Football Wives Recap – Finale – Points Of Tension

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You couldn’t possibly have thought this would end well.

At last, our time with Football Wives comes to a close…but not before arguing as much as can be possibly packed into 22 minutes! Come, let’s watch.

Erin organizes a trip to New York for the women to take as their last hurrah of the season. She informs them of this at a gathering Chanita could not attend. She is notified by speakerphone:

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I don’t even know what she’s getting at. I’m just going to guess that Chanita hasn’t been sleeping all season so by this final episode, she’s mighty cranky. #arbitraryguessesforwhypeoplearethewaytheyare

At least, her behavior suggests as much when they do touch down in New York and immediately, there is discord.

Chanita versus everyone who’s nice to Pilar

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They sit around a lounge (they lounge around it, even), and after Pilar and Erin get cozy, Chanita becomes angry. She interviews, “Maybe it’s OK for the other women to sit there like Pilar has never done anything to them: not shown up, acted like she was better than us, but fake is nowhere in my vocabulary.” Dawn notes the tension between Pilar and Chanita is so thick, you could cut it with a knife and that “Pilar better hope Chanita doesn’t have one!” Yes, it’s all fun (and not so fun) and games (and not a game!) until someone gets stabbed over, I don’t even know…haughtiness?

Chanita springs up. Dawn follows. They proceed to discuss Pilar in a corner.

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I’m happy to report that Dawn is entirely reasonable here! Dawn tells Chanita that Pilar isn’t going to admit any wrong doing, “So you can wait for that, or you can move forward.” Ah, sense that makes sense! Music to my ears. Chanita thinks that putting anger for someone on the back burner is fake. But you know what’s real? Like really real? Jail time. Pilar interviews that she doesn’t care who wants her there and who doesn’t – she’s here to have a good time! Good luck with that.

The next day, the girls find out that Erin has arranged their entry into a private show room typically only open to buyers. Well, smell them! Also, look at them!

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Amanda takes a picture of herself and then, after she looks at it reports…

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“With a triple chin, isn’t that great?” It’s great that she has a sense of humor about herself, yes.

Maybe not as great, but notable all the same is the slight tension that arises:

Amanda versus Pilar

It isn’t much — Pilar walks by Amanda in the dress she’s seen rocking in this scene…

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…and Amanda’s reaction is this:

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In an interview Amanda says that Pilar looks like “a mermaid on steroids,” and concludes, “of course she’d like that dress.” I mean, duh. Who wouldn’t want to look like a mermaid on steroids?

Dawn, by the way, gets in on the action:

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Class is, indeed, the strife here, and this is a perfect lead-in for…

Dawn versus Pilar

When they enter the car, Dawn’s like, “Let’s go! We got places to go!” despite the fact that Pilar has not yet come out.

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She’s still buying things. I don’t know, if these women aren’t jealous of Pilar’s considerable and obvious means (and they might be!), I’ll be jealous for them. I want to look like a juiced up mermaid so badly!

Pilar eventually gets in, they take off, and when the car stops, Dawn and Chanita scurry off by themselves. They find a tattoo shop, at which Chanita says she will dig Pilar out of her skin with some ink. It might just push Pilar further down, but OK.

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Chanita’s tattoo will be Biblical so it reminds her that she should “continue to walk in love and forgiveness.” Conversely, it will make her forget about that anti-tattooing part of Leviticus. Or maybe just Leviticus in general. I think we could all use some Leviticus-forgetting. “Anybody who loves Jesus is not afraid to ink it – praise the Lord!” says Chanita. Why should I praise the Lord when the back of Chanita’s neck can to it for me, though?

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From the first conflict on this show revolving around Bible study to this Heather-esque move, Jesus really has been the Bret Michaels of Football Wives.

Later, the women gather for a night on the town. Amanda’s not up for it, though, because her leg hurts, probably on account of all the New York City walking and shopping. Being fabulous is hard work. Pilar would seem to agree to as much when she, too, reveals that she won’t be joining in the festivities. This, paradoxically although not surprisingly, incenses her enemies.

