUCKS BUT I GUESS ITS 2 B EXPECTED. I WONDER WHEN IS SEASON 3. I WONT B WATCHING THOUGH BECAUSE +&%**$%+!%(#&~!% TAIL, & THE OTHERS HE SMASHED PUT HIM OUT THERE. HE REALLY LET MZ. BERRY DOWN.

  30. Leelou says:

    You know it wont last between these two. It never does cause then there will be no season 3. He doesnt want anyone. He just wants to get his name back out there cause he really doesnt have a real career before all this. It’s entertaining and all, I admit but he’s just playing for the camera’s. Come on, he’s gushing over Jaguar (who I cant believe he let go) and he’s got Mz Berry waiting backstage. Thats just low. It’s a whole trailer park mess drama. All in all, I loved it. +$##`**~&)%&!%^` tail got him off guard and really showed what he’s all about. It was hilarious! Course I wont watch that Brandy/Ray crap. I could care less about their lives. They are both boring. It’s the girls of these shows that make it interesting, not these two has beens. lol

  31. mj says:

    ok you know better mz berry its the reall thing baby you get grown an sexi not just sex lol

  32. julie33 says:

    this show is bull all ray j wants is money thats y he made that sex tape with kk and got a reality show it is so obvious this is all fake…..and the way he treated &+`~~*~^#)`**))_ tail just showed how much of an *(!`!)$~**)&!`% he really is

  33. Melissa714 says:

    ray j doesnt like berry u could totally tell shes to old for him if he really like her he would of gotten a ticket n fly her where he was at but he didint y cuz he doesnt like her

  34. Ms Tammey says:

    Call me a romantic person but it seems like, from what I saw on the show, that maybe Ray and Jaguar have a connection and should explore it. Mz Berry appears to be a nice person but I don’t really see a connection there.
    Maybe she should try a football player…

  35. donna says:

    Ray J PLEASE GROW UP THIS IS REALLY SOME FAKE BEHAVIOR AND EMBARRASSING TO OUR RACE. RAY J YOU MUST FING A MORE POSITIVE WAY TO MAKE MONEY, SON THIS IS SENDING US BACKWARD INSTEAD OF FORWARD. NOW, I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH YOUR FAMILY HELPING YOU WITH THIS MAJOR PRANK FOR MONEY. YOUR ACTION INVOLVES THEM AS WELL BECAUSE THEY HELPED WITH THE SHOW. SON GROW UP LEAVE SEX ALONG AND GO FOR MAKING LOVE. ONE MORE PIECE OF ADVICE LEAVE STREET GIRLS ALONG LET MS BERRY BE IN EXAMPLE OF GOOD CHARACTER AND MORALS.

  36. Empress Jamila says:

    i still looovvveee rayj…..he is sooo sweet,i think that @^$+`$!!_^*^`!@@ tail is a hater and she is just mad that she don’t have ray…but it seems like she want a woman…i raelly hope things work out with him and mz berry because she really seems nice (a bit crazy but nice).Ray babe just know that i’ll always love you.

  37. sweety17 says:

    Ray I love you as a fan. I think you are talented. However I was extremely disappointing how you reacted on the reunion show. There should be part two. I feel like you should have never allowed yourself to go off like that especially if you felt like she wasnt telling the truth. Unless there is something you are not saying. I think you need to start telling the truth. Work it out with jaguar; your heart seems to be there.Plus she is the better match.As long as your faithful. Good luck come out with a song your fsns are waiting….

  38. Veronica says:

    OMG, RAY-RAY-RAY…..What have u done?!?, lol’Zz. U got all these ppl mad as h3ll. U need 2 set things str8 & put it all in da table so u dun look as ppl say u r, defend ur self. Da reunion wasnt as expected but uhm there’s alot of uncleared things, not to me but to ur partner. Remember no-1 should get in relationship problems it should always b resolve by ya 2. Anyways best wishes & blessings sent to u & urs. Remember ur getting older, stop da games & fo real “KEEP IT 100%”. Game time is ova, stay focused….muahzzz, ciao bello.

  39. tay says:

    this is tay-girl i dont know how real the show was but it sure looke like it but to RAY-J ur gonna do u anyway abut to MZ.BERRY u are a pretty lady and if u and ray are not together i am pretty sure that someone is gonna want u b/c u are pretty-classy-and a GOOD PERSON someone will pick u up famous or not u will be loved and ray if u and mz berry not together i wish u all well trying to find someone that is good for him becasue it seems as though him and jaguar wasnt finish there buisness and maybe they might hook up…

  40. Ewww says:

    Good to know Fatinum still has a busted face.

  41. Keepin_it_100 says:

    Ladies please learn from what just happened!!!

    C__O_C_K_T_A_I_L spoke the truth. Ray J’s mother knows she raised a low down dog and believes he can do no wrong. Mz Berry needs to take care of herself and her child, that means connecting with someone with emotional maturity. Ray J demonstrated how weak as a man he is, Platinum was utterly disrespected by his so called friends. He and Jaguar won’t work. Ray J would get bored with a girl with morals/values once he gets what he wants from her. He enjoys his fame and is getting paid. We enjoy watching stupid women humiliate themselves over a man. Honestly, they have to reveal themselves and he gets to decide after they have poured their hearts, and bodies to him. Looks like season 3 to me.

  42. sharonda says:

    all i got to say ray is fine as hell!! i would go on the show just to `*$)`&^!_$!$$%(# the ~_!^~$)$*_#*&_^) out of him.he can send me home after that call me hoe if u want i don’t give a damn. as for the show i just think when u are a superstar men are going to cheat because they got women running behind them all time. either deal with or keep it moving plus he still young anyway.

  43. tay says:

    Is ray j with ms.berry?

  44. Baby Girl says:

    I’m not mad at Ray J on how he reacted on the Reunion show. I would have been mad to. We as people have been in his shoes. Most people now and days are messing around on there mates or have been cheated on. Not saying that it is right. But `%~#+!!@@%)#`()@ like that happens. I just think that he is not ready to be with one lady and he thought he was. So do we knock him for not knowing what he wants? I still like him and whatever he dose decide to do i am happy for him. I would date him….

  45. jassy says:

    girl mz berry dont let $(#))%~~)*$$#@`* tail get to your head like she was tottaly outta like like shes just envy like regaurdless of all tht talk they saying at the end of the day who has who you have him and he has you youll be the fool to believe $(#))%~~)*$$#@`* tail she wants you to act a fool so you could leave him but dont let it get to you thats his groupies aka saccers job ahaha lol live it up gurlie love always jasssyMC

  46. Sheila says:

    This Reunion from season 2 was very sad, Ray J is no more ready to settle down then my twenty two year old daughter. (`%$@$`^^`((^$!# tail was just telling the truth, I don’t think (`%$@$`^^`((^$!# tail genuinly wants to see MZ.Berry get hurt by Ray J. When you are a celebrity and you have girls up in your face all the time, and you can basically have your pick with anyone you pretty much want it is so hard to be faithful to anyone. I personaly think Ray J should give his heart to GOD and ask the LORD to bring someone good and pure in his life that loves him for himself and not because of his status in life because money can’t buy love or happiness or bring genuine people in your life and money will not get you in the gates of heaven. The LORD is coming very soon and we should all be concentrating on our soul salvation and meeting our savior then being worried about anything else because nothing is more important….

  47. Bossy says:

    Ladies get you audition tapes ready, there for sure will be a part 3 to this bull !@#$

  48. jessica says:

    damn there needs to be a reunion part 2!! wtf just happened?!

    the whole thing between Jaguar and Ray was so sad, I was thinking they should really be together, but I do agree Ray is definitely confused and not a one woman man. Girls like Jaguar and Mz Berry don’t deserve that because they are both beautiful classy women. Ray always seemed to keep it real, but just like a Tiger Woods.. underneath the charm he knows he can have all these women and he can’t say no.

    There were a lot of hot messes this season, but people need to stop calling Platinum fat! She has an amazing body and she’s beautiful, she just has a certain body type people automatically call fat cause it’s kind of wide.

  49. sha says:

    f dat i want to c the after math….it has to be a extended verison some where. vh1 if yall really want ratings yall should continue a second reunion of the season…we need to know what the F is up

  50. Jessica says:

    damn! it’s pretty obvious that JAGUAR is the woman Ray really wants. but it’s also obvious Ray just has too many women going on and he doesn’t deserve such a beautiful and classy woman.

  51. Shamontiel says:

    Now I started off reading this blog just to see what in the world I missed from accidentally flicking to the reunion show and seeing the last 15 minutes of it. But I’m leaving this comment to big up the blogger. I LOVE your writing style. That dry wit was so amusing to me. I have got to check out more of your work. *thumbs up for doing your thing* I don’t know the Wolf Pack apart because I didn’t watch the show in full, but man this was entertaining to read.

  52. b0bble says:

    The reunion show was awesome. the most realest thing on vh1 reality. I loved the raw, host. She brought it. i was shocked to learn what a hoe ~(~()$*(+(@*$&%_ tail is.

  53. tiff says:

    i dont even know what to say… he got put on blast and couldn’t even handle his %~~$~%^%)*#`^~^% like a man. pretty sad. As for miss berry u too good for that fool, let the other hoes deal with that %~~$~%^%)*#`^~^% smh

  54. true fan of da jaguar says:

    I FEEL MY BOI RAY J I WOULDA GOT MAD TOO . !!!%)&#(!`+(`+#@ TAIL NEEDS TO GROW DA HELL UP WASNT NOTHIN BOUT DA SHOW HAD TO DO WIT HER JEOLOUS +(#&$#!&***($`_ MZ BERRY U TRULY ARE A GROWN AND MATURE WOMAN! HEARTBREAKER UR UGLY AND A LIENG A** H*E! WHY DO U KEEP DENYING STUFF (DA PIMP) DAT WAS FOUND OUT TO BE TRUE WEN U TOOK A POLYGRAPH TEST DATS DA WHOLE PURPOSE (I THING U R STILL ON DEM DRUGS LAMO) WE ALL KNO U S*CKED RAYS D*CK COME ON UR A H*E LAMO) ANYWAYS JAGUAR U R GEORGOUS AND SHOULD HAVE BEEN NOT ONLY THE WINNER BUT HE SHOULDA PROPSED TO U AND YALL RAN AWAY TOGETHER U TRULY ARE GEORGOUS!

  55. kemeisha says:

    i love ray j is his young and no one is perfect,let him enjoy is life,search and find wen he does find that one he will settle no matter what.everyone has their match out there.

  56. hahahaha says:

    I knew they were not gonna be together but, ray j’s dirty laundry was aired and it was sooo funny to see the real dirt bag he is, for people to understand his crap your only giving other dogs to behave the same way!

  57. kemeisha says:

    i love rayj no one is perfect he is young and let him search and finds what he wants when he finds the one he will settle down no matter what everyone has there match out there

  58. Sarah in Az says:

    Well It is apparen the Mr. Ray J is not ready to be a real man, his actions says it all. Now I agree with Sheila’s post on here, he needs to get his life right with the Lord first. And be a good man of his word…even the intro to the show he says “maybe” obviously he is about making money, and no woman wshould fall for that unless they have terrible low self esteem. Love your self ladies…and don’t fall to be another number in Rays smash list… )!_+(@)&_&$`^)!_ tail called him out..and if he keeps it 100 then he would take it like a man. God Bless, pray 4 Ray and all these ladies for they need it!

  59. Miss "100" says:

    LOOK all I have to say is that i saw the reunion and was upset that Ray J could act all lovey dovey with Jag w/o even letting MZBERRY know what’s up she at least deserves that much.How could he keep in contat with all those other girls and not even contact the one he is supposed to be with!!!That just made me lose all respect for him since his favorite quote was KEEP IT 100.Coctail did the right thing about lettting MZBERRY know what’s up by putting Ray J on blast.Ray J needs to practice what he preaches and Jag needs to leave him alone cause he will just embarrass her like he did MZBERRY.I think VH1 should let MZBERRY do her own love show, but at least she will be looking for a man and not a little boy!!MUCHO AMOR MZBERRY keep your head up:)I guess on that note Ray J’S you ain’t going to tie me down was just his message he ain’t ready for love. SO SAD:(

  60. Mz T says:

    Mz. Berry you had to much class to be on this stupid show. Girl, RayJ is a kid not a man. He does not want a real relationship. This is about money for him and his family. I hope VH1 decide not to do Season 3 I do not want to see his Stupid &^+*#_#!*~$@!$% on TV again! Not with mess. Mz. Berry something good is going to come out of this for you.

