It’s time once again to welcome Royce Reed back to the blog so she can tell it like it is. For the past two seasons of Basketball Wives, Royce has recapped every episode, all the highs and lows, and given us her completely honest and unfiltered opinion. We’re thrilled to have her back for season four.
I don’t dislike YOU, I dislike YOUR WAYS!
I am the first person to say I am not perfect and I make my mistakes. I also believe that I have grown from them and matured in a lot of ways. I’m definitely still a work in progress and I am going through a tough time with my father. He wants the best for me and has ALWAYS been in my life. I fortunately was able to grow up with both of my biological parents in the house and lived a VERY structured and strict life. Sometimes I believe my dad still thinks I’m his little girl. In my head, I am at times because his advice means a lot and when I don’t take it I feel like I’m on punishment. I’ve even grounded myself in my OWN house because I felt I had to for going to MY HOUSE too late lol. Seriously though, my dad is my strongest supporter and we have our issues because he just wants me to be 100% happy and sure who I bring into MY life but MAINLY MY SON’S LIFE. I completely understand that. Braylon is not allowed on the show although I wish he was because a lot of my dad and my issues stem from raising him and keeping him grounded. It’s not fair to bring several women…or men in his life nor is it okay to have his raised by anyone other than his parents, i.e. nanny, friends, etc. Braylon is my first priority always, and I just want my dad to trust the fact that the only man Braylon has been around and a strong male figure besides himself, or my brother is Dezmon. Not Dwayne, not Brian. They didn’t have this relationship with Braylon and I made sure of that because I wasn’t sure. Age does not define my relationship. I have uncles and aunts that are more than 10 years apart and have been together 50+ years. I love Dezmon. Over time I believe my dad will trust that. He’s seen me in love once before and it lasted on and off for 10 years. I was engaged then cheated on with my then best friend. Until now, I played it safe.
With that said, I GOT THE PART!!!!!! I’m extremely humbled and excited. My run was two weeks in February and they have extended my contract. We are working now to add more dates but since I have to blog by episode I can’t say much more on that but I had to let you know my run for right now is over before y’all go out looking for tickets hahaha.
Suzie…Suzie…Suzie… Remember when I said I trust her as far as I can throw her? Well now it’s as far as I can flick her which is NOT AT ALL! I’m really baffled that although I’ve told her nothing she’s still managed to say a lot. No, it is NOT okay to talk about BLOW JOBS in a crowded restaurant nor was it okay to speak of the embarrassing conversation in another upscale restaurant with Evelyn. Those men weren’t looking at you because they thought it was cute, they were looking at you because they couldn’t believe what they were hearing from a grown woman. Also in terms of Kenya…I DID NOT BRING HER INTO THIS SITUATION. I told you to meet Kesha. Yea, Kenya’s videos are a little weird but millions of people make YouTube videos so I’m not one to judge. My opinions of Kenya form from other incidents not a couple YouTube videos. I thought your attitude towards her was very judgmental especially when its based off something placed on the internet. For you and Jenn to talk about you don’t like these “Bitches” well, reality check, A LOT OF PEOPLE DON’T LIKE YOU EITHER and Suzie you talk behind everyone’s back so don’t be the pot calling the kettle black. Not liking someone you don’t know is childish, not liking their ways is a bit more mature.
My heart hurts for your brother-in-law. I’ve lost many in my family so I can only imagine what you are feeling wanting him to make it to your wedding. I pray that he does because I can see how much he means to you. Outside of the show I did read your blog and I appreciate the compliments. I hope you’re right. Acting is my first love although dance came quicker. I also appreciate the hair comments but wait for it…the ponytails and sneakers come back very soon. HA! Also, as far as you not wanting to comment on me being with another dude. Lets clear that up. Dwayne and I were together nine months and looked at rings although I wasn’t in love. Brian and I DATED a couple months. Dezmon and I have been together almost 7 months. I’m a relationship girl. I’ve never been a serial dater or the girl that just has sex with random men. I’m a one man girl and this show has been going on since filming in 2009. When y’all first met me I was dating the track star for a few months. He never met my son, FYI. But I appreciate you not having an opinion on it, just a little bit of shade. I must say I commend you on being able to have such an open relationship with Chad because I’d be damned if Dezmon asked me to bring another chick in the bedroom or asked me to be okay with him sleeping with other people. I believe in honesty but I think this “work in progress” needs to be concluded before you walk down the aisle. Just my opinion and to each their own. You better than me. :o)~
I’m not really sure what to say about you right now. You’re definitely more outspoken. I will say make sure you can stand by your words. There’s nothing wrong with ridding yourself of the drama in your life but don’t forget you also were a part of it. You’ve started drama with other people as well and before you can point the finger you need to face and fix yourself.
Well, that’s it for this week. My opinions on some people may change but I blog as if I’m in the now which, let me tell you, is hard because this stuff was months ago and things have happened and been said that I wish I could tell you. I just have to woosah when I bring it back to what the viewers are seeing right now. I’m outtie!!!
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