Unrelated is the fact that when Brittany interviews that they’re meeting up with Jay, who’s dating Nick Folk…

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…her eyes are a shade of blue best described as “Fremen.” Other girls may have the wealth and power, but Brittany’s got the spice.

In the limo, there’s the briefest of tiffs involving…

Dawn versus Erin

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“She’s doing something tonight, just not with us,” says Dawn regarding (who else?) Pilar. Erin says that they should focus on the fun group they do have. Dawn becomes very heated, saying she doesn’t like Pilar but, “I’m being nice by even speaking to the bitch.”

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Erin changes the subject by discussing the tequila they soon will be drinking. It assuages the rage entirely. Funny, tequila often has the opposite effect.

Anyway, they go out and they have lots of fun in the slightly homoerotic way that women have a good time, or so TV tells me..

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Dawn interviews, “I’m not saying it’s easier to have a good time when Pilar’s not here…actually, that’s exactly what I’m saying.” Fantastic! Everybody wins! Chanita says the night took her back to simpler times that weren’t so wrapped in responsibility. I’m guessing that only when she’s dancing does Chanita feel this free.

The next day, Pilar and Melani discuss the unrest within the group.

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Pilar tells Melani the other women act like they’re in 3rd grade. But it’s a mature third grade! Melani thinks Pilar needs to open up more. “Why would I continue to cast pearls amongst swine?” wonders Pilar. Ha! Amazing. Pilar really, really is ripped from the pages of a storybook. If only she had the energy to be actually evil, she could put archetypes to shame. Melani sounds like she’s crying when she tells Pilar that every time she comes around, things shut down. Pilar wonders whose fault that is. She and I both! They talk about meeting with the women imminently, and Melani jokes about Pilar throwing banana pudding. What is this, Laugh-In? (They did do that kind of thing on Laugh-In, right?)

We see everyone except Melani and Pilar at dinner.

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Chanita has a little surprise inspired by her increased time around Dawn (and her son) that has come as a result of this show:

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A charm with a puzzle piece, the symbol for autism. I’m not sure why everyone gets one, but whatever! It’d be nice if it were just for Dawn — that it’s for everyone is extremely nice. It moves Dawn to tears.

And then, Pilar shows up (with Melani) sucking the joy out of Dawn, to hear her tell it.

Dawn versus Pilar

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Pilar interviews, “Here we go again.” I’m not sure if that’s prescient or Pavlovian at this point. Dawn tells Chanita she’s ready to go. When asked why, she says it’s because of “unresolved issues.” Melani asks if she’d like to resolve them. As if that’s going to happen! We get a brief shot of the complicated glitter moment that Pilar’s nails are having…

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I really like that she eats bread, though.

Dawn brings up the fact that Pilar has said they’re not friends. Pilar interviews about Dawn’s bitterness and the green-eyed monster that’s tearing her up inside. Hmm hmm. She went there! Pilar asks how you can say someone’s your friend if you don’t know them. Chanita points out that she didn’t get to know them. “Why would I keep talking to you if you keep talking about me?” wonders Pilar. These are all seriously excellent points…which just goes to show that their issues are destined to go unresolved.

Pilar says that Chanita is lying. About what? Everything, she says! They fight about who’s miserable — Chanita says Pilar is, Pilar says Chanita is. Chanita says she’s happy and that when Pilar enters the room, she brings it down. Pilar at last resolves, “I’m gonna give you guys what you want.”

She gets up and leaves.

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She cries in interview about not living up to people’s expectations. I don’t know, though, I’m pretty satisfied with her season-long performance. And she looks hot as she waits for a cab, to boot.

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Back at the table, the strife takes a shocking turn:

Dawn versus Melani

With Pilar gone, Dawn notes, “She has disrespected me in ways.” “OK,” is Melani’s dry answer. “What?” barks Dawn.