  61. Miss "100" says:

    LOOK saw the reunion show and was upset how it went down.I really thought that Ray J was serious about looking for love but how he had the nerve to talk to all the other GIRLS after the show and have no contact with the WOMAN he is supposed to be with shows what kind of person he is! He was all lovey dovey with Jag and hadn’t evebn seen MZBERRY

  62. f*** the hatas says:

    fu88 RAY J HE AINT NOTHING BUT A PLAYA `**!*(~)#`#+“)) TAIL AINT LYING NO DISRESPECT TO MZ BERRY BUT IF SHE STAY WIT HIM AFTER ALL THAT AND PLUS HE WAS FLIRTING WITH JAGUR SHE A DUMB 1 RAY J STILL TO BUSY TRYIN TO FU88 EVERY GIRL HE CAN HE IS SO FAKE I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR HIM AT ALL HE AINT LOOKIN 4 LOVE HE JUST WANT 2 FU88 I DONT LIKE THE WAY HE ACTS

  63. Miss "100" says:

    LOOK saw the reunion show and was upset how it went down.I really thought that Ray J was serious about looking for love but how he had the nerve to talk to all the other GIRLS after the show and have no contact with the WOMAN he is supposed to be with shows what kind of person he is! He was all lovey dovey with Jag and hadn’t eveN SEEN seen MZBERRY yet he should have at least let MZBERRY know what’s up first!I jUSt lost all respect for him.Jag needs to not contact Ray J or he will embarrass her like he did MZBERRY.Coctail did the right thing about letting MZBERRY know what’s up with Ray J!I think VH1 should give MZBERRY her own show about love but at least she will be looking for a real man and not a little boy!!! I guess like Ray’s song ain’t gonna tie me down was the real truth to him and he was not practicing what he preaches keep it 100. MZBERRY you deserve a real strong good man mucho amor and much respect move on yOU deserve better:)For Ray so sad that you are somebody different then yOU portray on the show SAD:(

  64. f*** the hatas says:

    FU88 RAY J HE AINT NOTHIN BUT A LYIN PEICE OF *$*+#~_!#++_!)`% TAIL WAS TELLIN THE TRUTH THATS WHY HE GOT MAD HE WAS WRONG FOR CALLING HER A B**** HE HAVE NO RESPECT 4 WOMEN AT ALL HE AINT LOOKIN 4 LOVE HE JUST WANT TO F888 THATS ALL MZ BERRY WOULD BE STUPID TO STAY WIT HIM AFTER ALL THAT AND HE WAS FLIRTING WIT JAGUAR THEY DESERVE BETTER AND HE NOT IT RAY J DONT WANT LOVE I HAVE NO RESPECT FOR HIM @~~#`^#@&!(*%#)) TAIL WAS RIGHT HE WAS WRONG HE AINT NOYHING BUT A PLAYA I SEE RIGHT THROUGH HIM AND HIS LIL GAMES WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND HE GOT HIS COMING FU88 RAY J

  65. Monie says:

    Well, there shouldn’t be a Ray J part 3. He is not looking for love. If there is another show it should be called For the Play of Ray J.

  66. manuela says:

    i would wacth ray j shows sometimes and he always say’s keep 100, whatever he so fake. he is a puto. i can not ever here or see ray j stuff . what he hade call that girl a ~!@+#$#~_&!&)^&!& at the show . your are sorry punk who need too act like a man . you think because you have money and your a singer your man .they should have put the show call ray j is a puto. who want to be with a DOG.
    NO ONE NEED YOUR MONEY PUTO, UR THE ONE ON VH1 , FOR LOVE RAY J . HA . HA WHAT A JOKE.

    WHAT GOES AROUND COME AROUND .

  67. FactChecker says:

    RAY J GOT PUT ON BLAST BY HIS EX AND in front of his soon to BE EX.. KEEP’N IT ONE HUN100ED. FAKE !_~^%@^$)##*!^` Cant sing for *@`%+(~)^*@%_%`_ no record selling, brandy knock off. punk !_~^%@^$)##*!^` i would have respected u more if u would have kept it 100. for the love of Ray J.? Maybe not!!

  68. FactChecker says:

    RAY J GOT PUT ON BLAST BY HIS EX AND in front of his soon to BE EX.. KEEP’N IT ONE HUN100ED. FAKE ^^(@@+_%)+!)_$) Cant sing for @*@^$_*#%))`$*`^ no record selling, brandy knock off. punk ^^(@@+_%)+!)_$) i would have respected u more if u would have kept it 100. for the love of Ray J.? Maybe not!!

  69. FactChecker says:

    RAY J GOT PUT ON BLAST BY HIS EX AND in front of his soon to BE EX.. KEEP’N IT ONE HUN100ED. FAKE &^)@+!&$%%#$@+_ Cant sing for *(*_(`&^_*!!`)~( no record selling, brandy knock off. punk &^)@+!&$%%#$@+_ i would have respected u more if u would have kept it 100. for the love of Ray J.? Maybe not!!

  70. mandaboo says:

    i think that mmz.berry is to gud of a woman to have to deal with the drama ray j put her through ray needs to grow up and ^#`%^#@!+#`^)*(_ tail needs to move on cant wait ta see more!!

  71. Saliahah says:

    After seeing the ending of the Reunion and how it played out, I flet bad for Mz Berry. Her finding out that not only has Ray been seeing the others girls from the show after taping and not havin seen her for 5 months, that he was also seeing his ex (#_$($@#_*^`(__# rail as well i wanted to give her a big hug. But my feelings change the moment she got up and ran after him. I thought Mz Berry had more respect for herself then to chase after a man who did her wrong and on TV as well. As a mother i feel she needs to find a Man who well be there for her and her kids rather then Ray J who isn’t done with the games. If he was man and stating (#_$($@#_*^`(__# tail was “doing him wrong” he should have stay and dealt with his dirt.

  72. Cynthia M. says:

    Well, Well every Dog gets their day. I was so shock when I saw the reunion. When ^+$&_!&$%~(%+&(~ tail came out their and put all his bissness out their. Way to go ^+$&_!&$%~(%+&(~ tail…MzBerry I fill sorry for you. Ray J is not a man looking for love, he is a HOE looking +$&)+$@~&(@~@#! Your kids do not need father image like Ray J….. To Ray J, PLEASE DO NOT DO A RAY J REUNION 3. Because you are not looking for Love. Your are to see how much +$&)+$@~&(@~@#! you can get.

  73. mommadukes says:

    I am a fan of the show and watched it every Monday. While I like Ray I am very disapointed in him. Ray should be ashamed of himself! Seems the only one keeping it 100 was ^!%^(^(^&!+^#%%$ tail. Women are supposed to stick together and look out for eachother and as hard as I’m sure that was for ^!%^(^(^&!+^#%%$ tail she did just that. And how tacky of him to tell ^!%^(^(^&!+^#%%$ tail he would of gave her money to just stay home. In other words to me he is saying “If you would of kept my skeletons IN THE CLOSET I would of paid you off for doing so!” Ray was all over Jaguar and flirting with some of the other girls and before ^!%^(^(^&!+^#%%$ tail even came out I was thinking, “What is he Doin!” Clearly his actions confirmed ^!%^(^(^&!+^#%%$ tails statements. It makes me sad for Ms Berry she is very beautiful,smart,wise woman and it’s a shame her children have to see her be dissrespected on National Television (by Ray). I think perhaps they all got more than they bargained for! P.S. Ray, you got played by VH1 how does it feel. A dose of your own medicine is an understatement, they Over Dosed your A** let us know how it was to getting your stomach pumped! And you though this was your show(LOL)!

  74. Cynthia M. says:

    Well well every dog gets their day..lol I was so shock when I saw the reunion… way to go _(@)(!~(*^%+(@!% tail. One time for you. Ray J is not a man looking for Love, he is a man looking to see how much ^%&%+$&@($(`$@$ he can get. I fill so sorry for you MzBerry. You are a beautiful woman PLEASE dont let him take you their..He do not need to be around your kids. With all that drama..To RAY J PLEASE DONT DO A RAY J 3.. Because you are only looking for how much ^%&%+$&@($(`$@$ YOU CAN GET.

  75. Colleen says:

    I’ve watched both seasons of ” For the Love of Ray J.” I think it’s absolutely funny. That these girls think hes for real about finding love. I meant GIRLS not WOMEN. Real WOMEN know better than to put themselves in the position for public humiliation. Me and my husband call it ” For the SEX of RAY J.” Cause that’s what it amounts too. Hes pretty much admitted it himself. But to those small number of girls that were on the show and got cut, then turned around and got modeling gigs ect. You girls are the ones that actually won something. MZ. Berry has made a fool out of herself. He picked her and hasn’t seen her in 6 months, and she’s still holding on to what could be. Your absolutely pathetic! But thanks for the additional entertainment!!! Thank God for girls like #))%_~~@*$()&~*_ tail keepin’ it 100 !!! She put him on front street and it was GREAT!!! Good Job #))%_~~@*$()&~*_ tail!!! I believe her in everything she said about Ray J. Any person who watched the shows or even watched one show would know that she was callin’ him out for real. See Ray J was just a washed up celebrity ridin’ off the coat tails of his older sister Brandy. I mean who really even knew who his @!!~&~~@@@*)_#* was til the Love of Ray J????? Oh wait…. I know all the old perverts out in the world that watched his claim to fame porno he did with Kim K. No offense to Kim, she’s actually famous in her own rights and accomplishments. Well, if nothing else comes of it ladies… you can know and remember this ole’ Ray J will be remembered for 3 things… Boy that Ray J loved to ride coat tails and anything else that would let him… #2 He needed a reality show to not only give him 5 mins of fame, but also so he could get laid by some hot chicks #3 BRANDY the famous singer, is in fact his older sister.. SO HE MUST BE A STAR….. I think I know why he picked Mz. Berry, so he could have himself a Season 3. I can’t wait !!! If there was a season 3, maybe the woman would know whats up and just go for their claim to fame. I can see it now.. ( thanx to #))%_~~@*$()&~*_ tail ) Season 3 down to two ladies left.. He chooses one and he says ” Are you here for the sex of Ray J.” She responds ” Nah +%^!_+~`$&`_%^^#` I’m gonna keep it 100, I’m here for the Fame. Just for anyone who’s stupid out there in the world. This is just my personal feelings bein layed out here. You gotta love freedom of speech. P.S #))%_~~@*$()&~*_ tail don’t worry about Ray J callin you out on the you and other woman situation.. Hes probably just jealous that you got more beautiful women then him, and you didn’t have to pay them or need a reality TV show.<— Personal thought..O-yeah and his comment about I made you.. Girl your season 1 if it wasn’t for you and the other girls.. his @!!~&~~@@@*)_#* would still be selling CD’S at the local Kmart.. Before you guys it was like… RAY J who??? Your girls MADE him…. Good Luck to both Seasons 1 and 2 girls in a venture in life you take!

  76. Stephy says:

    Last night’s airing appeared to be one big trainwreck! Nonetheless, I feel a Ray J 3 coming on. He might need to attend a love boot camp though. Ray, Mynogomy is really not all that bad.

  77. Kathie says:

    are they still together? i think he wanted Jaguar more than Mz Berry. i hope they are still together

  78. the real deal says:

    okay, these reunion shows are a joke, trying to find love in 6-8 weeks any way, what ever. If i was on the show, i would have smashed him, it is what its is, treat him like he is treating these woman, the horish man he is, give him a taste of his own medicine. I would come on the show for my own gain, especially if it a part 2, he is not serious and smashing all those women plus their friends and their okay with it..Just because he’s a celeberity, he thought he can keep their mouth shut, only the sluts did, not the real women who got a heart and have feelings, mz BERRY you better hight tail it out of there, cause he going to smash you and on to the next on, jaguar don’t waste your time and the rest of yall go get an aids/std’s test and for Ray J you need to grow up a little more and make money another way instead of swinging your goods on every woman who’s willing to give it up, your cute and all, but your not worth the 5 minutes of fame if i was looking for love, thats coming from a real woman….holla

  79. Sara says:

    If Mz Berry had any sense she would “dump” Ray’s lame self. She only got embarrassed in front of nat tv, being that she hadn’t seen Ray in 5 months when 4 other cast off’s had been with Ray since the shows conclusion. Plus she didn’t even get her reunion moment with Ray on TV, not to mention she didn’t see the Jaguar segment where Ray stated that he had made a mistake and was cuddeling up with her like a lost boy. Mz Berry may have won the show but she is truly tragic, especially for her age. The whole world can see Ray J is a complete loser.

  80. keanlynn figueroa says:

    ray seek nthe lord so he can guide u and transform u

  81. Keepinit100! says:

    I am soooo disappointed in Ray J!!!!! I mean he is so doggish! If he wanted to keep smashin any and every girl he sees he needs to stay single and keep it 100 and stop frontin like he wants to settle down, cuz if he was being real he would have let them all know what was up. Thats keepin it 100! I mean then when the situation got heated he ran from the situation and thats not keppin it 100, because there’s nothing wrong with being single and doin your thing if thats what you really want but don’t lie and say you want a relationship when you don’t. I just feel like he almost wanted to make all them girls look stupid cuz he played them all even wolf pak. because I thought he was a DAMN RAY J!!!

  82. Supastar97 says:

    OMG!!! I’ver never seen so much trash fit into one dumpster in my life! 90% of the GIRLs(not women) seem to think its cool to be sl*ts and gold diggers. Ray J? Where do I start? Had alot of respect for him… Now its all out of the window! Hes seems to enjoy the sluts sl*ting around him. Mz. Berry run as fast as you can! Your obviously a very classy lady, but you cant save Ray J, he doesn’t want to be saved!