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Melani brings up Cookiegate and Dawn calling Pilar a bitch after horseback riding. Dawn is incensed that Pilar called her “sweetie.” She says you can call her a bitch, but not sweetie. “I am a bitch. It’s what I am!” she elaborates. OK. So if that’s the case maybe “sweetie” carries the same weight to Dawn as “bitch” would to…virtually anyone else? In that case, Pilar basically did call her a bitch, she was just sly about it.

Melani wonders if Dawn walks into a law firm all, “Bitch this and bitch that.” Dawn points at her and says, “You’re disrespecting my career. Stop!”

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You know it’s serious when they bust out the pointer. It’s even more serious when they stand.

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Dawn asks Melani what if she talked about her singing, before storming out herself and…

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…getting a hot, waiting-for-taxi shot of her own.

She doesn’t get that taxi, though. There’s still plenty of bickering to be had. Dawn says that Melani’s comments were more disrespectful than any of Pilar’s actions. This was, of course, filmed before Dawn got to watch back the scene of Pilar referring to her as “swine.” Even in the context of a cliche, that is some s***. Melani joins Dawn and tries to tell her that she wasn’t trying to demean her.

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She’s practically grovelling and Chanita says…

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Melani implores Dawn not to let this tiff go beyond this sidewalk. “I don’t care what Chanita says…” continues Melani, referring to Chanita’s, “Hmm…” which, obviously gives Chanita an excuse to be outraged.

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“I’m tired of being ran over!” she says. She continues with an impassioned rant: “We ain’t gotta be friends. If you’re not gonna take up for me when it matters, when I am the loud, ghetto girl, when my feelings are hurt, then we not friends! Believe it!” That reads as brief, but it seriously plays out as epic. This isn’t a game, she says — it’s her life. No matter that so much of her life does revolve around what is, in fact, a game.

Everyone parts ways. Melani feels like she lost some of her friends and she doesn’t know where they go from there. Here’s a visual to go with the confused feeling of isolation:

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One by one, we see the women check out and give their final peace on the season/what just transpired. Dawn calls the trip a nightmare. She says while she’ll always be a football wife, maybe it’s time to move on. That’s positive!

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Chanita loves all these women and this experience taught her about herself. “At this point, it’s time to walk away,” she says. That’s…what Dawn said. But still: positive. Pilar reports, “Some of these women are mad about where they ended up in life and it’s sad, because even in your have-not situation, you have a heck of a lot more than a lot of people around you.” That is true. Yet another pearl of wisdom put before us viewer swine.

Amanda says, “God always says, when two or more are gathered, there he is. Are we even gonna have two left?” Well, there’s only one way to find out. Ask him yourself!

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When you get high enough up, yell out the window. Given the close confines of a plane, you’re bound to get some answer, and if you close your eyes, you can pretend it’s anyone talking. Even God!

  1. Jean says:

    Chanita isn’t happy unless she is in control. She is a loud, brusque, uncouth, and a heathen. They all need to grow up and face reality. Dawn needs to stop feeling sorry for herself. She’s not the first, and certainly won’t be the last, broke mother of an autistic child. Stop complaining. I admire Pilar for not getting caught up in their mess. I can see why her husband married her, but what the hell did those other football players see in their wives??!!

  2. lulu griffin says:

    Football Wives:

    My suspicions have been confirmed. Dawn is nuts and is ghetto (other wives previously confirmed e.g. Chanita, Melani ). What is her problem with Pilar? Does Amanda have a facial tic…she seems to be always making faces, and not attractive ones either.

    These ladies should not be friends at all.