  83. Supastar97 says:

    OMG!!! I’ver never seen so much trash fit into one dumpster in my life! 90% of the GIRLs(not women) seem to think its cool to be sl*ts and gold diggers. Ray J? Where do I start? Had alot of respect for him… Now its all out of the window! Hes seems to enjoy the sluts sl*ting around him. Mz. Berry run as fast as you can! Your obviously a very classy lady, but you cant save Ray J, he doesn’t want to be saved!!!!

  84. navy says:

    That show was awsome. Ray is a lier and he played himself. WHAT A F@#$ING JOKE HE IS!!!

  85. cyn says:

    _%~^~&~%@(#%+@%^ is hysterical! I replayed the whole love triangle portion about 4 times on my tivo lol. For the love of Ray J delivered that entertainment till the last minute. loved it! That being said… Ray J is a dog who don’t deserve a REAL woman. Im not saying Ms Berry is a real woman, cuz grandma obviously has no self esteem. No REAL woman would have gotten up and chased him out the room the way she did when he walked off. I was embarrassed for her the way she jumped out the seat after him. _%~^~&~%@(#%+@%^ had me dying!! I ain’t mad at $*(($`~!~&@&!_$$ tail cuz she obviously was hurt my Ray and was just tryna warn the next victim. I say Ray and Ms Berry both got some growing to do and not together either. Ms Berry looks like the type to stop eating and sleeping over a n***a. She needs to worry about being a better role model for her kids instead of chasing a DOG. That being said… _%~^~&~%@(#%+@%^ was train wreck tv at its finest!! Can’t wait till next season… haha!

  86. Racquel says:

    I was so shocked when i watch the reunion. Firstly, I lost all respect for Ray when he allowed his friends to continue with their pre-school behavior and YES he could have done more to sop it.Apparently, his parents think no woman is good enough for him but i think its more like those girls were too good for him. He totally disrespected +_$%*&$*#(++$@#_ tail and that is like a slap in the face of all women. Who gives a damn if he gave her her career. He is so immature and is not no where near ready for love. To him this show is about making money( God knows singing has not been putting a buck in his pocket lately) and being able to play with women emotions. I really believe +_$%*&$*#(++$@#_ tail and would care less about her motives. All I know his, she exposed him for what he really is. I hope Vh1 doesn’t have another one of his stupid shows as the way he treated +_$%*&$*#(++$@#_ tail last night was demeaning for all women.Its all he was saying get lost b**tch, I got u already so get lost and move over for the present (Ms. Berry).He came on national television and lied that +_$%*&$*#(++$@#_ tail was all in to partying when she was ready for a serious relationship. Also, when he declared Ms. Berry the winner and told every one how he was ready to settle down, he was still linking with +_$%*&$*#(++$@#_ tail. He is like a young tiger woods. Women, lets tell these men that we will not be treated like door mats. Who the frig is Ray…kmrt (kiss mi rass teeth)

  87. Sam says:

    Well Ray you have managed to make me angry once again. First you put out some of the lamest songs money can buy, sencond you put on some of the weakest acting skills UPN had ever saw, and then the finale came around and you topped yourself. How? Easily you picked a woman with children and a good heart, got her hopes up that you were probably a man that can handle ya business, then you sleep with a gang of hoes and sluts, smile in another females face that you are not worthy of (if you have forgotten Jaguar), then call the female that you picked last season all out of her name because she showed what kind of lame you are. You didn’t make ^`@#^)&##(&^&)%% tail, Jaguar, Ms. Berry, or any of those other women they made you, that is until you uinmade yourself by showing the real Ray Jay. You are WACK man no one would tune in to see a show with just you on it it took 15 beautiful women, a lot of borrowed cars and jets, some free dinners and hotel rooms, and a very generous camera crew that spared the audiance of a lot of you on the camera and a lot more of the ladies. You failed Ray Jay and if I saw you on the street I would probably slap you across the face like the B you are. I can go on and on about you but I would rather you just fade away like your career has been for the last three years. See you on celebrity rehab you failure.

  88. Sam says:

    Well Ray you have managed to make me angry once again. First you put out some of the lamest songs money can buy, sencond you put on some of the weakest acting skills UPN had ever saw, and then the finale came around and you topped yourself. How? Easily you picked a woman with children and a good heart, got her hopes up that you were probably a man that can handle ya business, then you sleep with a gang of hoes and sluts, smile in another females face that you are not worthy of (if you have forgotten Jaguar), then call the female that you picked last season all out of her name because she showed what kind of lame you are. You didn’t make +!+&)#))!#&^%+&( tail, Jaguar, Ms. Berry, or any of those other women they made you, that is until you uinmade yourself by showing the real Ray Jay. You are WACK man no one would tune in to see a show with just you on it it took 15 beautiful women, a lot of borrowed cars and jets, some free dinners and hotel rooms, and a very generous camera crew that spared the audiance of a lot of you on the camera and a lot more of the ladies. You failed Ray Jay and if I saw you on the street I would probably slap you across the face like the B you are. I can go on and on about you but I would rather you just fade away like your career has been for the last three years. See you on celebrity rehab you failure.

  89. Sam says:

    Well Ray you have managed to make me angry once again. First you put out some of the lamest songs money can buy, sencond you put on some of the weakest acting skills UPN had ever saw, and then the finale came around and you topped yourself. How? Easily you picked a woman with children and a good heart, got her hopes up that you were probably a man that can handle ya business, then you sleep with a gang of hoes and sluts, smile in another females face that you are not worthy of (if you have forgotten Jaguar), then call the female that you picked last season all out of her name because she showed what kind of lame you are. You didn’t make &*`$%$%&_`_@*$*~ tail, Jaguar, Ms. Berry, or any of those other women they made you, that is until you uinmade yourself by showing the real Ray Jay. You are WACK man no one would tune in to see a show with just you on it it took 15 beautiful women, a lot of borrowed cars and jets, some free dinners and hotel rooms, and a very generous camera crew that spared the audiance of a lot of you on the camera and a lot more of the ladies. You failed Ray Jay and if I saw you on the street I would probably slap you across the face like the B you are. I can go on and on about you but I would rather you just fade away like your career has been for the last three years. See you on celebrity rehab you failure.

  90. jennifer says:

    Mz. Berry you are a damn fool if you stick it out with RayJ. Hes a punkass who has no respect for woman and thinks hes #1 in his world. He calls himself real, funny he doesnt even date women that slightly resemble his sister-I call that phoneyass.
    First of all after watching the reunion-how could he NOT have a conversation with Mz Berry he chose her and then confessed to Jaquar how much he missed her and the mistake he made. WTH??? We did not even get to hear her side of the story. He did not even have the respect for her to tell her that it was not going to work out nor did he want it to.
    Second, he surrounds himself by lowlife women to make himself feel like a man hes not a man, hes a has been washout..oh yea and pretty famous for doing umm let me think..NOTHING. C’mon he’s not selling records, hes not selling out shows this “crazy lifestyle” he leads is a joke..Keeping it 100-please learn how to speak and that women should NOT be called ^)%(`!**_^^@@$#^~ es for calling out your faults and what an (~^!#_++_`#`+!) you really are. hey Ray if you are reading this, you’re a joke, you’re music is a joke and by the way your (~^!#_++_`#`+!) is to damn short.

  91. Mz.hazelconfident says:

    I think both of yall are wrong because the truth is that coktail put her self out there from what was said last night she was cheating too. Mz.Berry is a strong women and kind she cares about ray that why she ran after him. The truth of the matter coktail still had feelings for ray her motive wasn’t to warn miss berry but to stop her from getting wit him. She wants ray for herself, that why she was crying a *_%^ saying she loved him and stuff.

  92. June says:

    Let me tell you….its about time someone called the out Ray J for who is, a playa. There is nothing real about reality TV. Lets be for real, I knew that #+(&@`&!($%#+)`! tail wasn’t going to really win Ray J’s heart and that there was more show to come because when the show first aired, when it would promote extra clips or sneak peak at the following episode, Ray J would say, on this season of the love of Ray J, which would imply that there was more seasons to come. Anyway, half these girls are on the show to get some lime light. The one girl I felt was real was Jaguar. I hope that she changes her mind about him, now that she heard about him and the other girls, because he truly laid out the best lines to keep her waiting on the sidelines……. but truly i will say, its makes for great tv. Its great to see the sh*t hit the fan. Lets give it to vh1 for giving another celebrity who is trying to hold on the fame, a reality show.

  93. candy says:

    I THINK HE PICK THE WRONG GIRL IN THE FIRST PLACE. HE IS NOT READY TO SETTLE DOWN AN HAVE A FAMILEY.HE IS NOT READY TO FALL IN LOVE. HE IS YOUNG AND HE STILL WANTS TO PLAY THE FIELD. HE DON”T WANT TO BE WITH MZ.BERRY IF HE DID HE WOULD OF WENT AND SEEN HER BEFORE THE SHOW. HE PLAYING WITH THOSE GIRLS HEARTS. AN SOMEONE NEEDS TO PUT A STOP TO IT

  94. Real Person says:

    I think that ray is a good guy. What do you expect for a young man living the good life… at the end of the day he does want to settle down but that will fall into place when time is right for him, until then why not get a few real women and a few girls together and “have a good time… keeping it 100%” why put all the blame on ray when these women and girls know exactly what they are getting themselves into. If you go into this situation and you already have children, well sad but ray shouldn’t be blamed for wanting to step in and be that good man but maybe he just isn’t the right fit in that situation right now, he had already sent jaguar home he had to choose someone … Ray will make sure that when he does settle down with the right woman to treat her like he treats himself fantastic!!! As for Jaguar she is the realest women in a reality situation so proud of her to speak out about not putting out and reminding everyone to take there time to build healthy relationships. Yes i think she should be the one he needs to hang onto, but i think she is the one to treat fantastic…

  95. kate says:

    wow big surprise. once again the girl was fooled and the man slept with half the cast. during and after the show ended. now thats a real man…too bad when hes 50 karma will be his only woman.

  96. Sistah says:

    Boy, Ray J you 28 years old now when you gone grow up and be a man”) every male has something swinging between their legs, until they duct tape it to their legs trying to pass for a woman, but that don’t make you a man. You are no more then that old clock wearing dude just nasty Miss Berry girl you are too classy for this mess, Ray J wouldn’t know what to do with a real woman in the first place. And as for the wolf pack all them chicken heads had drama one couldn’t talk about the other ones they all was some tricks the wolf pack they was a hot mess trying to be hard please and old girl with them teeth girl stop throwing drinks and get your teeth fixed, and old girl the smasher see that’s what you get for sleeping with lil boys and that other one girl you ain’t even cut”) please bumps all in your face Jaguar you said you come from a good family right? why would you want to put them through that kinda mess? Miss Berry girl find yourself a good man.

  97. tricey says:

    It was plan to see that #~)!`~)$)*^~_$+( tail was and is a scorned woman that isn’t over Ray…she joined his lifestyle and wanted to party not be in a real relationship…so thats how she got treated. She really should have been thanking him for the semi-bulls*** of a career she has now. Mz. Berry is and was in love with Ray and Ray is definitely feeling her…he has to grow up first though. Anyone with any type of eyesight can see that (cause he was rubbing on luscious and all up on jaguar)…he may be ready for a real woman and ready for a real relationship, seriously…but he needs a woman with a backbone thats gonna be like, n***a if this b***h don’t back up off you I’m gone slap you and beat her !+$!!#_#^%`%^&$ Then turn and give that b***h the evil eye and kiss him in the mouth and say I love you, let’s go!!!! But until he runs into me…he’ll probably be single…lol

  98. manuela says:

    i would wacth ray j shows sometimes and he always say’s keep 100, whatever he so fake. he is a puto. i can not ever here or see ray j stuff . what he hade call that girl a _+%~$`$_~%%~)*+$+ at the show . your are sorry punk who need too act like a man . you think because you have money and your a singer your man .they should have put the show call ray j is a puto. who want to be with a DOG.
    NO ONE NEED YOUR MONEY PUTO, UR THE ONE ON VH1 , FOR LOVE RAY J . HA . HA WHAT A JOKE.

    WHAT GOES AROUND COME AROUND .

  99. Nadia says:

    Look like a fool with your pants on the ground, Ray .

  100. ::Stephanie:: says:

    omg i watched the reunion.. and i have to say i was very suprized! i can’t belive that ~+~`~)%_+#$)+#^( tail said all that stuff about ray but i have to say.. it seems to be true look at the stuff he said to jagaur while mz. berry was in the back that is so wrong!! and ~+~`~)%_+#$)+#^( tail was right when she said.. that he is a player how could he see ~+~`~)%_+#$)+#^( tail the next day and then forget about mz.berry like that like.. he didnt even pick her ya know? thats wrong he should be a stand up guy and he shouldnt have said the stuff that he said to them other gurls on the show he should really stand up and treat mz. berry with some respect!!!! i think ray picked a great women now he has to treat her like one! and stop messing around with these ” i love to be on tv” groupies! stand up and take care of mz berry!!!! that’s all i gotta say… 0x0x0x0x0x

  101. MARTHA says:

    I am very disappointed at rjay, he is fake, and a womanizer,I used to like him, I dont anymore.
    He uses all these women, have sex with them and then drop them like garbage. I am glad ^*!^%+$@“~!(%%& tail did what she did. expose him to everyone. Is a shame we as women are letting this low class man(he thinks he has class cause he is full of money) use us to his convenience.Rjay shame on you. Mz berry you deserve much much much better. this is not the kind of man you want to bring home to your kids. how do you think you kids feel now after seeing you humilited at the reunion.

  102. La Tanya says:

    I have so much respect for Mz Berry and I feel like Ray Jay is so mad that his X put him on blast. He was so disrespectful for kissing Jaguar knowing that his “girlfriend” was backstage. How could he say that he made a mistake when he claim that he was looking for someone more mature?

    Mz Berry is too much woman for Ray J. I’m sure that once she get past the BS that comes along with Ray J, she will find a REAL MAN!

    As for the “wolk pack” They all need to grow up. I wonder how their mothers feel about them because I would be ashamed of them. They should be called a Pack of sluts instead of the wolk pack.

  103. FRENZY says:

    Ray is full of ~@@!(`)%))_@#!~& I’m glad ^$*!(((**`!%+!$% tail called is &#+)&&_)$$##%`% on it. He’s only doin the show to get some &#+)&&_)$$##%`% the girls keep giving it to him.

  104. Melissa says:

    I used to like Ray J but know he showed how he really feels. He not ready ready for a relationship why did he wasted all these females time. He should just have been honest. He totally disrepected Ms. Beery on the show. He’s fake, a womanizer. There should never be another For the love of Ray J. anymore you have disappointed your fans. I hope that Ms. Berry will never forgive you for what you’ve done to her.

  105. denise says:

    It doesn’t matter if R.J is a womanizer why did VH1 brought back his ex to embrass him. Ray J is a great singer and actor and he didn’t do anything differnt from Flava Flav, Bret M and all those others who had reality love shows so why did they do that to ray. Ever think of that Fan!!

  106. denise says:

    It doesn’t matter if R.J is a womanizer why did VH1 brought back his ex to embrass him. Ray J is a great singer and actor and he didn’t do anything differnt from Flava Flav, Bret M and all those others who had reality love shows so why did they do that to ray. Ever think of that Fans!!

  107. Lynda says:

    wow just saw last nights episode im shocked he is a womanizer alright..hes played with all these girls emotions wanting em’ to keep it 100% real when the hypocrite aint even 10% real..i though he’d really be more mature this time around i was way wrong..sad thing is all them girls r replaceable cuz im sure theres a bus load of females waiting for him hes such a dog he like Next.lol he gives good men a bad rep.he did nothan but front front front..so dissapointed poor *~(+*^`#@*_`&`+$ tail and Ms.berry even jaguar for believn him he’s a playr with crazy game..oh lord he needs prayr..deuces*

  108. marie bowden says:

    ray is a fake and miss berry deserves better,ray is full of s—. tellin jaquar is made a mistake and still leading ms berry on .i will never watch anything to do with RAY J again!

  109. Est says:

    The somewaht real RJ was seen..Cursing out (&!*_*%#!!)%$!_% tail in front everyone. Meontioning money for her to stay home and asking why she was there… Right makes for great “reality” television. I would like to be a writer for a reality show, very entertaining….. the truth can never be completely concealed lol…

  110. Est says:

    The somewaht real RJ was seen..Cursing out `~+!%`$!“~`@*&$ tail in front everyone. Meontioning money for her to stay home and asking why she was there… Right makes for great “reality” television. I would like to be a writer for a reality show, very entertaining….. the truth can never be completely concealed lol…

  111. denise says:

    It doesn’t matter if R.J is a womanizer why did VH1 brought back his ex to embrass him. Ray J is a great singer and actor and he didn’t do anything differnt from Flava Flav, Bret M and all those others who had reality love shows so why did they do that to ray. Ever think of that Fans!!!

    P.S. Rays I still luv and trust in you babe!!

  112. dwoods says:

    it seems like everthing that +!_!%&*)#@`)#@(~ tail said was true

  113. Rochelle291 says:

    I could not beleive what happen on Reunion of Ray J How could Ray J do that to Ms Berry and the other ladies , i feel the show was a fake ,Ray J that a real dude his parent think the woman will hurt your son but guess what your son hurt woman… He fake and the show VH1 need to do real show not fake azz Ray j for Ms Berry you should get a real man and got will find you one and for _(+!#`()(__^&~!% tail you are a good woman to let Ms Berry know what up … RAY J IS FAKE SO IS THE SHOW …. I WOULD NEVER WATCH HIS SHOW AGAIN FAKE AZZ dude

  114. michelle says:

    wow whata fake what up ray j why did you play thoose girls i used have a crush on you and now i will never watch your show the fans are disapointed and whos your girl at home danger coctail go girl put him up on blast lololo

  115. cheyanne says:

    i feel like he didnt keep it 100 because he said that he regreted lettin Jaguar go and even kissed her, thats wrong if he tryin to be with Mz.berry. Mz.Berr y is very guienuine and was the best pick but i think the life style of Ray J be famous and crap gettin alot of gurls goes to his head.I love Ray J and think he is a good guy but i wish he would just step back and look at himself in that situation.he is wat 27 it is time to settle down and make a family for himself,if he continues like he is its goin to be to late and hes goin to be say”damn WTF i messed up” and wat is he goin to do, he night lose Mz.Berry and she is goin to move on, wat if they would of worked out , you know.
    I hope Ray J isnt to big of a star to read this stuff CAUSE ALL FO US KNOW HOW TO KEEP IT 100! i hope the best fro him and hope he gets his head on straight and makes the best desions!

  116. Mz.Berry says:

    Mz.Berry u tha beast them hatein _!@^&&*@*$`$~`* hoe mad because they 10years younger then u and still dont look as good as u heartbreaker is a hoe and mad cause she sucked @$&!`@^(_+!)+_$) and all and still didnt make it to the bottom two.much love girl!!!!~later

  117. B.S. says:

    vote for: no more Ray J show!!!

  118. B.S. says:

    no more fake shows!!!
    vote for: no more Ray J show!!!

  119. lORRAINE says:

    AW remember he would’ve paid you to keep your @+~^`@*)^*+)!#` at home…rotflmao your a tax write off…o and mz. berry you handled yourself very well…season 1 had nothing to tell you and Ray J’s relationship with you shouldn’t be like it was with that other dog (who gives a _*~%^`$*`~&*(+_! that he flew you out the next day!)…who gives a _*~%^`$*`~&*(+_! if they saw him or if he talked to them….your life is more than chasing behind a man…you have children (more important things to focus on) and you can’t compare your relationship with any of those undecided heathens…I am not going to lie Ray J you handled that 100- “season 1″ was all types of ^_&@(&*@$+*!`*(@` es, lmao and well you had that )_(*$)`%(!^+`*^% look on your face the whole time…man up and don’t doubt your hand picked choices…you can’t compare mz. berry with Jag! why r u 2nd guessin? You downplayed your woman and as the man you displayed I can’t see how any one can take you seriously…you _*~%^`$*`~&*(+_! ed up!

  120. searah says:

    me personally i really do like ray j but i think he is full of bull when he said “he really is ready to settle down with one lady” if he was really ready to settle down with ms.berry than how come it took him 5months to even get in contact with her. when had obviously made contact with all the other girls from that season. i do think heartbreaker was wrong for what she said though she really didnt have to go that far but she is kinda rite at the same time because ms.berry did deserve to know but hey thats just my opinion!!!

  121. jenn says:

    I’m really taken back that ray would play with peoples emotions the way he has… It would of been one thing if the girls knew what he was all about!!! But seems like the had no clue poor Mz berry she deserves better and so does her kids… If anything tail did the right thing by calling him out. What goes around comes around ray j

  122. angel says:

    r-jay is a player

  123. alexia says:

    What a surreal show!!!
    This show and reunion proved that you can put a suit on a pig but it still going to act like a pig.
    Nothing is real about this reality show. Mz Berry, Hello!! You should know better that Competing with a bunch of stripper in a “Reality” show will not get you the love our life. It will just get you and STD and disconnect with reality.
    Ray-J was in for some “you know what” not for the love of his life .He agreed to do the show just to get some whoopee time. He is short but he has a big ego and macho attitude. Also with that type of old fashion parents he knows better then when time to settle down he will pick someone that can give him kids and is stupid enough to believe in his Lies

    Keep it 100% real MZ Barry forget about the show and move on with your life…

  124. MISS SEXY says:

    this is a message to ray i watch your show and liked it you had cool &##%#$_&(&*%)$#_^ s and some dumb &##%#$_&(&*%)$#_^ s but 1 you fell for and thats good but don’t use your age as an excuse to get in a serious relationship that would cause a miss understanding for u an mz.berry no what u wont and keep it just think you have feelings to put that in your mind.holla back

  125. Frazier says:

    Hello,

    Lets hope it was not staged as that was the best show of the whole season. Lets hope Ms. Berry and Jaguar see they type of man Ray J is. I can’t wait for love of Ray j 3.

    Frazier

  126. DramaFree says:

    VH1…you guys really owe us fans a part…2….
    you left us all hanging! and that was not right for those of us who watched faithfully…..

    It all looked like a set up….because they all! were jealous of “Mz Berry”….
    If Ray J grew up…and walked away with Mz Berry….great! if he’s still a little boy who wants to play little boy games….well Mz Berry can! do much better then that and she will move on…VH1 can give her her own! for love show….well I wish her and Ray J the best…and Ray J it’s really time to grow up! and drop the J!…..peace.

  127. RG says:

    We need to keep it 100 with ourselves when discussing RayJ. He is a man and a man will do what you let him do. I do not agree with the way he has chosen to carry himself in dealing with women. But let’s face it, those women like it, crave it, enjoy it and live for it. So, he’s doing what any man in his situation would do.

    Let’s also keep in mind the whole tail thing and what was truly exposed during the taping. It seems as if we are all forgetting how tail was just along for the party when she hooked up with Ray. She never once denied hooking up with women while he did him!! That says alot! She’s just a woman scorned now that the party’s over and Mz. Berry is too classy to be in her presence!!!

    As for the way he tried to play Mz. Berry with the Jaguar segment, that proves what I’m saying. He hasn’t dealt with Mz. Berry in a true relationship yet to see, if she will tolerate the same bull**** he’s used to pulling. I’m sure he found out after the show.

    I love Mz Berry and speaking as a woman with a similiar background as her, I completely understood her emotions from the beginning. When you’ve been married for years with kids, you know things, see things differently than others, and have maturity beyond your years. So,to offer yourself so easily to someone after all of this (beyond your control) is scary, crazy, hard to grasp… just emotional. She will prevail and RayJ will either learn to grow to be with a woman like her or continue to play as he has been allowed to. So, don’t hate on him, hate on the women who allow him to do the things he has done.

  128. FrauWOW says:

    The reunion show was a hot moving mess. Ray is off the chain. This makes no since. First let me start by saying shout out to Mz Berry for keeping it classy and not @%@`_`_+$$*@~`+ y. She really held it together in spite of the fact that she is dealing with an idot. All of them are young and dumb including Ray to the J. Mz Berry is to much of a woman for him and he needs to stop this crap for the Love of Ray J he is just doing all of this to expand his going no where career. He at this point can’t sing me a dog food commercial ad. Mz Berry on the other hand just made her debut and VH1 should totally give her a show. For the love of Mz Berry but please screen these people. They must be of standard because all these shows just put anybody on here. Mz Berry do the dang thang girl!

  129. jesse says:

    wow.. this changed my whole perception of ray as a person

  130. jesse says:

    o and 1 more thing.. CAN SOMEONE THROW THE WOLF PACK IN TO A LIONS DEN..

    WE HAVE TO KEEP THIS PLANET LESS POLLUTED

  131. Slavik says:

    First of all Ray is nothing but mouth he wants a real woman but he fails to realize he aint nobody i mean hello he’s doing a reality show he’sdoing the show to try to see how much p….y he can get and for all the ladies who think that he’s going to settle down are just as stupid as he is i mean the ladiesare just caugt up in the moment and i realluy loved !(%+%)#$*^+#(%@_ tail but i knew it was too good to be true and also is it me or how come he never picks a dark skined lady he always picks like skined ladies he just a lose that had to use his sister stardom to make a name for himself other wise he would be a nothing so HE’S A LOSER

  132. nickie says:

    even before mz berry came on ray jay looked like a womnaizer because of how he was all over jaguar RAY JAY IS STILL YOUNG AND ALL HE WANTS IS A GOOD TIME ALL THESE MEN THAT DO THESE REALLITY SHOWS FOR LOVE JUST WANT A PEICE OF A…

  133. B says:

    “…any inconsistencies can be chalked up to the fact that his head is all over the place. He wasn’t kidding about that.”