  3. Jay says:

    As a male watching the show and previously watching Dionne Sanders and his wife on their previous reality show. I am embarrassed to identify her as a Christian. What she displayed on the reality show with her husband is the exact opposite of she is showing on football wives. I believe that what she is showing on football wives is the real Pilar. The other show was a fake and made the world think she was really a Christian. I am ashamed to have even talk kindly and excited that they were christians but not I have nothing but shame but glad that the Football wives has provided us the real Pilar and what she stands for which is sticking her nose as high in the air as she can and looking down on others because they are not where she is today. All I can say the higher you climb the harder you have to fall so I hope she can continue the life she has and something doesn’t come and wipe it all away. I don’t wish that on her or Dionne but if it ever happened I would love to see her attitude and high her nose is then

  4. roxxy says:

    Dawn needs to stay at home, and attend to her family. She is stressed out about med bills and her spouses career, and is lashing out at Pilar. At the table she almost took Milania’s eye out with her finger. I don’t feel sorry for her. Her RAGE is dangerous!

  5. Khandi says:

    OMG!PILAR TOOK A CAB!!!!!!!!!!!

  6. RIRI 707 says:

    Dawn and Chanita are the most immature so called women. Get over yourself, Chanita you are one of the reasons people don’t want to be Christians, you have such a hateful and unloving spirit which is not Christ like. Check yourself, take a look in the mirror. You need to close your mouth you look very foolish. All of it is so petty, Pilar is trying to move on from all this and you two are the mean girls that can’t leave the past in the past. Grow up!!

  7. April says:

    Jay!!!! what show were you watching. Pilar acted more christian than every women on the show including Miss 3hr bible study Amanda.Yes I watched the Dion and Pilar show and I loved their love and family togetherness. And that is the same thing she does on this show. Chanita, Amanda and especially Dawn are very jealous of her. Chanita is crazy. She want Pilar to be her friend so bad but Pilar don’t wait to be her friend because she is LOUD AND GHETTO!!!! And as for Dawn, she is so jealous that Pilar and Deion have money!!!. when her Husband got hurt all she was worried about is how they were going to pay bills.Its said we didn’tget to know all the other girls because of their OBSESSION with Pilar!!

  8. Cjacks9 says:

    Yes, Dawn needs to stay home…stop complaining and take care of her family. She’s always the 1st to want to do something and then complains the ENTIRE time about all she’s got going on. Stay home and do it! Pilar is awesome!

  9. Kay-kay says:

    Every woman on Football Wives depicted themselves in a negative manner, including Melanie the fake peacemaker. At the end, Dawn stated, “If there are two or more in the mist, God is there, I wonder if we will have two people in the group.” SMH! Pilar, Chanita, and Amanda were misusing Biblical scriptures, and throughout the season, they have misinterpreted scriptures to fit their needs. Here are three real Scriptures for all of you:

    1.Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap (Galatians 6:7);

    2. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be (James 3:10); and

    3. God is not a God of confusion, but of peace (1 Corinthians 14:33).

    FYI: Chanita, tattoos will not get you into heaven, but the right spirit before man and God will. Those tats are not of God. Then, you have the audacity to be showing them off as if it is something to glorify. Real Christians do not pay someone to brand their bodies with symbols. Christians do not worship symbols of God, but God, Himself!

    For the entire season, Pilar said one sentence that made sense: “You might not have everything you need (referring to out-of-control Dawn), but you are better off than some people”. Dawn needs to stop orchestrating drama for attention on her and her family. She is not the only mother in America with an autistic child, and definitely will not be the last.

    Instead of acting like a fool, Dawn should have been working or at home spending time with her child, and she should not cast stones at foolish Pilar, until she examines her own behavior.

    Amanda was right on the money when she stated in my own interpretation, “People are just as intelligent as the people in their social circle”.

    When did girlfriends shacking with their boyfriends made the girl an automatic wife? For the married women with daughters on the show claiming to be Christians, why are you endorsing Brittany, as a “wife”? SMH! These types of shows do not endorse the Biblical terms and the martial relations between a man and women, in which God has endorsed. Money is the root to all —–!

  10. Mrs. H says:

    Is it just me, or is it just a coincidence that dawn and chanita always got something to say about pilar not joinin in on their festivities, but everytime she does, they never fail to act ugly. You gotta wonder, what is the REAL reason they don’t like this girl? Hmmmmmmmm??????