    Zing! Ha, thanks for the laugh Rich

  134. Cali says:

    Ray J is ignorance. Ray J ain’t got nothing on Reggie Bush, and he is totally ugly.. Come on girl is he really that hot.. i don’t think so..

  135. ms poo says:

    ms. berry is a classic lady jaguar is a sweet lady that i feel could be good for ray,but take your time jaguar and always praise the LORD

  136. ms poo says:

    ms. berry is a classic lady jaguar is a sweet lady that i feel could be good for ray,but take your time jaguar and always praise the LORD and keep him in your heart. Air things out before taking that step

  137. LC**** says:

    Coctail still wants Ray J and that’s why she causes a scene during the reunion….and Ray J acting the way he acted is not acceptable and very disrespectful to Mz. Berry….I will not watch any of his show; but agai nI was never a fan of Ray J…He can’t sing for jack anyway.

  138. Jasmin says:

    I think Mz Berry should leave ray. Its clear that she is too good for him ansd that he is not ready to be in a relationship with her.
    Mz Berry please dont be a dummy

  139. Ashley says:

    I think they need to have anther reunion or somethingg.. I THINK RAY REALLY WANTS TO BE GOOD FOR MZ.BERRY but I think when he kissed jaquar and told her all that mess was messed up. Because i met mz berry and she is very nice and pretty. So I think if mz berry stay with him I think he will eventually stop his flirtatious ways… MAYBE OR MAYBE NOT… best of luck too you guys though love you both

  140. C.J. Tamway says:

    Are you kidding me Ray??? First you come on stage with a little boy hair cut then you dis Mz Berry to no end. You haven’t seen Mz Berry in 5 months but you had no problem seeing those other skants. Where are your morals Ray? Mz Berry should drop you like a bad habit. She deserves better and better does not equal Ray!!! What will you do next, blame it on the alllcoohollll???? Shame on you Ray, I really thought more of you until last night’s show.

  141. Quanda says:

    I feel like RJay could of went about it better then he did. You want to change your life and get away from the old life you use to have, well I think Ms. Berry can make that change for you if you really want it. You need to let every female friend you have in your pass and everybody you have had sex with and start your new life with your new family. Ray Ms. Berry is a good WOMAN and I think when yall get it together yall will have a nice life together. And if you wasnt ready to settle down you should have picked one of the other girls and did Ms. Berry a favor and saved her from all the heart ache and pain. And for you Ms. Berry you go girl you been my girl from day one i been wanted you to win from day one and you did. If I knew it was going to end up the way it did i would have wanted you to be voted off. Because you is a good wonman remind me a little of myself and you stayed away from all the drama in the house even after they tried to drag you in that ^!`)%)#`))%)((~# but you keep your head and you keep fighting for what you wanted and you got just that. Keep your head up and being the strong woman that you are, and Ray just keep keeping it 100. Yall girl Quanda

  142. Quanda says:

    I feel like RJay could of went about it better then he did. You want to change your life and get away from the old life you use to have, well I think Ms. Berry can make that change for you if you really want it. You need to let every female friend you have in your pass and everybody you have had sex with and start your new life with your new family. Ray Ms. Berry is a good WOMAN and I think when yall get it together yall will have a nice life together. And if you wasnt ready to settle down you should have picked one of the other girls and did Ms. Berry a favor and saved her from all the heart ache and pain. And for you Ms. Berry you go girl you been my girl from day one i been wanted you to win from day one and you did. If I knew it was going to end up the way it did i would have wanted you to be voted off. Because you is a good wonman remind me a little of myself and you stayed away from all the drama in the house even after they tried to drag you in that &$$*+#)!*(*^!`!^ but you keep your head and you keep fighting for what you wanted and you got just that. Keep your head up and being the strong woman that you are, and Ray just keep keeping it 100. Yall girl Quanda

  143. Quanda says:

    I feel like RJay could of went about it better then he did. You want to change your life and get away from the old life you use to have, well I think Ms. Berry can make that change for you if you really want it. You need to let every female friend you have in your pass and everybody you have had sex with and start your new life with your new family. Ray Ms. Berry is a good WOMAN and I think when yall get it together yall will have a nice life together. And if you wasnt ready to settle down you should have picked one of the other girls and did Ms. Berry a favor and saved her from all the heart ache and pain. And for you Ms. Berry you go girl you been my girl from day one i been wanted you to win from day one and you did. If I knew it was going to end up the way it did i would have wanted you to be voted off. Because you is a good wonman remind me a little of myself and you stayed away from all the drama in the house even after they tried to drag you in that %_%@$)~~^++@(### but you keep your head and you keep fighting for what you wanted and you got just that. Keep your head up and being the strong woman that you are, and Ray just keep keeping it 100. Yall girl Quanda

  144. Quanda says:

    I feel like RJay could of went about it better then he did. You want to change your life and get away from the old life you use to have, well I think Ms. Berry can make that change for you if you really want it. You need to let every female friend you have in your pass and everybody you have had sex with and start your new life with your new family. Ray Ms. Berry is a good WOMAN and I think when yall get it together yall will have a nice life together. And if you wasnt ready to settle down you should have picked one of the other girls and did Ms. Berry a favor and saved her from all the heart ache and pain. And for you Ms. Berry you go girl you been my girl from day one i been wanted you to win from day one and you did. If I knew it was going to end up the way it did i would have wanted you to be voted off. Because you is a good wonman remind me a little of myself and you stayed away from all the drama in the house even after they tried to drag you in that $@~@#$@`#@)`)*&& but you keep your head and you keep fighting for what you wanted and you got just that. Keep your head up and being the strong woman that you are, and Ray just keep keeping it 100. Yall girl Quanda

  145. Ms.P says:

    You can tell that RayJ was lying because he got too angry

  146. SHANIA L JOHNSON says:

    WELL, I MAY BE THE YOUNGEST OUT OF EVERYONE THAT HAS POSTED A RESPONSE BUT IM 19 AND I BELIEVE I HAVE SOME STRONG OPINIONS TOWARDS THE SHOW……RAY J IS A FINE HANDSOME GUY WHO HAS MONEY WHICH CATCHES FEMALES EYES…BUT MAJORITY OF FEMALE IS NOT LOOKIN FOR THAT SOME FEMALES WHETHER YOUNG OR OLD PRIDES ARE TO HIGH TO DEPEND ON A MAN ONLY WHEN ITS NEEDED.WITH THAT SAID WHY PLAY WITH WOMEN HEARTS I JUS DONT GET I GREW UP IN A HOUSE HOLD W| UNCLES THAT DID NUTHIN BUT ABUSE WOMEN MENTALLY,VERBALLY,EMOTIONALLY. SOME WOMEN HAVE BEEN DRIVEN TO SUICICE DUE TO MEN PLAYIN WIT THERE MIND BOT SAYIN THIS IS THE CAUSE OF FOR THE LOVE OF RAY J BUT IN GENERAL RAY J IF U WERE GENUINLY THERE FOR MS.BERRY OR UR CHOSEN ONE THAN PROVE US AUDIENCE DIFFRENT YOU DONT WANNA SHO THAT IMPRESSION TO OTHA YUNG KIDS, IM PRETTY SURE U KNO PEOPLE LOOK UP YOU YOUNG GENTLEMAN AT THAT SO STOP SHOWING THIS IMAGE THAT SEX IS WHAT UR SHOW IS BASED ON BCUZ WHETHER U KNO IT OR NOT U LOSE ALOT OF FANS DAY BY DAY….

  147. sharine says:

    ALL THE GIRLS THAT WERE ON THE SHOW KNEW WHAT THE DEAL WAS THEY KNEW HE WAS GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH MOST OF THEM!

  148. vbaby says:

    OMG HOW CAN THIS SHOW BE LIKE THIS HOW CAN YLL BRING ANOTHERRNGURL FROM THE PASS TO A NEW RELATIONSHIP EVEN WE ALL NO COCTAIL STILL LOVE RAY ITS NOT FAIR AT ALL WAS LOVE ANHWAYS

  149. Rub's Wife says:

    I really see Ray for what he is… He is a disrespectful,care for no one but him self little boy… A MAN he’s NOT!!!! And I’m glad ^“&%+`#*(@*&@~` tail came on to give Mz.Berry a heads up…. She is in over her head if she thinks Ray is going to settle down wit one women. She shouldv’e known that 4 months ago…He haven’t seen you in 5 months and have seen the other girls.(WAKE UP MZ.BERRY YOUR A CLASSY WOMEN WIT CHILDREN FORGET THE DRAMA THAT SHOULD OF BEEN OVER RIGHT AFTER HE PICKED YOU) Its SAD cause she really loves him or she is doing a hell of and acting job…

  150. Rub's Wife says:

    I really see Ray for what he is… He is a disrespectful,care for no one but him self little boy… A MAN he’s NOT!!!! And I’m glad ~!&_@_(^`(`(((_@ tail came on to give Mz.Berry a heads up…. She is in over her head if she thinks Ray is going to settle down wit one women. She shouldv’e known that 4 months ago…He haven’t seen you in 5 months and have seen the other girls.(WAKE UP MZ.BERRY YOUR A CLASSY WOMEN WIT CHILDREN FORGET THE DRAMA THAT SHOULD OF BEEN OVER RIGHT AFTER HE PICKED YOU) Its SAD cause she really loves him or she is doing a hell of and acting job…

  151. cresha says:

    i really think they need to have another reunion!!! I feel like &(_~~&))^)%&~@`$ tail shouldnt did what she did but at the same time ray you did some messed up stuff to on the reunion !!! ugh jaguar i mean dont get me wrong she ok!!! but ya’ll onstage kissing in Mz berry backstage that was really #_`@^*@`~*!+!*#% ed up ray an if you in jaguar was connecting like that ya’ll should of did that on the tape in not your reunion that was very disrespectful. i really thought you was better than that but after last night i really dont know ray!!!! Mz berry you’s a great woman i watch the whole show hoping he’ll pick you!!!! i liked you from the day you walked in ray’s house!!!!! the rest of dem hoe’s was dumb in childish i dont know why ray was so confused!!! between mz.berry and platinum. platinum mad ugly with all those bumps on her face using makeup 2 cover it ugh!!! anywayz ray i wish you n Mz Berry the best!!!!!

  152. Ksolider says:

    Ray you have a good side and a bad side thats trying to pull you back. Old things have pass away your trying to change with MZ Berry and your past just caught up with you. You got to cut in order to begin a new future it may hurt but all these woman have done is brought you down. Now you need someone to lift you up like a King and not a tear Ray down for the greatness that God has in you. You need to have another Reunion show and show your fans you have grown up and now your a Man and not a boy. Be like the bacholor show and show some class stop making black women look bad. MZ Berry and Jaguar and few others were the only ones that made sisters be proud of them self MZ Berry was classy about her self thats what these young girls need to see. Because in the end your not going to marry the wolf pack and take home to your mother to be your wife and have your children. So Ray you owe your fans some kind of answer In the bible Proverb 31:1-9 the Kings mother told her son what kind of woman not to get involved with. And also Samson and his parents were told what kind of woman he should get involved with because she will take your strength. Be wise Ray and make the right decision because on your show you showed that you had mature and was ready for the relationship no matter what anybody says!

  153. tina says:

    really i think that %%)*)$@(`)~*^~~+ tail really loved him and not to be mean but ray is to much for ms.berry and he will regret it later instead he wouldve been better of with jaguard but i still wish him the best even dough he didnt make the right decision

  154. ERICA MADISON says:

    I can not believe what I had seen on the reunion.I followed the entire shows.I was so let down,at first it spoke volumes about Ray’s character of a growing young man who is wanting balance in his life.The platform would have been set for 2010 if he could have been a trying youngman.To still contact some of the ladies and not try to get more involved with the woman who fought for your love on national tv,is a let down.I see why his mom was like no,no,no ray.He would have kept all of his true viewers tuned to the truth by trying to try to do what he potrayed.that was seeking true balance…not that maybe anyone can seek a maybe…stay off tv for a while lil boy and let some grown folks on tv.If you are squarebiz then seeking love on tv is not so bad.ms.berry is in a stage in her life where she could have lighten his load and gave Ray that balance to keep his viewers tuned to a true reality show.Not pimping,hoeing,misleading,confusion.Realtionships are hard work all in itself anybody can play…I need me a show because I am a real $&(!*#%~~+*~^*++^_ who seeks real reality..From this point Ray is gonna have to stay papered up because that is what will get him what he is looking for…How much you willing to spend on it…i could go on and on but I choose not to because time heals all wounds…

  155. Red Mike says:

    Mz Berry, RayJ has been with so many women. Aren’t you afraid of HIV,STD’s??? It’s obvious he likes that life style. He sleeps around with everything wearing a skirt, to put it mildly. You have so much to offer a good MAN. RayJ is not a MAN. He is still a little boy,trying to grow up.

  156. victoria says:

    I loved show, mz.berry was the most beautiful woman on the show.

  157. Damon says:

    Ray J,
    After seeing the reunion show season 2 you have lost a lot of credibility man. If you’re going to be real about finding love then don’t allow a show to play that out. Mz Berry seemed to be a really nice girl, but unless you truly change your ways you’ll never find that special someone. If I can give any advice, allow the Lord to find that special someone for you. It’s only he that truly knows what you truly need. It took me 35yrs to finally allow the Lord to deliver me from some of my ways and I truly believe that you’re exactly as I was when I was your age, having just turned 40. But, don’t be so hard on yourself, keep it positive and learn from this experience. But, most of all allow the Lord to help you make what could be the most important decision of your life. Holla at your Boy and God Bless Homey. Drainey

  158. DC says:

    I know that Ray’s momma did not raise him to call no female a &^$+^_~%!#@%@(_&* or a ho… BUT in this case i believe the elastic clause applies. *)`@~&`(@@$~&~_@ tail is the culprit behind this and her _@%+~+`$&_*&#(+ deserved to get called a &^$+^_~%!#@%@(_&* She came on the reunion with a agenda to get her 15 seconds of fame back and make my boy look bad. She didn’t even deny she was creepin with ray with another girl. She didn’t even have any solid facts to comeback with. She could only throw back what she heard offstage about ray smashin luscious’s homies. Mz. Berry even address that the past was the past. *)`@~&`(@@$~&~_@ tail is super trifflin and she wasn’t in it for the love of ray j. Now she just a crazy jealous… fine as hell X.

  159. Lissett says:

    I think Ray j was just lying his &!^+`)_@*$*%`%# out he was like listen listen u could just tell that he was lying if ms berry wants to be with that fool she is dumb such a pretty gurl to be with a man that does not respect women calling that gurl a )&$#%%~*#~^(^~(_% was not cool. he is a lier and a son of a gun i hope ms berry could just find another man that coud respect her she is a pretty gurl. good luck ms berry but it would not last

  160. Carin Karen says:

    We don’t know anything about ms berry to call ger a good woman. In so many words she was exposed to some dirty laundry and acted like she didn’t smell stank. Maybe it’s Ray’s glam and glitz that really gets her going. Good women know they don’t have to put up with that kinda crap. I feel really bad for her.

  161. cannonmonique says:

    all those females were some hoes they act like hoes dressed like a hoes and they wanted rayj to be there daddy they needed a pimp the wolf packed them are some ugly +~++&~^%~(%#((# tricks i see right threw that makeup and who wants to be known as the wolf pack anyway like i said a wolf pack of hoes.ms berry yeah she was the oldest but she looked better then most of them hoes of course rayj picked her at the end because she looked way better then that other lookin thing he just wanted to hit that and most likely he was hittin that all the way until she got dried out. as far as ms jag i wanted her to win i thought she was gonna win she seen perfect for him they both can sing but she was wasnt showin no love and she should have known that she was gonna have to fight a little harder then she was the show was called for the love of rayj not for the love of jag. and +%~*^#(%$^~`$%&& tail the hoe was being a hater dont hate the playa hate the game and since she wasnt gettin what she wanted out of him she went up there and tried to put salt on him just like what that other hoes name oh yeah danger so there you go ms berry dont let them hoes win what ever bad they say about rayj it dont matter cuzz they still gonna try to be wit him

  162. Melissa says:

    Wow the RayJ reunion was crazy. I know it proved one thing Ray is not ready to settle down. I hope mz. Berry left him before they left the studio because he really was wrong for his confession to Jaguar if he felt that why he should have never chose her

  163. Gracie says:

    HeartBreaker have over crowned teeth…lol hahahaha lol over crowned teeth

  164. Adriannea says:

    Finally I hope this wasnt a joke like the first show cuz I really liked Ms. berry and I think she is perfect for Ray. Lets just hope he isn’t a jerk and plays her like the first. He has a real woman lets see if he can be a real man. Remember Whitney.

  165. LaShaundria Hinton says:

    Ray J i think that your a young sexy man that needs a good woman, but you also need somebody that can handle you and your wild life style. Don’t get me wrong all woman get mad when they see their man touch another female but you have to learn how to pull yourself back when they come at you like that. YOU NEED A WOMAN LIKE ME (REAL TALK).CAUSE IMA KEEP IT 100

  166. KIMBERLY says:

    I THINK RJ SHOULD HAVE CHOSEN JAGUAR B/C SHE WAS THE CUTE’S GURL ON UR SHOW AND SHE WAS RELLY INTO RJ AND I THINK SHE WOULD HAVE MADE HIM AN HAPPY MAN RJ AND JAGUAR WOULD HAVE MADE AN GOOD COUPLE SHE KEPT HER COOL WITH THE OUTHER GURLS JUST TO BE WITH RJ.

  167. lexis says:

    i know damn well u didn’t pick ms berry ol muthe ~!@*+!_(_%`@!`&& in @`&^%)`!%!+&&+#

  168. Jessica says:

    The reunion was just what I wanted to see. Ray J finally being exposed that he doesn’t really care about finding love but just wants to boost his career and name up with a fake show. I only wish they did it to all the Love of “whatever” people. I will never watch another show from Ray J or even his fake &^^)%@$^+^&)+)) sister Brandy on any show ever. These people need to get another career.

  169. Miss Cassandra says:

    Don’t get me wrong I think Ray is a guy who is sensitive to a woman’s need but and you already knew the but was coming. I think he slipped up already on Miss Berry. I think thats were alot of this drama came from it was like he was busted….. An foul mouth need to sit down sumwhere at first I thought she was just trying to help Miss Berry but back stage the truth came out she is still in love with Ray. I think that Ray deserves a woman like Miss Berry but is he really ready for what she has to offer. I mean he’s still thinkn about one of the otha chicks….. she was so unimportant I done forgot her name. kissn her all in the mouth i mean come on now your with the right woman…. But is she right for you Ray? Miss Berry I love that you are so classy and I love that Ray was able to see through all those tramps and choose you….. Thanks for repn for us classy chicks but gurl if you dont stop cryn.
    Miss Cassie

  170. Dee says:

    1. All these girls knew what the deal was from the very beginning.
    2. Jaguar has no swag. She’s cute, but she’s nerdy, and not worth all that hindsight reflection. She also is not cut out for the life he lives.
    3. It was painful to see *@^@@+`!&`_#^%^@ tail up there. The way he talked to her was wrong. She put herself out there (but she made really good reality tv). She loved him, you can tell. But she probably did make a mistake along the way, they were partying.
    4. Ms. Berry is the best, period. She’s sweet, and sophisticated, and flawless. She will definitely find love after this, and it’ll be awesome for her.
    5. I hope there’s a Season 3–make it happen!!

  171. N.O 4-Sh00 says:

    RAY J IS A DOG #&&_^“_!%#^+%( NI**~ER!! A LIL BOY AN + HE PUT ON DAT BIG #&&_^“_!%#^+%( FRNT” LIK HE REALY LOOKN LUVV, HE KNO HE DIDN’T WANT,COULDN’T HNDLE A REAL WOMAN” LIK MZ BERRY!!BETTR YT HIS ~~”FAMILY” JUS AS FAAKE AS HE IS BUTT I GUES THEY ALL GOTTA EAT, CAUSE HIM R BRANDY AINT SELL A RECORD IN ABOUT A DECADE!! HE WS FRONTN CHEAP IS WAA TO GT SUM FREE (~^@^+#)(^@(*!~_@ N OLLYWOOD AN TA RELVANT”"” JUS ACT LK U LOOKN 4 LUV; TALKN ABOUT WHEN DA “”{CHECKS) STOPP COMING N HS FAMILY WS SERIOUSLY OWN AN THEY SUPPOOOOSEDY B REIIOUS PEOPL NBRANDY WTH HR ANOREXIC,BALLHEAD, BALLSIDEBURNS, BIGFACE #&&_^“_!%#^+%( WRONG AFTR WAT SHE BEN THRU O N I USE TO B A FANOF BOTH OF DEM. MZ BERRY JUS THROW IT N A BAG!! VERY DISRESPECTFUL TOWARDS FEMALES HE LIKS TRAAASH!!!$$$$

  172. Kendra says:

    I’m wondering why Ray didn’t keep intouch with Ms Berry after the show but he flew coctail out to see him more than once. I think Ray is fake and he made Berry look like a fool.

  173. Denise says:

    Ray J is nasty. And anyone woman who be with him is sad and nasty too.

  174. tawana(teelove) says:

    i wish u all the best ray j on whoever u pick. but #(!)(%+*_++^`+&` tail was a hot mess, i c y u did not want her lol.. but yo ray im like yr moms i dont like none of them girls. lmao. that platium ##&&(#~@#~#(~*`)+ is a hater for u to pick her for the last two.but as long as with it its goin 2b for the love of ray j until i enter the show cause the right 1 is me. (mother material..u heard)!

  175. teelove says:

    i wish u all the best ray j on whoever u pick. but @`@~@!#&*^~%`^_# tail was a hot mess, i c y u did not want her lol.. but yo ray im like yr moms i dont like none of them girls. lmao. that platium %#~*^!)`#*%)%_`*` is a hater for u to pick her for the last two.but as long as with it its goin 2b for the love of ray j until i enter the show cause the right 1 is me. (mother material..u heard)!

  176. Lola says:

    OMG!.. Ray is such a D U S H B A G!!!!!!!…. Eww you *##&*%%@)(%@$(`* ing discuss me now!.. I used to love your show but after this you L O S T so much public!! . It is sad to talk about a girl like that :(.. Thanks god Kim got over you and is now with Reggie!

  177. Sally says:

    WOW…RAY J GOT EXPOSED AND HUMILIATED…i mean we all knew about his oast but it sucks to kinda reveal all that in the present on live tv and not only that but now we all know he’s still on the same grind…i feel bad for Ms. Berry but u can’t never change a DOG….jus be friends with him..like he said ..use him for anything he can help you with money, fame, and etc..and then be gone with it..he’s not worth it..sorry Ray J you might have been a good person at heart but you sure don’t know how to show goodness to others..

  178. pweetiemiss says:

    well wat can i say? Ray J really showed his true colours at that reunion.I just wish that he had shown more respect for miss berry. After all i believe that she deserves it.

  179. hotgalshellika says:

    Mz Berry did not look good at the reunion

  180. evelyn says:

    I can’t believe that you guys fell for thatRay J and ^#&&+(*`^!)^@!“ tail planned that if you were listening she said that she had seen ray ok now that mean that they were still messing around also he was with the other 3 girls he did not want mz berry his mother told him that the kids would be a problem and when have you ever heard ray j disrecept a lady that not all did you hear what he said to jaguar that it will never be over for them give me a break mz berry is a very pretty lady but she is a good girl and he wants the bad girls like kim he just want to sleep with jag and then he will be through with her so i fill that he did a flavor flav and played us with his season 2

  181. MaKer says:

    WoW……the reunion was crazy!!! Now, here’s the problem, I like Mz Berry in all, she seems like a good woman and person in general…….but not for Ray J. I felt from the begining that Ray J cutting Jaguar was a huge mistake because I thought that she was a perfect pick for him. Mz Berry is WAY to needy and far too emotional, and I am 1 who will say……Im positive that they will not work out. With that being said, I’m very nervous for Ray and how she might react when reality hits her that they do not stand a chance…considering her VERY needy and emotional ways. Basically, if he still has that strong connection with Jaguar, and really likes her (the body doesn’t lie, the whole world saw the strong chemistry both Ray J and Jaguar shared for each other!!!),then go and get your girl before its too late. Mz Berry lived years of a more stable life ( “obviously, kids, and marriage”) then Ray J has, and when she gather all her feelings together, it will eventually make sense to her that Ray J hasn’t even started to live the life that she has already experienced, and for that reason, maybe him and jaguar can go through the experience and learn together, and not some1 to teach him or carry on all the bagage that she has from her previous marriage. I say that because, I’m a woman who is also getting out of a very long relationship, and Mz berry being very needy like could really be 1 of the reason’s her marriage didn’t work or possibly she wasn’t treated right throughout her marriage. Those are issues that has to be delt with before you consider getting into another relationship, and if not, you will only end up depending on that other person to complete you physically and emotionally………..and I think that is a bit too much for Ray J!!!

  182. Cmap says:

    Ray J needs to grow up, and those stupid women need to stop encouraging him. He goes back and forth between them. How NASTY IS THAT. Mz Berry you are to classy, please forget him. Jaguar I hope you did not let him fool you with his acting. He is only sorry you were the one that got away. He is only curious to know what you are like in bed. Don’t be fooled. HE IS A PLAYA AND WILL ALWAYS BE. SO PLEASE STOP. You all make women look easy and like fools. Do you think he will ever pick anyone from a reality show. Please. THINK A LITTLE BIT LADIES!! Stop being fools.

  183. kevin says:

    anyway i loved mizz berry and i wish she was mine…. oh well i have this chick in the oakland area who uses me like trash then spits me out…. i love to hate her.