  11. Camille says:

    April i agree with you. i like Pilar alot because shes so cool and layed back. she doesnt even flaunt the fact she has money. Dawn and Chanita are very jealous of her. If you notice they didnt want her around but when she wasnt they was constantly like where is Pilar shes gonna go do something without us. They want to like her and be her friend but they cant because they are bitter and dont like the lifestyle they have. Chanita needs to act saved instead of getting it tatted on her to remind her how she should act.

  12. Kay-kay says:

    What show were ya’ll watching? Blind people saw Pilar’s behavior because she acted like a idiot, and she did not exemplify Christianity. God saw Pilar’s behavior. All the women acted a fool, and Pilar ensued by acting more foolish. At first, I was appalled at Pilar’s behavior on the show, but then, I recalled many years ago, I saw a glimpse of her and Dione on the fake channel (TBN) where people pretend to be Christians like Tammy Faye Bakker and Jim Bakker. VH1, please do reruns of the show so that Pilar will see herself, and the people on here posting comments defending her outlandish behavior will see that Pillar is just as crazy as the other women. As I stated previous, not one person represented God on the show, including Pilar. “God is not mocked! Pilar stated, and I quote, “I have money, and they do not. The jealous of me”. If this comment is not flaunting a social status, then what does?

  13. Ashley says:

    This whole blow up I was totally confused! I didn’t understand what anyone was talking about. Was it just me? I don’t understand why Dawn got all angry at what Melani was saying. She just took that waaay overboard. And what in the world was Chanita talking about in the end? Had no idea where that came from or what it meant. Also, you are so RELIGIOUS yet you’re getting tats…hmmmm. Go sit down. I just wished they would’ve gave Pilar a chance to talk!

  14. Cristee says:

    Chanita is full of it! Now, she went and got a tattoo of Jesus Saves to remind her to forgive n move forward.
    Chanita still did not show forgiveness toward Pilar. Chanita is a loud heathen..Now that’s what’s up!!!

  15. GeNi says:

    I cannot say who is and who is not a christian (that is up to God) but I will say that all of the women behaved badly. They are using their publicity to reflect a bad light. These women should have evolved by now,they are not teens, yet that is the way they have behaved. It is sad and unfortunate.

  16. NeNe says:

    This show was so exhausting. I hated myself for watching this low budget show but it was like a train wreck, you just have to look. I am sure there may be so distortions of characters due to editing, but Dawn and especially Chanita are cringeworthy characters. It is obvious to the audience, if not to themselves that they are jealous of Pillar. Their behavior, particularly while professing to be Christians, is deplorable. We all have our issues and problems, but if I have a penchant for behaving the way they do I don’t go around professing my love for Christ. It gives Christ a bad name.

    I will say the love and dedication they display towards their families is their redeeming quality. Focus on that instead of what Pilar does. You will be and appear much happier.

  17. Ann says:

    If Pilar has left the series then three replacements are needed including two for Dawn and Chanita. Enough is enough of the same old broken records. These two have nothing new to offer for Season 2 so don’t take the easy way out just leaving these two on the series. Candice Crawford would be one good replacement. Candice’s and Tony’s engagement and wedding plans would be more interesting that Dawn and Chanita hysteria. With all the football wives and girlfriends surely the series can do better. Dawn and Chanita are unstable and constantly contradict themselves. When Pilar doesn’t show up they complain. When Pilar does show up they complain and are rude. Dawn and Chanita are the people who act like they have had multiple blows to the head. One minute they whine and weep about the financial problems they are having because their husbands are no longer in the NFL. The next minute they whine and weep about the injuries that professional football players sustain. Some of us do watch professional sports and follow sports news. We are well aware of the toll sports take on the bodies of professional athletes.

  18. Truth Hurts says:

    Dawn and Chanita are sad women, they have a lot more than others just like Pilar said, but they are so focused on the negativity! They must let Pilar be who she is going to be and not pick fights like some ghetto hood rats. Melanie was right to speak her mind and try and end all the fighting, who wants to be around people who are so hypocritical and attacking one woman over and over is a clear sign of jealousy. Someone should have told Chanita and Dawn that they are worthy and valued individuals because they have classic self-esteem issues.