  184. ladyK says:

    I think that all of these young womens on the show are beautiful in their own ways. But come on……you know the moment you sign up for the show you have given up all self-respect for yourself and your love ones by making a fool out of yourself on national television.

  185. D. Shawna says:

    …has anyone who commented realized this show was a set=up for his new show with Brandy!?

    Clearly the way it ended will be able to lead into another plot or story….for another show starring ya boy Ray J!

  186. D. Shawna says:

    …has anyone who commented realized this show was just a setup for his new show with Brandy!?

    Clearly the way it ended will be able to lead into another plot or story…for another show starring ya boy Ray J!

  187. Eugene says:

    ray my dude come on you comin out and disrespectin girls like that its not called for if that was’nt true all you had to do was laugh about it but now every chick is gonna think what she said was true you feel me just keep your headup and treat ms. berry better you have alot of catchin up to do!!!

  188. Thomas Hicks albany ga. says:

    Ray J, life is a game and being a grown man and BLESS with a situation as yours,life really speeds up in a blink of a eye and its up to you to be the man you claim to be. Ray J, berry seems to be everything u where looking for in a woman. stay true to her but more the less,be true to yourself……… albany ga.

  189. neasha says:

    hey rayj i think u shouldve picked plat because it seems to me that she is ready for a realationshipand mzzberry is good but she isjust to emontional and is it rue tht u still have feelings for $##+(+~(!@~)^`_) tial

  190. cream says:

    i am a big big fan of mz berry and i think she should leave ray alone he’s not ready for a commitment he just want to do his thang. she can do much mbetter than him, for the other girlz the wolf pack should go back to school and get their G.E.D because they look as if anything comes out of their mouth makes no sense.

  191. ladyluck538 says:

    Mz Berry is a grown woman, she didn’t act like any of the other girls, and she didn’t carry herself like they did. the question is whether or not he is ready for a grown woman?

  192. Patrice says:

    I think that if ray really did those women like that its really mess up. i am really glad that *$!~^$@^#)~$“@_ tail came and spoke up about it, its about time the true be told shame on you ray j

  193. DramaFree says:

    VH1! you guys really owe us fans a part….2!!!!
    You have left all of us hanging! and I think you all at VH1 should bring “Mz Berry” and Ray J back on for atleast an follow up ending for the fans!…it would be the right thing to do.

  194. maria says:

    i was so disappointed on how it ended up… this reunion sucked.. until it got to the end.. and when it finally got interesting yall gotta go.. i would like to know what happen afterwards.. pls do a second part..

  195. Krissy says:

    Ok, i am beyond upset that i couldn’t see the end! You guys should have kept the tape rolling! On one hand it was messed up that ya’ll ambushed Ray, but on the other hand it made for good tv. And it was obvious that the only reason why `%*&“#&^@_##!`+ tail said all that was because she was jealous. And did anybody else hear the part where he said that she had other females in her room doing one on ones?

  196. Krissy says:

    Ok, i am beyond upset that i couldn’t see the end! You guys should have kept the tape rolling! On one hand it was messed up that ya’ll ambushed Ray, but on the other hand it made for good tv. And it was obvious that the only reason why +~!+&+~#%%#$(!^& tail said all that was because she was jealous. And did anybody else hear the part where he said that she had other females in her room doing one on ones?

  197. jazabe says:

    how about For the love of MZ BERRY !!!!

  198. Mariam says:

    I wish we could have seen what was going to happen. I feel as if %%$)#$#`)&)_(^_* tail did mess up his groove but she did do the right thing and call him out on his Stuff.. I just hope Mz. Berry doesnt have that thing called Love is Blind..If he is not ready to commit then he should not do these shows..But thats just my opinion..It’s not like I’m in a spot light and have a lot of money, and was famous.. I dont judge anyone..The man up above does. Long story short I would like to see the ending.

  199. Janetj says:

    Vh1.. please give us a follow up on Mz. Berry and Ray. The things said on the reunion show left us hanging.. unless you follow it up with the family show.We all know Ray is a smasher.Is he ready to calm down and man up??With one woman? I hope so, for Mz Berry sake she is a emotional mess, I like her though.

  200. Chandalear says:

    Wow the reunion was crazy lol but I believe that the truth was told about Ray J he don’t seem to really be looking for love he just enjoy being with all the girls he watched the flavofloveshow and he wanted some $((&!~!@`!_$$%@~* too. lol lol he’s a damn clown and Mz berry is to much of a woman for him he like girls not woman, Mz Berry just cry to damn much!!!! but the way yall end the show was not kool, don’t do it again!!!!!!!!

  201. Chandalear says:

    Wow the reunion was crazy lol but I believe that the truth was told about Ray J he don’t seem to really be looking for love he just enjoy being with all the girls he watched the flavofloveshow and he wanted some __^$()`~@!~()~!++ too. lol lol he’s a damn clown and Mz berry is to much of a woman for him he like girls not woman, Mz Berry just cry to damn much!!!! but the way yall end the show was not kool, don’t do it again!!!!!!!!

  202. Saag Paneer says:

    All that p—y in one place. Ugh! Everybody is so crazy about Mz. Berry? She played the game too, she’s after a career behind the camera to. Don’t be fooled. Puhleaze!

  203. Rick Beat says:

    When ~+!&#+_~`!_^&`%& tail N’ Ray Was Arguin Bra Wit The Head Phones Behind Her Kept Flashin His Flashlight N Lookin Dwn @ Her &!^)$$&_&@_~!)+ Haha Yal Whole Cast Some Freakz. That’s Reality Fa You.

  204. MZ DIMPLES says:

    OMG!! ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!! THE BEST PART WAS AT THE END OF THE SHOW THERE HAS GOTTA BE A REUNION PART TWO TO FINISH OFF THE SEGMENT!! AND WHY IS IT THAT RAY HAS SEEN EVERYBODY EXCEPT MS BERRY THAT AINT RIGHT YALL!!!!!!!!!!!1 PLEASE LET US SEE WHAT HAPPENED BEHIND THE SCENES!!!!

  205. Colleen says:

    Mz.hazelconfident … I think you must either be blind or absolutely dense as (_^(~((~@`&~&_~% Why don’t you take a minute and get out of Ray J’s BANDWAGON and listen here… No one is wrong but you… Ray J is a complete looser!!! If he didn’t get his show for the Sex of Ray J.. He’d be no one.. Wait a minute he is no one! Co_cktail put his ~%`*)%@@^!_!!^^ on BLAST. So that his pathetic ~%`*)%@@^!_!!^^ wouldn’t be able to take advantage of another woman’s BODY or HEART. Then turn around and make up lies about them to cover his stank ~%`*)%@@^!_!!^^ trail. BTW Mz.Berry is a damn fool for chasin after him he wasn’t concerned about her for all those months and he still wasn’t at the reunion. He was too busy tryin to get into Jaguar’s pants… Between continuing sexual relationships with cast offs from the show. Get a clue or go do the future auditions for The Sex of Ray J 3 and get a taste first hand for the only LITTLE and only thing he has to offer. P.S get Ray J’s $)*^)*+(&`@&_@+^ out ur mouth noone can understand you.

  206. latoya says:

    it was good and alot have drama but i dnt like oh it was for 1hour i mean it can be 2hour it would be so fun omg dat reunion was alot of fun keep it up ray

  207. marchea89 says:

    I think #&((*+)+!_~+#^(& tail did the right thing, she was warning mz berry what of DOG he really is!

  208. latiah says:

    ray j is a )^~!($!&&&($`*$+ n clown, n he know what &~@^&%@_#$(*&#** tail was is true, thats y he felt the need to call her so many (@*%%*_(`)#`$)!_` es………. ray j keep thats a hunit mane!

  209. latiah says:

    ray j is a EFFIN clown, n he know what &!*“+@!(_&#+$`+ tail was SAYING is true, thats y he felt the need to call her so many B@#$%&*………. ray j keep that
    S#%$ a hunit mane!

  210. miss shirley says:

    that ^#^~_(_~#^!!%_** was hella funny they was going at that $`%%(&(!!!&$)#@)%

  211. carmel-delight says:

    I believe that if women will start having respect for themselves men will stop being able to take advantage of you!!!!!!!!!!! You see Ray was more interested in jaguar because it was something he could not have!:)

  212. MrsL says:

    I agreee! The reunion was a big mess! It was about Ray J and Mz. Berry not the +)_@#!~!+)*@&#%& tail show! This reunion was really messed up and it left the guess just wondering with no explantation! I agree they shoudl have a part 2 reunion! or something VH1 owes the faihful watchers something!

  213. MrsL says:

    I agreee! The reunion was a big mess! It was about Ray J and Mz. Berry not the +`+~^`%%)@@$+$*^ tail show! This reunion was really messed up and it left the guess just wondering with no explantation! I agree they shoudl have a part 2 reunion! or something VH1 owes the faihful watchers something!

  214. betty2boopu says:

    IF THEY COME OUT WITH A RAJ3 I DEFINETELY WON’T BE WATCHING IT, CUS FIRST OFF WITH RAY 2 HE CLEARLY SHOWED THAT HE WAS ON BULL WHEN HER BOOTED JAUGUAR FOR NOT KISSING HIM. AND AT THE REUNION HE WAS ALL UP IN HER EAR, BUT THAT DUDE GOT PUT ON BLAST NOT THE WAS REAL CUS HE WAS CALLING HER OUT HER NAME AND THEY WOULDN’T ALLOW THAT TO BE FAKE THATS NOT PART OF HIS IMAGE, HE STARTED WHINING LIKE A BIT%CH THOUGH AND RUNNING LIKE A LYING _@$@~#&(+&(~^%_ DOG. HE CONTRACTIDCITED HIS WHOLE IMAGE BUT HE JUS LIKE THE REST OF THE CELEB HO’S. JUS NASTY

  215. The Tailor says:

    -Ray is CLEARLY not ready to settle down and commit to a woman and start building a family. The way he was gushing over Jaguar is one example of this. It wasn’t that he regretted eliminating her but the way he was talking it seemed as if he was still interested in her. Also, when Tanika asked how many girls had been in contact with Ray since the show, numerous hands went up (EXCPT Mz Berry’s). I think he chose Mz. Berry because she represents where he wants to be but isn’t realistically ready to be there.

    Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy the show and think Ray is a cool dude who is very entertaining. I think he WANTS to be ready for the relationship he says he wants but I think he is on the beginning of that journey and not the end.

    -Tanika WAS an awesome host. She kept it real and put people on blast when she felt she needed to. She kept a respectable amount of control with a notoriously rowdy bunch.

    -To the girls: Xtra is annoying, period. Heartbreaker is a str8 up skank but I guess Ray subscribes to the Too $hort philosophy of get in where you fit in. Popper’s dancing skills seem to have improved. Good luck to Ussein Bolt, if Lava goes off on him as least he can get away quicker than any other man could. Flossy is eye candy, looks good but no substance. Luscious is smokin hot but on the dumb side and as hot as she is, I just can’t get into dumb chicks. Platinum is wayyyy more “LA” than they portrayed her on the show. I don’t see her as wifey material but she and Ray would be an awesome Bonnie and Clyde thing. ***Caliente is so much fun. How awesome would a Caliente of love show be? The subtitles alone would keep me in stitches.

    -I want to publicly thank and gush over Rich Juzwiak’s recaps. Seriously Rich, these shows would NOT be nearly as entertaining without your input and style. Sometimes I honestly enjoy your recaps MORE than the shows themselves. Thanks for the laughs and smiles Rich.

  216. Tessa says:

    Ray J is no good he think to highly of him self. His family come on that show and mis treat those women like Ray J is something good. He need to get a life it is not all about sex. That what is wrong with young men today sex.People donot realize AIDS is out here using protection or not it is out here.Then you open your door to the hole world not knowing what people do ,and how they do it. Show the young crowed there is more to look forward to in life and everything is better not seen out front. You do not have to show people what big fool you can be.Ray J has a neice at home also a sister,and a mother.He would not want no one to mis treat his family. Come on world wake up,we always look for the bad to be fun and funny not realizing how deeply you can hurt your self.

  217. dez says:

    For the Love of Ray J, is such a crappie show. He is so full of &@_*%&`~$@_()*^@ I am so disappointed at the way he treated Mz Berry, why select her and than put her through all of this Girl Drama, Ray J is such a Man )@@*)$+_&^&(+~^(~ tail put him on Blast for whom he really is a LOSER. Mz.Berry is to classy for Ray J, what an a…hole. He will never pick anyone and be faithful. He is only doing the show for publicity/sex. Get ready for, For the Love of Ray J number 3.

  218. Sherree says:

    I think that you guys should do a pat 2 reuion as well. Mrs. Berry should be aware of Rays feelings about other woman on the show.

  219. Delie89 says:

    Ray u a player i )!_#_%&!)~$(&~#& ing hate u and ur show now.

  220. kimberly says:

    Vh-1 I think you guys owe us an update on mz. berry and ray j. That was so messed up the way that ended. The fans didn’t recieve any closure. And i think by us the being faithful viewers and fans, we deserve a better ending and reunioun than that.