  19. Lavender says:

    Chanita & Dawn are jealous of Pilar plain & simple. They have had a problem with her from the beginning of the show & just found little small insignificant things to say to justify their jealousy. They’re mad because Pilar has more money than they do & also Pilar is a very beautiful woman and they are so jealous that they can’t even be at peace with themselves. It’s ridiculous & so immature to let yourself get that jealous of another person like that.

  20. GeRod says:

    Envy (also called invidiousness): is best defined as an emotion that “occurs when a person lacks another’s (perceived) superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other lacked it.”[1] Envy can also derive from a sense of low self-esteem that results from an upward social comparison threatening a person’s self image: another person has something that the envier considers to be important to have. If the other person is perceived to be similar to the envier, the aroused envy will be particularly intense, because it signals to the envier that it just as well could have been he or she who had the desired object.[2][3] Bertrand Russell said envy was one of the most potent causes of unhappiness.[4] It is a universal and most unfortunate aspect of human nature because not only is the envious person rendered unhappy by his envy, but also wishes to inflict misfortune on others. Covetousness: 1. Excessively and culpably desirous of the possessions of another. See Synonyms at jealous. 2. Marked by extreme desire to acquire or possess Jealousy: feeling resentment against someone because of that person’s rivalry, success, or advantages.

  21. Back to you Bob says:

    Ok, so its Dawn and Chanita in a tie for the winner of the Biggest Tantrum Award. They both acted like colicky babies with poopie pants who just got fed some sour breast milk.

    Dawn’s exit was definitely more dramatic but Chanita put herself in the running for biggest horse’s arse by screaming belligerently about how Melani wasn’t her fwend anymoah! LMFAO! Kudos to them for the comic relief.

    Too bad they didn’t show more of Melani. She was right on the money with what she told Dawn but those wise words fell on deaf ears.

    All I gotta say is I LOVE NYC! There’s no way anybody could’ve ruined that trip for me. Chanita should’ve scooped up her a new (and improved) wig.

  22. GeRod says:

    @Kay-Kay/Jay (same person) Let’s put this in perspective, this is VH1 not TBN or any other “Christian” channel. Faults can be found within ALL of us, you included! Perhaps you need to pay closer attention to the show… first, Amanda was the person who quoted scripture regarding where two or more are gathered not Dawn and WHERE did Pilar EVER say “I have money, and they do not. They jealous of me”? I’ll help you out…Pilar NEVER said that she said that their green eyed monster is showing, so I don’t know how you can quote her on that. You are right regarding this, God is not the author of confusion, but YOU sure are!
    Please give some REAL examples of how Pilar acted unchristian like throughout this whole series! She didn’t drink, curse, pole dance, backstab or gossip, all Pilar did was walk away from those who sought only to wallow in confusion and filth…just like swine!
    For you to mention the other wives but to focus on Pilar and give false information while chastising her in the Lord’s name makes your points invalid and places you in that same category along with those others, who can’t stand another person without any good reason. You are not even smart or clever enough to stick to just one name when making the same dumb comments on here. Maybe you should turn off VH1, open your Bible, close your eyes, get on bended knees and Shut Up!

  23. GeRod says:

    BTW, Pilar in those jeans will get a brother slapped dead in the eye socket with the quickness!!! Lawd have mercy!!!!!

  24. Michelle Graham says:

    Dawn,

    I love you on the show and thought you and Chanita were the best of all the casts. I enjoyed watching your relationship with your gorgeous husband and for keeping it real. Pilar, I use to be a fan from their previous show, but the way she acted ughhhh don’t bring bring her back.

  25. goldey says:

    Dawn and Chanita are loud ghetto women…every episode they talking about PILAR….give me a break….and th only thing that you say about her is ” she doesnt want to be our friend, she the have and we the have not”…Dang you ladies should saved and invested your money…Chanita apparently does have a job or career, and Dawn needs to focus on getting clients…Dawn seems to be full of rage and hate! They make me sick with ALL THAT YELLING…Chanita does so much yelling she gonna give herself a heartattack…Melanie is the one that has sense,..she tries to explain how they act and look and all the do is get defensive…I hope Chanita and Dawn take a real good look at how STUPID THEY LOOK ON THE SHOW…

  26. goldey says:

    I MEANT TO SAY THAT CHANITA APPARENTLY HAS NO JOB OR CAREER…

  27. Sean D says:

    I hope Dawn and Chanita realize how childish and ignorant they looked all season and espescially on the last episode. Melanie was giving and example and Dawn (bc it wasnt in agreement with her) blew up. One minute you tell Pilar you wanna be her friend and etc., and then once you’re no in her presence you say you hate the woman and she should be lucky you even speak to her…. talk about 2faced. I never understood all season why Chanita threw tantrums and got loud because Pilar did nothing to her for her to be upset. I’m glad Melanie called her out and said you’re not in control here and not in control of me, bc Chanita always wants to be the one in control of the arguments, CAMERA, or any other thing. She’s what you call and attention w—–.

    These two ladies should have listened to what the other cast members were saying because even Erin pointed out how they need to stop talking about Pilar and just have a good time. Pilar is the mother of 4-5 kids and doesnt go out drinking, why would she and Melanie go out with you guys. I was actually proud that Amanda used her leg for an excuse not to go out bc she knows that’s not looked at in a good way. Amanda finally realized Pilar isnt the problem, her two buddies were. But the problem is Chanita and Dawn just like to hear themselves talk and dont listen to what anybody says. The dinner wrapped up the season in a nutshell bc we saw that Dawn can dish out the hate and blame problems on Pilar but once others tell her of her wrongdoing she gets mad while trying to justify calling someone else a “B-tch”. And then Chanita makes a hmmmmm remark like no one heard her and then goes off when Melanie calls her out. I sure hope they have a reunion and these two realize their issues bc they have children who will see their behavior.

    AND PLEASE DAWN DO NOT LIE ON YOUR NEXT BLOG WHILE TRYING TO JUSTIFY YOUR CHILDISH ACTS LIKE YOU DID LAST WEEK BECAUSE WE (THE VIEWERS) ARENT DUMB AND WILL CALL YOU OUT YET AGAIN.

  28. Iesha says:

    This show has a lot of haters. Everytime Pilar shows up 2 anything thing the other ladies invite her 2 everybody starts talking junk about her, talking bout she never shows up 4 anythang.
    If I were her I wouldn’t sho up 2, because yall need 2 make yall mind up ether u want her there or not. She probably got better thangs 2 do then hanging out with women all the time. hanging with a lot of women aint nothing but trouble anyway. Yall don’t act like yall her friend anyways. Who gives F*** if she shows or not. She has a life ot her own. she don’t have 2 stop her plans 2 come an hang out with yall so yall can talk about her. Get a life, because if u had 1 u wouldn’t be wondering where Pilar is at all the time haters.

  29. SAM says:

    Did you notice the girls went in limos or had a fancy driver while Pilar took the taxi. Now we know who manages money better.

  30. Olivv says:

    If somebody wants to punch dawn and/or chanita, you have my support!

  31. Nee Nee says:

    STOP HATING on Pilar… Focus on your family and children, Dawn that was for YOU!!! Melani, you go girl for being an adult about the situation. Dawn needs to be revealed to herself… Chanita, loud getto girl is an understatement… Amanda, it’s gonna be ok!!! Smooches

  32. JOANN says:

    Pilar has narcissist personality. she thinks people dont like her because of whats she looks like and what she has. But the real fact is that women probably dont like her because of ugly, self-centered, high mighty attitude. thing is that when all her looks and money fades lets she whats she thinks why women dont like her.
    i bet she never has had any female friends!!!

  33. 2638297 says:

    What a lovely day for a 2638297! SCK was here