  221. MsNasty says:

    LMAO!!! Ray this is for you honestly and future shows… You grimey playing all them women! And you said keep it 100 the whole show but when tapes not running or are running you playing games. Its men like you, hollywood or not that makes one woman hate all men. Im a big fan Ray J but i know your mom taught u better then to be playing with women of many ages, hearts. And i do understand that them female dogs on your show didnt want you foreal, bexcause i wouldnt have let you go SO easily… no wonder you didnt want to hurt chardonnay for wanting to be in your life … To sum it up MONEY, HOLLYWOOD, ACTING, CHEAT, uncommitment, Ray you aint no different from other men … YOU A DOGG!!!

  222. nate says:

    hey what ever happened to paradeez??

  223. Patricia says:

    I felt rob… I don’t think it was right for them to bring &_+&_@*#`*$)#~!! tail back. This Reunion was about Ray J & Mz Berry. &_+&_@*#`*$)#~!! tail is a women that’s scorned and I think that it should be Reunion 2 or at least bring it into their new show, Brandy & Ray J: A Family Business…

  224. sammysgirl says:

    Yes we do deserve a part 2…

  225. tamia24 says:

    I think that ms.berry need to stop wastin her time on him, because if he really wanted her he wouldn’t did what he did to her by sleepin around but then he wounder why nobody can trusted him. and he’s not ready to settle down with just one gurls as u can see.

  226. janica sewell says:

    i love that he picked mz.berry. shes older matture n much prettier than all the other girls in the house. i want them to be toghter. i hope he treats her right.if not i will not respect him as a man at all. she a very good woman. you go mz.berry

  227. Camgirl27 says:

    VH1, I was highly disappointed about how the reunion ended… I was so excited to see what Ray and Mz Berry had to say about how their relationship went after the taping rather it was good or bad. I know that everyone like to see drama but “&)!!`@(!`~`~)* tail was totally out of order…she was very disrespectful and I don’t blame Ray for cursing her out. I guess misery loves company and she just couldn’t digest that he wanted someone that had more class! Mz Berry is a woman, “&)!!`@(!`~`~)* tail need to grow up and step her game up!

  228. MATT says:

    GIVE FRENCHY A SHOW!!!EVERYONE IS SO BORING ON VH1 I ISS FRENCHY!! AND BRING BACK I LOVE MONEY 4 WITH FRENCHY IN IT!!

  229. mizzsexy#1 says:

    well i hated how it ended up, when it finnaly got interested yall gotta end it, wow that was stupid but i hope yall do a second part because i want to see how it ends.

  230. DEbbie says:

    I don’t like RayJ anymore…he is a dog! treated Ms. Berry like ++!%~+&*^`_!`^`^ you should be ashamed RayJ…I won’t watch you in anything else….Get some Class!

    RayJ you are a LOSER!

  231. nicole says:

    so are they together or not? i’m confused….

  232. terrain says:

    Ray J Reunion was fake, just like all of the other faux reality shows on TV. The audience was just obviously staged and fake. I see some of those same faces in other VH1 reunion shows. Fake! I’m done. No more reality dating shows for me. Real world/road rules is real, survivor, amazing race, real. That’s the extent of my reality show watching from now on.

  233. joe says:

    Let’s see ray j 2 ended somewhat similar to the first show to set up yet another season and isn’t that funny that rock of love had 3 seasons, real chance of love had 2 seasons, i love new york had a couple of seasons and of course flavor of love had 3 seasons. The reason these shows are fake just like all other shows on VH1 and MTV. Yes they are somewhat entertaining but they are also getting old and predictable. Maybe VH1 and MTV can get back to music

  234. jess says:

    Actually, after watching the reunion show, I will never watch another Ray J sho again. He screwed his rep up with me. He completely disregarded Ms. Berry and entertained ^(__(*&##+^#(@&& tail’s ingnorance. To me, that was a sign of guilt. Anytime a man runs away like Ray J did, he’s guilty. To continue arguing backstage with her like they were married was even more disrespectful. Then, he told one girl on stage, “we gone talk”…Are you kidding me? Ray, you sold out dude. How can you perpetrate like you looking for love, love is in your face, you deny it, and then play games. Keep it 100 homey. I can’t watch your show anymore dog.

  235. Amie says:

    lava that dress is ugly as he**. I think Ray j u need to slow down thats not sexy ~$#!(#`!&^%`*~_^ ing all them girls.An damn
    Mz.Berry get off his d*** that’s why he didn’t contact you
    after the show.Extra I like that look better.Wolf Pack don’t know one have to make yall look bad you successfully do it yourselfs.Caliente you new wat the hell ray j was saying to you in the show.Exotica girl put some cloths on DAMN.Ray j jaguar don’t really want your a** she just need to get famous so she can do her own thing just look how she kissed you like your breath STANK lol. I”M keep it one hundred Ray j lol lol lol

  236. Da guy says:

    Here is the thing reality is not what you folks on vh1 are portraying . Real life is not famous folks who could be with any woman they want acting like they want to find love . Or your semi-famous want to be’s acting as if they want love . The man who your doing a show on said it best (when I was not famous women wanted nothing to do with me but as soon as I got alittle fame then I was the most gorgeous person they had ever seen) now thats reality women want to be +^&@+_(_^)@&^*& ociated with men of power or money these are the things that in our society have become attractors of the opposite sex here is an idea take a simple man with no fame and follow him in his search for love but don’t tell the women that there being taped for a reality show until you want to use them for the show get womens real reactions to his pick up lines or him introducing himself see how they react to him how they interact with him now there is your reality be smarter then the folks you put on your shows and you would not have your for the love of Ray j or real chance of love crapfest happen you really want to help someone find love try my idea and see what you get and when it works you can keep your money just make me an idea guy for T.V show development (lol) but really these reality shows are crap an infant could do better

  237. CINDY FROM H-TOWN says:

    I THINK THAT RAY J SHOULD HAVE PICK SUM ONE MORE DOWN 2 EARTH FOR H9IS PERSONAILTY LIKE ME PASSION H-TOWN FINIEST MORE UPSPEED 2 HIS LEVEL.NEXT PLEASE E-MAIL IF U WANT AREAL WOMAN FROM HOUSTON

  238. ctays says:

    I can’t beleive !&&^`*$##_&))%)$ tails butt came on the show hating next time if there is one, the viewers need to pick better women like me. muah

  239. Sexy Sha says:

    I think that ray has made the wrong choice of choosing Mz.Berry….I think Jaguar should of one….Because she felt for him and they had a good time…..I think that Mz.berry is not the rite one for rayj because everytime ray is with another girl mz.berry get jealous and she dont understand that ray has to pic the rite one……I REALLY REALLY THINK THAT RAYJ HAS MADE THE WRONG CHOICE FOR WHO SHOULD BE HIS GIRLFREIEND….

  240. brit says:

    yall STUPIDDDDDDDDDDDD!!!!! so dumb i feel bad for ray n mz berry

  241. vanessa says:

    i don’t think a ray j 3 will be convincing…i could only see him doing a show on choosing between mz berry and jaguar…lol

  242. seville chapman says:

    hey… I think mrs. Berry is a gorgeous young lady who need to be treated well every one needs to stop talking %`(*&$^&~#+`(&#) avout her she didnt do anything but keep it real the whole show! ray j needs to step his game upand treat her the way she needs to be treated<3…seville chapman!

  243. mary says:

    Ray n mz berry you guy make a cute cupel for get da drama n be happy<3

  244. angel says:

    rjay yo! girl call u out and from the way u handle things.and call the girl a @&&(!%#(**&$*`~_` TELLS ALL OF US THAT U WERE WASTEN MZ BERRY TIME AND ALL THEE OTHER GIRLS”she is a real women looking for a real man.i hope what )#@#*~&!@#^#`@*( tail said wasnt tru.if was then the girl back home was really tila tequila!!!

  245. arkirah says:

    ray was wrong for what he did. I kno i wud have acted a fool if i found out some other girls seen him between 5 weeks and i didn’t expecially coctail. she the nice girl cuz it wud have been a difffrent story if it was me.

  246. Tara says:

    Ray!!!! why do the show in the first place or even the second??? I guess the money and so you can smash all the homies.. when i saw that reunion i was in shock! like you even need help finding love….you arent ready for love and when you grow up you will be incredibly sorry that you treated theese beutiful women the way you do….Espeacially Berry and `_`$_$!+#@@&%%_@ tail she was so in love with you as well as Berry….your lost man.!!And by the way you are an adult male single you can bang as many women as you please just dont lead them on to beleive there might be a future cause thats not gonna happen any time soon. Next show should be called How many women Ray J can smash in 30 days!!!

  247. meko says:

    Mrs.Berry u go girl hopefully u have what it takes to keep a man like ray j.I believe ^~%~%+&#*$&)*@#@ tail he may not be a one woman man.pull out the trash can and napkins u mayb shedding more tears than anticipated.

  248. nina says:

    i used to think u were a kool guy but wen i saw the rununion and i was thinking to myself like wow so this is how he is how can u cheat on @`~!*$$$“(_^$#$ tail se=he is the most koolest pretties and everything she said on the show i trusted her u were trying to deny everything but u know wat i love @`~!*$$$“(_^$#$ tail everything she said is true
    and by the way y did u choose mz beetchy is should have been platnum mz beetchy is just a jealous beetch platnum can do way better

  249. nina says:

    i used to think u were a kool guy but wen i saw the rununion and i was thinking to myself like wow so this is how he is how can u cheat on +~`_@~$&&^(~!&)% tail se=he is the most koolest pretties and everything she said on the show i trusted her u were trying to deny everything but u know wat i love +~`_@~$&&^(~!&)% tail everything she said is true
    and by the way y did u choose mz beetchy is should have been platnum mz beetchy is just a jealous beetch platnum can do way better

  250. nina says:

    i used to think u were a kool guy but wen i saw the rununion and i was thinking to myself like wow so this is how he is how can u cheat on @+)!`%~#~%!&+%#$ tail se=he is the most koolest pretties and everything she said on the show i trusted her u were trying to deny everything but u know wat i love @+)!`%~#~%!&+%#$ tail everything she said is true
    and by the way y did u choose mz beetchy is should have been platnum mz beetchy is just a jealous beetch platnum can do way better

  251. lydia says:

    ray j is a joke next to a real man. and his family is concern about the woman. all that had sex with hin should go to the doc. he needs the money real bad the sad thing is so many nice and some not so nice girls put their self out there for all to see just what some women will do to be with a thing because they thing his pockets are full. it’s all about money. i hope all invald work on self esteem and find a real man!!!!!

  252. melissa bellin says:

    hey wats up ray i jus wanted to say i think u got ur self a good woman and tha she ia right for u. i love your fine self but r u really goin to settle down?

  253. lynng1111 says:

    Who wrote this %&!&#&%%^~@~#^*_

  254. mizz jessie99 says:

    go ray j wit yo fine self u my bust it baby. keep mz.berry she is a good woman. behind every good man theres a good woman. god bless you i love you and stay strong. mizz jessie99………………….

  255. CRYSTAL AARON says:

    so did Ray J STAY WITH MISS BERRY..

  256. chasity says:

    man rayj should hav picked platnume man he lame `&_`+$^!*+!!)!* helll he got that old `&_`+$^!*+!!)!* miss berry he stupid man come on you just lik hu cause you eat her ~(^^$^!_%%*#$`^*~

  257. chasity says:

    you no wat ray j need to give jagwar a chance ray j you sick man ray j you a pain in tha +~~%%!$(%~(&$*% ^`_^)~#&!*#(@#%*( you picked sombody that aint even close to yo age all you wnted was tha sex tha ^*((^(^+(`$_@_~$* thats all you need sombody that you will luv an be with fueva i aM 19 YEARS OLD AN I HAVE A BOYFRIEND THAT IS 20 YEARS OLD AN WE DNT EVEN HAVE SEX YET I LUV HIM HE LUVS ME BUT YOU DONT LUV JAGWAR YOU JUST HAD TO PICK MISS BERRY

  258. KATY says:

    RAY ONE QUESTION “WHO IS THE REAL RAY”? I AM 30 YEARS OLD AND HAVE BEEN WATCHING YOU AS YOU HAVE GROWN UP TODAY. THESE REALITY SHOWS “I MAY NOT UNDERSTAND”
    MY QUESTION IS WHO ARE YOU REALLY? DO ANY OF THESE WOMEN BRING OUT TRUE FEELINGS AT ANY TIME AND IF SO WAS IT REAL ON SOME OF THE TAPING OF THE SHOWS? YOU SEEM TO BE A GREAT GUY, AND YOUR FAM SEEMS WONDERFUL ALSO!!! I JUST WISH WE COULD SEE MORE OF YOU AND YOUR FAM TOGETHER AND SO MUCH ALL ABOUT WORK… WHAT AND HOW YOU ALL ARE TOGETHER WITHOUT BUISNESS???? THANKS WITH ALL MY LOVE AND SUPPORT…. SARAH PURKEY!!!!!DALLAS TEXAS